| I am getting used to being SINGLE, which scares hell out of me.
Posted: 9/28/2009 4:08:45 PM | I have been single for a while and its only now appreciate just how much a partner changes your life.
I come and go as I like.
I spend all my money on me.
I go to bed when I like and watch what I want on TV without having to consult someone else.
I fully own my own house and car.
The longer i am single the more I like it.
For the sake of sex and some company and the possibility of losing half your home its just not worth it.
As time goes on women become more and more demanding and this is a huge turn off. | |
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| I am getting used to being SINGLE, which scares hell out of me.
Posted: 9/28/2009 5:38:32 PM | | ....after being in a marriage or two, a relationship or two, a fling or two..I find that I not only don't mind being single I'm ok with the alternative. I've listen and seen what some people are willing to compromise, live with and deal with in order to keep/have someone, that scares the hell out of me. You know what? I'm ok with the alternative... | |
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EST74
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Joined: 3/13/2009
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| I am getting used to being SINGLE, which scares hell out of me.
Posted: 9/30/2009 3:17:14 PM | | Wow I definitely know this feeling. But I went from getting way too comfortable being single to the point where I completely despised my singleness for a range of different reasons. Being single certainly has it's good moments but I got to a point where I was tired of being selfish, tired of only having my feelings to consider when it came to making decisions. I travel a lot and found myself envious of involved people when I would hear them on their phone at the airport saying "honey the plane is about to leave, I'll call you when I land" or "hey baby the plane just landed, I'll meet you at baggage claim." I had no one to call, no one missing me while I was away, no one happy to see me when I came home. Being single when you don't want to be single for me is the worst. | |
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| I am getting used to being SINGLE, which scares hell out of me.
Posted: 9/30/2009 3:24:48 PM | I'm happy with my life and I would have a happy life being single for the rest of my life, even if it means no more sex, cuddles or any of those nice things some people take for granted. There're other nice things.
So it's not that I need somebody to be happy. I am happy and I will always be happy.
That being said, even at the lowest lows of being in a relationship I usually feel overall happier than I do being single. If I find even a half-decent girl to have a relationship with, I'll be happier than I am in every way. | |
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