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Posted: 7/3/2009 7:59:13 AM | | OMG!!! Lady you have too much time on your hands. If a lover admires you all over and gets choked up by a small discrepancy down there dump him. What will he say about after birth stretch marks. You deserve a partner who loves you for you. Please, put the mirror down. Don not dwell on something that you need not worry about. The average male wouldn't care. If you go for the "fix" it would only be a costly, painful way to please your self. I've never heard of a man bringing a measuring tape to bed for any other reason that to measure himself. | |
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Posted: 7/3/2009 8:21:16 AM | FYI everyone is lopsided... there is always one boob/labia/ball longer/shorter than the other. Never have I see a perfectly symmetrical human being - NEVER. So don't sweat that at all!
As for the large labia, I can relate and then some. I am a very small percentage of women who have very large labia - when stretched my left one is 3 inches long and the right is just over 2.5 inches. As a wee girl I was very nervous about this but not as an adult. The only time they were really an issue is when they'd get stuck and pulled in my panties - OUCH! and sometimes when I was riding my bike. The trick is just to tuck them in when not in use and it's all good. I've only had one "HOLY SH*T" remark and that was in a very good way, believe me!
It's interesting to note as well that when Hustler first came out with it's fully kitty shots that large-labia'd women were pretty much banned because they were deemed "too sexual". That is how the whole small, close to non-existent labias you see in porn came to be. Most women however fall somewhere in between - larger than porn actresses but smaller than say, mine.
It's almost a shame you know, I have this great awesomeness between my legs but it's not something one really shares when meeting people. Too bad, because if I could I'd tattoo it on my forehead. Ha. | |
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Posted: 7/3/2009 8:38:25 AM | I think you are worrying too much. We're all different. There is no cut mold on how a woman's vagina looks. If a man loves you, he will love your vagina!
Penises come in all shapes and sizes and lean in one direction or the other. If you are going to dump a man because one of his balls hangs lower than the other, you may as well just give up now! | |
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Posted: 7/3/2009 10:04:01 AM | | As long as you spruce it up with some cristmas decorations and tree lights, he wont notice a thing. say you lost the remote control in there, he will we rumagging around for hours. | |
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Posted: 7/5/2009 11:53:56 AM | Citygirl57,
Don't worry about what you have. As they say, the grass is alway greener...
My wife has small lips and she is always so uptight about it, as she knows that one of my past girlfriends had large lips and I love large lips. (They are so much fun to play with and suck and nibble!) but as I have reassured her many times, the lips don't make the whole package. Would I like her to have larger lips? Sure, but not enought to get her to do something silly like go under the knife. The girlfriend who had the large lips, that was one of her only good qualities. She was lousy at giving oral and she was messed up in the head, but the bottom line was that I wasn't in love with her and I am with my wife. Sure my wife doesn't have big lips, but she can suck start a Harley and is great in bed in all other ways (and she likes to eat pu$$y with me!) so I would never hold the size of her lips against her.
All in all, love what you've got and if the guys in your life make a fuss that they are too big, show them the door!
Bear
BTW, the old girlfriend that had the great lips, I don't know if I ever told her that she had great lips......or at least I don't know if I told her while my mouth wasn't sucking on them, at which time she was making too much noise of her own to have noticed! | |
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Posted: 7/29/2009 2:11:48 AM | CityGirl:
I like 'em, enjoy all the things that can be done with such great "toys" to make pleasure for everyone.
BUT: dated a gal in mid 30's or so that had 9-10 kids. The one before last got caught she told me and stretched 'em til they tore before the doc woke up and unhooked things. I have no clue what got caught in/on her lips, she didn't either.
BUT: after the last kid she had big problems and ended up with a hysterectomy.
While she had the guy carving on things, she had 'em trimmed up.
Sure, she looked great then too. But, her P never closed up after that. Until they were trimmed, her slit closed like all women's do, or supposed to unless being used/played with etc.
So, after seeing this same situation 3-5 times in my history. Unless you develope problems with them of some kind. Leave 'em alone.
good luck and be happy, don't sweat such things. | |
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Posted: 7/29/2009 2:25:37 AM | Oh FFS I have to worry about my small chest, if my cooch is tight enough, and now if my Pvssy lips are to long?
Crap now I am going to have to go look and see if they are, and if they are the same length and size...................BRB | |
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Posted: 7/29/2009 3:49:54 AM | Hmmmmmmm, kitties always seem to be very congenial, i don't think i can remember meeting up with a one that wasn't friendly, warm and ready to accomodate and make my visit any more than a great experience
Quite sure most men have very few concerns about female body parts when it comes to sex:
-is there a naked woman in the room? ...(check)
-is she calling my name?... (check) 
"OH HELL YEAH!!!"  | |
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Posted: 7/29/2009 4:38:45 AM |
I've only looked at what I have down there once.
Whoa!
What?
How is that possible and why do you avoid checking it out?
I think of mine as an Orchid.Original, beautiful and unique.
