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 sopretty

Joined: 10/14/2006
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Do you touch your partner's head as he/she performs oral?
Posted: 6/24/2009 8:32:19 AM
I love it both ways hold my head and I'll hold urs
 danzandsing

Joined: 5/12/2009
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Do you touch your partner's head as he/she performs oral?
Posted: 6/24/2009 8:57:42 AM
When I'm giving oral pleasure, I'm appreciative of her doing so. That's a pure indication of her being pleased by me. The moan comes naturally, but the touch is a greater indicator of how much more she wants, and the fulfillment being provided. If her hands grip harder, and her legs fold over me...she's good and hot, and a big O is coming.

When I receiving oral pleasure, my thoughts and my prevailing moans will tell a woman not to stop. I will want and need to move my fingers through her hair, and take a subtle tug to maintain control. I'll let up at some points...but if what she's doing is really good, my eyes will roll and I'll want to gain absolute control and grind my hips.

Danz
 Shell225

Joined: 1/23/2008
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Do you touch your partner's head as he/she performs oral?
Posted: 6/24/2009 6:45:17 PM
Im a hair person, love to run my fingers through his and just stroke his head while he's down there.

Absolutely adore it when he grabs handfulls of my hair and just goes for it
 bustylatinaniece2000

Joined: 8/8/2008
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Do you touch your partner's head as he/she performs oral?
Posted: 6/26/2009 4:46:13 PM
i love a man's hand on my head. talk dirty and let me know what u like
 lil_lady512

Joined: 4/6/2009
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Do you touch your partner's head as he/she performs oral?
Posted: 6/26/2009 7:19:22 PM
It's all very very good. So long as I'm not gagging, go to town :) And as far as receiving goes.. I will pull your hair, rub your head, basically my hands will be all over you.
 Invokerr

Joined: 6/22/2009
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Do you touch your partner's head as he/she performs oral?
Posted: 6/26/2009 8:52:00 PM
Yep, Gotta have a clear view so will move the hair if its in the way. Or just grab a a chunk and hold it like I own her head

If you've come over sporting pigtails well your in for some control freak sort of barbarism on my part.
 Slipknot6

Joined: 6/3/2009
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Do you touch your partner's head as he/she performs oral?
Posted: 6/26/2009 9:28:02 PM
When giving: I would like it if the girl would provide some direction that way. I would like to know that I was doing it right. Pull me to where you want my tongue.

When receiving: Depends on the girl. Some don't want to be touched. Me, being the Dominant type, likes grabbing 2 handfuls of hair and directing, holding down, holding in place while I ***k her mouth. Etc. >sigh<

This... I dont see anything wrong with that, whatever she allows you to do. The last girl I was with was on her period but she wanted to get me off, so she wanted me to face fuk her and blow a load on her face.. nothing wrong with it at all.

as long as both partners are comfortable, do whatever you want.
 Sexy_beach_babe69

Joined: 2/16/2009
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Do you touch your partner's head as he/she performs oral?
Posted: 6/26/2009 9:53:48 PM
i love to pull my partners hair right up towards me , and love for him to pull mine mmmmmmmmmmmmm
 Jay.FromNYC

Joined: 6/5/2009
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Do you touch your partner's head as he/she performs oral?
Posted: 6/26/2009 11:51:36 PM
I caress my sex partner's head and her face. But me? WOw. I must date women wrestlers.

I get the full crotch beat down. Face grabbed, head smashed / held and , Lord help me, the thighs-o-death, lol jk.

I truly enjoy my partners love of my attentions to them but I find that I must lay my shoulders across the thighs to keep from getting my head crushed by their spasms. I am really used to this breathing thing by now.....

 yepimstilllonely

Joined: 12/28/2008
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Do you touch your partner's head as he/she performs oral?
Posted: 6/27/2009 8:02:48 AM
Yes I do and yes he does.
 Bungaboo

Joined: 5/2/2009
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Do you touch your partner's head as he/she performs oral?
Posted: 10/11/2009 10:49:19 AM
If I'm giving a mind whirling oral sambo, I like my hair played with.

If I'm receiving a "wash the snake" I also like hair. So to be truthful, it's all a good thing.
 produceninja

Joined: 9/30/2009
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Do you touch your partner's head as he/she performs oral?
Posted: 10/11/2009 3:15:32 PM
I like running my fingers through a woman's hair at anytime. During oral is good too, maybe making a small fist of hair too, but I wouldn't use ot to tug, that can lead to serious biting!!!
As far as having my hair played with I like it but since mines short there isn't much to play with. She could always grab my ears though if she really needs me to grind my face in there!
 WhiteSox_Fan

Joined: 6/7/2009
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I like to push her head down until she gags. They seem to like that a lot. Try it fellas.
Posted: 10/11/2009 3:28:22 PM
"I like to push her head down until she gags. They seem to like that a lot. Try it fellas."

I like to hold thier head down till they gag too... while holding her nose closed too... while also clutching a handful of hair...

I also like when they grab me by the back of my head and force my face into that wonderful pink taco
 MarvaJanuice

Joined: 6/3/2008
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Do you touch your partner's head as he/she performs oral?
Posted: 10/11/2009 3:38:22 PM

When giving: I would like it if the girl would provide some direction that way. I would like to know that I was doing it right. Pull me to where you want my tongue.

