| Deal Breaker?
Posted: 6/24/2009 9:01:11 AM |
for instance if you want your guy to be 5'7" or taller - is an inch shorter really that big a deal?
For one, I prefer men who are at least 4-5 inches taller than myself. I like men with good height to them.
Generally, it is a deal breaker, because I don't find myself being attracted to men 5'7, and under.
Overweight is also a deal breaker. I'm in shape. | |
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| Deal Breaker?
Posted: 6/24/2009 11:12:54 AM |
Small penis. Absolute deal breaker.
Haha miss, now that is some funny shit | |
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| Deal Breaker?
Posted: 6/24/2009 11:15:12 AM | Back hair on a woman, espcially if braided in cornrows.
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| Deal Breaker?
Posted: 6/24/2009 11:42:07 AM | "2...No job (He doesn't have to be a CEO or anything BUT HE NEEDS TO LOVE HIS JOB" (caps added for emphasis)
So...are you saying a guy who goes to work everyday and earns a decent living, but doesn't really like his job...just doing what he must to earn a living would be a definite no? | |
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| Deal Breaker?
Posted: 6/24/2009 11:47:43 AM | | ^^^^ Most people are doing jobs they don't like to keep their head above water. Better than having no job at all. | |
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| Deal Breaker?
Posted: 6/24/2009 12:38:45 PM | 1- A heavy drinker
2-smoker
3-lier
4-someone whos clingy
5-someone who says why havent you called me, do you not know how to use a phone?
6-who dose not meet you for you date!! | |
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| Deal Breaker?
Posted: 6/27/2009 3:13:43 PM |
What is an absolute deal breaker for you? Physical characteristics? Income? Kids? Religion?
Men who continue to date their ex-girlfriends don't get a chance with me...same goes for substance abusers and players... | |
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| Deal Breaker?
Posted: 6/27/2009 4:02:40 PM | Just a little hint for everyone, 22% of men, and 28% of women are smokers. If you cut us out, your chance of finding your soulmate is incredibly diminished. Not like cutting out single mom's with young children (10%), or drug user/addicts ( 5%) . Just a thought, we love our cigarettes, and we're loveable .  | |
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| Deal Breaker?
Posted: 6/27/2009 5:09:50 PM | Deal breakers for me... hmmm... I try to be pretty open and tolerant, but.. guys who are drug addicts, alcoholics, liars, cheaters, untrustworthy in general..noooo!! He must have a job, I don't care what it is, but he has to be able to support himself cuz I'm not doing it. Been there, done that! I support myself..he should too. Not that I would have a problem temporarily supporting someone I lived with and loved ..for a short time.. if he lost his job or something, but not for any extended period of time, and only if I know he'd do the same for me if he could. A bad attitude will kill my patience fast.. Not that I expect him to be all sunshine and rainbows 24/7..but guys who are rarely happy/content..and guys who whine.. uggggh | |
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| Deal Breaker?
Posted: 6/27/2009 5:48:02 PM | My absolute?
Lack of manners and is so insecure and lacking in confidence that all he can do is focus on himself. How he looks and sounds.  | |
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| Deal Breaker?
Posted: 6/27/2009 5:49:40 PM | ^^^let me add to that:
A stalker
A Klingon
A constructive criticizer ie bytche
An emotionally/physically unavailable person
et cetra | |
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| Deal Breaker?
Posted: 6/27/2009 6:22:49 PM | OP - I think if you run up upon deal breakers, it's best to end things as soon as you run up against them, if you think you can't get past or work out what is making you uneasy. For me, deal breakers are things that deminish my affection for someone. I can still love them, just not want to be with them, if that makes any sense. If something makes you stop dead in your tracks and say, "Whoa! I can't deal with that!" then it's a deal breaker. So ... if a guy is an inch shorter than you prefer, you have to decide how important that is to you. Does that make you say, "Whoa! No way! Can't do that!"? I have no height preferences, so it's not a deal breaker for me. My deal breakers are:
Alcoholism
Drug Addictions
Extremely Insecure
Emotional Turmoil
Violent or Abusive Behavior/Personality
Effaminateness
Sorry, I couldn't do it. I'd not date them anymore. I wouldn't continue to date someone to see if the person I was dating would change or I could somehow accept those traits. Those things I listed make me extremely uneasy when thinking about being with a partner. I couldn't deal, I know myself. | |
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| Deal Breaker?
