| Deal Breaker?
Posted: 6/23/2009 11:47:15 PM | SagMan.........you truly called it correctly!!!
A definite deal breaker for me is a woman in my age group with small kids. Another is a woman who is obese and a devil worshipper. Also some of the following have been deal breakers in the past for me, and they are as follows:
1) a woman that was MORE concerned with how much money I had or didn't have.
2) a woman who can't or won't get over her "ex".
3) a woman who has losers for kids.
4) a woman who had more issues than the New York Times
5) a woman who said one thing but did another.
6) a woman who was afraid to be intimate.
7) a woman that never heard of a KITCHEN and what to do in one.
8) a woman who had kids(boys) attached at the teat.
9) a woman who put everybody first, before me. (God and the kids are acceptable, no one else though).
10) a woman who knew I was the best thing that ever entered her life, and rejected me.
That's a good start.    | |
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| Deal Breaker?
Posted: 6/23/2009 11:47:26 PM | A female who is selfish, judgmental, argumentative, cold-hearted, foul-mouthed, inconsiderate, emotionally closed, disrespectful and obnoxious.
Would a female with these character traits be considered a b*t*h?
And how would I be described for dating someone like this for two years? | |
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| Deal Breaker?
Posted: 6/23/2009 11:55:15 PM | 1. Doesn't fight for what they want
2. Doesn't respect me
3. A Cheat
4. Liar
5. Someone that doesn't know what they want.
6. No passion
too many to name | |
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| Deal Breaker?
Posted: 6/24/2009 12:00:03 AM | A women who won't let me touch her belly.
My fetish really is that strong. | |
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| Deal Breaker?
Posted: 6/24/2009 12:02:22 AM | The major Deal breakers for me are
Prostitutes / Strippers / Drug users ( shows a serious lack of self respect)
Criminals / liers / cheaters ( shows a serious lack of self respect for others)
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| Deal Breaker?
Posted: 6/24/2009 12:17:59 AM | I only have 2 that come to mind.
1 A penis!
2. An Adams apple! | |
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| Deal Breaker?
Posted: 6/24/2009 12:19:27 AM | | rockman your killing me ....those should have been on the top of my list | |
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| Deal Breaker?
Posted: 6/24/2009 12:55:04 AM | Let's see, fat men who insist on riding Harley's, with their ass cheeks hanging over the side. Men who cut the sleeve's out of their shirts, especially those with no muscles and long pit hair, cowboy boots that have never stepped in cow or horse crap... big belt buckles, cowboy hats, bad hair cuts, especially mullets, body odor,
oh wait, I just described my first husband...LOL!!!
Beth | |
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| Deal Breaker?
Posted: 6/24/2009 1:27:33 AM | | double standards and shallowness, | |
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| Deal Breaker?
Posted: 6/24/2009 1:38:13 AM | deal breaker????
...i dont know.... someone i DONT get along with !!!!!!
but im considering changing my standards here cause it seems like that logic makes too much sense... !!!! | |
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| Deal Breaker?
Posted: 6/24/2009 5:02:37 AM | 1. incapable of an original thought
2. spends more time fixing his hair than i do
3. NASCAR fan
4. more than 10% above ideal body weight
5. negative/pessimistic
6. hairy back/small d1ck/bad teeth/beer belly/mullet
7. pervert
8. religious
9. manslut
10. anyone my mother wouldn't approve of, heh
i've met numerous men who ALL insisted they were 5'8" but they were all at least 1" shorter than me in my bare feet. ya gotta laugh. ok, short stuff ;) not a deal breaker, but i have to say, i don't want a guy i can toss across the room but on second thought, it might come in handy. | |
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| Deal Breaker?
Posted: 6/24/2009 5:06:06 AM | Without a doubt, my deal breakers are:
1. Liars
2. Cheaters
Outside of that I'm am pretty flexible... those two I am not at all flexible. | |
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| Deal Breaker?
Posted: 6/24/2009 6:00:18 AM | 1.bad teeth.
2.bad hygiene.
3.someone thats very vain and that he thinks hes gods gift to women yuck.
4.someone thats very competitive.
5.liars/cheaters.
6.someone that would do a farmers blow in front of me eww.
7.someone that doesnt care about his aparence.
8.shyness is also some what a deal breaker i like somone that has some confidence.
9.being to loud in a public place.
10.last one someone that starts a food fight in a restaurants.
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| Deal Breaker?
Posted: 6/24/2009 6:04:32 AM | | if your looking for a decent partner try speed dating a great site is Southern Singles they have events all over Melb www.southspeeddate.com | |
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| Deal Breaker?
Posted: 6/24/2009 6:42:53 AM | Suffers from "Universal A s s Centralism". Thinks and needs the world to revolve around her ass.
Feels that being a buddy to her children is being a parent.
Takes absolutely no responsibility for the failure of her past relationships. They were merely "bad choices".
Has no goals of her own that she can and wants to attain on her own.
Overly concerned with what others think and see.
Bimbo immaturity.
