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 bgrumling

Joined: 2/28/2008
Msg: 50
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How can I get my ex back?
Posted: 6/22/2009 6:40:09 PM
well answer to the last question first. no one knows why really anyone acts the way anyone else does and thats not for us to even ponder. Trying to figure out why anyone acts a speific way actually will drive you crazy. then the next thing is let her go. i know its hard. I AM 3000 MILES away from my soon to be ex wife. there is nothing i can do to save the realtionship. You live, you learn you get hurt and then you heal. the fact is simple move on, and yes i like absolute answers too. the hows and whys but thats not for us to know.
 Tinklesheepsheep

Joined: 6/6/2009
Msg: 51
How can I get my ex back?
Posted: 6/22/2009 7:34:16 PM
I agree with Sirenbliss. You're too good for her, that's why you can't get her back. She's really an imbecil who not only has communications problems, but her troubles are deeper than that, she can't even think straight and her entire value system is waaaay out of kilter.

We all, on PoF, are still in shock why she doesn't want to come back to you. After all, your divorce or separation was not a sign that your togetherness failed, it was a sign that your togetherness (holy matrimony?) was a complete and thundering success.
 FULLFIGMAAM

Joined: 6/17/2009
Msg: 52
How can I get my ex back?
Posted: 6/23/2009 12:25:17 AM
Do not try to get her back, because she is not in love with you, or does not feel the same way that you do.
Find someone who is available, and doesn't run off when you tell her you love her... Preferably, she'll be equally into you.
Good luck, and am sorry as you are obviously hurt from this, and grasping at straws. M
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