Posted: 6/27/2009 6:23:59 PM | | people who are really rude or snobby/ stuck up | |
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| Deal Breaker?
Posted: 6/27/2009 6:47:42 PM | Deal Breakers:
1. Bible beating or obsessive compulssion to speak about his religion, the Bible, or being "saved"
2. Stupidity. In any form.
3. Rudeness or being uncouth or unkind.
4. Lack of common sense.
5. Rage, anger, hostility or negativity un-necessarily (based on my opinion of what's called for and what's not)
6. Cursing without flair.
7. Chewing tobacco.
8. Lack of respect for the feminine wonder.
9. Abandonment of his children. | |
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| Deal Breaker?
Posted: 6/27/2009 6:54:37 PM | 1) Smoking
2) Emotional domination, for lack of a better term. Manipulating emotions of others, in an underhanded manner, to achieve anything is an abomination to me and is a great way to guarantee my avoidance of the person.
3) Failure to understand logical choices and the concept of action and consequence.
4) Geekophobes and technophobes. Class A nerd and proud of it =]
5) Those who are excessively into fashion or materialistic things. That tells me that they have forsaken their own characters to achieve a false outward greatness.
6) A lack of self-awareness
7) Bad hygiene
8) Causing conflict without a purpose
9) Those with a history of shopping around for guys before breaking up with their current guy.
If I had to pick two utterly damning ones, it would be #2 and #6.
Height and weight aren't really factors for me, but there is such a thing as unhealthy weight, both on the low and high side of the scale. | |
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| Deal Breaker?
Posted: 6/27/2009 7:53:45 PM | If she can't deep throat.
If her ankles cannot go up around her neck.
If she thinks oral sex is cursing me out.
If she won't pee for me.. | |
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| Deal Breaker?
Posted: 6/27/2009 8:27:01 PM | Stupidity
I just can't handle it. | |
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| Deal Breaker?
Posted: 6/27/2009 8:34:58 PM | Religious
Alcoholic / Drug addict
Doesn't like animals
Uneducated / unemployed or uninterested in his job
Not passionate about anything
Hasn't travelled
Has kids | |
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| Deal Breaker?
Posted: 6/27/2009 8:35:09 PM | There are several deal breakers for me that I can think of...
People who have kids, do drugs, are liars, cheaters, and stealers and also atheists.
I am also very picky about teeth and noses. I don't know why, I've just always been that way.
I also have a thing about dating someone who is 6ft or taller, being that I am 5'9 and like wearing heels at times. | |
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| Deal Breaker?
Posted: 6/27/2009 8:37:44 PM | | Going on the assumption he's been screened and we've been talking it would be if he's pushy or always talking about sex. | |
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| Deal Breaker?
Posted: 6/27/2009 8:37:59 PM | | Oooh yeah. That is definitely a deal breaker!!! | |
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| Deal Breaker?
Posted: 6/27/2009 8:57:45 PM | | A woman with a small fat penis. | |
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| Deal Breaker?
Posted: 6/27/2009 10:42:35 PM |
Suffers from "Universal A s s Centralism". Thinks and needs the world to revolve around her ass.
Feels that being a buddy to her children is being a parent.
Takes absolutely no responsibility for the failure of her past relationships. They were merely "bad choices".
Has no goals of her own that she can and wants to attain on her own.
Overly concerned with what others think and see.
Bimbo immaturity.
Can rattle off the traditional responsibilities of men yet can't cook anything there is not a microwave preset for.
Attention whores.
Over reliance on sex.
Leveraged the kids against the ex and cashed in.
Separated and looking to double their money and fun... then expects respect.
Deep knowledge of what a lady deserves... lacking knowledge of what a lady is... lack of discipline and fortitude required to actually BE a lady.
Tends to drive in the fast lane while talking on the cell phone.
Texting me and expecting me to respond.
Texting in my presence.
Parading my ass in front of her girlfriends.Fvcked up her own life and hoping someone else will "sweep her off her feet" and fix it for her.
Whines about her body but does nothing to improve it, her eating habits, or health.
Needs a constant charge to enjoy life and people.
If I can match colors and clothes better than her.
If I can cook EVERYTHING better than her.
She buys a $75 pair of shoes and has no money to get her flat fixed.
She thinks blow jobs make everything equal and harmonious.
Unabashed ladder climbing fvck stations.
No intellect.
and how's that working out for you? imma go out on a limb out here and guess you dont date much !!!
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