| Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 6/20/2009 9:03:52 AM | Zekestone.....augh the pain in my arse is keeps coming back.... blah blah blah that was not the better complement and you well know it!!
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| Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 6/20/2009 4:40:25 PM |
First of all, fair is fair right? find me a lady that will date you for your...riding a bike...job or interests you have listed....practicing environmentalist..politics...economics..social interaction...
But, thumperitis.....doesn't all that stuff sound pretty great? The bonus is....he probably puts out! | |
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| Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 6/20/2009 5:26:10 PM | How would you feel if fella's didnt want to sleep with you???? Sex is the initial attraction for almost everyone on here, cut it, slice it and dice it any way you want, if you dont find someone sexually attractive then your not attracted to them. Its as simple as that, all the other chemistry comes after that initial attraction has been achieved.
Remember a relationship is a two way stretch and as such you have to accommodate and meet each others needs, not just yours.
Its obvious that this guy found you attractive enough to want to sleep with you, doesn't mean yo have to say yes does it, be flattered that he thought enough of you to want you. Your coinfidence should be soaring as a result of this for if he wasn't attracted to you he wouldn't have wanted you.
As for the comment from Carolann0308, that he is "probably too small to get two nights in a row", then thats just sour grapes talking, its not even funny. Clearly doesnt have a clue, after all she is obviously that popular and good in the sack herself that she has to come on here like the rest of us, eh. Attacking a fella's sexual prowess is weak, narrow minded and insecure. Time she grew up.
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| Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 6/20/2009 6:06:37 PM | I would have to agree with Missmissy... I guess I will be waiting and working on myself until that awesome guy comes along.... and then when I am sure that he is the right guy...
I WILL COMPLETELY TAKE HIM THERE!!!!
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| Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 6/20/2009 11:13:52 PM | I'm just gonna black and white this subject from my point of view....for me, usually a man being genuinely respectful equals the possibility of sex. No flippin' gimmicks and all that sandbox crap. If I feel respected in a relationship, and yes both men and women need to feel this way, then I'm going to feel like the guy is worth my intimacy.  | |
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| Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 6/21/2009 5:28:57 AM | | I would say that sex is always on everyone's mind, just that we dont always act upon it. Even women want it but dont show or act on it,too confusing for men. As a man, yes i do think on sex all the time, we're bombarded with it all the time from music, fashion, television, friends, everywhere, so to all you ladies out there ,,,deal and if the guy is honest , open enough , and thinks your sexy, be honest with him on your intentions, not all of us are jerks. | |
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| Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 6/21/2009 6:52:50 AM | For some.....yes...for others it might be the deal breaker in a life time relationship...have known people to get together and everythings great except the actual relations.....then you have a problem....then there are the ones that only want the physical....Im one but...its rare to find another wanting the same thing....most say one thing and in the end mean another soooo hearts get bruised....thats why I advertise the way I do....dont believe in playing people.....later | |
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| Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 6/21/2009 9:04:32 AM | It's pretty much biological dear...
Men have more testosterone. More testosterone = more libido and high sex drive.
We have been like this for THOUSANDS of years.. So men can "spread their seed and then move on" . Women stay home and protect the "cave". You really don't think our bodies have changed that much after being that way for THOUSANDS of years do you?
Look at the science behind it.. I will give you a concrete example. I am a bodybuilder and know several female bodybuilders. They take steroids (testosterone) and are some of the most horny women I have EVER met.
Example #2: Do you know what they prescribe for women with a low sex drive?
TESTOSTERONE patches or gel!!!
If women simply educated themselves a bit more, they would understand the reasons behind our actions a bit more. | |
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| Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 6/21/2009 9:05:47 AM | | With relation to women? Yes, sex is mostly what I think about. What else is there? Good conversation? It's certainly nice but gets boring. | |
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| Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 6/21/2009 9:07:02 AM | Oh and for finding a guy who likes you for who you are and not just sex.
If he is willing to wait for it and knows you are the only woman he is seeing, he most likely likes you for who you are.. not just sex.. and that is a good catch.. Just keep in mind the biological aspect. | |
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| Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 6/21/2009 11:06:01 AM | It depends on how much you want sex. I think about it a lot because I've been single since last year. But as much as I miss it, I want more then just sex with a relationship. It just depends on what you're looking for.
One of the easiest ways to figure out if a guy wants more with you then just sex, is to not give it to him so quickly. If you give it up too quickly, then that tells him, that's all you're looking for, and that's all he has to give. | |
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| Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 6/21/2009 11:42:37 AM | SagMan4u,
Great question. It is a great thread topic, and it has been done. You put lots of details in it, so it might make a better thread than the ones which are up.
