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Posted: 6/25/2009 7:38:24 AM | | Here's an uncomplicated thought, OP: If you're willing to throw yourself out there as an example in a topic, be prepared to have people continue to use you as part of the topic. Other complicated personality types who are exactly like your personal examples aren't here to give their feedback, so you'll have to do for the moment. | |
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Posted: 6/25/2009 7:45:21 AM | How about if we start a discussion about the relevance of the movies "The Ten Commandmanet" and "Planet of the Apes"to modern American politics and attitudes.
I would guess that probably the OP might be very adept in those areas.
Was that a complex thinking pattern? Do I have Aspergers? I am soooo confused. Oh, Yeah, that`s right, I`m more inteeligent than everyone else. | |
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Posted: 6/25/2009 9:06:29 PM | I’m jumping in cold to answer the OP w/o reading the bashy middle lest it poison my first & natural response.
I have a simple personality with little or no “ego” to be wounded.
Yet your post hits a familiar note with me because I usually forge my deepest connections with others who feel disconnected from the mainstream.
My sincere suggestion is that you make it a priority to solve this puzzle, if it’s important to you. The puzzle of your life and how best to make it work for you.
Put another way – it’s not the size of the intellect but the way you use it. | |
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Posted: 6/25/2009 10:31:35 PM |
Put another way – it’s not the size of the intellect but the way you use it.
So what you're saying is, size doesn't matter?
(in all seriousness scatwoman, awesome post) | |
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Posted: 6/26/2009 4:11:49 AM | giroditalia said:
Talk about a heightened sense of self importance!
After he said:
I'm more or less a "Renaissance Man" , active and inquisitive in several areas of endeavor. I'm not that easy to categorize, at least not using the terms most women choose when describing their ideal mate. In fact I function on several levels at once and frequently rework at lot of my communications and viewpoints and preferences as I go along because I become aware of connections and relatedness between topics and experiences that may not be so quickly visible to others or which may just be obscure.
Hello pot, meet Ms. Kettle. She is a hypocrite as well.
You really want a cookie, and validation that you are as bright and shiny a start as you claim to be.
Call me crazy, but a sensible person wouldn't make a a misogynistic post about women....and the ego's therein yet end it with this query:
Anyone else male or female have this experience ?
I assume you mean lesbians? Because you directed your post at women, then asked them to comment on men.
Make up your mind! If you are a savant, then the savant knows that other than physical differentiation, women are our intellectual equals.
And also, no one is jumping on a bandwagon, or lynching your posts. You may want to consider that what you said merely bears no fruit.
You speak as if your post were the most prolific topic on earth, when ultimately it is nothing more than a garden variety How come women always ::Insert Variable here:: thread dressed up in ill fitting, pseudo intellectual jargon, and a mindbogglingly immense amount of SELF SERVED COMPLIMENTS.
Also, again, if this is nothing more than an issue of attention, and it seems to be, then you've achieved your goal, as I have noticed various valid points made throughout this thread that you are 'beyond' intelligent enough to grasp, yet you skim over them, or argue against them anyway....
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Posted: 6/27/2009 7:27:20 AM | apainlessend
Hold on a sec--I don't understand you. We're both guys. My original post basically states I am not scoring. Period. Can you empathize with that condition? If so, I haven't herad any empathy from you at all. Are you one of those guys who's never had a problem finding a woman for his needs? Do they all come to you? Do you hear what I'm asking? You have an inquiring intelligence but I'm not sure why you decided you needed to array it against me. Seems we have more in common than not. However maybe I've already answered that question myself in the following paragraph. If not, I'd appreciate a reasoned response.
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Funny thing about the posters who have nothing but hate to spew at me, none have any obvious or stated talent. Except maybe some of the women are fairly good looking. Your profiles appear vacuous, and it is becoming clear to me at this point that what POF has become is a polarized political entity, with 95% of the posters easily identified as left wing bigots. The hatred, including the political ploy of accusing an opponent's positions or beliefs as being grounded in mental illness, is classic agit-prop, too visceral to have been ignited by any issue other than my plainly stated (on the profile) conservative philosophies. Hate to break it to you, but you all have been running around here quite rhetorically naked. You need to put some epistemological clothing on those dirty little bodies. Or else take a Chomskian shower, preferably all together. That should be interesting to see, as it 's a type of communalism your side typically applauds.
