Pash, I mean no insult but I had the exact same reaction to your photo as Provo did. My immediate thought was, "Woa, female-female date in POF". Then I checked your profile and that same pic looked different there and I realized my error. You may want to at least change the default photo. You can still keep that one to maintain your personal sense of self. You seem like a cool guy btw. It's just the way the photo comes off when seen out of context like in here, next to our individual postings.