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| She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 6/27/2009 1:49:36 PM | | why do you care? Men want younger, hence more fertile women. It's evolution, stop trying to figure it out. Not only is a young woman generally more fertile, but also moreso for a longer period of time. | |
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| She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 6/27/2009 1:53:55 PM |
Men want younger, hence more fertile women. It's evolution, stop trying to figure it out. Not only is a young woman generally more fertile, but also moreso for a longer period of time.
Well, not quite.
I got knackered a LONG time ago, so I can't even squirt those little swimmers anymore, nor would I WANT to be fertile....
... but, man, I see those hot young bodies and I'd LOVE to bang them...
... there's just something about that female frame that gets me...
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| She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 6/27/2009 2:04:26 PM | Well, the real question is how many of those 48y/o guys are actually *getting* those 18 or 19yr old women? I can look for someone to give me a $million with no strings attached, but quite honestly its not very likely is it? ... where are all those people giving away $million checks?!?  The reality is, maybe they think that 18y/o, or that $million check will "make them happy"... could be, I dunno, but if they aren't happy now w/o it, I would venture a guess they could be unhappy for a "while"...
Of course, the reality is, there's probably more 18/19 y/o women who might date a 48y/o guy than people handing out $mil checks with no strings...
But then, one would have to ask - why would someone be handing out $1mil checks? And why would a 18/19 y/o woman want to be with a 48y/o guy? What are *they* "getting out of it"? While it may say something about *him*, doesn't it also speak volumes about *her* as well?
So, reversing it, why are 18/19 y/o women willing to date 48y/o men? Stability? Money? Sexual "experience"? "Daddy figure"? Is it an "ego thang"? One might think 48y/o guys wouldn't be looking so young, if they weren't getting *some* success, wouldn't you? Don't they both have to be "willing participants"?
Just out of curiosity, OP, why are you stating this as if the man is "wrong" for it, and yet NOT questioning why a 18/19 y/o woman would date a 48y/o guy? That, in my mind, implies that you find it "ok" if a 18/19 y/o woman wants to date a 48y/o guy, but its "wrong" for the 48/yo guy to want to date her if she's interested? Double standard??
Personally if the guy wants to date really young women, and he's successful at it (they must want to date older guys too), I don't really care that much. On the flip side, I'll find it really annoying if they start whining threads here on POF about how the 18/yo's don't respond to them, because they're really "nice" guys...  | |
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| She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 6/27/2009 2:09:18 PM | Men don't care about stereotypes and what other people think which is why older men will date 18 year old women.
Women wouldn't date an 18 year old because of the bashing they would get from other women.
In the long run, women are their own worst enemy. | |
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| She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 6/27/2009 2:18:33 PM | I like it! It's even better if the guy is older than 48 ~ Guys over forty should be with very young women
All young... all the time
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| She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 6/27/2009 2:30:45 PM | It ain't rocket science... and that's not even mentioning that they aren't jaded, nasty creatures like many of the 40+ women.
Unfortunately, this is usaully because of the way so many men treated them in their 20's and 30's. (Some) women become bitter for a reason...and it's usually because of all the jerks we have to deal with when we're younger.
By the time we reach a certain age, we won't put up with it anymore, so they can't get away with it anymore. They call us "bitter" when really, we just won't put up with their bullsh*t anymore, because as we get older, we finally realize that we are worth more then that.
Some older men also go for younger women, because they're easier to abuse, control and manipulate. | |
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| She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 6/27/2009 2:39:17 PM | OP: I have to agree with others here: why do you care? Is it because the 48 year old man you are interested in would rather be with an 18 or 19 year old female. If so, get over it.
Maybe men are looking for someone who does not say "ego thang" or attribute men's behaviors to ego in the first place.
Now, given the general expectation that men do the asking and pay for dates, it makes sense that a man is going to pursue the most appealing females first. (I know, many females will respond that they ask men out and pay on dates; I think this happens on February 30.) If a man has a choice between someone in good physical shape with an appealing personality and someone who is not in the best physical shape or has an unappealing personality, why would he not select option one?
That said, I have only met one man who is specifically looking for females more than 15 years younger than himself. He also happens to be very immature. At the same time, females of every age seem drawn to him, despite commenting on the fact that they see him as immature. | |
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| She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 6/27/2009 2:40:23 PM | Blaugh..in most instances you are correct, but there are a lot of women over 40 that aren't nasty, that are in great shape and who are really fun! I think you have a lousy attitude. Have any of these men looked in the mirror? There are MANY men over 40 that are sagging, can't make body parts work or who aren't fun...not to mention balding and with beer guts. I know young women whose boobs sag more than mine do and who have cellulite.
It's an individual thing. In my opinion, I don't see how a 48 year old MAN OR WOMAN...would have a lot in common with someone that much younger with them..other than Sex.