By the way, it has not escaped my attention that there is a decided "wuss" factor on this thread. There are practically no men (except for two that I recall) who have dared to oppose any of the rants put up by the "women" . All you read from the men are acquiescences and praise for the bile the females have spewed. What a bunch of girly-men you are! | |
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Posted: 6/27/2009 7:44:01 AM | ^^ Frankly giroditalia, your latest post is yet another example of the sort of reasoned response from you that has (largely) kept me out of this thread. I suspect it is this sort of reasoned response that may have caused the men who were providing oppositional points of view to leave the thread.
I have sympathy for the points expressed in your OP, indeed, I have also had difficulty in finding a compatible mate who shared joy in what I guess I'll call elasticity of thought. (I've even come in *briefly* to point out a possible flaw in someone's post earlier in the thread). However, and it is a HUGE however, your subsequent posts have demonstrated (to me) that you have a different problem in converting "first dates to frequent dating" and I believe it is your attitude. Your response is to bludgeon; I find no value in it, no opportunity for reasoned discourse and would avoid it in a date.
^^ If you think about this, it may provide a piece of the answer to the question you've asked. | |
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Posted: 6/27/2009 7:57:39 AM | Quite simple...........It has a lot to do with the "I" and the ego. If you feel the need to 'dumb it down' with some women you're meeting, then yes that's not a woman you'd do well with. On the other hand, some (women and men) need the facts, the basic facts without all the 'connections' to begin in journey of 'knowing' someone.
Roll it back, set the hook and if they grab hold and understand ... reel them in & carry on.
Being unique is great. Sadly there are some people who just circulate in the 'norm' but for them it suits them just fine. It takes some doing to find someone who clicks with what ticks in our own minds and that can 'jive' with us. | |
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Posted: 6/27/2009 8:11:27 AM | | No, but Narcissistic men are dangerous and tend act this way. I have met a few. Just my perception. Hard to say without really "meeting" you in person...but if I sat down with a man who had too many directions going on, and the bullshit you are describing (eyeroll)I would just get up and leave. If your personality and actions are complicated to this high of a degree you are displaying...you probably have more issues than National Geographic. I would say find another Narcissist. Then you can both brag about how complicated you both are to understand. lol It is one thing to be different; it is another to like yourself too much. And personally, throwing around the grammar (did you google half your words??)and the inability to take criticisim....yep...Narcissist.Com time. Good luck. | |
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Posted: 6/27/2009 8:26:06 AM |
Funny thing about the posters who have nothing but hate to spew at me, none have any obvious or stated talent. Except maybe some of the women are fairly good looking. Your profiles appear vacuous, and it is becoming clear to me at this point that what POF has become is a polarized political entity, with 95% of the posters easily identified as left wing bigots. The hatred, including the political ploy of accusing an opponent's positions or beliefs as being grounded in mental illness, is classic agit-prop, too visceral to have been ignited by any issue other than my plainly stated (on the profile) conservative philosophies. Hate to break it to you, but you all have been running around here quite rhetorically naked. You need to put some epistemological clothing on those dirty little bodies. Or else take a Chomskian shower, preferably all together. That should be interesting to see, as it 's a type of communalism your side typically applauds.
Allright, I suggested you tailor your communicational approach to meet women where they are coming from and you continue to stand rigididly in place ranting without even a pretense of meeting them where they are.
so I will meet you where you are coming from.
Point #1; you state that you will not accept any words from a woman because they have no obvious or stated talent...
So unless we broadcast what those "obvious or stated talents" are, we have no credibility, no validity of opinion or profundity of ideas? We are an empty shell bereft of any worthwhile ideas according to you because we have not aired our laundry list of talents and quantitative worth?
Allright, if you want to know what makes us tick to see if we are 'worth" reading (you'll still say no, because you aren't interested in dialogue; you seem to just be wanting to pick a fight apparently) ; am a technology/accountant professional who knows computer systems from the inside out, trains, does system audits, who has played, composed, and arranged piano since 4 years old, landscape designer who can speak on every microclimate and state differences in regional hort, am equally comfortable in math, history and owns over 1200 books, creative write and is passionately interested in nature, sports (grew up with baseball and wanted to be the first femlae play by play announcer for the Twins; have and still do sometimes scorekeep), design, and public speaking. So does this make me a "superior" person? Hell no. It just makes me curious. It does not lend credence to my voice; because if I couldn't do any of those things it wouldn't matter. i'd still have a valid opinion because everyone deserves a voice and a platform to speak it. EVERYONE is on equal footing; no one person is better than another, period.
