Are you attracted to women with male pattern baldness? Does that answer your question?
There are a lot of threads in this post, so I'm assuming you haven't read them all. In fact, I certainly wouldn't fault you for not taking the time to sift through all the postings.
But your question came up before, and it's an easy answer. Women aren't traditionally bald. When you do see a woman who is balding, it stands out because it's such a rarity. A man typically thinks that the woman has some sort of genetic imbalance or something. With a man, though, you just think he's got the male-pattern baldness going on.
So that question of yours isn't really a good comparison. It would be like if a man had a pair of breasts. You'd think that something different is up because it's not the norm.