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I've only dated women who were under 30 most of my life. But lately I'm discovering there ARE older women who aren't toe up. So, yea I agree with you there. But a lot of the younger ones haven't had a chance to have their minds poisoned by older jadded women yet.. And they still smell and taste fresh..
Most of the (very few) older women who are still hot and don't smell act entitled and spoiled. | |
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| She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 6/27/2009 2:49:31 PM | I think there's a lot of difference between a man who meets a younger girl, is attracted, and goes for it (why not, if she's interested?), and the type of middle-aged man who will ONLY, specifically, be interested in a girl young enough to be his daughter (by a mile). THAT kind of man (the latter) I would automatically assume was a pretty disturbed control freak, who WANTS a daughter-type he can control (and screw, like he can't his OWN daughter) rather than a woman he can partner with.
To each their own, but that's pretty sad--and screams insecurity.
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| She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 6/27/2009 2:58:15 PM |
It ain't rocket science... and that's not even mentioning that they aren't jaded, nasty creatures like many of the 40+ women. Unfortunately, this is usaully because of the way so many men treated them in their 20's and 30's. (Some) women become bitter for a reason...and it's usually because of all the jerks we have to deal with when we're younger.
Ah, so LCG answered my question above (in a way)... so these young women are willing to date much older guys because all the guys their age are "jerks" that are making them bitter at dating guys in their age group!
Some older men also go for younger women, because they're easier to abuse, control and manipulate.
And if they choose well, they won't get one of those "some" older guys that are still "jerks", and might get an older guy that treats them well and respects them... | |
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| She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 6/27/2009 3:00:37 PM | A boy and his dad are at a baseball game and the boy notices an ad behind home plate for something called "Viagra". The boy is curious so he says: "Dad, what's Viagra?"
His father is taken off gaurd by the question, and he doesn't know how he's going to explain to his son the purpose of this medication. Suddenly, in a moment of genius, the answer comes to him, and he smiles and says: "Son, Viagra is a pill your daddy has to take cause Mommy's getting old."
This is a bit OT, but I had to share it after reading Capitano Blaugh's comment.
And to the responder who said that it made the older man seem like a pedophile, that is one of the most ignorant things I have read in these forums. Seriously. | |
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| She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 6/27/2009 3:09:11 PM | To truly understand, perhaps you should take a walk on the wild side and date some in the 25 and younger crowd for a bit. You say you are 41 and attractive so it should be a walk in the park to find a young stud looking for a milf.
I look in the same age group as you, likely, and I haven't run into that. What I see is that most men who do have age restrictions usually have it set to about 2 years older than them. So a 40 yr old dude will have 18-42. This doesn't mean they are outright looking for an 18 year old, just that they don't want someone older than them. | |
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| She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 6/27/2009 3:10:47 PM | I just found it very interesting to see how many profiles are up front, off the bat about setting the must be in this age limit. Based on what he is willing to even think about " communicating " with someone online, very shallow requirements and superficial needs. It seems these type of men stereotype with their jaded influences that all woman in their 40's are less fertile, not tight and as in shape bodies, big arses, saggy boobs syndrome, Welcome to 2009 and step up into the new age.
Today's women are lovely into all ages, with all the technology. Many people in their 40's start to keep their bodies so health and nutrition matters, many obsess over the gym, a lot of folks are non smokers.
There can be many good years to be had, 40 is young, people.
It would seem that men in their 40's would be looking for the connection mentally, someone who might have had some experiences in life and will not be so needy, more stable financially and emotionally. someone more of a peer and partner.
I view it more of a very lazy attempt to get laid, instead of putting in the effort needed to see if there is any commonality, something to sustain after sex, why not just do the visual eye candy and see how powerful I can look in her mind test.
Women who are seeking out an older man does so for her many different reasons.
I seem to be more understanding with the younger ones, at 19 most are very naive and looking to exit the situation they are in most likely. The desire to seduce a man is always enticing, knowing most men only think with the little head.
She can be on easy life, if she plays her cards correctly. (nothing lasts forever)
A powerful daddy can bring so many cool new things to see and try, everyday can be like Disneyland.
Many ladies like the structure an older man can poses, confidence, less games. etc.
I am not saying anyone gender is at fault, this has been going on since the beginning of time, the older man/ younger woman. Both I am sure get something, nothing is unconditional.
I just get frustrated when you men cut off a large part of dating population to us women just for ageism .
my rant is done, thank you for listening. | |
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| She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 6/27/2009 3:20:40 PM | "Son, Viagra is a pill your daddy has to take cause Mommy's getting old."
What pill can Mommy take to help her get turned on by Daddy's saggy balls and nasty attitude?