I, and I know MANY of the other women in here who did not bother to state their resume (thinking a person in this culture should not need to have to "prove" their voice in order to have a dialogue), actually do have some kind of substance behind the physical feature arrangement of their face... and the fact you assumed otherwise shows one flaw immediately in your quest; you treat and speak to women like they are vacuuous shells with no worth unless you invest them with it in your validations. You are so busy talking and throwing you don't listen and you don't look.
Two: Your use of consistently emotionally "charged" words combined with the lumping together, grouping and massive generalizations lose you credibility; as you come across like you are just "on a rant". My son who is a sophomore, has alraedy received over 90 college aps and is very much "take the world by the tail" in his attitudes; and I have been speaking with him much on this very subject. It is easy to feel like we "know it all" But if the purpose of us is to "set others straight" and not dialogue and listen, we lose the ability to be heard. (plus we are constantly learning and growing; so what we "know" now we will find over time is wrong; and we will adapt; so we always have to temper platforms with the knowledge what we know will change, adapt and vary over time. No one will listen to a know it all, a ranter or a superior blowhard; no matter how intelligent they are. They will be treated with the disdain that they show (and trust me, your words are rife with complete disdain, disrespect, superiority and utter and total condescension. They shut communication down utterly; you show no individuality in your methods; you show no originality of thinking in your mechanics, and you show no depth in your interaction; it is all about you. (and what you are reflecting is maybe not what you should want to reflect; you come across bitter, angry and bullyish; and most of the time bullies are people who have been bullied, and are hurting.
You speak of us running around here naked; but I can't help but wonder if you understand how much YOU have been revealing... oh emperor. I always do strive to find beauty and worth in people and I will confess, you I am trying hard to find it but you are not making it easy; you are literally coming off almost narcissistic which may not be your intent, but it is how the words are coming through.
If you want to meet people in the middle and are not just in here to pick a fight, here are things that could help you.
1: scale back massively on the emotionally charged words and the exaggerations. They will improve your credibility and your relatability like you wouldn't believe.
2: realize every person has value and look for it; don't assume that everyone else isn't as "special" as you because people don't broadcast what they do or who they are. those who look for, strive to find and seek out the hidden gems in people can realize EVERYONE is deeper, more talented, more creative and more beautiful than they initially see; because people have depth and layers. If you don't find any of those in a person, it means you are the one lacking; because you are not bothering to look. And that's your loss; not theirs; because people don't have value just because someone recognizes it.
3: tone down the patronization and the hostility about 1,000%. You just sound like a blowhard bully; and trust me, women will never relate to that. Talk about THEM. Ask THEM questions. You already obviously know your own worth in your own estimation. Why don't you use that brain you say you're gifted with, and seek to find out what theirs is? You will be surprised; everyone has massive talents, creativities and gifts that they are blessed with; and some of them will blow you away. I have been blessed and impressed very much by people's depths that have showed over time as I listened. Still waters truly do run deep.
I say this with all the respect i can muster (since no respect has been forthcoming from you thus far); but I will extend it nonetheless.
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Posted: 6/27/2009 8:40:22 AM | ^^ Frankly giroditalia, your latest post is yet another example of the sort of reasoned response from you that has (largely) kept me out of this thread. I suspect it is this sort of reasoned response that may have caused the men who were providing oppositional points of view to leave the thread.
I have sympathy for the points expressed in your OP, indeed, I have also had difficulty in finding a compatible mate who shared joy in what I guess I'll call elasticity of thought. (I've even come in *briefly* to point out a possible flaw in someone's post earlier in the thread). However, and it is a HUGE however, your subsequent posts have demonstrated (to me) that you have a different problem in converting "first dates to frequent dating" and I believe it is your attitude. Your response is to bludgeon; I find no value in it, no opportunity for reasoned discourse and would avoid it in a date.
^^ If you think about this, it may provide a piece of the answer to the question you've asked.
Sorry OP, but, no, I do not "empathize" with you. At all.
