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 MoDeStMoMmy

Joined: 12/25/2007
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Posted: 4/16/2008 8:49:59 PM
I LOVE the bigger guys, I would call myself average but there is nothing like a REAL MAN.
 Lori_32

Joined: 5/9/2008
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Posted: 7/10/2008 10:43:31 PM
I am a bigger person myself, but am a very self-motivated and active person. I don't mind in the least if a guy is bigger, look are only a temorary state..as long as he still has energy to get out and do things and has an interest in life...
 cupcakegirlmn

Joined: 6/29/2008
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Posted: 7/13/2008 9:45:58 AM
how is not liking a bigger man being hypocritical? everyone has their own tastes and preferences. are you suggesting that just because i'm a fat woman i should only date fat men? that only tall men should date tall women? that only blond women should date blond men? that's ridiculous!

i'm a fat woman who likes shorter (under 6'), slimmer men. does that make me a hypocrite? no. it makes me a BBW who likes short, slim/athletic dudes and that's it.
 plebayo

Joined: 7/7/2008
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Posted: 7/13/2008 9:52:38 AM
I'm a hypocrite!

I like my men Average to Athletic in build. I don't mind burly men, but I am not interested in anyone who weighs more than I do.
 submarinequeen

Joined: 5/18/2008
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Posted: 7/13/2008 10:06:31 AM
I cannot say I do not like big guys, but I can say most of the guys that are interested in me, and I find to interest me, are thin,or athletic, or muscley guys.
I don't know that that is hypocritical. I don't really discern on the body, but I really do like a handsome face, or a sexy demeanor, or a funny or fresh personality, or a beautiful soul, intelligence is a big turn on,or all of the above!- or variation...
anyway, why is it hypocritical to go out with someone different than you? I also date younger men. As long as everyone is upfront and honest- let them eat cake ;)
 submarinequeen

Joined: 5/18/2008
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Posted: 7/13/2008 10:19:25 AM

sexy is something you are .. not what you look like

I have never heard it said better. Kudos to you
 memyselfandus

Joined: 6/18/2008
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Posted: 7/13/2008 10:20:12 AM
Nothing worse than a skinny man.......................
 Pactive

Joined: 2/2/2008
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Posted: 7/13/2008 10:29:37 AM
Ok, then I guess you can help me fend off the women complaining about the double standard of bigger men not being seen as badly as bigger women.
 submarinequeen

Joined: 5/18/2008
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Posted: 7/13/2008 10:44:57 AM

they should date overweight men, because not many thin men would be attracted to them....

I don't know where you get your info, but... whatever. A lot of thin men like big girls. A LOT.
And as far as who someone should date.... should? Wow, are you the dating police?
Any bbw hypocrites?
Posted: 7/13/2008 10:49:35 AM
I tend to be attracted to bigger guys and have never dated a skinny man, not by choice, but it's just never worked out that way.

As for thin guys not wanting BBWs? I went to a BBW event 3 years ago (the only one I ever went to) and every guy there was basically rail thin!
 CurvyDee

Joined: 1/8/2008
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Posted: 7/13/2008 3:19:33 PM
how is not liking a bigger man being hypocritical? everyone has their own tastes and preferences. are you suggesting that just because i'm a fat woman i should only date fat men? that only tall men should date tall women? that only blond women should date blond men? that's ridiculous! i'm a fat woman who likes shorter (under 6'), slimmer men. does that make me a hypocrite? no. it makes me a BBW who likes short, slim/athletic dudes and that's it.


im sorry but have you not realised that as a fat woman youre not allowed a choice? shame on you lol.

I am what i am etc as the song says......... i also have enough self confidence to not settle for second best for the fear of being alone, i'd rather be alone... so im fat... i clearly dont have a problem with it as can be seen from my profile so any men that do have an issue with my size, need not bother me and i wont bother them... each to his own... i personally dont find a lot of the shorter, skinner men posting in this thread attractive in fact i'd go so far as to say i'd run a mile..........im a fan of big proper built men who look like men and not a reed thin excuse for one.. OH WAIT!! whatchamean i can't say that??? you can call me fat but i cant call you what i see? double standards run rife i see :)
 celts123

Joined: 5/15/2008
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Posted: 7/13/2008 3:37:15 PM
A bbw would be a hypocrite if she rejected fat men due to their weight ( or if she rejected a man due to his height, race or other physical attributes ) AND she also complained about men not dating her due to her height. As for thin men liking BBWs...yes there are some men ( from all body types ) who would date and prefer BBWs. But I think the majority of men aren't attracted to women who are extremely overweight.
 Road_Dawg

Joined: 4/19/2007
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Posted: 7/13/2008 4:20:09 PM
Hypocrites for having a preference? Give me a break, or give these ladies that are strong enough to admit that they are BBW the break. I know that there are different body types of both sexes and within each type there are individuals that each has a different taste in hair, eyes, skin, size, sense of humor & etc... Are we supposed to deny people a choice, opinion or preference because of their size? Next somebody might try to say I should have no choice in hair color on a woman, since mine is prematurely gray.

