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 Naamah

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Posted: 6/29/2009 12:11:20 AM

I wonder why his own sister called him a pedophile.

Ever had someone who is angry at you about something else, say something about you that isn't true, but cos they know it will really get you in the balls? Don't ever think brothers and sisters can't get as dirty as exes when it comes to emotionally based in-fighting. Ask those legal guys who deal with deceased estates etc.


he must be innocent then. because there wasn't enough evidence on one trial..

That's the general idea of the legal system. You want a best of three system until you get the outcome you think is right based on all the evidence you've investigated?


I'm off to dangle my kid over the balcony :)

A famous moment in pop culture...and a really stupid, dangerous thing to do!!Any parents here who have never done a dumb thing with their kid?...something you've maybe kicked yourself for later "what was I thinking"?...or when you've told friends they've gasped about it and you kinda thought.. whaaat? Steve Irwin copped flak when he had toddler Bob in with the crocs as well. People who have dangerous hobbies they don't think are so dangerous who let their kids get involved. Parents who playfully throw the kids up in the air under the ceiling fan. Naah, never happens.
Parents make mistakes, still doesn't make em kiddy fiddlers.

Lucky the world media doesn't follow me around catching all the dumb sh1t I do.


For a shifty grand I will become the biggest MJ advocate there is!

Whereas I am sticking up for him for free cos it's what I believe. And cos the chance to argue with you and Caves is priceless.
 nevaagin

Joined: 4/8/2009
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Posted: 6/29/2009 12:14:59 AM
Hard hearts never won any one . I believe in his innocence but hate the way his final curtain fell . Bet you wish you could hold an audience by just standing there . I'd like to have met him , don't think there would have been a great language barrier .
 batdann

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Posted: 6/29/2009 12:26:34 AM
yaaa yaaaa!!!!!
 possibilitarian

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Posted: 6/29/2009 1:06:00 AM
Michael Jackson's 1993 Child Sexual Abuse Allegations


By the summer of 1993, it was revealed that Jackson allowed children to sleep over at his Neverland ranch, a fact which came under much media scrutiny when child sexual abuse allegations were brought against him.[13][14] Jackson became firm friends with Jordan Chandler and his family after a meeting in May 1992, as he was a fan of Jackson.[9] Their friendship became so close that the National Enquirer ran a featured story with the title "Michael's New Adopted Family", which implied that Jackson had "stolen" the family from the father, Evan Chandler, who was admittedly jealous over Jackson's influence on his son.[15] Communications between Jackson and the father broke down further when Chandler asked, "Look, are you having sex with my son?". The father's opinion of Jackson then changed, to the extent that he invited Jackson to build an extra wing on their home so that the singer could move in with them permanently.[15] Chandler's concerns about the close friendship returned, and he tried to prevent Jackson from seeing his son, using a prior custody agreement.[9]

On July 2, 1993, in a private telephone conversation, Chandler was tape recorded as saying,

There was no reason why he [Jackson] had to stop calling me...I picked the nastiest son of a **** I could find [Evan Chandler's lawyer, Barry Rothman], all he wants to do is get this out in the public as fast as he can, as big as he can and humiliate as many people as he can. He's nasty, he's mean, he's smart and he's hungry for publicity. Everything's going to a certain plan that isn't just mine. Once I make that phone call, this guy is going to destroy everybody in sight in any devious, nasty, cruel way that he can do it. I've given him full authority to do that. Jackson is an evil guy, he is worse than that and I have the evidence to prove it. If I go through with this, I win big-time. There's no way I lose. I will get everything I want and they will be destroyed forever...Michael's career will be over.[2]
—(Evan Chandler)

In the same conversation, when asked how this would affect his son, Chandler replied, "That's irrelevant to me...It will be a massacre if I don't get what I want. It's going to be bigger than all us put together...This man [Jackson] is going to be humiliated beyond belief...He will not sell one more record".[2] The recorded conversation was a critical aspect of Jackson's defense against the upcoming allegation made against him. He and his supporters argue that he was the victim of a jealous father whose only goal was to extort money from the singer.[2]