If you believe that simply towering over someone else's apparent intellect is why you don't "score", then you aren't seeing what is plainly obvious to many others in this thread.
That is, you may simply, in fact, be perceived as egomaniacal, and quite boorish. Both of which most people (both men and women) find nauseating.
If you're simply "being you" around women, and not analyzing "cause and effect", then you're failing yourself, and putting the entire onus on whoever you may be interacting with (which BTW, is prevalent, particularly among lesser intellectuals).
"How" you choose to communicate is often a paramount factor in how interactions are either productive, or counterproductive. All actions have both positive and negative consequences.
To be honest, I don't have problems meeting women, and finding women who find me fun to be around. I'm quite friendly. But I could just as easily be antagonistic and use the excuse that I "intimidate" women with my "intellect" because they aren't turned on by me and "displaying" any intellect themselves, and use that as a basis for a diatribe against women. Sorry, no dice. I call bvllsh1t. You wanna call someone like me a "wussy" guy. I say "bite me".
Some women simply don't find the need to "flex" their intellect while on a date. They want to have fun.
There have been numerous women on the forums with whom I've "tangled" with quite a bit, on various threads, that I've become great friends with after exchanging emails. There are lots of women who have great respect and admiration for intellect, as do I.
I love to engage in "elasticity of thought" (as Margo calls it  ) with a woman. I actually consider it foreplay when I'm in a relationship with the woman. I find it very arousing. It is, at times, a double edged sword, and you must be aware of that. There is a slippery slope where (depending on the circumstances ) it can get to become a battle of wills.
EDIT: moonbeam, just caught your post^^^. Brilliant. | |
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Posted: 6/27/2009 8:45:35 AM |
All you read from the men are acquiescences and praise for the bile the females have spewed. What a bunch of girly-men you are!
How is it that when men have the same opinion as the women it's seen as acquiescence? This clearly states that you believe the men should side with you, otherwise they are girly-men. Your gender biases are now showing even more so, which is what started you off on the wrong foot to begin with by stating that your personality had something to do with women's egos because they are somehow of lesser intelligence because they don't/can't understand you. What it actually boils down to is that they understand your personality type all too well and it has nothing to do with the complications of it that you, yourself, believe you have. Instead of classifying you as complicated, I'd classify you as very transparent and a very easy read. You were pegged from the outset and your further posts have only served to blatently confirm what it is about you that turns women away from you. | |
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Posted: 6/27/2009 8:53:06 AM | | The trick is to be complicated in an uncomplicated way. Whichever ways the mazes inside our own melons are mapped out, and regardless of the linguistic pretzels we use to describe them, if we can't communicate an insight that makes someone go wow! instead of huh?, then we're not communicating at all. | |
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Posted: 6/27/2009 9:22:36 AM | It doesn't sound like this much of a problem for you really, if it was you would use all that surplus intelligence and make it go away.
I find myself pampering often ~ why can't you?
Women pander to as well, Let's face it, women enjoy talking about a lot of things we men have zero interest in. I'd think you could easily bore them to tears with your "man stuff"
But most women smile and act like they truly care and are interested, looking for a polite exit if you insist to ramble on.
I hate to watch or talk about sports ~ It bores me to tears but I enjoy talking to piers about complex technical issues encountered. ~ When I have to listen to sports ~ I do.
The world wasn't created on mine or your birthday, so give us a break with all this intellect crap. ~
I hope you find what you are looking for ~ sounds like hell on earth to me.
People talk too much and say to little as it is.
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Posted: 6/27/2009 10:11:35 AM |
Some women simply don't find the need to "flex" their intellect while on a date. They want to have fun. Amen!!
By "fun", some of us refer to the leisure of not having to prove how intellectual we are. We just want to chill, enjoy a movie (without being compelled to analyze it afterward and defend our view)
OP, I'm exhausted just reading your comments. How on earth does anybody make it through a date with you?
I do not seek to insult or offend you. What I'm trying to point out is that I believe you're trying too hard, and it turns women off. To avoid feeling rejected, you make it an issue about women's being intimidated; at least then you can say it's their problem.
