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CaR
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Joined: 8/17/2004
Msg: 127 | |
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Posted: 2/17/2005 10:21:52 PM |
Hey car!
yikes!! thats crazy... well im sure if u give her some space she'll come around did she just get out of a relationship recently? maybe thats why? we'll im not to sure on the situation but still... im sure she'll come around.. and best of luck to you with her
Elie xoxoxo
yea i know it kinda sucks she has problems to be right now so she kinda pushed me away she says there's no other guy, so im just hanging out wit other friends,she says she dont want me to wait so wateva happens from there at least i know it was for tha good of tha cause
so thanks hun your truly sweet<3
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CaR
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Joined: 8/17/2004
Msg: 128 | |
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Posted: 2/17/2005 10:29:09 PM |
wow you are playing both sides of this, you sent me an email saying you agreed with me, but if you agreed with me, you'd be telling car that he is an idiot when it comes to his approach on women. trust me, i have a friend on this site who got an email from him and he just started to attack her personality without even talking to her, just cussed at her like she kicked his dog.
you have to get your ideas straight. and trust me, every bad thing someone has said about him.........is probably true
haha revan ltns
and before you start up asking about this post, it still goes on lol
but im not ranting anymore
and i kinda changed (believe it or not)alot of girls have messages me now on this time from time to time, other than dat im ok now im more different than before and yea i been through a ride of love and lust, people said alot dat im bad, but im really not im really sweet and loving and ,and before i was just being ***hole, i grown up now and know better , so everything is good here and i changed my profile too to a more better way, still my style but yea, so ellie believes me. if i talked to her before?but yea
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CaR
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Joined: 8/17/2004
Msg: 129 | |
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Posted: 2/17/2005 10:31:44 PM |
d*mn and still not done hatin on that guy huh? give it a break your not impressing anyone by running down someone else. Go find a new hobby. This guy is here to do his thing, I'm sure your inclined to put your 2 cents in but you've stated more then enough of your points to make sure yeah you've made it clear what you think now nobody cares. Over and over again I've read one post after another and you repeat yourself worse then a broken record. Give some respect and let this man do what he feels is right.
hehe aww it's ok bro, he just thinks im tha same but im not and your right peiple should of put me down alot, but dat's ok i as a ***hole dat time and truly mean and rude
but i changed i learned alot
im more a man to ever be now
so yea=) it's nice to be back and thanks everyone for tha advice
love you all
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Posted: 2/18/2005 1:36:56 AM | no no rev i do agree with u maybe he doesnt have the best way of going bout the profile thing... and i dunno.. im not sure how he is with girls.. seeings as i dont know him... im just saying what everyone was saying was a lil rudely put... and i dont think it was fair of him to judge girls b4 as being ass holes...or whatever was the case. but i dunno rev he seems a lil more on the spirits bout this girl hes talkin bout... but n e ways... then again im not the one to usually takes sides.. i guess there is ups and downs to either side... cuz i do agree with u to a point... but anyways i think its time for a new topic this ones getting a lil haisty dont ya guys think?  | |
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Posted: 2/18/2005 1:41:23 AM | OH!! and car... im glad ur not getting upset bout her as much as ya do like her... keep ur chin up high... they dont call this "plenty of fish" for nothin  lol oh that was a terrible joke... never again haha..
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Posted: 2/18/2005 3:23:06 AM | Okay. Now you're just annoying me!! DUDE!! PLEASE .. ENGLISH!! I'm fairly sure that even in Canada (it's a joke, relax, geez) your PC has the capacity to spell AND check words, right? Please. USE IT!!
I think that alone might get you laid!! SERIOUSLY!! | |
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FOID
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Joined: 1/19/2005
Msg: 133 | |
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Posted: 2/18/2005 5:09:30 AM | I know im a big time freak, but i would like to know what others think about my profile, just an honest opinion would be cool from the ladies. I found everything on here but a friend to chill with. Thats not good, Women seem to either hate me or become obsessed with me. Ive had to cut a cool ass girl off cause she wanted something i didnt. Ive emailed more than a few people that didnt respond, probably thought i was a psycho, made a few jealous, blah blah blah, but maybe that 1 girl will pop up out of nowhere. I thought my grammar sucked until i read some of these people stuff. anyways later people. I always seem to put messages up when im tired, maybe thats why i seem like a crazy, naw i really just am. i hope i can delete this reply after a i see how dumb i sound. later people    | |
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revan6
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Joined: 4/2/2004
Msg: 134 | |
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Posted: 2/18/2005 9:10:10 AM | sure car people change, i believe you , but what i said before you deserved and what everyone said before you deserved. maybe not now but you aren't saying that stuff anymore. when you do or say stupid things like that you are gonna get it back 3 folds. but whatever. car if you want advice from a guy who has gone through almost everything with women and i have been in your situation just ask. it really sucks. my girl right now who i met at a new years party goes to university in ottawa so we have to do the waiting thing and see how things are going before we do the long distance relationship thing. anywho, if you want advice just ask.
