| tired of being lonely
Posted: 6/23/2009 5:55:47 PM |
Tell them what they want to hear and then do whatever you want. That's how you land a good man. They love liars.
WOW! Someone has her panties in a bunch!
My mother always told me to look out for women like you. No offense!
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| tired of being lonely
Posted: 6/23/2009 6:07:55 PM | | Have you greived yet Cindy? It is very difficult to move on and become stronger, more secure when you have not greived properly. Take the time and feel the pain then start to rebuild. Become your own best friend. The healthier you are, the healthier your new mate will be. Good luck to you. | |
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| tired of being lonely
Posted: 6/24/2009 12:43:59 AM | | hi cindy my name is rick and i am sick and tied of not having a girl friend all i seem to do is work and sleep . i live in salsbury south aus . are you able to tell me were you are in aus wood love to hear from you please | |
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| tired of being lonely
Posted: 6/24/2009 4:44:15 AM | | ive been alone for over two years now and i dont think ill ever find some one so i know how you fill | |
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| tired of being lonely
Posted: 6/24/2009 4:57:06 AM | tassiegreatplace: Geez, I don't know my friend. I'm not a woman but after reading your profile you seem like a GREAT CATCH! Do yourself a favor and don't advertise that you have been alone for two years and "DON'T" think you'll ever find someone. That is negative thinking. Word it this way, "I have been looking for 2 years for this wonderful woman to come into my life so we can live forever in a fantastic and wonderful union" Or words to that effect. BEST OF LUCK Buddy!
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| tired of being lonely
Posted: 6/24/2009 5:52:17 AM | I'm glad to find out I'm not alone either. For me, one way of putting it is that I have all but one piece of a thousand-piece puzzle and I can't find the one (the special someone) that goes in the middle.
Having patience in this can be extremely difficult especially if the environment around you is full of couples who are married or in relationships. For me, it raises my expectations in that to impossible levels and I end up crying.
But whatever you do, don't ever give up!  | |
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| tired of being lonely
Posted: 6/24/2009 11:33:02 AM | | Cindy i know the feeling im the same way...i find taking my mind off things helps some...he is out there! dont give up...wish i could help you more but im in the same boat | |
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| tired of being lonely
Posted: 6/24/2009 11:58:04 AM | | Just STOP doing for men! Do for yourself! Let men do for you!!! In my experience if I am safely grounded and know what I want the man in my life will help me get it... | |
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| tired of being lonely
Posted: 6/24/2009 12:24:37 PM | | I agree people dont like the truth because it hurts, but I would rather tell the truth than lie...lies hurt more in the long run and destroy trust. I know im alone because I tell the truth and leave no secrets...I come off as mean or nuts but im really not...Im just sad that most people judge by looks and/or first impressions, they dont take into consideration that people make mistakes, and because of this I am alone, but I wont change my beliefs because someone doesnt like me for them...when The right one comes along and accepts me for my good aspects and my bad I will devote myself to him...I am fiercely loyal and tolerant and am very proud of that. | |
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| tired of being lonely
Posted: 6/24/2009 1:51:16 PM | I get lonely sometimes as well, like everyone else, but I would rather be alone than with the wrong person that would make me unhappy;
I get messages from some men on here that I don't like at all, some of them are looking for sex, they are disgusting,..
I would rather go out with my girlfriends, thank you very much! | |
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| tired of being lonely
Posted: 6/24/2009 6:59:21 PM | | goodmangreg thanks for that mate ill do what u said thanks again mate your a bloody good bloke | |
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| tired of being lonely
Posted: 6/24/2009 8:32:00 PM | People have got to get over the "good job" issue. You can always train someone for a better job/career but you can't always teach someone to be loving, caring and considerate. I think many good prospective mates are overlooked because s/he is just a (insert unglamorous job).
You know, there are a lot of successful people of strong character and values who pushed a broom in a factory before they made it big time. | |
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| tired of being lonely
Posted: 6/24/2009 10:45:51 PM | I have been on several dating sites for about 2 yrs now, and no such luck ever! 3 men have led me on so far, dumping me at the very end because they see on my profile that I have 6 kids! Yes fully divorced now for 3 yrs, they all have the same father who doesn't even stay in touch, and I am looking for a man to be able to share my life with again. It seems totally impossible anymore. I've been suggested to go to church, and meet some new people.. but did that work after about 2 yrs of trying that? NO! I seem to attract the ones who want a 1 nite stand, or some kind of drunk/ drug addict or whatever! DAMN... Where are the good men hiding in this world? | |
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| tired of being lonely
Posted: 6/24/2009 10:57:36 PM | | Cindy... hi! I'm Cheryl... I understand how u feel, believe me! I've been divorced now for 3 yrs, totally over my ex, and can't find a good, loving man out there who will love me, and my kids too! I've been led on by 3 men ,and dumped off after speaking to each other after a good while of getting to know one another. My profile does show that I do have 6 kids ( all have the same dad... I get asked that alot), and they still come at me like they are interested, and after the fire gets burning... the line gets pulled! | |
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| tired of being lonely
Posted: 6/25/2009 4:19:22 AM | | It is rather normal to feel lonely at times. Everyone from Brad Pitt to Elvis to Angel Jolie or whatever beautiful person out there has felt lonely. Some people have better batting records than others. You can improve your record by working on your technique i.e. attitude. At least, that's my take. | |
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| tired of being lonely
Posted: 6/25/2009 5:03:55 PM | I am tired of being lonely also. But I think you received some valuable advice.