And what do you consider the "proper amount of time" to wait?? Think about this: I meet someone on here and start emailing her back and forth and back and forth. Then, we exchange phone numbers and we talk for hours upon hours upon hours. Over a course of days. Than we finally go on a date. We both have alot of fun and decide to continue "dating".
Before long, if you just date once a week initially a month and a half maybe tw months have gone by.
And you have wonderful feelings and respect for this person but you (men) have to wait and wait and wait.
So you tell me (us men) how long should a man have to wait?? Alot of people(guys) use the 3 date rule. I have never really hard of that until I got on POF.
I look forward to your response.
Here is one:
http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts12006264.aspx
I use the two week rule. If they give me the three month rule, I assume their feelings are "too weak" and I give them two weeks to change their mind. My personal research has shown that if she hasn't decided that sex is in the cards by two weeks, then she never will. I just have so many years to live, so I will move on unless the friendship is very valuable. I can't turn down many women who want to support me emotionally, whether they enjoy sex or not.
If they are keeping around for emotional support, I usually work out an FWB deal where the benefits are non sexual. I get a lot of women who just want a shoulder to cry on, someone to talk to, etc. The "friend zone" can be ok if sex isn't your primary motivation. | |
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| Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 6/29/2009 6:51:55 PM | | I can say for myself that no sex is not what i'm looking for on here. Some poeple see this as there little date book but not all men think like that trust me ...And woman are just as bad as men i have found out on here and other sites . But hey if thats what they want what can ya do. I'm an old fashion type and i guess when the time is right i will find someone . I still want to make some friends ... | |
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| Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 6/29/2009 8:11:29 PM | Of course not! Sex is not what all people think about! Are you kidding? There is so much (I should call what's his name, he was so good last night) more going on in the world to constantly focus on sex. I hardly ever think about it. (his bone was so big..wow)
In fact I never think about it ( the way he ate me..omg!) I work,I read, I'm into current events ( I wonder what he's doing..I need some right now) I go to the gym. I'm concerned with the environment ( he was so freakin hard) and the animals. We need to free willy that's far more important. ( the way he slapped my azz and licked my) There are starving people in Africa. Who can think about sex in a time like this! | |
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| Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 6/29/2009 8:20:43 PM | | fitnessdiva, thanks for the reality check, sex is just like a drug in some ways. Yes, it's something pleasurable and can occupy one's mind quite often, especially in the throes of something "mind-altering." However, your mind-altering examples sound like an escape from reality to me, like a drug. Not saying anything wrong with it. After all, I'm getting hounded relentlessly to read the Power of Now. Maybe that has something to do with it. Somehow I doubt it though. | |
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| Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 6/29/2009 8:28:13 PM | | Isn't sex the bottom line? The reason that we even date, or are attracted to each other is to mate and continue the species...so, yes sex IS all everyone is after, essentially. But some people want other things along with the sex...ie a relationship... | |
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| Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 6/29/2009 8:34:07 PM | Not all the time.
Occasionally yes.
ok, most all of the time.
Pretty much only when I'm awake.
And sometimes while I dream...
uhm, ok yes dammit! All the time!
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| Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 6/29/2009 8:56:13 PM | | YES, SEX US ALL GUYS THINK ON HERE, it is too bad they don't want to get to know the person 1st and do things with that person. | |
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| Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 6/29/2009 10:06:31 PM | | Blokes seem to stuggle to get it - whereas us girls apparently have it on tap - no wonder its all they can think about :-) | |
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| Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 6/29/2009 10:16:56 PM |
Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
There is my answer and then there is reality which I think is best left to individual interpretation... but with a grain of salt. | |
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| Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 6/29/2009 10:56:04 PM | Easy answer is no. I think about a lot of things. The most enjoying thing to think about is sex, obviously. You're just wording the question wrong for anything concrete to come of this thread.
I don't want to call it just "sex" though, there's so much more to it than that tiny word. I think about feeling the closeness of a woman, the warmth, the light and wet brushing of lips, the sucking of lips and the flicking of tongues. The wandering hands. It's heaven in the making. It's a wonderful thing to daydream about. It's a great way to pass the time. It's a stress reliever, God knows we are so much more stressful these days. | |
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| Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 7/4/2009 2:28:07 AM | Welcome to basic male like dogs Sex is the base for all relationships bad sex bad all the way down the line.Looks like you found a real player or a guy that got lucky 2 times in one week.hee hee | |
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