| Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS
Posted: 7/17/2009 10:00:44 PM | No--I don't think it works that way, at least all the time for all people.
He may be into you but he's giving you and himself some breathing room. One thing women nowadays don't want is a clingy man! | |
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| Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS
Posted: 7/18/2009 12:32:01 AM | OP, this is one of my pet peeves as well. Perhaps it's because i'm former military, but if i say i'm going to do somehing, G-Dammit, i'm gonna follow up with it.
for some reason, with civilians especially, people think it's okay to be late or to not call when they say they will call. they think they have a right to just tell lies and not living up to their words or not have any standards at all.
I'm not a rich man, but, like in the movie "Scarface"-->"all i have in this world are my balls and my words, and i break them for no one."
my condolences. | |
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| Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS
Posted: 7/18/2009 8:20:13 AM | Agreed -- if he told you he was going to call at a certain time then doesn't -- its disrespectful.
Showing up for a date when you say you will or calling someone when you say you will is vital. | |
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| Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS
Posted: 8/25/2009 8:18:39 PM | I wouldn't place too much emphasis on whether a person checks their mail or not but doesn't call me.
As boring as it seems I log on to POF (as well as a social networking site, a gaming site, and my email account) about 3 times a day in a fairly predictable way: in the morning when I'm having my coffee, at some point during the day, and late nites just to put me to sleep.
I'll answer mail but have no intention of phoning anyone while doing so coz it defeats the whole purpose of gearing up/winding down. | |
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| Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS
Posted: 8/27/2009 8:49:56 AM | Oh my God! Your profile is .....I can't even find the right words. Very hateful, scary, you sound like a mental case. Seriously, maybe you should go see a doctor.
If a guy gets bend out of shape over a phone call he didn'g get from me than I would most likely not communicate with him anymore. You can't expect someone to drop everything they have going on in their lifes to tend to your needs. | |
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| Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS
Posted: 8/28/2009 9:08:43 PM | | I cannot have empathy for you, you are a crazy person! I agree with the posts that say your profile is nutty,scary, crazy...but of course, people that are this way, rarely realize it.Get some help, and to the guys that like this one...good luck! You'll need it! Also, Why knock the people that are sane and trying to give you good advice?In my mind it just makes you look more....clueless. | |
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| Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS
Posted: 8/29/2009 12:27:43 PM | At your age I'm really shocked that you don't get this; he wanted sex.
I still don't get why women will believe every syllable out of a mans' mouth but literally is clueless when it comes to their actions.
His words say:
"I really dont want anything serious, and I'm turned off by you being so jealous. This is getting uncomfortable for me?
His actions say:
Slept with another girl last night, got what I wanted, now what can I say to manipulate her into being the bad guy so I can have an out and still look half way decent. If I can manipulate her more, I will sleep with her on occasion like I do to other girls.
No offense; you seem nice but Stevie Wonder could see this on a moonless night, in a white out blizzard and the electricity is off.
This guy is a dog; pick a better guy, or tell him friends with benefits is ok with you too. | |
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| Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS
Posted: 8/30/2009 10:09:14 AM |
Oh my God! Your profile is .....I can't even find the right words. Very hateful, scary, you sound like a mental case. Seriously, maybe you should go see a doctor.
If a guy gets bend out of shape over a phone call he didn'g get from me than I would most likely not communicate with him anymore. You can't expect someone to drop everything they have going on in their lifes to tend to your needs.
Totally agree!
The OP's profile is so typical of some of the angry women on this site (I'm sure some men are just as bad!) and her immature thread here (and her responses), is further evidence.
No wonder the guy in question "doesn't want to jump into a relationship" with her! He got what he wanted and it's not even worth going back for "seconds"! | |
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| Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS
Posted: 8/31/2009 3:44:22 AM | All this business about if he calls or not, if he says he will call and doesn't,
I really couldn't care less if anyone calls me or not unless I'm in love.
I wouldn't even think about it at all.
