| Rejecting a person and receiving a nasty reply
Posted: 6/29/2009 8:44:43 AM | | I've been called a stuck up ****; I've been harrassed by repetitive messages ( maybe they think that will win me over ;P) you only have to respond once " oh well that is all you had to say, I was waiting for you to sound like a complete ***hole before I made my choice, when we going on a date? no really I really really want to date you, you sound so compatible to me" trust me they leave you alone after that. If all else fails F@** the Haters | |
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| Rejecting a person and receiving a nasty reply
Posted: 6/29/2009 9:35:42 AM | Never received any rejection emails, because I don't initiate contact.
If you are sending out first contact emails, and there is some idiot who just has to go out of his/her way to be utterly rude, you just have to ignore the ignorance, keep your head up, and move on. | |
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| Rejecting a person and receiving a nasty reply
Posted: 6/30/2009 10:20:51 AM | I don't get nasty replies, but A LOT of initial contacts by the women folk are not nice.
I usually just thank them for their message.
Then in a soft voice I mutter "b*tch"...All better.
Hmmm...just got blocked by a woman for telling her she looked more in her 30s than 50. And so it goes.
Mutters "B*tch"...All better once again.
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| Rejecting a person and receiving a nasty reply
Posted: 6/30/2009 2:38:59 PM | I have often dreamed about starting a magazine that would list bad drivers on a point system. Old people unaware of life outside of 25 feet of their hood, people driving under the speed limit in the fast lane while talking on the cell phone, tailgaters, etc.
You get the gist...
This magazine would also list hunters who have bagged public nuisances and eliminated the pain and inconvenience created by them. Pictures would be taken of Grandpa and Grandma strung up like marlins or the bimbo soccer mom tied to the hood of a pick up truck. Each photo would contain the tagged prize along with the happy hunter.
Points could be redeemed for prizes ranging from a flat screen TV to a vacation in Europe.
Some posters on POF would automatically be included in this magazine for their incessant whining.
Dare to dream I say. | |
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| Rejecting a person and receiving a nasty reply
Posted: 6/30/2009 2:51:05 PM | | I think if guys unleash on you for not replying it makes them fee like they did nothing wrong and it is because you are stuck up and have your own messed up problems. guys don't take to rejection very well | |
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| Rejecting a person and receiving a nasty reply
Posted: 6/30/2009 2:55:32 PM | Procolharem - feel free to tell me I look in my 30s - I promise not to block you!
I have never gotten a nasty reply, but I did get a funny one. I did not initiate contact, I simply viewed a user's profile. (Wasn't even interested after I read the profile.) The person sent me a note saying "Good luck in my search but it did not include him." First time I was ever rejected just for VIEWING! LOL (Made me wonder if he sends a note to every woman who views his profile? That would be a LOT of work!) | |
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| Rejecting a person and receiving a nasty reply
Posted: 6/30/2009 4:07:19 PM | | I HAVE ALSO GOTTEN NASTY, MEAN EMAILS. I THOUGHT THAT IF YOU JUST DELETE THEIR EMAIL WITHOUT RESPONDING THEN THEY WILL KNOW YOU NOT INTERESTED..ENOUGH SAID..RIGHT? | |
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| Rejecting a person and receiving a nasty reply
Posted: 7/1/2009 3:29:34 AM |
Procolharem - feel free to tell me I look in my 30s - I promise not to block you!
Um...I tried, but I'm distance blocked. 
BTW...just got a first contact message.
Stupid Picture
WTF? | |
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| Rejecting a person and receiving a nasty reply
Posted: 7/1/2009 2:39:11 PM | UPDATE: So - in addition to being called the "trailer trash of trabucco canyon" I now got another "compliment".... which also made me  A man wrote me first and said "you are adorable" to which I replied nicely that those kind of messages are really unneccesary (as I already know I am! ;-) LOL) and since he also said the exact same thing to my friend - not creative at all either.
His reply to me was to tell me that I am not "all that" and not to get my "BIG britches in a bunch!" and that I should just "shut up and go out to gobble up lunch with all my fat bi-otch friends" - oh - and that he wasn't even attracted to me anyways... even though he sent me the "adorable" message. Of course, the entire message (and his profile!) was riddled with typos.
OMG - just too funny some of the responses us women get when we "reject" you guys... I have never seen a bigger group of babies in one place... besides preschool! LOL
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| Rejecting a person and receiving a nasty reply
Posted: 10/3/2009 1:12:46 AM |
I love nasty emails. Makes my day. They go great with morning coffee. Especially ones who feel the need to contact me telling me how upsetting my profile is to them. I've been told my profile is fake. I mean, seriously, if I was going to make a fake profile don't you think I would be more accommodating to the masses?
oh grasshopper reject them correctly the first time and there is no need to worry about a nasty reply.
now snatch the pebble from my hand. | |
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| Rejecting a person and receiving a nasty reply
Posted: 10/3/2009 1:27:55 AM |
OK -- how do you ladies (or gentlemen) handle this? I have rejected some profiles or just looked at the profiles and not bothered with the emails, etc. and I get nasty emails in my box sometimes from men as though I OWE then an acceptance and by not showing interest I'm shallow, etc. the responses go on and on.
we westcoasters would never do that...
we are the epitomy of chill  | |
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| Rejecting a person and receiving a nasty reply
Posted: 10/3/2009 1:38:17 AM | I block them. Some will then in turn make up a new profile and continue to harass me. Block those too until they just get tired/bored of creating profiles and getting no response/reaction.