When receiving: Depends on the girl. Some don't want to be touched. Me, being the Dominant type, likes grabbing 2 handfuls of hair and directing, holding down, holding in place while I ***k her mouth. Etc.





I think I love you NightOwl...

:)


Edited: O Dear Lord...You fellas have got to STOP writing all that stuff.. I cant handle it...
 soldiergirl99

Joined: 12/13/2006
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Do you touch your partner's head as he/she performs oral?
Posted: 10/11/2009 3:55:57 PM
I like when my SO runs his fingers through my hair gently, and caresses my face. It really floats my boat.
 wolftxus

Joined: 2/24/2009
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Do you touch your partner's head as he/she performs oral?
Posted: 10/11/2009 4:44:31 PM
When she goes down I have this old rollercoaster habit of throwing my arms in the air and yelling: "Look mom, no hands." It is only awkward the first time, and usually there is no second time.

What do you mean, 'giving' ???
 widowsdesire

Joined: 4/7/2009
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Do you touch your partner's head as he/she performs oral?
Posted: 10/11/2009 5:27:59 PM

as long as both partners are comfortable, do whatever you want.


For 18 this young man has a lot of wisdom.

You can not assume what your partner is going to like or dislike if you don't communicate with them.

I had a really bad experience with a blow job while in my twenties. Turned me off to them completely.
Since then I have learned to give head in a loving setting and enjoy it.
I tell a partner up front though, please do not grab my head and **** my mouth. I need to be in control and move at my pace. If a man is too aggressive it can make it impossible for the woman to breathe, and it gags her. That is not a good thing.

I don't mind after trust is developed if he touches my hair or face as long as he is not pushing my head down or holding me in a confined way that does not allow me to back off if I feel the need.

I love pleasuring my man orally. I can bring him to orgasm if that is the goal, or just pleasure him before intercourse. Knowing I can stop at any time if I am having difficulty breathing, or my jaws are tired is the key. I need to have that control for me to be able to enjoy it. It also helps for your partner to communicate if they are close to cumming. That helps me know if I should back off or push forward. With a regular partner you learn to communicate these things.
 GreenCarrot

Joined: 6/25/2009
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Do you touch your partner's head as he/she performs oral?
Posted: 10/12/2009 4:11:28 AM
i like it when she grabs my head and pulls me into her while im going down on her, especially if she's orgasming . and i like it when she squeezes my head with her thighs. god thats hot. as far as a girl going down on me? i havent really been with a girl who liked it too rough but i'd love to like face **** a girl LOL. like just grab her and ram her onto my**** yaaaa.. but usually i either have one hand going through her hair or i dont do anything.. kinda depends if i like her hair or not.. if its long and soft then definitely.. if its short or in a ponytail then not so much..
 BlondE324

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Do you touch your partner's head as he/she performs oral?
Posted: 10/12/2009 6:07:54 AM
At the beginning of the relationship I didn't touch my boyfriend at all while. Now we are both into running our hands through each other's hair and touching his/my head.
 whytwater

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Do you touch your partner's head as he/she performs oral?
Posted: 10/12/2009 6:39:11 AM

For both men and women, do you put your fingers through your partner's hair as he or she performs oral on you?


Of course!!!! Even rodeors hold on with one hand.



For those that perform oral and receive the old head touching, do you like it?


There really is magic in the laying on of hands. If she wants to guide me, great!! I'd be delighted if she just loved the feel of my hair.


Or do you prefer your partner to leave you alone while you do your business.

Why would anyone want to be isolated, untouched, while in the throes of the most intimate acts?!! Sheeesh! It'll be a sad day when I opt for masturbation in lieu of intimacy.
 Sabrosura

Joined: 1/7/2009
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Do you touch your partner's head as he/she performs oral?
Posted: 10/12/2009 6:54:35 AM

I'd rather that she concentrate on what she's doing rather than wonder if I'm going to push her head down and gag her or have her hurl on me.


How considerate................
 no_1_bby

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I like to push her head down until she gags. They seem to like that a lot. Try it fellas.
Posted: 10/12/2009 11:51:23 AM

I like to push her head down until she gags. They seem to like that a lot. Try it fellas.

Last one that tried that (after I told him and warned him repeatedly) ended up sporting teeth marks. So.. go on. I dare you to try that with me. *smiles sweetly*
 BigDaddyJinx

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I like to push her head down until she gags. They seem to like that a lot. Try it fellas.
Posted: 10/12/2009 12:29:27 PM
I only grab her head/hair to keep it outta her mouth when she's busy. Sometimes even a ponytail or pigtails doesn't help.

I'm just helping her stay focused. Heh.
 sglwhtmale

Joined: 7/9/2009
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I like to push her head down until she gags. They seem to like that a lot. Try it fellas.
Posted: 10/12/2009 2:16:44 PM
Only the "love handles"(ears) or hair,depends on the mood at that time!
 hunkerdown

Joined: 8/28/2009
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Do you touch your partner's head as he/she performs oral?
Posted: 10/12/2009 2:59:40 PM
that is a yes,i think it would be rude not to at least caress her cheeks.i meancome on its hard not to return the affection,and whe im busy in the office,hey i enjoy her touch as well
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