| Cuddling and touching after sex
Posted: 7/26/2009 4:27:51 PM | Really, once then you fall asleep?!?
Cuddling and touching always lead to more. It is OK to stop after once, fall asleep or leave? All these years I never knew!!!  Think of all the sleep I missed out on...... | |
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| Cuddling and touching after sex
Posted: 7/26/2009 9:56:58 PM | | It really depends on the mood. Im not gonna cuddle if we're arguing and just finished having angry sex. If things are cool though i love to cuddle as well-cuddling usually starts up round two!!!!! | |
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| Cuddling and touching after sex
Posted: 7/27/2009 6:07:17 AM | yep...its a nice time....and some times the prelude for more....While most guys just roll over....I have always taken extra time to enjoy cuddling and spooning..... | |
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| Cuddling and touching after sex
Posted: 8/2/2009 7:32:55 AM | I love touching, cuddling, and kissing after sex. Of course, if the person I am with is one of those roll over and go to sleep kind of person, I do call them out on it. You need to make sure of how the person feels. Some people have been single for a while and are so used to having their space, that it takes time for them to get used to having someone close to them.  | |
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| Cuddling and touching after sex
Posted: 8/3/2009 7:54:51 AM | I think i'd have to agree with all that, but it depends on what the factor is.
1) Love of your life, significant other, etc etc: Cuddling after = Awesome!
2)One night, Intimate encounter, etc etc: Cuddling after = Yea, gtfo. | |
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| Cuddling and touching after sex
Posted: 10/13/2009 10:20:33 AM | | Thought I would bring this back up and see some new responses. Perhaps I should have titled this Cuddling and touching after making love. I believe foreplay begins evey morning, long before lovemaking begins. Lovemaking dosent end with the big O for me, I prefer to hold my S/O afterwards relaxing and touching because we shared an intimate moment with each other . What do you think ? Steve | |
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| Cuddling and touching after sex
Posted: 10/13/2009 11:35:59 AM | It's too damn hot usually for cuddling after lol...but nah...after the cool down..I at least want a short snuggle and a kiss. If not...I'm off to do something else. Eff you buddy :) | |
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| Cuddling and touching after sex
Posted: 10/13/2009 11:56:09 AM | [After sex I get energized and want to clean the house or bake cookies or ..OR...SOMETHING...
Takes me a good hour to wind down enough to be able to just sit still...
I've never understood these guys who do the deed, roll off, roll over and then fall asleep...just doesnt' compute... ]
This is soooooooo unbelievabley true for me as well "Truthinessincorporate" You made me laugh so hard. Sex totally winds me up...I definitely feel very energetic afterwards, unless maybe if its way past my bedtime!!!! Thanks for that. I thought I was the only one that felt that way!!!!!
I especially like the last comment, "While you're up, can you go home?!" OMG LMAO | |
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| Cuddling and touching after sex
Posted: 10/13/2009 12:35:24 PM | | I think it depends you and your partner and how much or little affection there is when you are not intimate with each other. I am pretty affectionate, so I like to cuddle and have my arms around my lady, but many people are not and thats ok too. | |
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| Cuddling and touching after sex
Posted: 10/13/2009 3:24:29 PM | I can cuddle after cooling down but without it.....well.....what's the point.....why not just screw like rabbits in the woods and leave....
Sex without the comcomittant intimacy and closeness.....ug...might as well just get a sex toy.....not worth the bother with a human you care so little about. | |
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| Cuddling and touching after sex
Posted: 10/13/2009 5:15:51 PM | Oh hell ya OP bring on the snuggle time afterward,an especially if her and I are totally spent.
Great topic!  | |
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| Cuddling and touching after sex
Posted: 10/13/2009 5:39:11 PM | | depends on the person, but these days (years), I don't have sex with people I am not into cuddling, too..so yeah =) Sex without intimacy has a certain utilitarian feel that is hard to place..and not something I'm interested in. Life is too short. To each their own , of course. | |
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| Cuddling and touching after sex
Posted: 10/13/2009 8:26:57 PM | I have no interest in having sex with someone not into cuddling, before, during and especially after... and he can't just roll over after - I'd be falling asleep on top of him  | |
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| Cuddling and touching after sex
Posted: 10/13/2009 11:31:20 PM | | I think if you did not bring your woman to orgasm, the consolation prize is cuddling. If you do bring her to multiple orgasm, either she goes to sleep right away or she stays awake and cries (then again she needs cuddling). | |
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| Cuddling and touching after sex
Posted: 10/14/2009 5:41:54 AM |
I can cuddle after cooling down but without it.....well.....what's the point.....why not just screw like rabbits in the woods and leave....
Sex without the comcomittant intimacy and closeness.....ug...might as well just get a sex toy.....not worth the bother with a human you care so little about.
Not everything is an "I do it, cause people who don't are wrong" type of thing. If you like something, fine. Respect that some don't without trying to make them abnormal.
Can't we express opinion without throwing stones?
Cuddling and caring aren't necessarily related. Not cuddling doesn't mean you're not intimate. Projections are so short sighted. | |
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