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| She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 6/27/2009 9:47:43 PM |
WOMEN, you included, use the adjective "shallow" to describe the way men react to hot, young women or to the hot women of any age for that matter. There are many other adjectives tossed our way as well that are less than complementary, though most often completely inaccurate.
No, I didn't 'use the adjective "shallow" to describe the way men react to hot, young women or to the hot women of any age for that matter.' I said that YOU were describing men en masse as shallow--whether you used the word or not, that is what you were describing when, for example, you said that men don't hear what women say until after they have seen them naked. I said, in fact, that I don't believe you are right about most men and how they see or react to women, hot or not (which I suspect is similar to how women react to hot men)...and I base my conclusions on a long history of knowing many men, some as friends, some as as lovers, one even as a husband.
Anyway, whether you believe you think men are shallow or not--I DON'T think men or shallow, and I have NOT described them that way. | |
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| She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 6/27/2009 9:56:15 PM | | Yes, ego does have a lot to do with it. Then, the guy can actually fall in love with the younger gender. It happened to me and then when it was all over, I was the one with the broken heart. Funny thing about it though, I wasn't looking for someone 23yrs my junior, it just sort of happened. I did last 12 yrs though and with 1 child! Thru all of this, when I look at my daughter....I wouldn't trade that relationship for the world! | |
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| She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 6/27/2009 10:44:57 PM |
Fine, fine, fine....I no longer wish to dissect "your" joke.....do you have any of your own material?
I would like to propose a label for the Male version of a cougar.
A Badger.
This one was all me.  Cracked myself up.
I am sure you don't have any trouble getting laid, you have a vagina, it's a biological advantage, in the "getting laid" department anyway. The Badgers like what they like. The ones who don't get the fresh meat, are pathetic. The one who do are masters. | |
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| She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 6/27/2009 10:57:37 PM | Where do you come up with this stuff, scorpio? lt almost seem like you actually believe what you are writing  | |
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| She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 6/27/2009 11:19:44 PM | I can only speak for myself. There are allot of sick people in this world, men and woman. I'm 45 and don't need to break moral grounds to make myself feel younger.
A guy going after a girl of that age is nothing but superficial and the relationship is domed because of the lack of the key ingredients that make a relationship. I personally believe that someone like this guy seeking out an 18 year old is a child molester who doesn't want to go to jail so he raised the age bar. And God forbid someone like that went after my girls.
Joe | |
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| She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 6/28/2009 12:59:04 AM | Hay Kasia Kisses, I'm interested in talking with you but your mail settings are alittle bit out of my reach, age wise.
Joe | |
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| She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 6/28/2009 1:56:08 AM | | I read some of the responses from the fellow participants and I'm shocked that so many people can miss the boat regarding the key issue. Some guy seemed to want a give a thesis on the issue. I gave my response of why a guy of 47 would go after a kid but the key issue is protecting and educating a young woman from letting her become involved with someone like that. Who gives a rats but what he desires and the attention should be placed on the young girl who will be affected by this BS for the rest of her life. | |
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| She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 6/28/2009 2:05:18 AM | My cousin is 46 he has moved his step sons ex-g/f of two months...into his home and they are living as a couple. She is 19 and has a child.
It sickens me to see them together. His own children are only a few years younger. When we go to his home his G/F is always playing with makeup or doing something with the girls that is completely within their age range.
When she wants him, she crawl into his lap...just like his daughters do.
His ex wife left him for a younger man. I am sure he is doing this on purpose, just to get back at her. But there is not a single family member that is not sick about this.
Sometimes the girls get upset because they try to get their dada attention and when his g/f sees this she will jump in and take it away like a jealous little girl.
These young girls are children and what these men are doing is sick....just sick. | |
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| She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 6/28/2009 2:23:02 AM |
Seriously other then that, why do men do this? Is it an ego thang.
When women on the forums are asked "why do women do such and such" they invariably answer "don't generalise", so I'll repeat that response here. I guess I would say that a better question is "why do SOME men do this"
I think msg 11 is correct, I don't think it is very common. However, I think that most 48 year old men who are seeking someone 25 and under are not looking for a real relationship. It is one thing for a guy that age who stumbles across a much younger woman (and vice versa with an older woman and much younger man) and they end up connecting somehow. However, it is another thing to be seeking someone of that age range. | |
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| She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 6/28/2009 2:39:01 AM | If your cousin's girlfriend has a family then they should step in immediatly. If not then someone from his side of the family like his mother or who ever is the monarch of the family needs to set him straight because the whole thing is disfunctional and will affect everyone living in his house. The problem is, its very hard if not impossible to change people and I know from allot of expeirence. Sometimes you just have to pray for some kind of divine intervention.
Joe | |
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| She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 6/28/2009 3:39:09 AM | Who cares why a man of that age wants to date a girl of 18/19. I wouldn't want him anyway..................LOL  | |
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| She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 6/28/2009 3:45:05 AM | Younger women tend to have bodies most men prefer, their less complicated, less scarred, easier to manipulate, easier to please, older men who chase them tend to have gotten less action when they were that age... and... um, what else??