Deep-down, you really don't believe that, or this thread would not have been started. | |
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Posted: 6/27/2009 2:45:55 PM | It`s amazing, but my morning walking partner OP has a personality so much similar to yours. Opiniated, and his views are correct and set in stone , for all. He gets frustrated when others don`t act or behave the way he thinks they should. He cannot communicate sucessfully with people, without always feeling superior, constantly judging the status of everyone around him.
He has stated to me that although he finds himself quite the superior specimen, going on for hours about his life sagas, accomplishments, his incredible life, that he always seems to end up alone. This problem has taken him to the point of having to self medicate on an almost constant basis, just to maintain. Life is incredibly painful , because in his eyes, he has to deal with such an inferior pool of humaity, that he can barely cope.
But the fact of the matter is, he isn`t all that smart, he doesn`t even keep up with world events. His opinions that he views as fact are like sieves. I can blow his sacred beliefs apart in a sentence. ( which really frustrates him).
I asked him one day if he thought men by nature were superior, and after a long pause, he said "I`ll have to think about it."
He also has had a very unsatisfying romantic and love life. As you put it ,he doesn`t score very much and never has. He absolutely can`t understand why because he is so superior. He has shown me volumes of portraits he has had taken of himself and keeps in a file on the computer, had written his autobiography, and tries to corner me every day to read it to me. He absolutely thinks he is the greatest guy that ever walked the planet and he can`t understand why women just don`t see it. Of course he would never get involved with a woman unless there was a lot in it for him, "You know, sex and money, and has pretty much lived his whole life sponging off women, living with them for free, and taking advantage of them, which he gleefully brags about. Although he does admit that the women that he has had relationships are usually needy skanks that don`t matter anyways.
Sometimes I get so angry and I think, "why do I even walk with this guy?" I just go home and feel like I have been poisoned by his presence. He is basically a self absorbed narcissistic a$$hole, incapable about caring about anyone except himself, and finds nothing wrong with that. I guess maybe I put up with it because of my macabre sense of humor, viewing him somewhat like a freak in a side show, waiting for his next unbelievable feat of arrogance and self love. Like scratching fingers on a chalk board, staring at a car wreck at the side of the road, this is the feeling he gives me. A strange and warped interest in the bizarre. There are mental disorders, one being narcissistic disorder and the other called Aspergers Syndrome, where the individual was born without the capability of sensing the "other". It is all about them.
They lack empathy and are incapable of having a sense of community, and recieve no joy or happiness in seeing joy in others. It is totally about them. When they do imaging scans on these people, certain parts of the brain involved in complex emotion and interaction are low in function, and don`t fire as much as in a normal person, even though other areas may be over developed.
But to answer your question one more time, the type of personality you have demonstrated here on POF is probably one of the absolutely worst most intolerable
types a woman would want to run into. Being with someone with this kind of attitude and thought pattern, literally does make some people sick. I can barely stand being around this man, nor can anyone else. He knows it`s a problem, but chooses to view it as all the women`s problem that they don`t acquiesce in his self adulation. He doesn`t understand why they just don`t see how incredible he is, because he sees it. So he just drinks that drink, smokes that smoke, and pops that pill, to have to deal with the ignorant masses, instead of taking a look at himself. Really sad, because maybe he really isn`t capable of doing that. | |
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Posted: 6/27/2009 4:56:57 PM | and in the background the chorus line sings.
" Oh Lord, it's hard to be humble when your perfect in every way.
I can't wait to look in the mirror, I get better looking each day.
To "KNOW" me is to love me, I "must" be a hell of a man.
Oh Lord, it's hard to be humble but I'm doing the best that I can. "
I use to have a girl friend, she said she just couldn't compete
with all those love starved women clamoring at my feet.
Mac Davis was a pretty man, ~ he wrote from the heart.
Lots of women like "petty men"
Lots like manly men
But most women like a man for the way he makes her feel.
That is a secret I share with you. How you make her feel.
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Posted: 6/27/2009 7:17:39 PM | FOLKS ------ THIS GUY WROTE:
Hey easy2like--
1. Put the bong down for a minute. There aren't any "ramblings" on my profile.
2. You have an inordinate faith in your own omnipotence. Somewhere in the clinical literature there is a name for that particular delusional state --it escapes me at present. But I'm sure the nearest lockdown facility has a warden who would know immediately what I was referring to, and might even recognize you by name or social security number as one of the chosen few.