Can rattle off the traditional responsibilities of men yet can't cook anything there is not a microwave preset for.
Attention whores.
Over reliance on sex.
Leveraged the kids against the ex and cashed in.
Separated and looking to double their money and fun... then expects respect.
Deep knowledge of what a lady deserves... lacking knowledge of what a lady is... lack of discipline and fortitude required to actually BE a lady.
Tends to drive in the fast lane while talking on the cell phone.
Texting me and expecting me to respond.
Texting in my presence.
Parading my ass in front of her girlfriends.
Fvcked up her own life and hoping someone else will "sweep her off her feet" and fix it for her.
Whines about her body but does nothing to improve it, her eating habits, or health.
Needs a constant charge to enjoy life and people.
If I can match colors and clothes better than her.
If I can cook EVERYTHING better than her.
She buys a $75 pair of shoes and has no money to get her flat fixed.
She thinks blow jobs make everything equal and harmonious.
Unabashed ladder climbing fvck stations.
No intellect. | |
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| Deal Breaker?
Posted: 6/24/2009 6:45:45 AM | Smoker
Drinker (more than 1-2 weekly)
Unhappy or angry disposition
Bad relationships with their Ex, families or children
Official 'Shaved Head with Goatee' Club Member
Lazy or Sloppy | |
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| Deal Breaker?
Posted: 6/24/2009 6:48:34 AM | "Smoker
Drinker (more than 1-2 weekly)
Unhappy or angry disposition
Bad relationships with their Ex, families or children
Official 'Shaved Head with Goatee' Club Member
Lazy or Sloppy"
good luck with that one..you have just elminated every man on this site. | |
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| Deal Breaker?
Posted: 6/24/2009 6:52:09 AM |
Official 'Shaved Head with Goatee' Club Member
D*mn, I need to grow my goatee back! | |
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| Deal Breaker?
Posted: 6/24/2009 7:18:54 AM |
Deceit , manipulation (e.g. needless drama), tantrums, lack of compassion (for myself, for others), lack of integrity.
I understand not everyone has had healthy examples to learn from, and a willingness to learn to do better will be met with a lot of good will, understanding, patience and forgiveness.
But if these problems are chronic, no sign of a desire to improve, out of control (O/C difficulties) ... well, I'm not inspiring the best in her, and thus I am not the right man for her.
I will not try to force a square peg into a round hole.
Well put.
Dishonesty is my # 1 dealbreaker. Zero tolerance - can't trust a liar. No trust = no relationship.
Smoker # 2 dealbreaker - I'm Allergic. It's not about "tolerating" ciggy smoke .. it's about me Breathing. My health is more important ...
Sense of Humour - # 3 = "he" just has to have one - it's important that 'we' get each others humour .. explaining a joke just takes the fun out of it .. :) .. No sense of haha .. we won't click
Compassion - # 5 - if 'he' doesn't care about others, we won't get along.
gotta gun? ... not in my world.
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| Deal Breaker?
Posted: 6/24/2009 7:40:03 AM | back hair
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| Deal Breaker?
Posted: 6/24/2009 7:51:00 AM | | personal hygine.. if someone cant keep themself clean... ew... also.. people who cant be accepting of other people.. wether its too short people or fat people!!!! if you cant accept me for who i am.... | |
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| Deal Breaker?
Posted: 6/24/2009 8:21:31 AM | In no particular order
1. Obesity
2. Poor hygiene / bad body odor
3. Rude / disrespectful toward others
4. Arrogant / selfish
5. Dishonest / undependable
6. Ignorance / racism
7. Immaturity
8. Boring / dull
9. Lack of common sense / practical smarts
10. Laziness
11. Being demanding / stubborn / hard to please
12. Infidelity | |
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| Deal Breaker?
Posted: 6/24/2009 8:24:52 AM | Someone old enough to be my father!!! (I get messaged by people a hell of a lot older than em all the time it's really annoying!)
Someone who tries to force his religion down my throat.
Someone with kids usually does it for me (no one wants baby mama drama)
Someone with no goals in life who wants to spend his life living with mum and never amounting to anything. | |
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| Deal Breaker?
Posted: 6/24/2009 8:35:23 AM | | Treating me badly would be an absolute deal breaker. That's not something I'm ever going to put up with again. I was single long enough to know that I liked being alone better than I liked being with someone who treats me badly. So I'd rather be alone than be with a jerk. Everyone should be single long enough to learn to be comfortable with it...then they won't put up with so much of the crap they do. | |
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| Deal Breaker?
Posted: 6/24/2009 8:47:30 AM | Arrogance is my number one "deal breaker". Including any nasty judgement or comments on another person's looks, abilities, intelligence or "status" in life.
-Chemical drug addiction
-Dr.Jeckyl / Mr hyde personality (when drinking or not)
-wannabe porn "stars"/ obsession with porn
-animal cruelty
-dishonesty
-greedy nature
Physical? not much any particular thing ... except I do have a bit of a problem with a guy being much smaller than myself (y'know...the old cavegirl thing about the bigger man being the better hunter, protector and such...). | |
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