In early August, Chandler, a registered dentist, extracted a tooth from his son's mouth, and was later forced to admit that he used the controversial sedative sodium Amytal during the procedure.[1] Under the influence of the drug, Jordan alleged that Jackson had touched his penis. Experts state that the drug sodium Amytal "makes patients extremely susceptible to suggestions".[1] Dr Lewis Strong, a Los Angeles psychiatrist stated, "You can't trust it, I never use it in my practice. I have found it to be unreliable. It's certainly not a truth serum".[1] Dr Kenneth Gottlieb, a San Francisco psychiatrist who has used the drug, stated, "I would never want to use a drug that tampers with a person's unconscious unless there was no other drug available, and I would not use it without resuscitation equipment in case of allergic reaction".[1]

Over the next couple of months both parties engaged in unsuccessful (out of court) financial negotiations, with Chandler and his legal team asking for $20 million, or the issue would be taken to criminal court.[3] Jackson declined the offer, saying, "No way in Hell". A few weeks later, Jackson's legal team gave a counter-offer to the value of $1 million, which was declined by Chandler.[3] The father then lowered his request to $15 million; Jackson rejected this and lowered his original counter-offer to $350,000. With both sides unable to reach an agreement, Chandler decided he would take it to court.[3] Chandler then took his son to see a psychiatrist called Dr. Mathis Abrams, and during the three-hour session with the doctor, Jordan Chandler said he had had a sexual relationship with Jackson that included incidents of kissing, masturbation and oral sex that went on for months. He then repeated these allegations to police and gave a detailed description of what he alleged was Jackson's penis.[3][4]

On August 18, the Los Angeles Police Department's Sexually Exploited Child Unit began a criminal investigation into Jackson. The same day, Jordan Chandler's mother told police that she did not believe Jackson had molested her son.[4][13][14][16] On August 21, a search warrant was issued, allowing police to search Jackson's Neverland Ranch. Police questioned 30 children who were friends of Jackson, with all denying that the singer was a child molester.[13][16] A police officer involved in the investigation told The Los Angeles Times that no evidence (medical, photographic or video) could be found that would support a criminal filing.[16] The same day the allegations were made public, Jackson began the second leg of his Dangerous World Tour in Bangkok. On August 24, Jackson's investigator held a press conference accusing Chandler of trying to extort $20 million from the singer, although the investigator failed to mention that Jackson had given several counter-offers.[13][16] On August 25, Jackson's young friends Brett Barnes and Wade Robson held a press conference where they stated that they had slept in the same bed as Jackson, but nothing sexual in nature had occurred.[8][17] Jackson's family soon held a press conference of their own to show support, saying it was their "unequivocal belief that Michael has been made a victim of a cruel and obvious attempt to take advantage of his fame and wealth."[8][17] The police then began an investigation into Evan Chandlers's prior actions and found that he was $68,400 behind in his child support payments, even though he was well-paid as a dentist.[9] On November 8, police searched the Jackson family home, Hayvenhurst, but found nothing of importance to add to their investigation.[6][13]




In the winter of 1993, despite not seeing or speaking to Jackson for a number of years, La Toya Jackson claimed that her brother was a pedophile and that she had proof, which she was prepared to disclose for a fee of $500,000. A bidding war between US and UK tabloids began, but fell through when they realised that her revelations were not what she had claimed them to be.[5] Then in Israel, she stated, "I cannot and will not be a silent collaborator in his crimes against young children... Forget about the superstar, forget about the icon. If he was any other 35-year-old man who was sleeping with little boys, you wouldn't like this guy".[5] She also claimed that checks had been made out to several boys and that Jackson's own physical abuse as a child had turned him into an abuser.[5][18] She would later claim that Jackson had tried to kidnap and kill her.[18] The rest of the family disowned her, and in subsequent years she would insist that she was forced to make the allegations by her then husband for financial gain.[5] Just prior to making the allegations, her husband was arrested for striking her in the face, arms and legs with a chair.[19] By the turn of the millennium Jackson had forgiven his sister.[5].
 Pete_Paranoid

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Posted: 6/29/2009 1:41:36 AM
He's dead, quite happy to let sleeping dogs lie.
 Hilly1971

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Posted: 6/29/2009 2:30:05 AM
Parents who playfully throw the kids up in the air under the ceiling fan.