3. Just to clue you in on a few things you brought up in your last posting: (a) You don't get to decide who is mentally ill, and who isn't. (b) You don't have a say as to who qualifies for gun ownership and who does not. (c) You don't get to decide anything about attempts, cleverly disguised as "gun control", to disarm the law-abiding American citizen. (e) And, you most certainly haven't the societal or professional standing to direct, command, or otherwise order me or anyone else on this thread to take a course of action you deem necessary . Get it?
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Yeah -- I get it -- you are just as I suspected. It is very troubling.
Temper temper little fellah. And don't play with any of those guns when you are this upset with me. One might go off and hurt someone. I knew a looney once who shot his own finger off while in a state similar to yours.
"Lockdown facility" ?? "Warden"?? You are not even capable of typing out a normal sentence and are dysfunctional to the point of not being able to remember the names of the things of which you speak. And again your discourse is rambling and nonsensical, driven by anger, and predicated upon access to a dictionary and thesaurus. One hand on the keyboard and one hand on the Webster's !!!! LOL . I am enjoying watching you sink deeper and deeper into your dark side -- and as far as my professional standing to tell you to get help I accept the challenge and I assume that you have no objection to my showing your writings to a psychiatrist friend of mine to see what he says. The down side of that is that, should he determine that a real problem exists, I get to release that evaluation. Let me know if you accept the challenge.
My prediction? Antisocial probably, narcissistic at a minimum and narcissism can be dangerous -- many notables were/ are narcissistic. Ted Bundy (was but is no longer), Charles Manson, Lee Oswald (see Bundy), Jack Ruby (ditto Bundy), Sirhan Sirhan, Squeaky Frome/ aka Froam, Green River Killer, John Wilkes Booth ("useless, useless" his last words), and the list grows so take my advice !!! LOL Wouldn't want to see you on it someday.
But, for now your reply was what I expected, and a little more -- your temper is showing now.
AND -- I hate to disappoint you but I have never owned a "bong" and don't need one. I don't drink, smoke, or swear. Especially the smoking part LOL. But I fooled ya -- tweren't that hard actually.
UNTIL NEXT TIME FOLKS ---- KEEP THE CARDS COMING IN AND TIP YOUR WAITRESS!!!
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Posted: 6/28/2009 1:30:29 AM | giroditalia
This is all I honestly understand from all his posts, debates, arguements and etc....
~~~I'm more or less a "Renaissance Man" , active and inquisitive in several areas of endeavor. I'm not that easy to categorize, at least not using the terms most women choose when describing their ideal mate.
He does say MOST not all, I can comprehend that.
Not easy to catagorize= mutifaceted------------mul·ti·fac·et·ed /?m?lti'fæs?t?d, ?m?lta?-/ Show Spelled Pronunciation [muhl-tee-fas-i-tid, muhl-tahy-] Show IPA
Use multifaceted in a Sentence
–adjective 1. having many facets, as a gem.
2. having many aspects or phases: a multifaceted problem
Phases being the opperative word here.
~~~In fact I function on several levels at once and frequently rework at lot of my communications and viewpoints and preferences as I go along because I become aware of connections and relatedness between topics and experiences that may not be so quickly visible to others or which may just be obscure.
frequently rework at lot of my communications and viewpoints and preferences as I go along=to me that says either he is trying to learn new ways of thinking, believeing, or understanding. But has yet to actually adhere to one way or another.
~~~It just seems to me a lot of the women I've met have a low tolerance for anything out of the ordinary personality-wise and lose patience with me rather quickly.
The women he has CHOSEN to meet can't keep up with his exalted personality, opinions and vocabulary.
~~~~I am becoming alarmed at the lopsided ratio of the number of women I'm "meeting" versus the number of women I'm "keeping".
Most of us women appear to be to simple minded to be "keepers"
~~~ Anyone else male or female have this experience ?
I think I can comprehend that question all by its self, but then again maybe I am to simple minded.
Your posts have gone from one end of the spectrum to the other. There have been debates, to arguments, to out right name calling, hidden meanings.........all under the guise that you have a superior intelect to everyone and everything. You believe what you say and how you say it and anything else be damned, till you change your mind.
So I reiterate, pot meet kettle, shake hands with yourself and play nice with yourself.
And I appologize if anyone believes I have behaved, or spoken in a hypocritical fashion:| | |
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