| Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS
Posted: 6/23/2009 10:22:41 PM |
was together with this man last night. He stayed over. We talk every day for at least an hour . He called me that afternoon and told me how tired he is and is going to take a nap. When he wakes up he will call me . When he woke up he checked his POF mail. Never called me.
OMG are you serious??? maybe he was tired- who cares if he checkd his POF account?? It has only been one night!!! If i understand this right??? The only reason you would be freaking like this is if you banged him! If that is the case, then you dont know how to control a situation....You need to make him work for it!
If you didnt bang him - then you are probably a psyco controlling girl that needs a man to show complete interest in you and gets pissed at a dime over one missed phone call.....
I am sure at some point you have been on the other side of this- and that is why it bothers you so much. You aren't in high school anymore! And men will be men.. | |
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| Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS
Posted: 6/23/2009 10:35:45 PM | Until you are in a committed relationship, and both of you agree on the parameters of the relationship then he's really done nothing wrong. He probably just checked his POF Mail before he went to lay down. I know a lot of times before I go to bed or take a nap i'll check email etc and then go lay down. No offence intented but it's no wonder that you aren't in a relationship...
A) You are sending all the wrong signals
B) You are expecting a relationship before it even happens
C) You are overreacting to small details
Chill out, and let things happen and if they don't no reason to agonize over it. Life is too short. | |
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| Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS
Posted: 6/24/2009 1:05:46 AM | Are you for real? Other posters is she the real deal or is this made up to entertain us???
Let the guy have some time my God. Is he punching a timeclock with you? Chill out woman! He has other things in life besides you. Why dont you? I wouldn't talk to you either after that nonsense. What you did was creepy. I had an ex get all snoopy the way you did and I couldnt stand him after that.
This is your fault not his. Take some responsibility for what you do with your body. I think you should wait to see if your emotional investment and the man you're with is at the same level before you hop into bed together. You got used this time but it doesnt have to happen again.
Also your verbal profile is a major turnoff. You start off talking about the last LOSER you got rid of. You say you're happy he's gone but you're bitter and it shows through your words. How about you not mention anything about him or any of the others in your profile. That would be the first place I would begin. | |
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| Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS
Posted: 6/24/2009 4:25:11 AM | I DID call!!! your mother answered and said you were sitting on the toilet and you had a bad dose of the sh!ts and that you,d call me back later!! dont blame me!! Oh and by the way i dont keep rabbits so forget about that big pot of boiling water!!!! | |
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| Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS
Posted: 6/24/2009 7:52:33 AM | Did u have sex ?? u shouldnt give it out untill u think u are entering a relationship you can usually tell after 4 or more dates .
They is 2 many men on here that take advantage off girls & u should always b careful . | |
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| Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS
Posted: 6/24/2009 8:00:01 AM |
He got what he wanted from you didnt he, so why would he call you
I think he might have called if she had given him a chance to breathe and hadn't freaked out on him first. I'm not sure it's fair to say he got what he wanted (ie Sex) and had no intention of calling again. In any case, I think that dude is incredibly lucky to escape her neurotic clutches. I really hope that she seeks therapy as her behaviour is truly frightening! | |
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| Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS
Posted: 6/24/2009 8:54:20 AM | Wow, OP is one messed up woman... Sorry kiddo, that is the god's honest truth. Your profile is about the worst I have ever seen and your rants are pretty subpar. You should seek out some help, seriously. Dating you would be like dating a starved pit bull - sure they will be effectionate while you toss them some tidbits, but turn your back for one second and *WHAM* you are going to get blindsided and eaten alive!
One other aspect I find ammusing, and I have run into this in a previous relationship... You seem to feel its wrong for this guy to be checking his email on POF. What were YOU doing on POF?!?! Is it at all possible that he saw YOU online and said to himself -"Cripes, I just slept with this woman last night! And now here she is ONLINE! This woman is a player and user!" and decided not to call back, thinking he had been used?!?!? Seriously, OP did you ever give that possibility some thought?
Stalking is stallking, plain and simple. If you are "checking" on him, you are stalking him. Give it and yourself a rest. THINK about where you are and where you want to be. How do you want to be treated? Are you prepared to treat someone else the same way? What would you think of a guy you dated that was checking on you constantly? Doesnt that seem a little desperate and clingy to you? Wow, you may be that one in a million that finds that attractive... Yikes!
Bouncing right along... | |
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| Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS
Posted: 6/24/2009 11:02:44 AM | I'm sorry but he's just not that into you. Big question though ! : Did you sleep with him? If you did, you killed the mystery but the bright side is that you weeded out losers who lie to you just to get laid. If you did not sleep with him, he probably expected you to and decided you're not worth the time if he can find someone else on line. Sorry, hun, this is the way it is in POF land.
PS...."I'll call you after I take a nap" is a BIG FAT LIE AND THE OLDEST EXCUSE IN THE BOOK ! If he were into you, he would take that nap wtih his little ol' head in your lap. Get it? | |
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| Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS
Posted: 6/25/2009 9:11:57 PM | WOW, 1st how did you know he checked his message? From a female point of view it seems a little desperate.
How about this maybe he was going to call you but you didn't allow him time to get back with you people have lives they live just because he checked is message didn't mean he wasn't going to call. Perhaps he was looking for a love note from you.
I am not sure and I have to agree with the guys if you were intimate with him on your first physical date you had to know that a call was not going to be forthcoming. I mean seriously mean love the chase and if it is easy for them then there rational is that it is easy for the next guy.
Take a deep breath send him a note apologizing about your behavior and wish him luck with his dating.
Then move on perhaps rent the movie He's just not that into you... HOpe I didn't come off as a witch just keeping it real.