I don't OWE anyone anything. Sure it might be nice to answer people back who wrote me, but from these nutcases lurking behind seemingly normal profiles, I'm relunctant to do so. Sorry guys but I'd rather ignore the message you sent than get insulted/cursed at/harassed/stalked what have you by these guys.
But I don't know you, so I don't owe you. Has nothing to do with manners/courtesy for me. Mainly just wanting to be left alone and its easier to just not reply and that way no one's feelings are hurt directly and I don't have to deal with a psycho. | |
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| Rejecting a person and receiving a nasty reply
Posted: 10/3/2009 3:34:14 AM | I get in there first.
Send someone you fancy a nasty message, calling her a wh0re, sIut etc etc, that way when she does reject you, you already have said your bit. Works every time. | |
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| Rejecting a person and receiving a nasty reply
Posted: 10/3/2009 7:23:15 AM | | i know exactly what you mean! i got called a slapper and worse this week from a guy, because he wasnt my type, i try to be as nice as possible about it but it dont work... but look on the bright side they not very nice people and it shows what these men are like in lfe. so dont feel bad block and smile you got a lucky escape! angie | |
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| Rejecting a person and receiving a nasty reply
Posted: 10/3/2009 7:49:45 AM | I like that before these guys call you "trailer trash" or "ugly hussies", they wanted desperately to be with you.
I've heard from women about guys that were simply dumbfounded a woman didn't choose him and the things they've replied back in emails makes you think that sometimes there should be pre-emptive arrests for potential psycho stalkers. Then when they've showed me these guys' profiles, the most shocking thing is learning that God sure has had some off-days at the office. I know it is shocking to learn that some women do like their men to have both eyes looking in the same direction, to take a shower at least monthly, and to own at least one shirt. If you message one with those preferences, don't sweat it and move on to find your dreamgirl that finds your qualities attractive.
People just need to get over themselves a little bit and to realize that you are not going to be everyone's cup of tea. I know of the fit, sophisticated, and well-to-do guys that are sometimes turned away here in favor of the stocky, balding, simple guys with a good disposition.
The important thing to remember is that you're not here for the first person to message you. If you wanted "just someone", you could get that at the supermarket but the use of online dating is to be able to be a little more selective as you can encounter those that do pique your interests more that you normally wouldn't encounter day to day.
Delete and block. | |
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| Rejecting a person and receiving a nasty reply
Posted: 10/5/2009 12:38:03 PM | Hey I got the same guy with the "fat thing" He sent me a message and I answered nicely, but he didn't like that I didn't jump at meeting him. He then sent me a message--"you couldn't handle me anyway" THEN said "you are too fat anyway".
Well, why did he send me a message if too fat??? hahahahaha god love him.
I used to think to answer ALL mail then I got so many rude remarks and even when I said I thought it only polite to answer didn't help, I just stopped answering dumb ones.
You can begin to tell by what they send, it is like they copied and paste to just send to as many as possible hoping run across a yes! lol | |
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| Rejecting a person and receiving a nasty reply
Posted: 10/5/2009 3:51:39 PM | | I get the same crap as you do...if you don't respond at all or in a "timely fashion" in their eyes aka the second after you read the message...they go ballistic on you. They have zero self-esteem or a LOT of time on their hands to be taking time out of their lives to write to people that aren't interested in them! lol. Or, I've even had this quite a bit...for awhile my profile said 'here for friends', I've recieved rudeass emails from complete strangers saying " Go on facebook if you want friends!!" or saying 'this isn't a popularity contest' or just stupid meaningless CRAP. Seriously??? Get. A. LIFE!! grrr | |
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| Rejecting a person and receiving a nasty reply
Posted: 10/8/2009 1:24:39 PM | First of all, do not reject someone, in my experience if i contact a girl and she dosent reply that is that.
But when they reject you that hurts, because you get a msg saying this person does not like you etc etc.
Most women hurt men, i know, but i believe they dont do it intentionally, and if i educate one person today, i will be happy.
In life just be nice | |
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| Rejecting a person and receiving a nasty reply
Posted: 11/24/2009 6:58:55 AM | The things that I find interesting is when a guy writes a nice polite e-mail and gets it read/deleted but as soon as the guy gets hostile the person is very quick to respond to that? Why is that?
I figured it would be the other way if a guy sends a nasty message I'd hope the woman would shake her head say what a looser and read/delete and block the person but alas 99% they dont they want to respond to the guy being nasty lol | |
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