What gets to me, are the people who exaggerate their body type in fear that they will be rejected if they told the truth.
 waboloh

Joined: 8/31/2007
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Posted: 7/13/2008 4:57:49 PM
Give me a break, or give these ladies that are strong enough to admit that they are BBW the break.

Are you kidding????
 CuriousCandy

Joined: 6/25/2008
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Posted: 7/14/2008 9:12:05 PM
I do not like skinny men ... I tend to date (american) football player framed men ... :)
CC.
 debzindahouse

Joined: 10/23/2007
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Posted: 7/15/2008 7:31:55 AM
I guess that makes me a big ol' grinnin', flag-wavin', happy-a*se hypocrite 'cuz I'm a 40yo BBW and, honey, I like my men toned, muscular, in their 20s and fit as fook!!!!

(wavin' her hands in the air like she just don't care)
 cupcakegirlmn

Joined: 6/29/2008
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Posted: 7/16/2008 3:10:20 PM

But I think the majority of men aren't attracted to women who are extremely overweight.


dude, you're be surprised at the amount of men -big, small, short, tall, black, white, blond, brown, rich, poor, etc-- who LOVE fat women. some even really, really love FAT FAT FAT women!

seriously. stop eating what the media feeds to you. society tells you that no man is attracted to fat. but the reality is, lots and lots and lots of men LOVE fat (or REALLY FAT) women.

that's the truth.
 curveyone

Joined: 2/21/2007
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Posted: 7/16/2008 4:22:51 PM
actually i LOVE heavier men and i prefer it. i wouldn't expect someone who is athletic and keeps in good shape to like me or want to date me. we wouldn't have much in common.
 TAJUAN65

Joined: 6/13/2008
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Posted: 7/16/2008 4:32:15 PM
I love big guys also. My husband was over 300 lbs when he died.
 blonde devil

Joined: 11/5/2006
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Posted: 7/16/2008 4:34:03 PM
hey i am a fat girl, and i am picky too, i like chunky men in their 40-early 50's ... if someone is not interested in me, thats cool, we all know what we like, and dammmmmmmmmmmm if your bald that a big plus ( pardon the pun) lol. angelina............................
 robrules

Joined: 4/4/2008
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Posted: 7/16/2008 4:36:48 PM
sorry but what is BBW?
 blonde devil

Joined: 11/5/2006
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Posted: 7/16/2008 4:48:22 PM
bbw=big beautiful woman=fat girl
 cuddlelicious

Joined: 5/11/2006
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Posted: 7/16/2008 4:51:36 PM
I like a bigger man, at least 220. For me the attraction depends on "how" they carry their weight.

I am a bbw, but am active and dont eat alot or eat alot of junk. So that is important too. I would prefer a similar lifestyle and can keep up with me....inside and outside of the bedroom.
 .all.

Joined: 9/29/2007
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Posted: 7/16/2008 5:04:01 PM
im average and i like average weight guys..nothing sexy to me about a gut..or being so skinny bones poke out everywhere. but everyone has their preferences.
 celts123

Joined: 5/15/2008
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Posted: 7/16/2008 7:18:25 PM
dude, you're be surprised at the amount of men -big, small, short, tall, black, white, blond, brown, rich, poor, etc-- who LOVE fat women. some even really, really love FAT FAT FAT women!seriously. stop eating what the media feeds to you. society tells you that no man is attracted to fat. but the reality is, lots and lots and lots of men LOVE fat (or REALLY FAT) women.


I never stated that no men would date a fat woman. Of course there are some men that would date a fat woman. However I know some women ( and men as well ) who were obese until they lost a lot weight. All of these people told me that they received more attention from the opposite sex after the weight loss. Part of that might be due to increased confidence. I also think more people were physically attracted to them after the weight loss.
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