| Any bbw hypocrites?
Posted: 7/16/2008 8:44:09 PM | Do the bigger women on this thread find it diffucult to attract men because of their (your) size?
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| Any bbw hypocrites?
Posted: 7/16/2008 9:57:35 PM | | Obviously , I'm not for everyone...but, I'm not complaining about my results in general.... | |
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Posted: 7/21/2008 7:02:51 PM | | I know that Dr Oz from Oprah said for every 30 lbs. a man is overweight, he loses an inch from his penis. I didn't make it up. | |
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| Any bbw hypocrites?
Posted: 7/21/2008 8:12:54 PM | Do bigger women on this thread find it difficult to attract men because of their (your) size?
Definitely......I believe most guys on here will not give the time of day to anyone who is not thin....I have not had any luck on this site at all....I've emailed lots of guys and most of the time just no response.......I think I have a great profile....smiling in all of my photos.....and I am one hell of a great person.....but with all of the posts I've read, men do not want to date overweight women......I read that most of them think that all overweight women sit and eat all day.....not true....I happen to have a thyroid disease that lowers metabolism....and also affects other parts of the body.....it bothered me at first, but now I am not that interested in finding a match on here.....I basically read the forums now.....what I do find interesting is all the whining in the profiles and in the forums on how they cannot find a good woman....guess they are looking in the wrong place huh? | |
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| Any bbw hypocrites?
Posted: 7/21/2008 8:19:50 PM | | Not me..I love big men..thin men do nothing for me | |
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Posted: 7/22/2008 3:08:03 AM | Do bigger women on this thread find it difficult to attract men because of their (your) size?
Yes of course, but I'm not going to complain about it, I'm not a BBW, I don't classify a AUS16-18 to be a BBW.
One day a guy will find me attractive and that is the guy that will NEVER have a problem with their girl cheating on them or forever looking at who they could possibly get that is better than them.
In answer to the original question, I don't like skinny men. | |
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| Any bbw hypocrites?
Posted: 7/22/2008 6:45:40 AM |
I believe most guys on here will not give the time of day to anyone who is not thin....
Not necessary true. Just because a man isn't attracted to you or BBWs in general, it doesn't mean that he only goes after thin women. There are a wide range of body types between thin and BBW.
I read that most of them think that all overweight women sit and eat all day.....not true....I happen to have a thyroid disease that lowers metabolism....and also affects other parts of the body.....
Some men might think fat women are lazy. Not all or most men. Personally the reason why a woman is fat is not important. She could have a medical condition or eat too much. I still wouldn't be physically attracted to her. | |
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| Any bbw hypocrites?
Posted: 7/22/2008 8:48:38 AM | | I dont understand BIG men. It seems like they want skinny types also. Well, at least the men that I have seen. Like just because they are big they dont want to date big women. | |
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Posted: 7/22/2008 9:01:48 AM | yes, I have had great diffcultly in attracting men. And once I do, they automaticly think I should be GREATFUL that they are even paying me any attention, or think I have low self esteem so I would be easy to get in bed. WRONG. I am looking for a decent caring loving man, and I know hes out there somewhere. I just have to keep searching.  | |
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Posted: 7/22/2008 9:29:30 AM | I like a guy who is a little chubby, especially in the face, and a belly is fine, but I'm a bit sex crazed and if he hasn't seen his package in years, I don't want to be the one to find it....
I'm still not particularly sure whether to put myself as BBW because I know that by height/weight, that I am, and I know that my front end could use some lift and realignment and maybe some reverse dent removal, thanks to the age, weight and babies, but in terms of actual size, but I'm several sizes smaller than every other woman I know who weighs the same. I'm also the same size as a same height woman who weighs fifty pounds less than me.
I am tired of is people in general assuming that I'm lazy because I'm overweight. They are always shocked when they see how hard I work and how strong I am.
As far as being willing to emotionally love and snuggle up with a bigger guy, there's two on my list whom I adore that way. Sexually, no.