And it's far from Air Brushed perfect!
But then again,I don't have issues with Body Dysmorphic Disorder either.
If you focus on anything too much or too closely it becomes warped,but only in your mind..Vagina's have a function and they are made to serve many purposes and once you stop over analyzing the size of things and appreciate having one at all....your insecurities might fade with acceptance.
Seems to me,some men WISH they could crawl back inside of us and feel safe and warm again and all they get is the chance to please them from the outside! lol
I doubt most men sit and stare in disgust at us....and the one's who do...are probably latent homosexuals and what do they know about a good pvssy anyways?
OP---------Pvssies come in ALL shapes and sizes,and if you are insecure about
your lip size,I have to ask who are you comparing them to?
Have you seen "prettier" one's you'd rather have?
Do they not bring you pleasure as they are?
TOO many women don't love thier bodies as they are and that's a shame!
I love my pvssy.It brings me more pleasure than all the rest of my body combined and if a man takes issue with the looks of it....then he can go find one he likes better.
I don't take that kind of thing personally......nor should you.
EMBRACE what you have and don't worry about it!
Sh*t...I wish I had two of them myself......
Oh...and thanks for this site....very interesting!
I couldn't find the pictures though.
www.newviewcampaign.org.
TOO many women are going into Doctor's offices and having their vagina's mutilated in the name of "perfection".
Don't believe the HYPE!~
It's PERFECT as it is! | |
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Posted: 7/29/2009 6:13:49 AM | | I only had ONE guy compliment me down there. He went on in epic detail like he was in love, I wasn't sure if I was supposed to hand my crotch the phone and leave them to it lol. It was awkward, creepy and made me feel like I didn't have to be attached to my genitals, he would just buy my crotch dinner and flowers while my brain waited at home... Be careful what you wish for lol | |
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Posted: 7/29/2009 7:52:42 AM | | I actually really enjoy a moderate sized labia. It makes for great foreplay, a great visual. I simply enjoy the looks of a vagina with a little labia in the picture. That said gynecologists, cosmetic surgeons, and God knows who else offer a procedure called Labiaplasty. If you aren't comfortable with the way you look, this a way to change those looks. I give anesthesia for a living, and have been involved in a few of these procedures. Not sure if they were self pay or insurance paid. But if you are so inclined, and have the means, this issue is easily solved! | |
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Posted: 7/29/2009 7:59:47 AM |
But if you are so inclined, and have the means, this issue is easily solved!
What a crock, yeah, go ahead, get put under and have some DR cut away perfectly healthy and normal parts of your body because some morons have some pretty big issues with the female body, no big deal! Here is a thought, if they dont like your vagina and what it looks like, tell them to go **** themselves and move on to somebody who doesnt think that womens bodies are disgusting. This says way more about men than women as far as I am concerned.... | |
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Posted: 7/29/2009 8:17:41 AM | | OP: I doubt that a man thinks your "lips" are fugly. Look at it as your BUTTERFLY..........................surely you don't think "butterflies" are ugly? | |
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Posted: 7/29/2009 8:55:40 AM |
What a crock, yeah, go ahead, get put under and have some DR cut away perfectly healthy and normal parts of your body because some morons have some pretty big issues with the female body, no big deal! Here is a thought, if they dont like your vagina and what it looks like, tell them to go **** themselves and move on to somebody who doesnt think that womens bodies are disgusting.
If you read the original post, you would see that it's the OP with issues about her own self-image, not guys having issues with it. No one has said they think it's disgusting.
This says way more about men than women as far as I am concerned....
Your post says way more about your attitudes towards men. | |
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Posted: 7/29/2009 9:10:44 AM | How does that say anything about a man vs. a woman?
He was just observing what he has seen. The fact that a woman is so self conscious to have it altered, tells me just the opposite. | |
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Posted: 7/29/2009 12:53:22 PM | All the better to eat you with my dear!
Seriously though, most guys, when seeing a woman naked, think "Holy carp, a vagina!" They're not really fixated on the particulars. A woman's parts look the way they're supposed to look, and they're NOT supposed to look like a paper-cut! | |
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Posted: 7/29/2009 12:58:06 PM |
What a crock, yeah, go ahead, get put under and have some DR cut away perfectly healthy and normal parts of your body because some morons have some pretty big issues with the female body, no big deal! Here is a thought, if they dont like your vagina and what it looks like, tell them to go **** themselves and move on to somebody who doesnt think that womens bodies are disgusting. This says way more about men than women as far as I am concerned...
Hey, I didn't invent the ****ing procedure. Just reporting that it's out there. The OP was concerned HERSELF about the appearance.
Wanna know why there isn't a cosmetic procedure to remove someone's penis...it's because no one ****ing wants that procedure. The labiaplasty exists because there is someone who wants it. Lighten the **** up lady! | |
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Posted: 7/29/2009 1:07:11 PM | | No man has said he liked them; well can't remeber any man ever telling me that a woman had complimented him on his foreskin!!!! | |
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