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| Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS
Posted: 6/20/2009 2:36:52 AM | I think you jumped the gun a little. If this man did want a relationship with you, I would imagine after seeing this behaviour he probably won't anymore. I do think it would have been wise to wait at least a day or two before flailing the man alive for not calling.
File it and move on I guess, he got laid, you got laid...end of story.
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| Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS
Posted: 6/20/2009 9:51:31 AM | | We have a saying amougn men "Hate to hear a grown man cry" Stop cry over what is not just put a little more thought into what you want at that momet. I have never meet a bad peice of ass but some a hell of a lot better then other. Check your gear lube baby, maybe the motion was not thier. | |
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| Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS
Posted: 6/20/2009 10:07:48 AM | well, we definately could have used more sleep for the next day 69er. and i am not waiting for a man to call me after he gets off the tele with another woman. i am not desperate.
I like to BE TREATED WITH RESPECT and as if just """""MAYBE"""""" he might care about me......................not be running around dating different women.
I don't bed hop and i expect the same of anybody who wants the quality of the beginning of building something special with me. not a man who sabatoges the foundation of the house that we could have built as stable. I, myself, don't need cracks in my foundations of my relationships honey!!!!   | |
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| Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS
Posted: 6/20/2009 10:25:31 AM | The time line in the OP is very confusing. It seems you had a one night stand. If you hadn't pushed him away , you might have gotten a two night stand or a few more nights stand out of it all. | |
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| Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS
Posted: 6/20/2009 10:32:50 AM | carolann stop character assasin on me because i am alot better looking then you. you have been attacking me for a year now. i am sick of it
This post is not about looks, its about behavior. You have been complaining for a year about liars, cheats and men that use and abuse you. Your tales of the 2 Exes are memorable to all of us, because the venom you spew in almost every post you write says to us you need therapy a lot more than a new man in your life. A man will not stop or fix your problems, and your profile is screaming for a white knight.
I hate seeing an adult with children who claims to want stability and love going out of her way to ensure the complete opposite happens every time. You reap what you sow.
No one here is jealous of you, trust me. | |
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| Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS
Posted: 6/20/2009 11:21:38 AM | You got played...so what? Judging from your responses you got what you deserved.
And you are not so hot so check yourself before you attack other women's looks. You are probably only good for a one night stand. | |
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| Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS
Posted: 6/20/2009 11:48:07 AM | Your profile is a case study in self-esteem/self-worth issues, as well as delusional. Your "demands" for a new relationship are irrational, as well as unrealistic. You really do not need to be on here. You're looking for insta-husband/insta-father right out of the gate....and with one (two?) special needs child/children, that's asking ALOT from anyone. Even a knight in shining armor. YOU made the choice to sleep with him...your fault, not his. YOU had unrealistic expectations about how he should act. Did you ever stop to think that maybe the guy made a friend or two on POF (, and had just logged in to answer an email or two? Nah, not possible in your world, huh? Maybe he did care about you, but your scary stalkerish behavior, and snap judgements, made him run for the hills. Looking at it in that light, can you really blame him? And, seeing as this same thing has happened to you multiple times, you should really start looking within for the problem.
The definition of Insanity: Doing the same thing over and over, and expecting a different result. LOL
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| Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS
Posted: 6/20/2009 12:55:36 PM | SQR He isn't a forum person like us and isn't looking to make friends. he is looking only romantically. Anbody that he talks to is a sexual attraction. We have talked about this. I really got to know him very well. I invested alot of time and energy into him and cared alot.
Now, who doesn't agree that it it nice to talk with the person that you have been intimate the day after the evening that you spent together? Who wouldn't feel hurt if a man called and said i am taking a nap i will call you soon that day"the next day" . I happen to go online and i see his picture and it says online now. I know the time that he goes to sleep. I have known him for months. I know that he has blown me off.
ok scenario: talking to this man that i like alot for months ****************every day
family, children, divorce, work, friends, kids, house, our histories, everything personal
we get intimate
we were intimate all night long************
the next day he tells me that he will call me later
does not call
goes on POF to check out new BOOTY
now does anybody have an opinion???? PLS
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| Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS
Posted: 6/20/2009 3:07:52 PM | | I rest my case....you have no idea if he was looking at/talking to anyone else. You assumed, and then scared him with your psycho behavior. You've "known" him for months, yet you "know" nothing. No one should ever expect their mate to adhere to a specific set of rules that the other has made up in their head.....especially those as extensive and baggage-based as those stated in your profile. | |
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| Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS
Posted: 6/20/2009 4:41:27 PM |
hey forum junkie, i read your profile, no kids, doesn't want any, doesn't want anybody in your life and you are only on POF to be in the forums. MY GOD WOMAN GET A LIFE!!!!!
LMAO! You don't like what a person has to say and so you find ways to attack them. And you are how old? I stand by what I said. You got what you deserved.
And you are not so hot so check yourself before you attack other women's looks. You are probably only good for a one night stand.
