| Married Men on POF
Posted: 11/1/2009 3:04:46 PM | | those are the men that also lead you to believe they are single even if you meet them in person somewhere outside of the online dating arena....what I don't like is Plenty of Fish - the dating site - allowing married people to post! Maybe there is a way to get this option unavailable..... | |
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| Married Men on POF
Posted: 11/1/2009 3:23:08 PM | | They just want a little somethin..somethin on the side...or..their swingers...why get p***d off...just move on to the next one... NEXT... | |
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| Married Men on POF
Posted: 11/1/2009 6:50:16 PM | U didn't know??? Married men are the "in" thing now They get more SEX from other women (many who KNOW he is married) than their WIVES!! I guess that's why so many of them flood this site (according to the ladies)
If married men are getting all the play......then that mean 1) single fellas, WE need to step our game up or 2) Women have lost all moral compass and don'tCARE what type of man she "dates" or "sex"!!
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| Married Men on POF
Posted: 11/1/2009 7:58:23 PM | Some people don't have a landline phone, only mobile. In my situation, I have been divorced since Jan 1996. I work alot of hours between 2 jobs, but at least I will make time on the weekends.
That is more than I can say for guys I meet on this site. It adds up, but I just can't prove it. I call a guuy, he seldom answers his cell. Dates are only few hours on a Sat if I'm lucky. Calls to cancel or doesn't show.
Says he likes me, but actions speak louder than words. I think he's married posing as divorced. | |
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| Married Men on POF
Posted: 11/2/2009 5:11:38 AM | | You mean that I could get married and then still come on POF to get my messages ignored? Who knew? | |
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| Married Men on POF
Posted: 11/2/2009 4:59:15 PM | | i think that the site should take more responsibility for some of the outrageous stuff that goes on here. you should be able to list the person's name and info on the site if they are married . the moderator should then remove the "cheater" of this site as well as offensive jokers. | |
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| Married Men on POF
Posted: 11/2/2009 8:33:29 PM | | uh...op...uh...the lying to you about their marital status is the least of the probs! the status itself is the bigger prob ... and i mean, their willingness to break their vows ... once people cross that line, it's a lot easier with the next person! i'm sure they convince themselves it's situational & it'll never happen again, but once that taboo is crossed.............................................. | |
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| Married Men on POF
Posted: 11/3/2009 8:34:14 AM |
what I don't like is Plenty of Fish - the dating site - allowing married people to post!
Yes...God forbid those awful married people are allowed to express opinion!
I think most of us have a sensor for these kind of things, an uneasy feeling...if something feels funny, it usually is...learn to trust and be conscious of these feelings...and act accordingly... | |
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| Married Men on POF
Posted: 11/3/2009 4:57:23 PM | | separated is married,you are right.but in some cases,some of us have been separated for quite some time.for example,me.i have been separated for over two years an have not dated in two years.it's just that some of us never made it legal because we have just been trying to get over our break .occupying ourselves with work an whatever we cane so we can get ourselves together.hope my input was worth something.oh yeah,one more thing.not all men are dogs. | |
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| Married Men on POF
Posted: 11/3/2009 6:35:33 PM | why would a person be or how could a person be separated for 2 years and not get a divorce as cheap as divorces are in this day an age. and, do you expect any woman with half a brain to believe a man has been separated 2 years much less one month and have not dated or intimate with a woman unless with himself? you still don't need to be on this site misleading innocent women. thankyou
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| Married Men on POF
Posted: 11/3/2009 7:55:08 PM | I am married.
I am on POF.
I am honest about my intentions (to cause disruption in the forums).
I am NOT a man though.
^^BG^^ | |
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| Married Men on POF
Posted: 11/3/2009 9:35:25 PM |
you still don't need to be on this site misleading innocent women. thankyou
Joels profile indicates he is separated. So how is he misrepresenting innocent women? You read his profile and if you don't like the fact that he is separated then you move on. Women who don't have an issue with his status can make further inquiries.
Since when do you make decisions for all women? | |
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| Married Men on POF
Posted: 11/3/2009 10:09:16 PM | ]quote]you still don't need to be on this site misleading innocent women. thankyou
Very true and it is these men and women that end up creating trust issues for other honest men and women. | |
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| Married Men on POF
Posted: 11/3/2009 10:21:45 PM | theres plenty of married women lurking here as well...
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| Married Men on POF
Posted: 11/4/2009 12:22:25 AM |
scoobiedo wrote:You mean that I could get married and then still come on POF to get my messages ignored? Who knew?
