| tired of being lonely Posted: 7/4/2009 1:12:26 PM | | You might be able to find a nice person after taking two steps first: First, work on the grief for the ex and the feelings of need; and second, reconsider your dealbreakers. It has already been said on this post; but I think that it bears repetition: Not everyone out there who might be unemployed, live with family, not privately own a vehicle, receive disability or workman's comp. or what-have-you, is automatically a desperate deadbeat reject. There are a lot of valid reasons for those situations, and situations do change over time, too. Consider that somebody without certain material advantages might still have a lot of love to give. What if you met someone who was unemployed, rode the bus, adored you, made you crack up laughing all the time, and treated you like gold? :) | |
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