I cant see that there is any similarity between playing with your child and forgetting you are standing under a fan and hanging your kid over a balcony....unless of course hanging blanket out of high places was their usual means of entertaining him.


And cos the chance to argue with you and Caves is priceless.

Let the trolling and forum stalking begin...........

Im actually not at all surprised that LaToya later recanted her allegations. I can think of nothing more devastating then being disowned by your entire family and in the grand scheme of things he was their meal ticket...they could not afford to have him discredited. Apart from MJ and Janet they are a spectacularly unsuccessful family of failed musicians who still have extravagant lifestyles to support.

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but really your sticking up for him because you love his music

Sorry to disagree caves but I think its because life would be meaningless, if you cant do farm chores in white socks and a glittery glove........
 CavesBeach

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Posted: 6/29/2009 2:41:18 AM
Ever had someone who is angry at you about something else, say something about you that isn't true, but cos they know it will really get you in the balls? Don't ever think brothers and sisters can't get as dirty as exes when it comes to emotionally based in-fighting. Ask those legal guys who deal with deceased estates etc.

fair enough, but I cant remember my sister or brother calling me a pedophile even at thier madest. black eye yes, fat lip yes, said things aint true yes.pedophile fark NO.
when was the last time anyone here was called a pedophile when it wasn't true ?????
pull your heads out the sand folks.....such cute lyrics, and the groovest bass lines. buts thats all they are.
(david bowie's never actually been to outer-space neither has Major tom)


That's the general idea of the legal system. You want a best of three system until you get the outcome you think is right based on all the evidence you've investigated?

allianz paid me a settlement too after a car accident.(like MJ's 2.2 mil to the kids, but i got bugger all, unlike the kids)
guess the car accident never happen.they're innocent, they just didn't want a ugly legal battle untill when they knew I had proof. before then they were happy to go to court.
just because the judge DIDN't force them to pay. dont mean I aint half man half titainium. boiiiiiiiiink booooooooiiiiink < million dollar man sound


Whereas I am sticking up for him for free cos it's what I believe. And cos the chance to argue with you and Caves is priceless.

but really your sticking up for him because you love his music and cant possibly throw away that "1983-thru the roof album"...not because of Michael Jackson - "Wanna Be Startin' Somethin" side 2 second song, but because really you loved song one side one "Pat Wilson - "Bop Girl"

you guys are really sick
 possibilitarian

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Posted: 6/29/2009 3:31:51 AM

when was the last time anyone here was called a pedophile when it wasn't true ?????


Can't say I have been called a pedophile but, I have had a sibling sling an equally (in my view) nasty tag on me (in anger) due to a jealous mates un-true gossip (and it hurt like you wouldn't believe) .... La toya had had nothing to do with Jackson or the family for over 2 years ... she was being informed by the media (just like we have been). At no point did she accuse MJ of "kiddy fiddling" but, referred to his act of sleeping in the same bed as the boys. It is also worth noting that she was living in an abusive relationship which, speaks volumes to me as I have lived in one. It doesn't take much to tip someone who is being abused over the edge and it is much easier to vent your anger on someone that you know won't retaliate than on the actual person who is causing your anger..... Just take a look at some of the posts in here



dont mean I aint half man half titainium. boiiiiiiiiink booooooooiiiiink < million dollar man sound


Prove it!!!!!


unless of course hanging blanket out of high places was their usual means of entertaining him


I don't know about entertaining but, hanging wet blankets out of high places usually dries them... maybe he was wet??!!.
 CavesBeach

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Posted: 6/29/2009 4:07:59 AM


dont mean I aint half man half titainium. boiiiiiiiiink booooooooiiiiink

prove it
 Hilly1971

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Posted: 6/29/2009 4:26:00 AM

maybe he was wet??!!.

Probably not a good thread to be mentioning wet little boys in!
 julianx

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Posted: 6/29/2009 5:18:09 AM
I do find it interesting, and a little disturbing, that on this thread the main argument against the guy is that he hugged other people’s kids and had them sleep in his bed with him. I assume that the main reason people have a problem with him having kids in bed with him is because beds are where we most commonly have sex? If so, does this line of thinking extend to other places, because I’ve hugged kids, others, and mine on the same couches that I’ve had sex with GF’s on, same goes for rugs and various other places.

