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| How far would you travel for a love affair?
Posted: 7/12/2009 7:49:06 PM | The biggest problem with distance is that if its more than an hour it seems like you dont ever get to meet. Hey after living in LA one or two hours on the road is nothing to me. It took me that long to get home from work many many times.
Funny part is that I've even agreed to do the driving a couple of times only to have it canceled several times. So LDR can be a bear with so many excuses that can be made...
I remember a friend of mine met a guy that lived less than 60 miles away and he kept saying he couldnt meet because of gas prices even when she was willing to do the driving.
They eventually just stopped communicating, which I think was better for her. She is not in a very nice LTR.  | |
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| How far would you travel for a love affair?
Posted: 10/11/2009 3:28:17 PM | Farthest traveled to meet someone: 1200 miles. However, I would not have necessarily 800 miles to meet someone else, if that 800 mile distance wouldn't have had a place that I could "transfer" to (employment).
Long term, long distance: 85 miles for over 6 years....OMG those drives back and forth to work were horrendous!
LOL! Deere! I wouldn't travel more than 3 blocks for sex....unless it included a foot massage! | |
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| How far would you travel for a love affair?
Posted: 10/11/2009 3:46:23 PM | To the moon if I could fly...
I had this man in Denmark send me a message that if he ever gets to the United States he is making a beeline for my door, based on looks alone he has an open invite  The college I am attending has a student exchange program going to Denmark next spring...^^ My daughter said nope I have to go to Italy with her for her Interior Design program, she is afraid to fly :(...going to brush up on my Italian. | |
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| How far would you travel for a love affair?
Posted: 10/11/2009 5:43:53 PM | | 25 miles. Add 5 miles for each cup size over C, with a maximum of 50 miles regardless. I can't believe some knuckeheads will actually get on a jet for the same reason, that is SO desperate! | |
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| How far would you travel for a love affair?
Posted: 10/11/2009 6:47:29 PM | | For an interesting meet I have gone as far as 150 miles, but depending on the degree of curiosity I develop, I can see myself going as far as I need to within the US or Canada. But for it to develop into a relationship, it would need to be within an hour or two of travel with at least a chance of relocating. | |
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| How far would you travel for a love affair?
Posted: 10/11/2009 9:01:21 PM | ...That's a very interesting question....And to be perfectly honest...I really don't know. The distance I would travel would depend upon the guy I guess, and how much I heart him.
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| How far would you travel for a love affair?
Posted: 10/11/2009 9:24:34 PM | When I was younger, I was quite well travelled, but lately, I don't mix the love affairs with long distance travelling. I mean, one of the two activities doesn't have the same allure as 40 years ago.
But I could be talked into some interesting photography workshop. There is a good one in Antarctica, departing in February. With an attractive female photographer, I could picture setting up our own dark room and exploring together the possibilities of creative imaging. | |
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| How far would you travel for a love affair?
Posted: 10/11/2009 10:06:04 PM | For two years we were about 1950 miles apart. I went through a phase after that where distance wasn't an option, then it was again. The last distance was about 800 miles til we lived in the same house and once that happened? The distance was insane. Soemtimes you can live in the same house and be world's apart. Today? I am in a position to go where I want when I want and if "he" is what I think is worth even one trip, whether 6 connecting flights or not, I'm going. I'm not getting any younger and I made a promise to someone that I would NOT let anything stand in the way of a chance to be in love again. I don't make promises I can't keep, so if he's out there, I'm willing to try it again. JMO  | |
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| How far would you travel for a love affair?
Posted: 10/11/2009 11:15:05 PM | ^^ I agree^^
Well for love, not an affair (isn't that term used for cheating?) I lived here in NY she in
Houston, Texas..... 2,006 miles apart. I moved there and stayed for five years. No regrets.
Anything is possible if you want it bad enough.
Would I do it now? Not really as I have too much invested here now to relocate very far away. It's not impossible, though it would take time if I were the one to move. | |
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| How far would you travel for a love affair?
Posted: 10/11/2009 11:58:15 PM | | If I could trust what my heart was hearing, I'd cash in my chips and swim to Antarctica. Because I don't give a fvck about anything now except what's left of the beauty in my mind's eye and what I want to make of it with what little time I got left. I'd take two good years now over twenty half dead ones and you can keep the deposit. But then again, I never could stop myself. It's my nature. | |
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| How far would you travel for a love affair?
Posted: 10/12/2009 12:10:48 AM | | Well i have done the long distance and it does work for a while , eventually thou after so many months , years there becomes a stronger sense of wanting the other person closer and one of the two has to move . With kids it is hard and not to mention how it seems moreso for the males that if there ex finds someone they suddenly start to interfer with the kids . Alas how far is to far is up to the people involved and how much you want to be with the other person . | |
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| How far would you travel for a love affair?
Posted: 10/12/2009 11:05:57 AM | | hi there i have found myself travelling to meet dates.the distances have been 50 miles.then 100 miles then had a year long relationship where she stayed 288 miles from me.so yes men will travel and maybe i do because i am a train driver yet i go there on my motorbike as that is a dam good run and i like that, | |
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| How far would you travel for a love affair?
Posted: 10/24/2009 12:28:03 AM |
How far would you travel for a love affair? To me, the thread title is a bit unclear. For a 'love affair' I probably wouldn't travel too far. To be with the man I love, I'd go anywhere. | |
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| How far would you travel for a love affair?
Posted: 10/24/2009 6:50:08 AM | How far would you travel for a love affair?
To me, the thread title is a bit unclear. For a 'love affair' I probably wouldn't travel too far.
I have to agree with you Issie,,,
an affair?
Wouldn't even bother, not into "affairs"
but,,,
red hot romance with the one who I thought I could wake up to the rest of my life,,,
-starts to design an around the world jetpack-
and no,,,
it's not some innuendo for a sexual position,,,
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| How far would you travel for a love affair?
Posted: 10/24/2009 6:52:21 AM |
I flew from Massachusetts to Texas for the mere possibility that there might be something special there (and I am not talking about sex).
If I felt the woman 'could be it' - I would travel round the globe.
Now I feel really bad... I so appreciated you Stevie... you were the best friend I had for a long time...
If you are willing to travel, it shows you are prepared to put everything you have into a relationship if there is a connection, compared to the guys that won't travel 25 miles across town. They usually are the players that are looking for someone totally convenient. | |
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| How far would you travel for a love affair?
Posted: 10/24/2009 7:53:38 AM | Are you kidding me, OP!?!? I would travel to the Congo just to be in the presence of the guy I'm seeing now..just to be near him. I would take malaria pills by the dozen, fight off howler monkies, wrestle crocidiles and try to reason with cannibals that wanted to eat me...just to be near him.
And that is how far I would go for a love affair with this man.
Sans | |
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| How far would you travel for a love affair?
Posted: 10/24/2009 8:10:22 AM |
I would travel to the Congo just to be in the presence of the guy I'm seeing now..just to be near him. I would take malaria pills by the dozen, fight off howler monkies, wrestle crocidiles and try to reason with cannibals that wanted to eat me...just to be near him.
The above post convinces me that even at 51 love is still very much possible... I need to work on my wrestling skills... so I can fight for him in the Congo or whatever part of the world I have to venture to find him!!!
Congratulations... | |
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