A guy has a sexual problem? Blame it on his woman. A woman has trouble achieving orgasm? Frigid!
And to the responder who said that it made the older man seem like a pedophile, that is one of the most ignorant things I have read in these forums. Seriously.
Agreed. Desire for attractive young adults has nothing to do with pedophilia.
The following is one of the more ignorant and offensive things I have read:
But a lot of the younger ones haven't had a chance to have their minds poisoned by older jadded women yet.. And they still smell and taste fresh..
I am over forty and I smell great. Oh, and what do you suppose old men smell like? Roses? | |
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| She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 6/27/2009 3:35:13 PM | | The young woman/girl knows full well she is being paid for,although indirectly, and the old man knows he is paying for the young woman/girl.The old man knows full well even he wont admit it that the young girl would never choose him if an attractive,hot young guy with lots of money wanted her. He accepts that. So if both are accepting of this situation then leave them be to do as they please. | |
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| She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 6/27/2009 3:35:43 PM | Not sure. I would figure something was wrong mentally with a man who can't find enough in common with his peers and has to go looking for some young sucker..Probably the fact that most women his own age won't put up with his lame crap.  | |
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| She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 6/27/2009 3:43:45 PM | Not sure. I would figure something was wrong mentally with a man who can't find enough in common with his peers and has to go looking for some young sucker..Probably the fact that most women his own age won't put up with his lame crap.
Nope...
... just hotter, tighter, funner...
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| She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 6/27/2009 3:43:55 PM |
Women just never seem to understand that 99% of men don't even heard a thing you say until AFTER they've seen you naked and had sex with you.
Until then, all they hear is Charlie Brown's teacher, "Wah, waaah, waaaaah, wah..."
When men say stuff like this I never know whether they actually believe it. I don't think that most women are stupid enough to fail to GET that men prioritize sex in a relationship (believe it or not, many of us do to--even over 40 -- gasp!), but I also think that a woman would have to be pretty stupid to think your take on what makes men tick is actually very helpful/accurate. I KNOW that many men listen to what women say as part of the process of getting to know them, even before seeing them naked. I KNOW that many men would prefer to have emotional and intellectual connections with women they sleep with (for more than one night at least). And I KNOW that the kind of man of whom those things are NOT true (perhaps you are one of those) isn't much of a man--meaning adult, human, male (with a functioning brain).
When you say things like in this last post of yours, what you do is make MEN seem terribly unattractive (although your goal is to make women of a certain age FEEL unattractive themselves). Why would any woman (whether 25 or 45) want to be with the kind of man you describe? Do you really think that MONEY would be enough, for most? Well amazingly enough, MOST women aren't as shallow that, just as (I believe) most men aren't as shallow as you would have us believe.
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| She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 6/27/2009 3:44:33 PM | I don't think that 15 years is a huge age gap, 30 years is significant, .......what a person is looking for and what they manage to get are two different things, but if a guy wants a much younger woman and can get it then why not ?
An ex bf of mine is currently only dating 19/20/21 year olds and he's in his forties, gets a bit tricky of they want kids but apart from that it's working for him.
I personally liked guys that were my own age when I was 20.....from what I can remember ! Right now I'm finding myself attracted to men in their 50's (I'm 37), but maybe that's because I'm looking for more maturity.. | |
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| She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 6/27/2009 3:47:42 PM |
Nope...
... just hotter, tighter, funner...
And he is most likely Less attractive, Saggy, and less fun...so what does the girl get out of it? lol | |
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| She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 6/27/2009 3:56:36 PM |
... but I also think that a woman would have to be pretty stupid to think your take on what makes men tick is actually very helpful/accurate.
Yes, well, it never seems to matter what men say ANYWAY, women will STILL try to belittle us for how we see things anyway, such as the following:
And I KNOW that the kind of man of whom those things are NOT true (perhaps you are one of those) isn't much of a man--meaning adult, human, male (with a functioning brain).
When you say things like in this last post of yours, what you do is make MEN seem terribly unattractive (although your goal is to make women of a certain age FEEL unattractive themselves).
Is THAT what my goal is? Huh, go figger. And here I thought I was merely telling the truth and having a bit of fun.
And, as far as MONEY goes: Money, power and fame tend to knock a lot of years off a man's age as far as many women go.... 
Well amazingly enough, MOST women aren't as shallow that, just as (I believe) most men aren't as shallow as you would have us believe.
Well, you are in a minority if you believe this, 'cause women seem to find myriad reasons to call men shallow, immature shitheads no matter WHAT men say in the fora or how they act in the real world.
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| She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 6/27/2009 4:00:29 PM | | Ok...I have to comment again. To those saying nasty things about the men going for the younger gals...Personally, if I was older and some hot young thing wanted to date me, I'd be flattered. And I'd definately 'tap that'. | |
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