CaR
| Joined: 8/17/2004 Msg: 101 | |
| Im official done searching for girls on this site Posted: 2/16/2005 3:59:45 PM |
no prob car... but i wasnt meaning it all on u... and im sry if thats the way it seemed.. but i ment it in general....a lot of ppl here are getting way over offensive.. and really need to take the back seat. but n e ways i was just saying that everyones got there own way of things... and keep being who you are bye xoxo
aww thanks hun<3 other than dat yea i know you meant by general too, but yea i truly do go my OWN THING and yea i will still be who i am though i grown up a lil anyways thanks babe hope to see you post again <3 | |
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CaR
| Joined: 8/17/2004 Msg: 104 | |
| Im official done searching for girls on this site Posted: 2/17/2005 1:38:23 AM | awww ty elie hehe you are too sweet and yea right now i got a girl but she dont want me, she needs time to herself but i really want to be wit her and she told me there's no other guy in her life right now so i guess she still wants me but yea anyways hope to see you arround as you post i shall post as much as i can on this <3*muah* | |
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CaR
| Joined: 8/17/2004 Msg: 105 | |
| Im official done searching for girls on this site Posted: 2/17/2005 1:39:42 AM |
5 pages later and still here? LOL!
yup IM BACK! lol i been banned from forums in a long time and people continued this old post but im back and changed so yea hiyeee unless you dont remember me then meh lol | |
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| Im official done searching for girls on this site Posted: 2/17/2005 2:42:57 AM | | Ok. Here's the deal .. women are attracted to men who are confident and not whiners. Don't get me wrong. I'm not saying that you ARE a whiner. But I read your profile and it felt -- desperate? The truth is, you're really cute .. but I think perhaps u should re-write your profile. You might have better luck. For example, I always read profiles before I respond. If it's poorly written, misspelled etc. I delete the entire message. | |
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CaR
| Joined: 8/17/2004 Msg: 108 | |
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CaR
| Joined: 8/17/2004 Msg: 109 | |
| Im official done searching for girls on this site Posted: 2/17/2005 3:51:20 AM |
Ok. Here's the deal .. women are attracted to men who are confident and not whiners. Don't get me wrong. I'm not saying that you ARE a whiner. But I read your profile and it felt -- desperate? The truth is, you're really cute .. but I think perhaps u should re-write your profile. You might have better luck. For example, I always read profiles before I respond. If it's poorly written, misspelled etc. I delete the entire message.
well i aint whining i changed it many ways i still keeps some of i as tellin how girls are (cause really i have to, since girls do tha same to us guys lol) other than dat, i am confident in my myself, i know wat i want and i got some messages from others, so yea, but some girls are totally picky yet i move on to another so it depends how some girls i guess want to view me oh well.. *shrugs* there's still more girls | |
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| Im official done searching for girls on this site Posted: 2/17/2005 3:51:33 AM | Funny, 'cause as a female Torontonian, I never gave serious thought to searching for love and romance on the 'net anyway.
It's far too impersonal for my liking and I much prefer to see the person's idiosyncrasies right away.
Although the 'net has become THE place to meet people as of late, I do prefer a more 'personal' method of meeting someone. Heck, I met one of my best friends on the bus to work one day! So don't give up Car. I know what you mean about Toronto being so 'cold' and such. It is. It is dreadfully hard to meet ANYONE, even though we are living in a very populated place. Sad, isn't it?
I don't like the idea of 'shopping' for a mate.....it's so automatic. And there is no romance to it. | |
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CaR
| Joined: 8/17/2004 Msg: 111 | |
| Im official done searching for girls on this site Posted: 2/17/2005 4:29:09 AM |
Funny, 'cause as a female Torontonian, I never gave serious thought to searching for love and romance on the 'net anyway.
It's far too impersonal for my liking and I much prefer to see the person's idiosyncrasies right away.
Although the 'net has become THE place to meet people as of late, I do prefer a more 'personal' method of meeting someone. Heck, I met one of my best friends on the bus to work one day! So don't give up Car. I know what you mean about Toronto being so 'cold' and such. It is. It is dreadfully hard to meet ANYONE, even though we are living in a very populated place. Sad, isn't it?
I don't like the idea of 'shopping' for a mate.....it's so automatic. And there is no romance to it.