Sexually, do I find myself appealing at this weight and shape? NO.
So am I tired of men judging me by my appearance? Yeah, actually, I'm tired of men chasing me because they want a fattie and then doing everything possible to keep me fat or make me fatter such that improving my health and fitness becomes a relationship battle with them. Even co-workers or acquaintances who flirt, flirt by bringing me junk food and being butthurt if I don't eat it. I say, "Allergy induced Asthma, can't eat that. Low Thyroid, can't eat that. Glucose Intolerance, can't eat that. Iron Poisoning, can't eat that." and you'd THINK that would stop the nonsense, but these guys very clearly want me to be even bigger than I am now. I'm not talking about the guy who thinks he'll get into my heart by bringing me chocolate, I'm talking about the fattie fetishist who hopes I become the woman of his dreams. I'd rather be alone than have one more boyfriend who is constantly demanding that I eat crap all day and play couch potato. I'm naturally active, I hate most all junk food (except almond rocky road ice cream with fudge sauce, particularly when it's drizzled on me and.....;), and I demand to be healthy. I have worked VERY hard for my entire life to deal with my health through diet and exercise and if it doesn't look like it, I'm sorry, but I try and I'm done with men who want a fattie. I just don't need this kind of relationship battle in my life, yet, I find that I don't attract men who like me for me and who would be supportive of my goals, I attract men who like that I'm fat and who want me to get fatter, forget me and the brain behind the chub.
YEAH, I AM TIRED OF BEING JUDGED BY MY APPEARANCE. | |
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Posted: 7/22/2008 10:05:48 AM | I am attracted to men for many different reasons . One man I dated was 6 ft 3 and 275 and he was hot . Another man I dated was 6 ft 2 and about 250 . Then again ,the last man I dated was 6 ft 6 and probably weighed 190 soaking wet ,so it varies .
I am on the lower end of the so called BBW scale , because I am 5 ft 8 size 16/18 but I will admit to being more of a hypercrite towards height rather then weight . Tall fat guy cool ,my height or shorter fat guy ,nope ,aint happening . | |
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Posted: 7/22/2008 10:18:43 AM | | Kinda wondering why celts123 is posting here in the dating experiences forums when he is MARRIED | |
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Posted: 7/22/2008 11:34:16 AM | missmewsic
I thought he said that if a man were to loose 30 lbs he would "gain" an inch in penis lenght ? | |
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Posted: 7/22/2008 12:29:31 PM | First of all, preference is preference, we all have them. I don't think it is a matter of hypocricy. That being said, I do prefer stockier men to skinny men but have dated both. I am tall for a woman, 5'9", and do prefer taller men, however I have dated men shorter than me as well. The most important thing is personality, compatibility and having the same desires in life.
When I first signed up on this site I was told by many in the review my profile thread, that I should take BBW out of my screen name and not say anything about physical size in my profile. That I didn't need to be embarassed of my size or make apolgies for it LOL. Hello? If I was embarassed about it I would hide it wouldn't I? I believe in being honest and up front about who I am both physically and mentally. I understand that BBW isn't for all men and I respect that. By being honest and upfront I am not wasting MY time or the time of a man that has no interest in my type of body.
Bottom line is what floats my boat may not float someone elses. What floats theirs may not float mine. That's why we are INDIVIDUALS. Whatever you are seeking, I wish luck and happiness to all. | |
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| Any bbw hypocrites?
Posted: 7/22/2008 1:22:03 PM | Kinda wondering why celts123 is posting here in the dating experiences forums when he is MARRIED
Me being married is not revelant to this topic. I think that you brought that up ONLY because I disagreed with what you mentioned. That is a common tactic on POF. Attacking the person instead of the person's viewpoint. Besides all married people ( maybe except the ones in prearranged marriages LOL ) have dated at some point in their life. Therefore I ( and other married people ) have every right to state my viewpoint about dating ( and other topics ) based on my past experiences. | |
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| Any bbw hypocrites?