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Posted: 2/18/2005 9:45:28 AM | Let me tell you why you aren't finding "nice" girls. Most of what you talk about in your profile is getting laid. I personally respond to all messages that are sent to me. For the most part, I am finding there are way too many "good" men on here. I have met some really nice guys, but we just don't "fit". Nothing wrong with that, we just didn't have that "connection". You do appear to be a whiner & I personally wouldn't go out with you just because you cry too much about what women have done to you. Everyone has some bad stuff that they have gone through....Get Over It! Snap Out of It & Move On!
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FOID
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Joined: 1/19/2005
Msg: 136 | |
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FOID
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Joined: 1/19/2005
Msg: 137 | |
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FOID
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Joined: 1/19/2005
Msg: 138 | |
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Posted: 2/18/2005 10:54:06 AM | | i dont care what you say, most of you women ARE sluts lol, dont lie about it. j/k im a reformed man slut, car is just a good guy geek, so leave em alone, i dont really know him though. later | |
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CaR
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Joined: 8/17/2004
Msg: 139 | |
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Posted: 2/19/2005 1:03:20 AM |
OH!! and car... im glad ur not getting upset bout her as much as ya do like her... keep ur chin up high... they dont call this "plenty of fish" for nothin lol oh that was a terrible joke... never again haha..
not at all hun...t's sucks i cant be wit her but im talkin to other girls too so when dat one girl tells me she only wants me nd treat me right only im goin for tha gusto!
hehe other than dat im ok, im still doin fine
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CaR
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Joined: 8/17/2004
Msg: 140 | |
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Posted: 2/19/2005 1:05:14 AM |
Okay. Now you're just annoying me!! DUDE!! PLEASE .. ENGLISH!! I'm fairly sure that even in Canada (it's a joke, relax, geez) your PC has the capacity to spell AND check words, right? Please. USE IT!!
if it bothers you then sorry, but's dat how i am
so yea dat's all i can say on dat
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CaR
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Joined: 8/17/2004
Msg: 141 | |
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Posted: 2/19/2005 1:08:36 AM |
sure car people change, i believe you , but what i said before you deserved and what everyone said before you deserved. maybe not now but you aren't saying that stuff anymore. when you do or say stupid things like that you are gonna get it back 3 folds. but whatever. car if you want advice from a guy who has gone through almost everything with women and i have been in your situation just ask. it really sucks. my girl right now who i met at a new years party goes to university in ottawa so we have to do the waiting thing and see how things are going before we do the long distance relationship thing. anywho, if you want advice just ask.
Revan
ty bro i know i DESERVED TO BE TOLD OFF dat time
i was totally a ***hole and moron i did it so much to piss you all off
so i got banned but i learned my lesson!
other than dat yea im totally changed and yes man i been on dat bumpy trip hopin to get to smooth sailing i talked to alot of girls just gotta be wit tha ones who respect me=)
and yes right now im still waiting but if dat girl come along to want to pick me up i wont hesistate=)
so thanks and well sure if you want to give advice message me
thanks bro
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CaR
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Joined: 8/17/2004
Msg: 142 | |
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Posted: 2/19/2005 1:11:45 AM |
Let me tell you why you aren't finding "nice" girls. Most of what you talk about in your profile is getting laid. I personally respond to all messages that are sent to me. For the most part, I am finding there are way too many "good" men on here. I have met some really nice guys, but we just don't "fit". Nothing wrong with that, we just didn't have that "connection". You do appear to be a whiner & I personally wouldn't go out with you just because you cry too much about what women have done to you. Everyone has some bad stuff that they have gone through....Get Over It! Snap Out of It & Move On!
Best of luck
actually i talk of love then sex
and wat hurts to have sex in tha profile
if girls use their comon sense they would know im about love and sex together
and dont tell me girls dont want sex lol
dat's just weird, but at least im not saying im a player or will use girls
and my thing is long term hun so yea
thanks for your comment though
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Posted: 2/19/2005 2:10:03 AM | Well car im sure ull get ur break  and one for the record... u got balls comming out and saying sorry to everyone... that takes some guts.... so that i thought was awesome... and SERIOUSLY some ppl who are posting rude stuff REALLY need to lay off... isnt it getting a lil old being how old u are and bashing someone.. arent we SUPPOSED to be mature??!?! If you dont like someone suck it up.. not like u bashing them is going to do anything besides make you look really pathetic... theres always going to be someone u dont like... but anyways im done for on this note...