Are you in love with him? If not why do you care? | |
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| Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS
Posted: 8/31/2009 7:30:54 AM | OP HERE~~Been Busy with diapers and not the as swhole who scre w ed me over
a grown man who has shared his whole life story with me
has an 8 yr old son
is divorced
was on the phone with me for at least 2 hours every day for about 2 months as i was getting to know him
a GROWN woman would not believe that a man that has shared custody would waste all of this time for a conquest and a booty call
but~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~i nailed him l@@king for pu$$y at the time that he calls me.
i go on pof and read forums
all he reads are pink lips between a poota's legs
for those who have judged me
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| Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS
Posted: 9/2/2009 11:45:40 AM | The only thing that was missing here was a chorus of " you picked a fine time to leave me lucille" and a chorus of " loser" by beck.
I've come to the conclusion after reading through the VivaciousVixen2009 responses you will laugh harder than reading a book of toilet jokes at a truck stop. You get the feeling by page 3 that it is a total joke, or something posted by a child of some inbreeding family in a trailer parked somewhere in rural Florida where they don't have running water or electricity cause "Mah daddy done told me and sayed fetch me some possums"
VivaciousVixen2009 you really have issues. I don't know what you can do about it in rural Florida , but I'd at least sit down and have a chat with Uncle Dad, ok? And you can discuss installing that indoor plumbing while you are at it
I really feel sorry for the guy, he must be half way out of the country by now, after reading your thread and rejoinders , Im surprised he hasn't made a beeline to the local therapist first before he bolted to the airport.
It's that hypnotizing' boogie
the hypnotizing boogie
Gimme such a thrill
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| Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS
Posted: 9/2/2009 12:01:01 PM | Vivaciousvixen2009:
all he reads are pink lips between a poota's legs
OK...can somebody tell me what a poota is?  (I don't think it has anything to do with Shakepeare)
EDIT: I looked it up in the URBAN DICTIONARY as Webster had no idea what it was and this is what I found:
a hor/whore/prostiitute/amber lemon Amber lemon??? You learn something new everyday.
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| Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS
Posted: 9/2/2009 12:52:22 PM | Ok I have to put my opinion here and I think this should help, Im not and not gonna read what everone else posted about this topic but this is my opinion from a diffrent kind of mans view and anything I have written (if you have read) Is not ur typical advice.
He called you everyday and you talked for a HR well this is typical when a man first meets a woman (Most men do not like the phone, Its usually for reasons of self lazyness or the fact it heats up when you ear is on it for a period of time. So he needed to Invest the Time you required of him to finally meet you.
You then stated he was with you and spent the night.
Most men do not feel a Unwritten contract with a woman if they just meet and have sex. I myself require some sort of commitment to the relationship before sexually enguaged. Might want to have some sort of communiction going about the subject matter before hand If you expect him to see you again.
he said he was tired and needed a nap, maybe you made him tired? you dint state the time frame in which you where aprt from one another or maybe was the 3 hr phone call hehe, Rember he said Blunt "He was Tired" but he did not say from what. He might trully have needed a nap and tried to sleep a bit and might have felt restless and checked his email. Now you watching him if he checks it is a WARNING FLAG, It shows you lack trust in him and then you told him to call you and beacuse he dint at the time you said "LOSE MY #" This is now 3 WARNING FLAGS you showed him 1-Lack of trust 2-watching what he is doing when not with you and 3-angry cause u dint get a call, Personally If this was me I wouldnt care if you where JESSICA ABELLA after that I would be so wondering WTF was running thru ur head! How do you know after your sexual encounter what was running thru his mind could it have been maybe you, and he went to check his email to see if maybe you sent him a note. And I have to say when you told him to lose the # well shit woman you told him ty for the lay now do what I say if you want more and because he dint comply soon enought with you, You then got angry and probbly thinking urself dam ***hole just did me and now he is checking for other women and this is a issue of insecurity with you self. So here the poor guy might have been thinking of you and you go and say this and act that way. WOW personally I would have never called you back for the simple fact you dint trust me and then almost stalked me and coudnt go a few hrs without me, We just meet rember where not lovers yet! This is why guys end up in the bar : the next time they go out and take home some drunk lay and be over with it,cause they both knew what it was from the start. that lil unwritten contract lol
Well I hope it sheds some light from a diffrent view. | |
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| Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS
Posted: 9/2/2009 3:28:40 PM | | this is the first post i have ever made, what i would like to say is that his behaviour was very poor however and i'm sure the majority of people will agree your behavior in the forum has made his behaviour look acceptable.You cannot change anyone except yourself.I'm sorry you got hurt. | |
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