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 caddboy

Joined: 6/28/2008
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Green Lights!
Posted: 6/23/2009 6:55:21 AM
Red hair...Green eyes
 tom3054

Joined: 7/9/2008
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Posted: 7/6/2009 2:42:13 PM
mm.....wish I could build an ark (act random kindness) to your heart...

t..
 Isabella_the_Lost

Joined: 6/21/2009
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Posted: 7/6/2009 2:54:01 PM
Wooby... you rock! ;p


Lol! Getting the green is the same in dating as in real life: waiting through the yellow and the red. . . .

For me, it began with a *real* opening email, from a guy who had *obviously* studied my profile, *obviously* liked the me there, and had *obviously* taken a bit of time to approach me. Made a couple of jokes, and told me a couple of things about himself not on his profile.

No picture, but a lovely mind. I laughed at the jokes, and answered. . . . More than a year and a half later, still laugh at the jokes, and answer. . . .

Love is a wunnerful thang. . . .
 Cypresslady

Joined: 6/25/2009
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Posted: 7/18/2009 1:24:49 PM
Tryagain, At least you recognize red flags. The men I have met must have been color blind. I am too mature for all this Roman hands and Russian fingers. I am not cold, nor frigid, but I would like to get to know a man a little, before my body becomes his personal playgrand.
 parrothead 13

Joined: 10/21/2007
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Posted: 7/18/2009 1:36:28 PM
Oddly enough, curiosity. I like a woman who is interested in lots of things and not particularly set in her ways to the point she cant learn new things and new ways of thinking . to me thats hot.
 Call me Ginny

Joined: 12/28/2008
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Posted: 7/18/2009 1:46:32 PM
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I like this in a man as well, Parrothead.
Oddly enough, curiosity. I like a woman who is interested in lots of things and not particularly set in her ways to the point she cant learn new things and new ways of thinking . to me thats hot.


And I look for an intelligent, friendly face, nice eyes, and if he has those little crinkles around them, that's a real green...it means he smiles a lot!

Without a picture? A sense of humor, good natured, positive outlook.

When he writes me? Some indiction he spent some time reading my profile, asks me something so I have something to begin a conversation in an area that interests him.

Namaste,
Ginny

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 andserendipity

Joined: 7/19/2008
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Posted: 7/18/2009 1:54:03 PM
i'm with parrothead and Ginny--

curiosity!

also care with people and things, a kind of general respect for life and living. who looks past the surface and seems centred in a context of belief and action based on belief, while being flexible, open and resilient.

i can dream!

peace...
 the SoldierByte

Joined: 12/25/2005
Msg: 56
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Posted: 7/18/2009 2:02:34 PM
But my sweet Ms.andserendipity..
be ever so careful....
cause you know....
"curiosity ".. killed THAT kitty cat..!!
---SoldierByte---
 Call me Ginny

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Posted: 7/18/2009 2:26:47 PM
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Oh my, Soldierbyte, You slay me! .

be ever so careful... cause you know....
"curiosity ".. killed THAT kitty cat..!!
---SoldierByte---


Can I be just curious enough to be scorched? After all, I do have 9 lives!

"Kitty" Ginny

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 the SoldierByte

Joined: 12/25/2005
Msg: 58
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Posted: 7/18/2009 2:43:16 PM
Ohhh.. Ms "Kitty" Ginny
If....
you wern't so young..
did not live so far away..
were not so popular,
and WERE a millionaire..!!!
I'd snatch up one of them "live's" of yours
and show you how the big boys ride...
but alas...
Life is not made or built on "if's"..
so..
send me your credit card and
I'll hop a plane right to your
front door and we can figure
things out from there..
I'm waiting for your call...
---SoldierByte---
P.S.
Hope the "mods" take notice that I have cut down
my smilie usage by between 65 & 85%..!!
 andserendipity

Joined: 7/19/2008
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Posted: 7/18/2009 11:08:59 PM
soldierbyte, the lessons of those cats, true and scary...and you reminded me

i wanted to add: people who appreciate!

i went out with a friend last night who said all these complicated and negative things about folks (no i care a lot for this friend)-- she was in a low and anxious space, tried to assist. BUT later i thought, gee heck i like being around people who value the good and like people and things that happen.
 sanchinkalady

Joined: 3/22/2009
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Posted: 7/19/2009 6:02:47 AM
starman89506 wrote, "Has read Chopra, Dyer, Tolle, Hicks. Robbins,Gray or Smalley--Green light"

I was sooooooo close till I got to this reading...........making note, must go to library!