Good luck! Pace yourself the next guy and reserve the intimatcy for that special person every man is not special. Be patient and wait you will know
one love
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| Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS
Posted: 6/26/2009 9:04:26 AM | Are you for real..???
You look like a drag queen.....you sound like a complete slut........you put your ass out there for anyone to screw......half the world has probably been there ......
AND THEN.........
you complain he dont call you back.......man he probably didnt go home to take a nap.....he probably got sucked inside the cavern he screwed and never came out.......
try phone the police his wife has put in a missing persons report.........
YOU ARE A COMPLETE AND UTTER FOOL..
but you make my profile look sweet and innocent cos at least i know what i want and I know I will find it unlike yourself | |
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| Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS
Posted: 6/26/2009 10:45:57 AM | | apparently that guy doesnt realize what he is missing. so , quite plainly, **** him. every woman is entitled to dream about the man perfect for them. if some slouch is just on here prowling for sex or playing the liars role, well then, im sure karma has a special gift for him. and from talking with you, i believe you are a fine outstanding young woman who is just one of the very few hopeless romantics left. i hope you do find what your looking for without having tomend your heart anymore. | |
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| Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS
Posted: 6/26/2009 1:01:03 PM | No one has to be waiting by the phone to not pick up on something like what the OP is describing. Some men claim that women don't take the initiative to call and leave a message during the day and some complain that the woman is a stalker and calls 50x a day to harrass and forcing the person on the other end to tell them in each of those 50 calls that they are not cheating, talking to other girls, yada, yada, yada.
Extremely annoying to a woman when she takes time to call a man and he never returns the call. Do it once, no big deal. Do it twice, I let you know that it annoys me. You don't have to call right away or at all for that matter because business may keep you tied up. But if you can't return a simple phone call but the first thing you do is get on to this site, you have an issue with interest-----your interest in her. The worst thing you can tell a person that called you on this issue is that you got on to see if she was online.
For me, not a problem. Not saying it wouldn't hurt because those things can bring a person's spirit down somewhat. But if you want to play around with the other people on pof, then you can go right ahead. No one here to stop you. | |
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| Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS
Posted: 6/26/2009 1:25:37 PM |
apparently that guy doesnt realize what he is missing. so , quite plainly, **** him. every woman is entitled to dream about the man perfect for them. if some slouch is just on here prowling for sex or playing the liars role, well then, im sure karma has a special gift for him. and from talking with you, i believe you are a fine outstanding young woman who is just one of the very few hopeless romantics left. i hope you do find what your looking for without having tomend your heart anymore.
WTF?
See, it just proves that there really is someone for everyone!!!  | |
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| Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS
Posted: 6/26/2009 4:13:04 PM | | Lose his number faster then you can flush it. And don't take or return his calls. He is very inconsiderate and doesn't deserve you anyway. If he's like the one that I was seeing, (he did that too), he will be calling, but it will probably be in a few weeks when he needs alittle, so tell him no and send him packing. There has got to be good men out there somewhere, so time to find them. | |
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| Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS
Posted: 6/28/2009 10:34:08 AM |
apparently that guy doesnt realize what he is missing. so , quite plainly, **** him. every woman is entitled to dream about the man perfect for them. if some slouch is just on here prowling for sex or playing the liars role, well then, im sure karma has a special gift for him. and from talking with you, i believe you are a fine outstanding young woman who is just one of the very few hopeless romantics left. i hope you do find what your looking for without having tomend your heart anymore.
Shoot lover618 are you the dude in question? you live in her neighborhood... | |
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| Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS
Posted: 6/29/2009 7:31:23 AM | | Come lady...If you open up the wrong part of u??????This is u will get its that simple......If you say aagggggghhhhhh with any part of your body so soon this is what u get.................. Its that simple............ He is not stupid he is smart and Horny.............. He new what he was doing.................... And i think a part of you did too........ One week and u sleep with him..........Im sorry but thats u get its that simple......... | |
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| Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS
Posted: 6/29/2009 8:32:45 AM | I don't know how much editing you have done to your profile since this thread started, but you have been told a repeatedly that you are never going to be taken seriously by any man (I don't CARE what you WRITE in your profile) until you get rid of the slutty pictures. It looks like you removed some of them, but I don't know if they were there before.
You used to have one of you sitting on your bed dressed like Fredricks of Hollywood with some kind of creepy caption like "mommy needs a daddy," and you think nice men who are looking for longterm are going to take someone seriously who looks frankly like a hooker for all the world to see? No, you are going to attract the kind of men who buy hookers with that kind of profile.
I am glad you removed some of it, hopefully you'll have better luck in the future. | |
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| Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS
Posted: 6/30/2009 7:56:06 AM | sigh* thats why its not a good idea to sleep with someone until you know them REAL good. Sometimes women and men get so caught up in the physical that they forget theres a lot more that goes along with it.
I take my time with women. I get to know them first before I ever touch them. Because I myself dont want to be accused of using somebody. Therefore... if someone contacts me and we meet and she just wants to jump in the sack right off the bat... hell no... thats not for me.. im not a bootycall. But I guess im strange in the fact. I dont think sex is all that important. I dont get intimate untill IM ready to. all the seduction in the WORLD dont work until IM ready.
You gotta look PAST the outside... the eyes are the windows to the soul... and if you look into the person your intrested in.. in their eyes.. and you dont like what you see in there... its best to avoid intimacy until your sure of your situation. And that hun.. puts an END to all that kinda mess. And saves both people alot and i do mean ALOT of drama and hurt feelings.
But then again i am alot diffrent from alot of people. I hope your search for the right person ends to be a good thing and you find what your looking for. Dont give up. Theres good folks out there... just gotta be patient and filter the good ones out from the bad ones.
Hugs
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