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| Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS
Posted: 6/20/2009 6:04:34 PM | Well yes its inconsiderate imo. When i say im going to do something, i do it. But im different than most people.
My opinion:
I would suggest more face to face meetings before getting intimate with people. Chatting and talking over phone/net etc, doesnt realy count. People can do that with little to no effort. They dont have to shower, spend money, get dressed up etc.
Face to face meetings/dates takes more effort. If they are always excited to get together, without the intimacy, then its a good chance they are into you. (no pun intended) | |
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| Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS
Posted: 6/20/2009 6:12:45 PM | Well at the end of the day I guess if he was a man who only wanted a one nighter, lied and feigned extra interest to get it then you are better off without him anyway......good riddance to bad rubbish I reckon.
Personally I think your insecurity and tanty throwing probably scared him away as it would most men. Live and learn, pick yourself up, dust yourself off and muster all your self respect and walk away would be my advice. Many men who do not use the forums still read them and I dont think reading your posts on here is going to help you in the future. Attacking people for their opinions is not real attractive and especially attacking another poster over her looks compared to yours, just makes you look bitter and jaded.
Cop it on the chin and move on to better things I reckon. Good luck.
Ohh...and if you are going to attack another womans looks, you are meant to pick one plainer then you not far more attractive...just a hint. | |
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Posted: 6/20/2009 7:29:24 PM | | I'm in the camp of those who think you should probably fix up your profile a bit to at least sound happy. It sounds like someone who was spurned and angry, something that most guys do their damndest to steer clear from. | |
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| Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS
Posted: 6/20/2009 8:35:28 PM | Did it ever occur to you, OP, that maybe the guy was charging his phone or wasn't in a place where he could talk to you at that one moment in time?
I think you jumped the gun a little in reaming him out over not calling you that instant. If it were a couple of days, then sure, you could feel a little pissy.
It's probably all for the best anyway. You display highly neurotic tendencies and sound incredibly high maintenance. I'd kill your existing profile and retool it. Your profile just comes across as a PITA. | |
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| Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS
Posted: 6/20/2009 9:14:31 PM | emerald hot mess is a friend of mine so you can perceive what she said as negative but she sent me an e-mail also. the comment was NOT negative i was not assumeing any phone thing sq whoever-deal with your own issues. forum person you are ugly inside and out. what i want in my relationship is my business-not somebody elses. i am on over 300 favorite lists and i don't "put out" so ridiculious eewwwweeeeeeeeee | |
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| Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS
Posted: 6/20/2009 10:07:00 PM | i spent at least an hour on the phone every night. we talked bout everything under the sun.
family, kids, marriage, divorce, relationships, work ....likes&dislikes......i am talking everything. Now I have a special needs son. I get to know a man over the phone to see if there is a connection.
After talking a few months, I have a pretty good idea. We have sent family pics back and forth so we know what we look like. the foundation is set. Trust is established.
i don't expect anybody to be direspectful or hurtful like that.
behaviour like that is just NOT normal to me!!!!! it is destructive and cruel.
i am just baffled and at a total loss for any understanding that this man is even part of humanity. He acted as an animal. Maybe he belongs with the billygoats. | |
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| Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS
Posted: 6/20/2009 10:19:22 PM | | This is for everybody "BASHING ATONMENT". Why are some of you trying to tell HER to grow up when All she did on her profile was put it out there as to what she was looking for.OK ,now she been involved with this guy,and i have talked to her on the phone.When a guy tells a woman he's going to call HE SHOULD DO IT! That,s CALLED RESPECT which is what society nowdays is LACKING! Dont say you are going to call and DONT. She cares about the guy and thought they were on the right track so She has a right to be PISSED...You Dont treat a woman like that,they handle things differantly then MEN DO. I think she,s an OK LADY,she knows what she wants and she,s not afraid to SPEAK HER MIND!........ | |
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| Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS
Posted: 6/20/2009 10:23:42 PM | He may have called you back after he checked his emails
He may have called you back after he went to the bathroom
He may have called you back after he made something to eat
He may have called you back after he inhaled/exhaled for half an hour
Now he definitely ain't calling you .....
40 going on 19 just isn't attractive ...... | |
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| Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS
Posted: 6/21/2009 8:43:33 AM | Well, umm you say in your last post that you don't "put out" but 1st post you said you did...
You showed this guy your true desperation by not even giving him a chance to call you before you reemed him out for not calling when you deemed he should... | |
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| Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS
Posted: 6/21/2009 10:56:08 AM | *ok scenario: talking to this man that i like alot for months ****************every day
family, children, divorce, work, friends, kids, house, our histories, everything personal*
I'm a pretty open person about who I am. I talk to a lot of people about the important things in my life but I don't sleep with them because I've talked to them. And an *OK scenario* isn't enough. You should be aiming for A+++++.
OP, people can play you. Some of them know just what to say in order to get you where they want you. You are vulnerable (your profile says it all!) and the "players" know you will be putty in their hands.
That is MY opinon because you asked for it.
SARL | |
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