 That was funny!!!!
Although I doubt you aren't getting noticed here on POF
~Beth~ | |
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| Married Men on POF
Posted: 11/6/2009 5:24:50 AM | | Some of us married men have a valid reason to be searching in we are planning on seeking a separation & divorce, due to trying for many years to make the marriage work. I have been trying significantly hard to restore the relationship, but I've been at the end of my rope over and over at some point I want to move on and start a new marriage with someone else, so looking for someone to help me through. I"ve never cheated on my wife and have more determination than most men to make the relationship work, and I think a woman would value these qualities in someone. I would carry on my qualities into my next relationship, so just talk to the quy before you just think everyone who is married is plain out to cheat. | |
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| Married Men on POF
Posted: 11/6/2009 8:01:29 AM | ^^^Its' one thing to seek social support - but if you're married, yet to be separated and planning on divorce why would you already be looking for the next woman? You need someone to get you through? What does that mean?
Good Lord people, close one book before you open another one. It's not fair to drag some new person through the wreck of your old crap. | |
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| Married Men on POF
Posted: 11/6/2009 8:37:21 AM |
That's exactly my situation. I've called girls from my home number... and at a later time they called me back at that number thinking it was my cell, and they get surprised when my Ex answered.
I get the impression that at least some of the people I've conversed with can't get their head around that my Ex is my Ex and that she'd be okay with me dating others even though the divorce isn't final.
I feel that a person should get their life together, not be living with their WIFE, get the divorce, get a place to live without a WIFE, before trying to date. It's easy to get a divorce, it's not that expensive, it's well worth it, just do it.
I'd never, ever, ever date a guy who was 'separated' (pfft) and living with his wife still. I don't care if it's for insurance, because of money, what have you. Get your sh*t together, completely sever the other relationship before trying to start a new relationship.
Oh, and for the 'looking for a woman to help you through' guy - get a life. Women aren't responsible for getting your life back together, making sure you're fed, laid, and happy. Get your act together. Pathetic.
Ugh...otherwise, it's just ...gross. | |
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| Married Men on POF
Posted: 11/6/2009 9:55:13 AM |
I feel that a person should get their life together, not be living with their WIFE, get the divorce, get a place to live without a WIFE, before trying to date.
I'd never, ever, ever date a guy who was 'separated' (pfft) and living with his wife still. I don't care if it's for insurance, because of money, what have you. Get your sh*t together, completely sever the other relationship before trying to start a new relationship.
Oh, and for the 'looking for a woman to help you through' guy - get a life. Women aren't responsible for getting your life back together, making sure you're fed, laid, and happy.
Agree.
Agree.
Agree. | |
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| Married Men on POF
Posted: 11/6/2009 1:44:17 PM | or is it that a woman who finds out a guy is married is getting enough at home and she doesn't like the idea of him getting more that his fair share? | |
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| Married Men on POF
Posted: 11/6/2009 2:16:51 PM | Its the good looking rich married men who stop the rest of us getting dates !
Of course its completely wrong to all parties involved if the man is married.
He is cheating on his wife and the person he is dating. | |
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| Married Men on POF
Posted: 11/6/2009 8:33:17 PM | | I totally agree that completely wrong and absurd and they are lying and cheating and lack integrity.... It is of course not right to misrepresent yourself! | |
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| Married Men on POF
Posted: 11/6/2009 10:02:16 PM | I am Married ..and tell everyone ...a few years ago I was divorced ..I found POF and the forums ... me and my ex got back together...but I enjoyed the forums ...heck the forums is part of the reason I decided to give it another try .. my wife knows and reads /approves of my posting in the forums ... so whats the problem ... Im not dating ..or cheating or trying too ...however Marcus ..the big fish ...allows us married people on here ...so if you dont like it ...Im sure he will give your money back ...oh wait this is a free site ...anyway Im still sure if you dont like his rules he will still give you a full refund
I just posted this morning in the lying thread about seeing a guy I recognize from POF at the gym last night. In his profile he says he's divorced, but he sure was wearing a wedding band when I saw him last night.
some divorced /men still wear their wedding band ......and many many widowed men continue to wear their wedding band ...even after they are ready to date again ....I know one guy who is widowed and remarried ..he wears two wedding bans with the blessing of his wife ... just in remembrance of his first wife ...his new wife also widowed was his first wifes best friend | |
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