Robin
 sanchinkalady

Joined: 3/22/2009
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Posted: 7/19/2009 6:26:08 AM
A sense of humor, gets me everytime, someone who can send an email to me and have me almost shoot beverage out my nose! Had an email conversation all afternoon yesterday and there were so many of these I can't wait to meet this guy! Whether or not anything comes of it is imaterial, I had a great time! A great smile, one that lights up his face! Nice eyes, with those crinkles cause I think that makes the face more interesting! If there's facial hair, I like it nicely trimmed, if I'm kissing him I want to get to those lips! Kindness, honesty, imperfections, don't care if he can't dance and long as he does dance, you know? A love of life, and an appreciation of the difference between happiness and complacence. Someone who counts their blessings, even the little ones! A big hug!

Robin
 not a nurse

Joined: 11/30/2008
Msg: 62
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Posted: 7/19/2009 8:14:39 AM
Too many people driving around the course to notice the crowd watching, they wouldnt know if someone really liked them cos they too busy looking at themselves in the rear view mirror

there seem to be a lot of sucesses on this site and it does work and it does not need to advertise on sky tv to get members
 not a nurse

Joined: 11/30/2008
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Posted: 7/19/2009 8:16:42 AM
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Well written, absofrickinglutely right you are!

if men walked up to women and said what they write in my messages they would be laying on their backs with a fat lip, geesh what is wrong with men these days, you want sex with a stranger go f*ck a prostitute.
 Tarnished_Knight

Joined: 3/5/2009
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Posted: 7/19/2009 2:13:04 PM
I'm taking notes!!!!!

TK
{Damn, all I can find is a pen with invisible ink}
 anjelic

Joined: 7/27/2008
Msg: 65
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Posted: 7/19/2009 2:18:52 PM
What gets my multi point fuel injected, turbo charged, 4 on the floor going is attitude with a bite of wit to up the octane.

Bark 'em in 2nd guys.
 Lil Brooker

Joined: 6/17/2008
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Posted: 7/19/2009 2:31:00 PM
Educated or at least worldly.
Interested and interesting.
Sense of dress style, just a little bit, ok?
On the clean side and well-groomed.
Kind, caring and generous character.
Adventurous. Open to trying new things.
Flirty (with me). Sensuous and sexual.
International food tastes. (I like to cook).
Reasonably in shape.
Is handy and if not, can afford hired help.
Likes at least some of my music.
A soft and kind sense of humour. (My exH had a mean sense of humour).

This was a GOOD exercise! Thanks.
 Barnschop

Joined: 6/7/2009
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Posted: 7/19/2009 11:01:34 PM
Today as in yesteryear the green lights with the ladies are just the same.
There are six primary green lights you have to go through to reach the destination.

The first is a rather simple one and that is to hold her hand. If she holds yours then you have the first green light, if not then little is lost and move on.
The second comes after reading other road signs that will be clearly visible and that is an interest in you and what you say, a smile on her face. So the second green light is that first kiss which should see you both coming together is a slow planned way. A light kiss that gently massages the lips, then come away and see if her smile is now gone. A longer lingering kiss that again is light upon her lips that shows your gentleness.

Sorry not giving out the other green lights, lol. Would get to hot and steamy, lol
 redarcangel

Joined: 1/12/2007
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Posted: 7/20/2009 2:47:07 AM


A pulse!

That's what gets a green light.

Okay.. just not the one in his pants to start with!

Chow!

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