| How can I get my ex back?
Posted: 6/18/2009 2:46:06 PM | So basically If I want her back...I must wait for het to contact me and just let go.
Yes. And even that is a gamble because it sounds to me like she is not interested in you any longer.
Why would she send me a message saying lets call it a say then stop all contact
That was her way of ending it. Apparently you didn't catch that.
why is she so heartless!
It wasn't heartless... heartless would be continuing to lead you on with no intent of anything coming of it. AKA head games.
Why isnt she texting me or ringing me!?
Because she is done with you! She has kicked you to the curb. You just haven't realized it yet. This relationship you are so hung up on is completely one sided. It's you and a fantasy. That's it. She's gone. She's not contacting you because she doesn't want you. Accept it. Deal with it. And leave the girl alone! | |
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| How can I get my ex back?
Posted: 6/18/2009 2:46:47 PM | Why?...WHY, WHY WHY WHY WHHHYYYYY????? Why WOULD you want her back. Dude - she's a "loosey goosey" - hands down, a lady "player". You do NOT NEED THAT NOISE. Sounds to me like she bonds about as firmly as ice on tephlon.
She DID NOT WANT a relationship - she DOES NOT WANT a relationship, and probably WILL NOT WANT a relationship until she's 67 years old, living with 46 cats, and lonely, desperate, and pitiful as Hell - at which point her more "playful - non commital" days will be far behind her, and all that her superficiality will have earned her will be an unfulfilled, hopeless longing for someone to just give a damn, period.
DROP THE FRUITLESS PINING - IT WON'T EVEN GET YOU A HOT CUP OF JAVA.
MOVE ON. LIFE IS SHORT, STOP JOUSTING AT WINDMILLS!!! | |
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| How can I get my ex back?
Posted: 6/18/2009 3:10:32 PM |
Ill be brief...met a girl online about 5-6 months ago..we started seeing each other meeting up at weekends and doing stuff together having sex every now and then...we even went away on holiday together for a week....but then she text she saying we should call it a day and that she could not commit to a relationship with her studies and friends and everything else going on...she has basically ****ed me off since and has only text me now and then after I had initiated all the contact.
Howe can I get her back....did she leave me for another guy im going mad!!
Why do girls act like this? I did actuually tell her when we were having sex one nite that I loved her!
This has got to be the number one subject on here.. Lemme ask you this. If you went to a store and tried on a suit and it didn't fit or you didn't like it's 'style', would you want to go back the next day and try it on again..? Maybe she tried you on and didn't like 'the fit'... Move on .. Try some other women on yourself. Live a little..
There's a spinster on another thread with a ticking clock in her ear.. That has got to improve a guy's chances immensly.. | |
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| How can I get my ex back?
Posted: 6/18/2009 3:31:01 PM | Whoops you dropped the L-bomb at precisely the exact WRONG moment. That probably freaked her out. Move on my friend, there's nothing to see here. Live and learn though.
And for the love of God, DON'T do it again. | |
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| How can I get my ex back?
Posted: 6/18/2009 4:40:29 PM | How can I get my ex back?
Posted: 6/18/2009 7 24 PM
TheReason: dude - WHAT?
Look - it seems bizarre to me that you said "Whoops you dropped the L-bomb at precisely the exact WRONG moment."
In response to that comment - I'm like "Oh - GOODNESS NO - YOU SHOULD NEVER BE SO "BOLD" AND "FORWARD" AS TO TELL SOMEONE THAT YOU LOVE AND CARE ABOUT THEM - WHILE YOUR JIMMY IS PARKED SNUGGLY IN THEIR HOOCH - THAT SIMPLY IS JUST BEING TOO DAMN "FORWARD" AND "PERSONAL" - THAT SIMPLY WILL NOT DO - HMM MMM!!!"...
Good GOD...Where are people's values any more - GEEZ' OH ' PETE... | |
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| How can I get my ex back?
Posted: 6/18/2009 4:52:47 PM |
I did actuually tell her when we were having sex one nite that I loved her!
Trust me, it will happen again. | |
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| How can I get my ex back?
Posted: 6/18/2009 5:09:27 PM | | You can try to talk to her, good luck with that. Unless you think you can get rich writing some sort of sappy done somebody wrong song, its time to move on. She might change her mind latter, but if you decide to try and change her mind, the chorus to your song will more than likely include a refrain about a restraining order. | |
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| How can I get my ex back?
Posted: 6/18/2009 6:54:20 PM |
In response to that comment - I'm like "Oh - GOODNESS NO - YOU SHOULD NEVER BE SO "BOLD" AND "FORWARD" AS TO TELL SOMEONE THAT YOU LOVE AND CARE ABOUT THEM - WHILE YOUR JIMMY IS PARKED SNUGGLY IN THEIR HOOCH - THAT SIMPLY IS JUST BEING TOO DAMN "FORWARD" AND "PERSONAL" - THAT SIMPLY WILL NOT DO - HMM MMM!!!"...