1.We do not talk about our ex's
2. Jay man hit the nail on the head. | |
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| tired of being lonely
Posted: 6/30/2009 11:47:31 AM | Yeah i'am tired of being lonely as well. i thought a few times i had really found someone, but seems it was all a game. and YES females are into playing games as well. seems i just as well give up and die by myself. | |
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| tired of being lonely
Posted: 7/1/2009 7:44:12 PM | "Well in this economy it's tough to find a man with a good job... And if he does have a good job, he thinks himself to be worth more than gold and takes advantage of women. Actually, what you're doing wrong is being honest in your profile. Put something like, just want wild sex... The men with the good jobs will jump all over it. More than likely, he'll be some timid accountant that hasn't had good sex in decades and he'll fall in love with you and your problem will be solved. A nickel's worth of free advice. Tell them what they want to hear and then do whatever you want. That's how you land a good man. They love liars"
She treads heavily...but she speaks the truth. And the same goes for women. You ladies don't always want honesty...you want what you want to hear. And that's OK!
I think this responder makes a good point about finding a timid accountant. I think two equally submissive, equally needy types gel really well actually, as long as they're not both so shy that SOMEONE doesn't make the first move. | |
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| tired of being lonely
Posted: 7/3/2009 10:57:39 AM | we men may not feel lonely if the ladies would just respone back, but this will never happen, and if we do get a respone back it's long distance. B-O-R-E-I-N-G !!  | |
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| tired of being lonely
Posted: 7/3/2009 11:36:11 AM | Hi - I'm new to this site.
Yes, I'm pretty much in the same lovesick boat. I suppose unlike many other guys out there, I suffer particularly from low self-esteem. Now at 27, I've never had a single girlfriend - just a lot of annoying flirt encounters at work. Lots of people always say, just have fun and appreciate your single life. True, to be honest I've been doing this a lot (spending lots of money on the things you love is great!), but every so often you'd encounter something, like in the park, that reminds you about how single life seem like a miserable drama at times.
My personal problem right now is, identifying girls who flirt because they like you, and the ones who do it just to please themselves for entertainment. | |
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| tired of being lonely
Posted: 7/3/2009 11:52:39 AM | | I AM HAVING THE SAME PORBLEM.NO ONE WANTS TO MEET MUCH LESS DATE.I KNOW I AM NOT THE BEST LOOKING I STILL GET TOLD I LOOK GOOD.LOLSI AM A HONEST LOVING MAN LOOKING TO HAVE SOME FUN AND DO THINGS WITH.WOULD YOU LIKE TO GET TO KNOW EACH OTHER?WRITE BACK. | |
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| tired of being lonely
Posted: 7/3/2009 1:36:20 PM | | KEEP PUTTING THE ICING WHERE THE CAKE SHOULD BE....I need that translated lol I think I do that!!! I get lonely also I found a guy but we keep running into roadblocks is it me???Possibly when u get older and not so much wiser this can happen...But we need to just focus on ourselves in the lull of dating I think hard to do I know...God didnt mean for us to be alone..we all need love and companionship...it just gets discouraging sometimes keep the faith!! | |
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| tired of being lonely
Posted: 7/3/2009 2:45:11 PM | | It is very hard to find the right one for you.I am tired of the dating sites and not finding the right guy for me yet.It is fourth of july weekend and would of loved being with someone to share it with.I have family and friends but I would of liked being with a man for the fourth.I do not like being single again.I was with someone for over two years he waa abusive and selfish and to busy in his life for us so we broke up.I will not settle so I guess that is why I have not found someone yet. | |
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| tired of being lonely
Posted: 7/3/2009 10:25:50 PM | | I'm glad that I'm not alone in this. If you're trying so hard to find her, maybe you might want to try to not search as hard as it might be harder to find (or get found by) a "moving target." Be happy that you're alive and in one piece! | |
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| tired of being lonely
Posted: 7/3/2009 10:37:46 PM | | It's sooo hard to find a decent guy nowadays, but I can understand the bitter loneliness. It strikes you deeply, to the core of your soul if you have one left. I try to keep myself amused by going on extremly long runs/jogs each day. This helps clear my sore heart, anger, and sadness. I'm lonely ALL the damn time so I can relate! | |
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