| need advice , moved to Montreal for boyfriend
Posted: 10/28/2009 5:01:36 AM | I agree never move somehwere for a man...
You move for things like this.
A job promotion.
A change of careers.
Family needs you.
move to another area for a specialist that is ina prestigious medical clinic. ( my cousin moved to Arizona for her cancer and MS... she is doing great)
But not for a boyfriend that you thought would work out. Men are too flakey, I am sure women are the same way too. I worked in a women shelter 10 yrs ago and this young woman from olkaholma met her boyfriend on line and moved to Iowa to move in with him. She found out a few days after she moved in with him he was sentenced to prison ofr 3 months, he did not pay his rent for 2 months and he was evicted from his home because he did not pay his rent. This woman had no job and did not have enough money to go back home. Staying at a woman's shelter is not romantic. | |
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| need advice , moved to Montreal for boyfriend
Posted: 10/28/2009 5:28:02 AM | Your 40 and didn't look for employment before the move? Why?
You were independent, employed and probably secure where you were in Fl. so your boyfriend had a preception of you before you moved..now you moved in with him
with no job
and now your clingy too.
This would scare the heck out of most men.
JMO
Get employment asap, make friends asap..bring something to the table to conversate.
Put your "big girl pants" on and look at this as a GOOD experience and stop whining. | |
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| need advice , moved to Montreal for boyfriend
Posted: 10/28/2009 5:46:08 AM | Darling,
You need to see a therapist for dependency issues. Why do you do things to please others, only to regret later??? You depend on people's love and affection to a point where it paralyses your reason. You knew he is controlling, before you've moved to Montreal... now, you looking for pity from others. Get it together girl... Take responsibility for your action, only then can you break that vicious cycle. Stop thinking, move for the sake of your esteem.
Good luck! | |
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| need advice , moved to Montreal for boyfriend
Posted: 10/28/2009 7:42:53 AM |
You can always work under the table. If you dont fall foul of the law. The authorities wont know how long you stayed in Canada.
We give work permits like candies. Just apply then after 3 yrs you can always upgrade it to PR.
I didn't read all the entries here but I'm curious as to what the OP (who has since deleted) and the b/f said to the customs/immigration officials at the border regarding her stay. | |
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| need advice , moved to Montreal for boyfriend
Posted: 10/28/2009 8:47:20 AM | How long did you know him before you moved? Move back to Fla. , don't even think twice. Telling you what you may or may not do should tell you a lot about the control that is to come. Go home friend, you deserve better. .   | |
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