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| Why Is It That Guys Want Sex On The First Night?
Posted: 6/19/2009 12:18:48 PM | Here is my theory: monkeys. Yes, monkeys.
Evolution. Men want to spread their seed, it's an animal instinct. It's not our fault, you cannot be mad at us about this. Any guy who tells you that he doesn't want to have sex with you on first date is either (a) lying to get you into bed, or (b) scared.
At the same time, women have more consequences when it comes to sex. It is your natural instinct to be careful who you choose to have sex with. That is why girls generally don't want to have sex on the first date. Your instinct wants you to be careful about who you let penetrate yourself. Men cannot be mad about this either.
BOYS - it's in her best interest to wait before having sex.
GIRLS - it's in our best interest to sleep with you immediately.
We should all just get along and accept that facts. | |
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| Why Is It That Guys Want Sex On The First Night?
Posted: 6/19/2009 1:58:50 PM | If men's brain weren't hardwired in such a way that we want sex early and often, the human species would have died out long ago.
So, be glad that's the way it is. Otherwise you wouldn't be here to ask the question! | |
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| Why Is It That Guys Want Sex On The First Night?
Posted: 6/19/2009 5:56:50 PM |
I challange any of you to name one experience that is better the a night of passion. seeking love on top of that passion is bliss.
I will take your challenge.......A chocolate chip cookie dough blizzard from Dairy Queen always makes me orgasm. Dont really get the same earth shattering experience from sex. | |
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| Why Is It That Guys Want Sex On The First Night?
Posted: 6/19/2009 6:05:56 PM |
That must be some ice cream...
You wouldnt believe it. Absolutly divine. maybe that is the answer, a guy takes his date to get said ice cream, they both reach orgasm without even having to go near each other. | |
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| Why Is It That Guys Want Sex On The First Night?
Posted: 6/19/2009 7:08:19 PM | You know that some of us (guys). GOD I HATE THAT WORD. I do read the profile. I like to fine out what makes her tick. S0me of ie guys fine the mind sexy. Not all of us are sex pigs LOL A mental connection Turn some of us on more than what we see how we are treated. And how you wemen treat us. Men women we all have our turn ons and turn off. If you care and love the person you are with you always find them sexy mind and Body!!!
Aaron | |
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| Why Is It That Guys Want Sex On The First Night?
Posted: 6/19/2009 10:41:41 PM | Because of the kind of guy you're searching for would be the obvious answer. Biology notwithstanding, there are plenty of men who are capable of carrying themselves as mature adults rather than sex-crazed kids or dare I say, rutting animals in heat.
This bothers me actually, because a lot of girls complain to me about this...but they keep going for the guys who embody those same qualities again and again, while more or less ignoring the guys (like me) that fit the opposite description.
It is not about biology. It has nothing to do with biology. If it was biology, every human being on the planet would be exactly the same. It's about personal responsibility. | |
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| Why Is It That Guys Want Sex On The First Night?
Posted: 6/20/2009 10:04:11 AM | | i wanted sex on the date 2 real dum she hasnt talked me in over a month im real sad but i black mailed her saying i call the cops on her if she didnt give me sex lol | |
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| Why Is It That Guys Want Sex On The First Night?
Posted: 6/20/2009 11:21:20 AM | Your pics are suggesting that you are easy and looking for some bedroom fun. If that is NOT what you want stop advertising as such.
Wow, just freakin' wow-de-wow-wow. I looked at the OP's photos and what I saw was an incredibly sexy and vivacious woman who probably appreciates sex but has some class. OP you look gorgeous and classy all at the same time.
So, men are so desperate for wishful thinking that they can get some sex somewhere that they insist that photos suggest that a woman is looking exclusively for sex?
Nice excuse guys, but sorry..hardly convincing.
First of all, we women have just a few ways to acquire the interest of males on this site and one of those methods is by way of photos, interests and profile blurbs. Guys, because of your dispositions and sex instinct, we realize that those who get the most attention will undoubtedly have something on their profiles that capture your eye...mainly, boobs, cleavage, a great smile and so on...our personalities don't mean squat in this initial phase. THAT is what the first few dates are for. Very few men on here appreciate a woman's personality and God forbid we don't cowtow to men's ideas on here and you're appreciated even less for having a mind.
Now this third date rule...what a crock of freaking shit it is. I've actually seen men on here posting that if a woman isn't putting out by the third date that she's outta there...unfreaking real.
OP...I don't think this is evidence of how men think so much as it's evidence of how men ON POF think. I can honestly say that males in real life have not shown nearly as much of a display of debasing themselves to Neanderthal status as I have heard so many display here with their false bravado and sticky sweet machismo. I call bull. These dudes are so socially inept that the only way they can express themselves here is by creating an illusion of being such virile and powerful creatures. GAG...they appear farther from that than they did before they failed miserably in their communication skills.