One of my kids is a child that would commonly be referred to as my step child, (though we’ve never used this term cos we don’t see him as being any different to the others) and he has often slept in the same bed as me, so another question would be; where do we draw the line between which kids are ok to have sleep in the same bed as us and which aren’t, is it only biological offspring, or are step children ok too, what about foster children or adopted kids?

In fact where do we draw the distinction between what is acceptable and what isn’t when it comes to any sort of intimacy between adults and children, is it wrong for groups of man and boys to shower together in open showers after playing sport or being at the beach? Is wet-nursing ok…perhaps only in National Geographic?

I reckon it comes down to how comfortable we are with our selves and our own sexuality, and perhaps it also has a lot to do with Somnia wrote…


As for the man who passed away recently, if we judge him harshly, maybe it is the evil we see that "we" may possibly do if in his position, not whether Michael Jackson did it or not.


Actually the only point made on here so far that I find damming towards M.J. is the one about him hanging his kid out of the window, which shows him as being irresponsible, but then, as Naamah said, Steve Irwin did a similar stunt and is still a major Australian icon.


when was the last time anyone here was called a pedophile when it wasn't true ?????


Well Caves, the rebuttal for that argument is easy ….”You’re all paedophiles!!”
 PeachSipper

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Posted: 6/29/2009 5:40:55 AM
JX in all honesty...

would you send any of the kids in your care,,, to neverneverland with "Jacko" for the weekend?....

or send them to any strangers place ... just because your kids were enamoured by a TV" rock star ?

what are you trying to legitimise here?...

my first relationship of 4 yrs was with a "single mum" with 2 pre schoolers... sure they often jumped into our bed/cuddled us on the couch etc...

to "normalise" jackos obsession with children as a grown adult?... in real terms....is stretching belief...
 Prakticle

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Posted: 6/29/2009 5:45:17 AM
I hate to think that the children involved here are going to grow up thinking that the behaviour of their father was somehow villified by an "adoring" fan base.

Without some quite serious help (professional) do you really think that the people that raised MJ to be the total wacko that he was should be trusted with more kids???

But then again, some of their other children dont seem to be so hounded by the press so maybe they ale a little more mainstream (Latoya for instance...lol)
 Naamah

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Posted: 6/29/2009 6:02:18 AM
^^^ I agree Jules.




fair enough, but I cant remember my sister or brother calling me a pedophile even at thier madest. black eye yes, fat lip yes, said things aint true yes.pedophile fark NO.
Well me neither I admit (but if my brother doesn't watch his step....:laugh:)...but the point I made earlier is that when you want to hurt someone, a well worn path is the quickest way. So if your sibling has been picked on for something, and then you get mad at 'em, you could be inclined to dredge it up and use it if it’s gone to fightin’ dirty mode. I've seen siblings do it. My brother knows my achilles heel, thankfully has only ever used it twice our whole lives, and certainly never expect to see it splashed all over the TV news.

Besides...reading the info Poss posted...LaToyah wanted to extort money out of him as well so it's not even just some brother and sister spat. The guy was a walking piggy bank to anyone within 100 metres of him. Poor bast@rd.




when was the last time anyone here was called a pedophile when it wasn't true ?????

Funny you should ask...I have seen it happen twice on this forum, in fact. (not counting Jules doing it in jest a few posts back). Whitegold was once accused of incest with his own child by some bitter individual who felt out-debated... and someone else got accused once...thought it was you??? Can't remember now, but I will search the memory banks. Anyway, both times it was pure retaliation...just abhorrent. But the two accused were not mega rich superstars worth trying to extort, nor did they have funny noses...so it went no further, and the world's media never shoved it in our faces while we were having dinner. But don’t think people aren’t low enough to go there.

And I mentioned earlier that I’ve been called an animal fukcer...when really I am merely an animal cuddler.

(PS. Hilly said to me earlier, yeah but they’re your dogs...whereupon I had to confess that I have also allowed the neighbour’s dog to get on the bed a couple of times. He has sleepovers here, so if he’s here on a night when I am letting my two sleep on the bed, it would be mean to exclude him. But he’s here so much that he’s my honorary dog. And his parents know where he is. God, I am the MJ of the canine world. :laugh: )

Anyway......Doesn’t matter whether or not some people find cuddling other people’s kids in bed weird...fact is, that’s not the same thing as child molestation and it’s not illegal. So all this debate about to cuddle or not to cuddle is just about our likes and dislikes, not about any wrongdoing on MJ's part.




david bowie's never actually been to outer-space neither has Major tom

Wash your mouth out!



