| Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS
Posted: 9/2/2009 7:28:13 PM | | Let me say that although I did not "hear" your conversation with this person, I think you were both wrong. You should have gave him the benefit of the doubt and let him have some space. After so much one-on-one time perhaps he just needed some cooling off time. However if he did state he would call you that afternoon, then a text or email stating his reason for not phoning would have been appropriate. I will give you some advice though, tone your profile down a little. I mean are stilletos really an interest? Take off the suugestive photos and let the POF men see the real you. If you want respected by a man --- respect yourself first. | |
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| Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS
Posted: 9/3/2009 6:47:32 AM | all he reads are pink lips between a poota's legs
I believe Poota was the Greek Goddess of Flatulence
Omg, I'm dying laughing here.
Yes I do believe that may have been one of Shakespeare's lesser known works. 
To quote: "thou hast farted"
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| Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS
Posted: 9/3/2009 8:20:04 AM | | i guess im immature too. call me or dont call me. dont say you are going to call me and then not call me. its inconsiderate. its a matter of following through with what you say you are going to do. i dont think you are setting the bar too high on this one. i also want to be a priority. if im not, then im out. we have to be the ones to set the boundaries for ourselves and how we want to be treated. most guys are not likely to verbally let us know that they are not into us. they will clearly let us know with their actions. this guy showed you right away. | |
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| Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS
Posted: 9/4/2009 12:37:02 AM | One word: CLINGY!
Why are you so upset because he didn't call you right away when he got up?
I used to talk to someone all the time on the phone, over time I got tired of talking on the phone all the time. The heat next to my ear would bother me, and it gave me headaches..
Just get over it.. He'll call if he wants to, if he doesn't, it's not the end of the world.. Geeze. | |
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| Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS
Posted: 9/4/2009 1:33:44 PM | How the hell does this thread still have traction?
It's over. She's been gone and come back under a different username. If she were smart, she would concentrate on raising her children and forget about dating for a while. Clearly, her posts indicate she is not emotionally stable enough to pursue a relationship. | |
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| Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS
Posted: 9/5/2009 12:44:32 PM |
Yes, I was a casual fuchk by a player who wants a LONG TERM relationship
he even said that he cared
Just because a guy doesn't want a long-term relationship WITH YOU doesn't mean he doesn't want a long-term relationship.
Seriously, you're 40 years old. Start acting your age. Sometimes, a guy just doesn't want to talk to you. Doesn't mean he isn't still interested in you. Just means he wants a little time to himself. That you went ballistic on him because he didn't call you the very moment he woke up probably chased him away, leaving you thinking he was just using you when, just maybe, he really was interested in you until he discovered how clingy and needy you are.
total BS, any man knows that if he cared, he would have called
Any woman knows that, sometimes, the guy just doesn't want to talk right now and wants a little personal time.
No instead HE was looking for more a ss on POF
Until he promises you that you're his only one, you have no right to get mad at him because his options are still open. Heck, just because he was looking on PoF doesn't mean he was even seriously searching. When I was with my gf, I still prodded around PoF out of curiosity, and to post in the forums. Doesn't mean I was looking for someone else, because I wasn't. | |
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| Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS
Posted: 9/5/2009 12:58:16 PM |
I used to talk to someone all the time on the phone, over time I got tired of talking on the phone all the time. The heat next to my ear would bother me, and it gave me headaches..
Yeah, I know the feeling. My last gf and I talked on the phone close to an hour almost every day, but there were just some days that, well, I didn't want to talk to her. I recall one time she called me when she was on break from work and I ended up being rather terse. It wasn't because I didn't still love her or that I was planning on breaking up with her. I just... wasn't in the mood to talk.
These things happen. Only an immature child like the OP doesn't understand that. | |
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| Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS
Posted: 9/6/2009 10:29:02 AM | this is an old................>>>>>story with this man. he is a player. i have spoken to him since, he wants a bisexual dark spanish woman. he wants to be able to look..... he likes an open type of relationship. that aint my games babes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
he was gaming me.
so everybody, throw your theories out the window. the man has never opened a forum for the life of him. i had gotten to be very good friends with him and to know him very well. keep in mind, i had vested, quite a bit of my time and energy but whatever.
i am glad so many people were so derogatory. | |
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| Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS
Posted: 9/11/2009 7:28:17 AM | You sure were a casual piece of a$$! I tend to take people at their word and if you say you are going to call then I expect you to do it because if you don't in mo you are a liar and I don't like liars and will have nothing to do with one. He was wrong and he knew it and if he wasn't doing anything that he thought was wrong it wouldn't have bothered him in the first place.
How about when you and a guy sleep together, have some pretty good sex and he still calls you everynight for a week and then you call him for a legitimate reason and he gets pissed off and then nothing for days? One day he says it's ok if you call I don't care but 2 days later says it pissed me off that you called? OOps, sorry I musta messed up his game with the other woman he had a hot date with that night.
Keep fishing or do what I do, who cares there are plenty more out there and when the time is right we'll know it. | |
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| Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS
Posted: 9/14/2009 4:35:44 PM | Mahogany Rush, you always, always have the greatest posts!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You sure were a casual piece of a$$!
see message 165.
If you two talked all the time, and last night was your first night *together* overnight.. if you were intimate, and he didn't call you back.. well.. I guess he got what he wanted out of you, and you know what category he falls in.
I"m of the beliefe it's the last one if he 'chose' not to call you.. Sadly
see message 2
Unfortunately, there are people - men AND women out here that are that way. You put out, he got what he wanted, and took off. - Which of course, is the mark of a DOG!
But I DO concur along with a few other posters on here, that watching whether or not he is online is a bit "stalkerish" and/or clingy for lack of a better term.
You just have to take your lumps, go from there, and don't let it happen again. - Unless you want the "friends with benefits" type of relationship. Just goes to show that sleazy and easy is not very appealing.
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