The second I read something as insane and cave-man like as "well...you asked for it" , is the moment I realize that this guy is one of those idiots who doesn't understand the meaning of NO and that probably ANYTHING you do that even suggests that you have sex appeal automatically places you at fault for their less than evolved display of sexual prowess. They are the bottom feeders OP...there are tons of them here...way more than we want to realize and yes, I know their numbers baffle and amaze but try and remember also that so many of them do this from the safe position of sitting behind a screen where someone won't slap their faces for being such degenerates.
I have run into a few of these idiots. They tell me that I shouldn't be expecting men to behave when I have "my tits hanging out for all to see"...please, give me a flaming break...I have NO pics with my "tits hanging out" but you know, I realize this is about them and not about me. This is about men who suck, who can't find sex because they are deplorable, sick little weasels who need to pay to get it because they repulse the female population.
OP...the message I got from your profile was that you are a sexy, vivacious woman who is looking for a sexy and vivacious man (and these morons who put you down for it can't even dream of being that for you anyway) who'll take his time to appreciate more than your sex.
Personally, a man ain't getting any sex out of this lady till I see the love. And I'll gladly stay single the rest of my life to prove that.
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| Why Is It That Guys Want Sex On The First Night?
Posted: 6/20/2009 8:23:02 PM | Not all guys are that way, I think your just finding the wrong ones. I am sure I am probably gonna get some kind of negative remarks with what I am about to say... but my personally I do not believe in having casual sex. I will not be intimate to that point with a women unless I am in a committed relationship. Too many dangers involved when having 1 night stands and things like that. Sure everyone will probably say use protection... but unfortunately protection is not fool proof.
If your not willing to accept with will come you way then dont do it at all. This goes for both men and women. I do not know how many times I have heard guys say I regret doing this cause I got this, or women saying we only did it one time I dont know why im pregnant.
The door does swing both ways in this matter, because I have had women get mad at me because I wont sleep with them the first night. Needless to say that usually ends up being the 1st and last date because all that was on their mind was sex. | |
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| Why Is It That Guys Want Sex On The First Night?
Posted: 6/20/2009 9:40:05 PM | | I think that your pictures are very tasteful, sexy yes, but what's wrong with that? It doesn't mean you're ready to get it on, right? You go girl, keep being fabulous! | |
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| Why Is It That Guys Want Sex On The First Night?
Posted: 6/20/2009 10:52:23 PM | miss_contemplative, did you see her pics BEFORE she changed them???
NOW she has sexy and confident, but before there was words that said how do you like me, and you could see bare bum... I wouldn't mind them, BUT the reality is, men who are looking to score strictly look at pics, and decide what she is wanting..
I personally thought her pics were extremely hot, artist her, so beauty is beauty... BUT since I have been doing these forum for a long time, women have gotten bashed for such pics, AND she was unhappy how men only propositioned her for sex, as did the OP...
I think people have been very decent for the most part all considering...
IT IS TO BAD, that women can't do what men do, and stand there baring it almost all, and not feel like they will just be seen as a piece of meat by MOST people who respond...
I have no doubt that the OP will have little prob with what she has up to find a good man, and not have to wade through the jagasses that just want a free hook up... | |
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| Why Is It That Guys Want Sex On The First Night?
Posted: 6/20/2009 11:08:52 PM | This is a "no brainer " question ! " I'll pose for the photo to see what I am " ,then you Questioned the people's responce. Most of the ladies out there at least show the " same
" photo's as I do . But you complain about the responces... get real! You can tell your responces to get lost ! And you can also get differant photo's to post. I can't understand how you can't " understanding " that any male wouldn't like to do you "! It's a part of nature to seek out " a pretty lady " ! | |
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| Why Is It That Guys Want Sex On The First Night?
Posted: 6/20/2009 11:24:16 PM | It's not just men that want sex on the first date...something to really think about before asking such a question.... MAYBE, they are conditioned to think this way because of the women that put out or solicit themselves on the internet in such a manner that men think they can assume this with everyone. MAYBE it's the way you come across. MAYBE its just a man's way of getting to know his potential partner better. NOT all men think this way or want sex on the first date...and not all men want just sex.
If you want to understand why, you must first realize that men are not women and don't think in the same mannor, nor will they ever. Understanding what sex means to men is your first step in answering your question.
If you don't like the questions or suggestions of having sex on the first date....don't go out on the date. | |
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| Why Is It That Guys Want Sex On The First Night?
Posted: 6/21/2009 12:04:13 AM | | Well yeah true most men does want sex at first time meeting or second but some men don't because they have a kind heart.I believe after you are in love and is together with your specail person than that's when sex gets involved.I don't let any man do that to me unless we both fall in love than that is different :0) | |
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| Why Is It That Guys Want Sex On The First Night?
Posted: 6/21/2009 1:24:47 AM | ^^^^^^^
Just because a man wants to have sex on the first date doesn't mean his heart isn't kind. If two people establish some sort of connection or relationship before meeting, sex might be very acceptable to both on the actual first date. | |
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