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 casperella

Joined: 10/30/2006
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Posted: 9/6/2009 7:56:26 AM
ilovehistory, wanna get married? On the comment about exercise actually causing weight gain, I can believe that. I made a new year resolution to walk atleast 5 days a week for 40 minutes. I've stuck to it , when I recently went to the doctor he said I'd lost a whole 1 POUND! But he said walking was the best exercise and keep at it. So I have but I'm not checking the scale. I'll just get depressed.
 _central_scrutinizer_

Joined: 8/31/2009
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Posted: 9/6/2009 11:21:49 AM
Off topic:


made a new year resolution to walk atleast 5 days a week for 40 minutes. I've stuck to it , when I recently went to the doctor he said I'd lost a whole 1 POUND!


That sort of exercise isn't going to make you lose significant weight. You have to create a caloric deficiency. One pound of fat = 3500 calories. For example. if your body needs 3000 calories a day, and if you eat only 1500, you will create a 1500 calorie deficiency, and drop one pound of fat every two days.

Disclaimer: consult your doctor before starting any weight loss program.

 Mystie_Dragonfly

Joined: 4/8/2009
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Posted: 9/6/2009 6:44:21 PM


made a new year resolution to walk atleast 5 days a week for 40 minutes. I've stuck to it , when I recently went to the doctor he said I'd lost a whole 1 POUND!


That sort of exercise isn't going to make you lose significant weight. You have to create a caloric deficiency. One pound of fat = 3500 calories. For example. if your body needs 3000 calories a day, and if you eat only 1500, you will create a 1500 calorie deficiency, and drop one pound of fat every two days.


I've been doing the walking about 4 miles a day (which probably equals 40 mins)... ALONG with the caloric deficiency. I also weight lift and have a job that requires a good amount of manual labor.

... I have lost 40 pounds in one year. I understand to the "instant gratification" society, that sounds like not a lot of work/weight in a year, but the truth is, it is a healthy slow process. Have to remember, one doesn't get fat over night... one will not lost the fat over night.
 LBA26

Joined: 9/2/2009
Msg: 504
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Posted: 9/6/2009 7:25:30 PM
how much weight u squating there? reminder to never mess with you
 jacob8088

Joined: 9/6/2009
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Posted: 9/26/2009 12:15:19 PM
Posted: 2/17/2008 1215 PM
O ccasionally...I would email an overweight or chunky girl to see if she responds...to test the waters of superficality amongst women on dating sites...and sure enough I was ignored or turned down by even OVERWEIGHT women.

See how pathetic that is?


^^^LOL Wait a minute, you mean even the tubbys wouldn't respond back? Wow, that is rather pathetic...And here I thought most of them just wanted to be loved and wanted by that special someone...
 Fifi47

Joined: 8/19/2004
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Posted: 9/26/2009 12:50:54 PM
We bbw want to be loved and wanted by that special someone who we deem worthy of our love and respect. even "tubbies" ignore men who think others are pathetic.
 jacob8088

Joined: 9/6/2009
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Posted: 9/26/2009 1:11:54 PM
Yeah well people can ignore who they want...not that I care

*throws a box of oreo cakesters to that special someone*
 WIlookingfor1

Joined: 9/17/2009
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Posted: 9/26/2009 3:20:28 PM
Just chiming in to say I think there is a double-standard when it comes to overweight men. I have been on here for maybe a couple of weeks, and so far the only responses I have had (from those that initiate contact with me) are those who clearly just want sex. I have initiated contact with several others that appear to be sincere in looking for a LTR, overweight men several larger than my own frame, and I get no response whatsoever. I certainly don't think I'm an ugly woman, but what do I know? Not much apparently.
 citygrl_1981

Joined: 6/23/2009
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Posted: 10/13/2009 10:26:41 AM
Well the attraction will be there or it won't. No need to stress about if you fit somebody's box of what they like.

I can spout off all I want about wanting a man of a certain height and weight ratio, but there are plenty of men in that catagory I am *not* attracted to, and plenty of men not in that catagory that I *am* attracted to.

So yes typically, I like a guy to be about 6 to 6'5 feet tall, between about 220 to 270 lbs. . .(I'm a total hypocrite AAAHHHH!!!!) but that doesn't mean I've never been into a guy who didn't fit that bill. . .and vice versa plenty of guys who are that height and weight ratio don't do it for me.

I doubt they are losing sleep over me not finding them attractive.

You shouldn't lose sleep either if somebody doesn't find you attractive.
 browneyedgirl514

Joined: 9/13/2009
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Posted: 10/13/2009 4:18:20 PM
Have always preferred a man with meat on his body. - Nice cushion - who wants to be poked by bones.
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