Good GOD...Where are people's values any more - GEEZ' OH ' PETE...
The very first time you tell someone you love them, don't do it right after or during sex. It will totally confuse them if they are not ready. They will question it all day the next day. "was he really in love? Did he just blurt it out in the heat of the moment?" it will actually probably kill the mood and make things weird from that moment on, ESPECIALLY if she isn't ready for it, or doesn't feel the same way. I will say 6 months seems to be a reasonable amount of time before saying it. | |
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| How can I get my ex back?
Posted: 6/18/2009 7:05:00 PM | | There are only a few girls you should be worried about, the ones in your family, the ones that have proven they are your friend, and that girl you're supposed to be with. So if they aren't in your life now it's for good reason so don't fret it! If this girl doesn't talk to you move on cuz the next could be even better than the last! | |
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| How can I get my ex back?
Posted: 6/18/2009 7:17:36 PM | To THEREASON:
Ok dude, I get it - cool. I use to tell my fiancee that I loved her though ( and I still actually do - I miss her) while we were sharing each other - and she liked it. It made her feel loved while we were making love. So I guess it's probably all in the delivery. | |
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| How can I get my ex back?
Posted: 6/18/2009 7:39:42 PM | | Can't get someone back who doesn't want to be in a commited relationship right now. Just let her be and move on. If ment to be, then it will happen when it's suppose to happen. | |
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| How can I get my ex back?
Posted: 6/18/2009 7:43:57 PM | Dude, with women there is no equity. No avoidance of harsh results. If you make a mistake, the hammer can come down. We're talking about the female gender here, not the American court system. You don't even have to screw up to get the book thrown at you.
With the female gender, it's more like kangaroo court. Just these two cents from a recent law school grad- who now has to cope with his own heartache at the hands of a fellow classmate.
But I do hope it works out for you. You'll always find someone else if it does not. | |
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| How can I get my ex back?
Posted: 6/18/2009 7:51:25 PM | I am sorry but I have to say... she is throwing you with all kind of excuses because she just simply does not want a long term relationship with you. She doesnt deserve your time...there're plenty of good girls out there waiting for your exploration. Good luck | |
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| How can I get my ex back?
Posted: 6/19/2009 7:38:23 AM |
Ok dude, I get it - cool. I use to tell my fiancee that I loved her though ( and I still actually do - I miss her) while we were sharing each other - and she liked it. It made her feel loved while we were making love. So I guess it's probably all in the delivery.
Absolutely nothing wrong with expressing your love, and telling your girlfriend/fiance/wife/etc. that you love her while making love. I just don't think it's the best time to say it for the first time ever... | |
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| How can I get my ex back?
Posted: 6/22/2009 8:29:58 AM | | Not sure about my self esteem...but this past weekend I met another girl slept over at hers...but all I could think of was the girl I love all weekend..friday night I went out and pulled to girls and got both numbers!! | |
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| How can I get my ex back?
Posted: 6/22/2009 12:58:54 PM | | I think you need to get a clue and leave her alone. Unless you want to be called a stalker... if she hasn't called you that already. She doesn't want you.... period.. end of story. And the fact that you are trying to date others but you still think of her is wrong to whomever you try to date. You need to take a break from dating till you don't think about her that much if at all. And on that break DO NOT try and contact her because you miss her or your lonely or horny or whatever. Bury yourself in work or some other activity so you don't think about her. Be an adult, accept the rejection, pick yourself up and move on. | |
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| How can I get my ex back?
Posted: 6/22/2009 4:58:37 PM | IMO, you need to walk away with your dignity intact and move on.
I know this isn't helpful to you right now, and might sound old fashioned, but when you meet someone else (which you will) you might want to make sure you're both on the same page emotionally before getting physical. This can save a lot of heartache later...
Good luck! | |
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| How can I get my ex back?
Posted: 6/22/2009 5:13:36 PM | | More than likely, she wasn't ready to commit to a longterm relationship. Maybe you can leave her a message,letting her know you are thinking about her. Only time will tell if she really cares enough for you,she will call, if not, chalk it up to a life learned lesson. good Luck | |
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| How can I get my ex back?
Posted: 6/22/2009 6:29:17 PM | | Dude, I learned this the hard way.. just move on! If she's an ex, then she's an ex for a reason. Don't even waste your time on someone that doesn't want to be with you. | |
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| How can I get my ex back?
Posted: 6/22/2009 6:40:09 PM | | well answer to the last question first. no one knows why really anyone acts the way anyone else does and thats not for us to even ponder. Trying to figure out why anyone acts a speific way actually will drive you crazy. then the next thing is let her go. i know its hard. I AM 3000 MILES away from my soon to be ex wife. there is nothing i can do to save the realtionship. You live, you learn you get hurt and then you heal. the fact is simple move on, and yes i like absolute answers too. the hows and whys but thats not for us to know. | |
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