I cant see that there is any similarity between playing with your child and forgetting you are standing under a fan and hanging your kid over a balcony.
Same sense of getting carried away, forgetting where you are...he was showing his baby off, he was proud, and there was a crowd, and he was over-exuberant. I wasn't defending his parenting choice, merely saying that there are plenty of examples of equally stupid ones that can be drawn from mainstream parenting styles that don't get televised.




I think its because life would be meaningless, if you cant do farm chores in white socks and a glittery glove........

You know too much. :laugh:
 PeachSipper

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Posted: 6/29/2009 6:09:58 AM
agree.. I got to work today.. welding.. with one glove in the car,,,... damn!!!

though...there was this moment...

"billy jean is not my girl.. she just thinks I am the one...."

a spark went down the boot......
 julianx

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Posted: 6/29/2009 6:59:05 AM

or send them to any strangers place ... just because your kids were enamoured by a TV" rock star ?


No I wouldn't send my kids to a strangers place, but then from all I've read mj wasn't a stranger the kids in question or their families, quite the opposite in fact, he had long standing friendships with them.


what are you trying to legitimise here?...


Not trying to legitimise anything, I'll leave that up to the law. I'm simply pointing out that what mj has been accused of, goes on in plenty of other places. There doesn't appear to any conclusive evidence that he did anything more than have other peoples kids in his bed.
 CavesBeach

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Posted: 6/29/2009 7:03:54 AM
OMG where to start, what about here !!

I assume that the main reason people have a problem with him having kids in bed with him is because beds are where we most commonly have sex?

Its not just anyone doing this by the way, its not someone "you" might trust, this is an act of a man who has been accused of fiddling with kids, on more than a few occassions. this is someone who thinks himself peter pan, someone who has coveted who he is.
Even I acknowledge he is an extraordinary chap, I am kinda freaked out that his talents have blinded people somewhat.
Even if I agreed with you bunch of pseudo-parent child cuddling peter pan's on the "cuddling other folks kids to sleep issue", do you think its a good idea to let someone accused of molestation participate.

If "O.J Simpson" starts break-dancing and bringing out pop hits, are you guys gunna give him a pardon too...he was aquitted also.
I'm going to the beach tomorrow to stick my head in the sand, try and see this from MJ fan perspective.lol
 photoman001

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Posted: 6/29/2009 8:25:14 AM
Boy oh boy this one has the fur flying. Interesting to see people who are normally all on the same 'side' now in opposing corners.
Going back to the difference between 'Innocent' and 'Not Guilty' (posts 65/68) there is a big difference. A jury at the end of a trial declares you to be "Not guilty". Never do they presume to pronounce innocence. The phrase "Innocent until proven guilty" is merely a point of procedure for the court that the onus of proof is on the prosecution. I for instance was once interviewed in relation to an alleged assault. Within a week I received a letter saying the matter would not proceed as there was not sufficient evidence against me to take the matter to court. (crap from an angry neighbour who I had a barney with)
This is part of the procedure a case goes through. In order to get to court there is a 'checklist' called the 'Points of Proof' for each offence. If the evidence on fails to cover any of the points of proof then the case will never see a court so as not to waste the courts time. To point out how difficult that process is, there are six Points of Proof for a simple theft like shoplifting and unless you have evidence covering all of them the brief will not be approved. Once you get to the court you then have to PROVE them all "beyond reasonable doubt". The defence then merely has to introduce "any doubt at all" to have a Magistrate dismiss the case.
So in summary, no evidence = no prosecution. Enough evidence to go to trial = prosecution. Having a clever Lawyer earning 50 times the prosecutor AND the judge and the ability to call 30 witnesses who are your friends and would say anything to help you. Well you go figure.
Again, this is not a statement about MJ as I pointed out in my earlier post (which Naamah seemed to have missed) but an explanation of a point of law. Some dude once upon a time did say "Better a hundred guilty men go free than one innocent man be convicted." Hard to disagree with that, but also hard to watch those other hundred walking away laughing.
 Naamah

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Posted: 6/29/2009 8:55:39 AM
Its not just anyone doing this by the way, its not someone "you" might trust, this is an act of a man who has been accused of fiddling with kids, on more than a few occassions.