Posted: 7/22/2008 2:04:16 PM | I havent had a problem attracting guys on this site, maybe cause I am looking for a more mature mindset.
I will share what a man told me last week. He said when he was in his 20's and 30's he would never have dreamed of being interested in a BBW but that one of his girlfriends that he was in love with put on some pounds (due to her having to take medication). He said that he noticed how much more attractive she was to him and how much better the sex life was and from that time on all he has dated was BBW.
Kinda wondering why celts123 is posting here in the dating experiences forums when he is MARRIED
That was IMO not necessary and that kind of bitterness isnt going to attract alot of anything. I think guys can see who is happy with themselves and who is resentful that *smaller, thinner women get *all the guys. A man wants a woman who likes herself and if she is *hating on guys for liking thinner women or hating on thinner women for being thinner that will show thru loud and clear. | |
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Posted: 7/22/2008 2:48:11 PM | | No, I don't like men that are too big. I used to be real big a couple years ago, but I lost a lot of weight and fitness is a big part of my life now. It is SO worth it. I'm down to a size 10/12 now and am aiming to go to a size 6 or 8. I can wear a size 7 in a bikini bathing suit or underwear, but a larger size for pants, unless they are lycra stretch, then it would be a size small. I used to be a size 26/28 a couple of years ago and it's been SO worth it to work as hard as I have to get to were I am now. Anyway, I had met a guy on another site and we talked for five months. Then, when meeting him a couple of months ago, I know he really didn't like me because I wasn't a size 6 yet. The funny thing is, why don't the men have to be in shape? He was a size 40 pants at 5'7" which is a gut, but not a really big guy, still he had a stomach himself. He likes really skinny cheerleader bodies which is fine, but why is it that they don't care that you are coming down to that goal? I will probably get there before he finds somebody else. I would have been happy to take a man of his body type, but I wasn't skinny enough for him. We did have a conversation about the fact that I wasn't a supermodel yet, but men I've met don't seem to put the info I give them about myself together. He told me at one conversation that he didn't care if I was 150 or 160 lbs knowing I was 5'3", but at the same time a lady wouldn't look good in a bikini weighing that if he really had put it together. So, I think they aren't honest with themselves. So, why is it that they don't have to be in shape? | |
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Posted: 7/22/2008 3:42:15 PM | | I'm honest with myself, I know I'm fat but I'm not attracted to fat...lol | |
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Posted: 7/22/2008 4:30:54 PM | another Canadian BBW says................
I like men who are honest .passionate and caring with
a Big heart..
height....size..belly..legs..hair..wallet..chins...penis size..truck/toys..make
NO DIF TO ME AT ALL...
BIG GQ | |
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Posted: 7/22/2008 4:38:14 PM | | North Carolina here......love a bigger teddy bear guy!!! | |
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Posted: 7/22/2008 5:56:14 PM | Blackviolethlb, congrats on the weight loss
The rest of your comment made my mind scream!!!!!!!!!! Have you considered talking to someone to get your self esteem up now that you love your body?
Why would you agree to meet a man that you talked to for 5 months who was that obsessive about YOUR weight. My 17 yr old daughter is 5'7 and she is 140 and a size 6 but to someone like that I doubt she would have suited him.
I guess I dont understand why a man who only views you as a body vs a person would have to offer to you? If he told you he liked a skinny cheerleader body why did you go to meet him if you were working toward it vs being it? Were you hoping he would like your personality enough to make it work out?
As to why they dont have to be in shape...who is to say they dont to other skinny cheerleader bodied women. You were the one meeting them, so if weight was that much of an issue with then why didnt you question them? | |
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Posted: 7/22/2008 7:44:55 PM | | I'm not 'thin' myself, but have no problems attracting men. I don't go for extremely large men, but skinny men don't do it for me either. I like a guy to be bigger than me... just as long as his boobs aren't bigger than mine =) | |
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