hehe yes as a torontonian, you seem nice, oh and btw this was a long time ago post but im back as you can see and changed to be, lol other than dat well yes i believe i get to know tha person more, and yes hun toronto is "dark and cold" at times, but its nice to know there are more sweet girls arround good stuff<3
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| Im official done searching for girls on this site Posted: 2/17/2005 10:42:36 AM | | I am sitting here listening to the wind whistle thru my ears... thru the hollow halls of reasoning and wisdom... and... uhhhmmm... where am I?... oh yeah... ok... right... | |
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| Im official done searching for girls on this site Posted: 2/17/2005 1:42:26 PM | Hey car! yikes!! thats crazy... well im sure if u give her some space she'll come around did she just get out of a relationship recently? maybe thats why? we'll im not to sure on the situation but still... im sure she'll come around.. and best of luck to you with her Elie xoxoxo | |
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| Im official done searching for girls on this site Posted: 2/17/2005 2:17:23 PM | | Don't feel bad, I have sent out emails to guys and they delete before even reading it. I think a lot of people (men and women) can be snobs. They join a site to meet people but won't even take a chance if they don't fit a certain description. | |
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| Im official done searching for girls on this site Posted: 2/17/2005 2:44:03 PM | Any site you join will have roughly the same ratio of men to women. It seems the men are the hunters. So, the odds are truly stacked against us on these dating sites. The other thing I have found is that some of the sites actually have paid 'escorts' that will write to you so you will answer. In order to answer you have to buy time or credits. That is the way some of these sites make money. Even somespamsites do this. So, be careful.
The other thing some of you guys may need to do is work on your profile. What is it you are looking for. What are you really like. Tell of your interests and what you are really expecting from someone you might meet here. BE HONEST. Nothing will end a potential relationship faster than being caught in a lie. Don't be crude. Practice your spelling and use good English. Be well groomed. Don't rush into things, take time to get to know someone.
Some of you guys are so negative that it is no wonder you haven't found a date. Be positive, upbeat. Seek out the good in a person and not nasty stuff.
Seek the profiles on this site that seem to meet your standards, write, and move on. There are lots of places better than this to meet girls. I wish you all well...Ron | |
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| Im official done searching for girls on this site Posted: 2/17/2005 2:45:21 PM | I just read your profile....maybe if you didn't make it sound like you were referring to sex all the time, you may have more hits, no? That's not the way to a girls heart. We can get it anywhere.
Check out other men's profiles...for example, nice2cu or Jake99
Wonderful heartfelt, and original profiles! | |
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| Im official done searching for girls on this site Posted: 2/17/2005 3:09:44 PM | ohhh mannnnnnnn, i have come across my share of ignorant, rude, arrogant men on here also. i got so angry at one here that i posted a warning to the ladies but then i thought i am better then that, i deleted my profile so my post could be deleted also. Some of us do enjoy just conversation with fun people who are non judgemental, it is just not so easy to find on any site i find. Its not just the ladies for sure, men are quite high on themselves also if you are not picture perfect which means a 10, i wish them luck, they will be the ones who end up alone not me keep smiling, decent people do exist, you have to weed them out | |
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packz
| Joined: 2/9/2005 Msg: 120 | |
| Im official done searching for girls on this site Posted: 2/17/2005 4:34:25 PM | supose, I introduce myself like a gentleman of High moral values and open and good decentla nguage and get an e mail in response. Then the girl will always show the same attitude to me when ever we meet. it will be very difficult to tell her to lift her skirt and spread the legs then. fearing she may feel offended. I am now putting a open profile and sending dirty e mails so that there is no confusion on the intentions. | |
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revan6
| Joined: 4/2/2004 Msg: 121 | |
| Im official done searching for girls on this site Posted: 2/17/2005 7:42:38 PM | wow you are playing both sides of this, you sent me an email saying you agreed with me, but if you agreed with me, you'd be telling car that he is an idiot when it comes to his approach on women. trust me, i have a friend on this site who got an email from him and he just started to attack her personality without even talking to her, just cussed at her like she kicked his dog. you have to get your ideas straight. and trust me, every bad thing someone has said about him.........is probably true | |
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revan6
| Joined: 4/2/2004 Msg: 122 | |
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| Im official done searching for girls on this site Posted: 2/17/2005 9:12:52 PM | way to go "morethanfriends" couldn't have said it better myself....I would have to say what you said applys to women as well, not just the men. It works both ways...there are bad and good on both sides and it's how people themselves react and respect themselves that make the difference in who ends up a part of their lives as a friend or more. | |
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| Im official done searching for girls on this site Posted: 2/17/2005 9:25:15 PM | | Hey Babylonia and Car, I hear ya on Toronto. Was raised their over 25 years. Left 15 years ago to explore beautiful B.C. and loving it here. B.C. too has their ways like Toronto but I have met sooo many people that actually were raised in Ontario. Most aren't even from here and the funniest part is I was born here lol....I still come to T.O. once a year to see my family but hell I wouldn't wanna live there again even though I have no family here. My children are my family now and I have some wonderful friends that I could never have had in T.O.....too robot like out there, busy and everything a rush rush...not like that here...u two should come visit for awhile sometime, you'd love it. | |
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| Im official done searching for girls on this site Posted: 2/17/2005 9:25:51 PM | d*mn and still not done hatin on that guy huh? give it a break your not impressing anyone by running down someone else. Go find a new hobby. This guy is here to do his thing, I'm sure your inclined to put your 2 cents in but you've stated more then enough of your points to make sure yeah you've made it clear what you think now nobody cares. Over and over again I've read one post after another and you repeat yourself worse then a broken record. Give some respect and let this man do what he feels is right.  | |
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