Yes, he is a man who has been accused of fiddling with kids, which does not make him a man who has fiddled with kids. Accusation in itself is not evidence of wrongdoing, and certainly not evidence of a crime. It's a catalyst for investigation though, which ultimately results in a verdict. If the verdict is 'not guilty', it makes no sense to continue to lean on the original accusation as any sort of proof. A man is not guilty merely because he is accused.


I am kinda freaked out that his talents have blinded people somewhat.

Child molestation is a very emotive topic, as well it should be. I actually think, as a topic, that it is far more blinkering than fascination with celebrity. I believe it is equally head in the sand to assume that if someone so much as mentions child molestation, it is immediately true.

If a friend of yours turns up with a new car...and he often has new cars cos it seems to be a passion of his. Someone accuses him of stealing this new car. He stands up to them and makes them shut up. Someone else makes an accusation about the same thing. Goes to court. Found not guilty. People continue to say he stole it regardless cos he's a bit different, and they keep saying yeah, he always has new cars...only got off due to lack of evidence. Do you personally continue to assume he stole the car?


Interesting to see people who are normally all on the same 'side' now in opposing corners.
It's great actually. Such a relief to be able to use the forum for debate without anyone accusing anyone of personal agendas. (Although secretly I am only disagreeing with Hilly cos I hate her...muahahaha)
 Naamah

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Posted: 6/29/2009 9:34:19 AM
Damn: missed my edit time, but Photoman I wanted to ask about this...

Never do they presume to pronounce innocence. The phrase "Innocent until proven guilty" is merely a point of procedure for the court that the onus of proof is on the prosecution. I for instance was once interviewed in relation to an alleged assault. Within a week I received a letter saying the matter would not proceed as there was not sufficient evidence against me to take the matter to court. (crap from an angry neighbour who I had a barney with)
This is part of the procedure a case goes through. In order to get to court there is a 'checklist' called the 'Points of Proof' for each offence. If the evidence on fails to cover any of the points of proof then the case will never see a court so as not to waste the courts time. To point out how difficult that process is, there are six Points of Proof for a simple theft like shoplifting and unless you have evidence covering all of them the brief will not be approved. Once you get to the court you then have to PROVE them all "beyond reasonable doubt". The defence then merely has to introduce "any doubt at all" to have a Magistrate dismiss the case.
So in summary, no evidence = no prosecution. Enough evidence to go to trial = prosecution. Having a clever Lawyer earning 50 times the prosecutor AND the judge and the ability to call 30 witnesses who are your friends and would say anything to help you. Well you go figure.

Sorry to quote almost the whole lot (am scarred by earlier events) but am I to understand that what you are saying here, particularly with the "well you go figure" ending you tacked on...that you believe that even a man who walks free from court with a not guilty verdict, can never be considered entirely innocent? That unless it is dismissed before trial, you remain suspicious of a person who walks from court with a 'not guilty' verdict? I would like to clarify this with you before I comment further.
 Hawaiianluau

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Posted: 6/29/2009 12:14:45 PM
There is nothing that says you can't presume a person guilty unless it's proven to be when you are outside a court of law. Presumtion of innocence is only reserved inside the court. I know many people who are guilty of crimes that I have witnessed personally that have not and never will be indicted for them. There are others that I suspect of wrong doing and without any evidence I have every right to judge them however I please until we are bound by the laws and penalties of the court who's time hopefully will never come. I (we all) make judgements every day on personalities based on past knowledge and choose to let certain people close or keep them at a distance based on the information, proven or not, that we've lived. It's essential to do so.
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Posted: 6/29/2009 7:39:34 PM

Its not just anyone doing this by the way, its not someone "you" might trust, this is an act of a man who has been accused of fiddling with kids, on more than a few occassions.

Yes, he is a man who has been accused of fiddling with kids, which does not make him a man who has fiddled with kids.