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Posted: 2/19/2005 3:36:36 AM | Hello all! I have been reading alot of the forums to learn because I am relatively new here; Personally, I have politely responded to each & every letter or note I have received because I stop & ask myself 'how would I feel ' in the same situation? There seems to be a lot more humor available in the 'forums' than in some of the other venues. I suppose there are a lot of picky women out there....or~could it possibly be that some women just know what they like ? O.K. , I admit nobody can honestly get to know everything about you that they may like from a simple pic or short essay, but let's face it guys, do you really think that you would honestly want to waste your time on a woman(girl) that is so shallow that she will go by that first impression alone?? If someone is worth what they imply...won't they continue to communicate in more than one way?? Frankly, my dear , I really don't give a d*mn about all the whining & defeatest attitudes; the alternative is so CLOSE within the grasp of ALL the men on this site.....All you have to do is keep your responses to a variety of the forums current & upbeat!! There you have it...part of my unsolicited advice...I could whine & CRY, TOO, YOU KNOW~I have not exactly put put on a bunch of 'favorites' list either, lol for my photo does not look like a supermodel~ what is it with you guys? Doesn't anyone want to be friends...there are in my (again-Unsolicited) opinion many different satisfying levels of friendship to conquer before the ultimate we may call sweet agony. You want what you want when you want it ..& d*mn IT... I want it NOW??? Am I right ??? Or do I still have a hell of a lot to learn regarding the sorrows and the joys of appreciating a REAL MEN (not boys)...? Thank you for taking the time to finish reading this monologue! | |
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Posted: 2/19/2005 11:18:57 AM | There, I just put you on my favourite list.
As for us guys? Well, I won't presume to know what other guys wish for, as that would be one of those nasty demographic generalizations, and I try to avoid those. However, I personally don't come on a dating site looking for friends. If I wished to make more friends I would simply talk to more people in the climbing gym, or at the soccer club, etc. For some reason (this pertains to me, others may share this though), it is much easier to talk to someone if I fail to have any interest in them beyond that of a platonic nature. It's as soon as I feel myself 'romantically' interested in someone that I become all tongue-tied and shy (which for whatever reason always comes off as cold and standoffish). I have no problems making friends in the real world, why would I want to pursue friendships online?
And if most of us haven't even figured our own selves out yet, then yes, I'm pretty sure you still have a lot to learn about an entire gender. | |
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Fafnir
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Joined: 2/19/2005
Msg: 146 | |
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Posted: 2/19/2005 6:32:33 PM | Heed the wise words of Revan and alura. Self-pity is a big turnoff, and inexcusable if you want others to consider you a man. I'm too new at this site to know if it sucks or not, but you might as well bail. I can't imagine a woman givin' you the time-o-day after reading your OP.
Sorry bud, harsh but true. | |
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Posted: 2/19/2005 7:39:41 PM | | Hello... I'm a female and new here. I just wanted 2 say that I have received a quite few e-mails in the past week.... and it's not that I’m evil or mean or anything... just not sure how 2 start. lol and a little overwhelmed by all this. 4 me... this is the first time I have ever posted a profile on this type of site. So, plz don't give up searching just yet... I'm sure there r plenty of woman who r just like me :-) Unsure of Where or How to begin. Don't expect an immediate response... lol took me a while just 2 get the courage up 2 respond here!!! | |
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revan6
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Joined: 4/2/2004
Msg: 148 | |
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Posted: 2/19/2005 8:02:45 PM | elie, you are looking pathetic right now, your just bashing the people bashing car, give it a rest if they are going to bash him then they are going to do it no matter what you say so how about you just stop telling them this cause you are just saying the same things over and over again. i don't mean to sound rude i am just telling you how i see it.
and car, if you want advice email me otherwise i don't really care.
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Posted: 2/19/2005 9:05:17 PM | | For one thing, let your ad be postive, I've learned for the past 10 years (which by the way I have probably been to every dating site on the net and probably been doing this the longest). But this is the secret, women are the one's who pick their mates, it's not the male, that does. (Look into nature on human relationships.) So post your ad or profile and wait. Seems like a stupid thing, but it does work. Remember be postive in your ad, When your lady friend does come along, take it slow and be very casual, if see likes you she'll be calling again. Good Luck. | |
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