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Show ALL Forums  > Relationships  > Pondering      Mod Threads Home login   Page 2 of 2 1, 2  Author  Thread: Pondering  Bry-Fidelity Joined: 9/11/2007 Msg: 26 view profile History Pondering Posted: 6/17/2009 1:09:46 AM I can relate as can many on here can! I just want to point out that you say you do journalism in your profile. If you enjoy that and have conquered that aspect of your life of liking what you do then you are actually ahead of the game for your age. You should give yourself props just for that! I would be a hypocrite to say that I have things figured out but as someone who can relate to your situation in many ways I think that some peoples journey to finding answers never ends completely but their is a mixture of positives and negatives on the journey there. Focus on the positives and try to learn from the negatives and eventually you should find someone on that path. Peace!  FULLFIGMAAM Joined: 6/7/2009 Msg: 27 Pondering Posted: 6/17/2009 1:18:58 AM Put up photos of yourself. Be kind, don't whine/complain about what you don't have, be considerate, generous, and helpful to girls, and they will start to see you as hot potential mate. Are you always serious and intense? Do you go out, have a drink, and dance silly? Good luck, M  link2222 Joined: 4/1/2007 Msg: 28 Pondering Posted: 6/17/2009 1:37:32 AM bry-fidelity - you live in New Hampshire, so does my dad! I know it's a journey and right now I'm finding it difficult. Before I even begin to think about about approaching anyone I need to lose weight, from what I've observed women like lean guys. I also need to move out of my mum's place as I know this is a major turn off. So who knows maybe some day  Bry-Fidelity Joined: 9/11/2007 Msg: 29 view profile History Pondering Posted: 6/17/2009 1:47:12 AM link2222 Hey small world! lol As far as the weight thing what I can tell you from my limited dating experience is I believe that when you fall in love with some looks and physical issues can be looked past. I've learned that I can find all shapes, sizes and types beautiful as long as they love the package they are wrapped in. In other words, your attitude about your size and insistence on not accepting a partner as loving you for who you are could be a bigger downfall than the size itself. Hope that made some sense! LOL Peace! Page 2 of 2 1, 2

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