Oooh, look at that, you go to bed and the post fairies come in and respond to posts for you …thanks Tink…[chuckle] looks like I’ll have to respond to the other bit


this is someone who thinks himself peter pan, someone who has coveted who he is.

I don’t see how this would prove him to be a paedophile I don’t recall Peter Pan molesting any of the lost boys, mind you I reckon Captain hook could be accused of being into infanticide.



Even if I agreed with you bunch of pseudo-parent child cuddling peter pan's on the "cuddling other folks kids to sleep issue", do you think its a good idea to let someone accused of molestation participate.


I don’t mind the Peter Pan label, ‘speshly if it keeps me from getting any more wrinkles and grey hair, but please don’t lump me in with the pseudo-parents, I’m not a pretend parent, quite the opposite actually, I’ve been pretending for years not to have kids but the **stards won’t disappear.
But seriously…No I wouldn’t allow my children to have involvement with someone that had had serious allegations of child abuse against them, this doesn’t mean I agree with the allegations nor does it prove they are true, it just means that when it comes to my kids I generally prefer to err on the side of caution. This in itself leads me to question why the parents involved didn’t also play it safe, perhaps their motives weren’t entirely pure.

Personally I’m not convinced either way on the issue, the media has made it next to impossible to make an informed decision. It’s also entirely possible that he was a paedophile and the parents threw their kids in there fully aware of this, so that that they could extort some money out of the guy.
Whatever the truth is, the sad reality is that the kids are going to grow up as abused
people. If the parents story is true then the kids will grow troubled over the effects of being molested, and if mj’s story is true they’ll still grow up believing they were molested because their mum made them believe they were.


Child molestation is a very emotive topic, as well it should be. I actually think, as a topic, that it is far more blinkering than fascination with celebrity.


True, and it does lead me to wonder why some folks emotions around the topic become extreme, extreme to the point of being down right aggressive, not that there’s anyone posting at the moment like that, but people sometimes do. Somnia made an
interesting point about reflecting our own potential for evil in someone else, sure emotions play a big part in forming our opinions but when folk get aggressive I tend to question where they are coming from, people who get aggressive towards gays often turn out to be latent homosexuals themselves, they see their own potential and it scares them, the same goes for people aggressively opposed to violence. So I can’t help but think that if someone is vehemently and over emotional about the topic of child molestation it may well be either because….a) they are a victim of child abuse, themselves or their kids or, b) they see their own potential to commit such acts and it scares them to the point where they can’t cope with it.
 losenut

Joined: 2/26/2008
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Posted: 6/29/2009 8:00:43 PM
Oh strewth, I must be as weird as jacko then, because I have had my daughter, my step kids and many females share my bed for a cuddle and nothing else....even at 28 my daughter will still seek out a cuddle, although, I do make sure i am waering something if she is about because she will often just jump right in....

I dont think he was a kid fiddler either, he paid because thats what a business does to lessen the fallout, shame on the people who accepted the money, and I do seem to remember that he was found innocent by jury......have we forgotten that part...in short I mostly agree with Nammah, as usual a well thought out discussion from her....bet I didnt spell that right
 tassiegreatplace

Joined: 4/20/2009
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Posted: 6/29/2009 11:01:59 PM
he was a bloody good bloke look at all the good things he did

MAY HE REST IN PEACE
 CavesBeach

Joined: 11/28/2008
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Posted: 6/29/2009 11:52:51 PM
hey loosenut, do you sleep with your friends kids and cuddle them watching disney movies.? you never know you might be as weird as MJ.
no body would condem anybody for showing your own family cuddles and stuff, but other folks children for me is pretty sick..I love reiteration.

I do seem to remember that he was found innocent by jury......have we forgotten that part

it seems he got off 1 charge of molestation, but have you forgotten the part where the jury never got a chance when he paid 2 kids around 22 million dollars to settle out a court


he was a bloody good bloke look at all the good things he did

I know a few blokes who knew Ivan Milat, they say the same same thing.
they told me some terribly nice things he had done...but all awhile I'm thinking evil man.

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One big question for all you jackson lovers out there, lets say there was irrefutable proof that he was a child fiddler, would you still say such nice things about him.??
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seems to me even if he was guilty it would not make a lick of difference around here ...shamone !!!
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