You get the picture. | |
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| She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 6/28/2009 5:32:57 AM | I have read all this stuff and the one thing that no one has brought up is the fact that women are at their sexual peak at age 40 men are at there sexual peak at 25 . no doubt someone will correct me if I'm wrong with the age thing. What other people do is none of my business but I've learned a few things in my short life , these are pretty basic stuff.
1 Every man , woman and child wants to feel loved and to express love
Some men will tell women they love them to get sex
Some women will have sex to feel loved (and visa versa)
2 What do most women want ? to feel secure
If the woman works and is indepedent and has two kids
why would she want another kid / boyfriend to take care of
3 Most fights are over two things money or women (men in a woman's case)
I like a nice quiet simple life with no drama and try to live peacefully and show
others respect . Some people actually seem to seek out drama and excitement .
Attention seeking , self harm to see if anybody cares enough to get involved and
show some love without wanting anything in return. Talk is cheap , it cost nothing
to pass judgement without really getting involved . | |
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| She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 6/28/2009 6:28:34 AM | Post #31
<div class="quote">Unfortunately, this is usaully because of the way so many men treated them in their 20's and 30's. (Some) women become bitter for a reason...and it's usually because of all the jerks we have to deal with when we're younger.
By the time we reach a certain age, we won't put up with it anymore, so they can't get away with it anymore. They call us "bitter" when really, we just won't put up with their bullsh*t anymore, because as we get older, we finally realize that we are worth more then that.
That attitude just reeks of dysfunction, yet seems to be a common theme, more or less, amongst a large segment of more mature women posting in the fora. Men, who have options, don't want to get involved with someone with a chip on her shoulder, and for whom the primary motivation is to be "reactive" to everything that's happened in the past. Many men don't want to have to date in a way that feels like a protracted "job interview", or to have the dating paradigm dictated to them by the woman.
The simple fact of the matter is that there is a percentage of "barely legal" young women, who are drawn to "father figure" men, and if a man focuses on that age group, he'll find one. She may be a little bit "crazy", and he'll lose the benefits of being with someone with his sense of life history, but I'd far prefer to be with someone "young and pretty" with a mental illness, than be with a carping, angry shrew, who will make life hell, to get "even" with every man in her past.
I wouldn't date anyone younger than my oldest daughter (26), but I have dated younger several times. When I have, it's because younger women usually are the ones who take the initiative, and make the process simple and easy. No, I've never imagined that a 30 year age difference will last forever. Few relationships, regardless of age, do. While they last, though, they can be mutually beneficial and a lot of fun. Far better, IMO, to be with someone a little bit dysfunctional, who is "into" me, than with someone with the attitude quoted at the top of this post.
There are some women closer to my age, who are physically attractive, with strong sex drives, and with whom it's an easy going, natural dynamic. However, there are times, when it's far easier to "connect" with someone much younger, than with the "primo" women closer to my age, though. | |
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| She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 6/28/2009 6:46:20 AM | Older men get eighteen year old girls for the same reason they buy Corvettes and Porsches, small**** and big wallets.
Eighteen year olds don't know as much about sexual matters, and are less likely to criticize the technique or the size when they are being handed goodies all the time. So he gets to feel like he's a stud in bed, and she gets lots of pretty toys and stuff.
They buy sports cars all of a sudden at this age because they have lost physical strength and need to feel some sort of power and being in control. It all boils down to that.
The next time you are driving, check out the Corvettes and Porsches...the men in them are all half bald losers with guts, or young girls. There are rare exceptions, but EXTREMELY rare.
My friends and I actually have made it a habit to do this, and honest to goodness, it never fails. I think one time we saw two men in the car, and once an older man with an older woman, but that's it.
Beth | |
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| She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 6/28/2009 7:41:26 AM | Older men get eighteen year old girls for the same reason they buy Corvettes and Porsches, small**** and big wallets.
Eighteen year olds don't know as much about sexual matters, and are less likely to criticize the technique or the size when they are being handed goodies all the time. So he gets to feel like he's a stud in bed, and she gets lots of pretty toys and stuff.
They buy sports cars all of a sudden at this age because they have lost physical strength and need to feel some sort of power and being in control. It all boils down to that.
The next time you are driving, check out the Corvettes and Porsches...the men in them are all half bald losers with guts, or young girls. There are rare exceptions, but EXTREMELY rare.
My friends and I actually have made it a habit to do this, and honest to goodness, it never fails. I think one time we saw two men in the car, and once an older man with an older woman, but that's it.
Beth
What a moronic comment. You see older men in expensive cars, because they can afford them. Most guys go through life wishing they could afford a certain car. It just so happens that many can't afford one until they're in their 40's and 50's. If women are suddenly drawn to them because of their automobile, what does that say for those women? Most of the guys I know with nice cars, are still married. The cute girl in the passenger seat is his daughter, or his well aged wife. The guys who think a nice car will improve their chances with the ladies, are usually driving around in their nice car alone.
If you and your friends sit around and project negative stereotypes on guys you know nothing about, as they drive by in their expensive cars, that's pretty sad. Making a game out of it is pathetic. What's the word you used? That's right... LOSER. | |
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| She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 6/28/2009 7:45:07 AM | for THE PREJUDICED PEOPLE who say there couldn't be anything in common (and those who call them absurd names) i would differ.
the commonalities of a WIDE age difference are:
we are all human beings.
those who are looking for love seek out those who are ALSO looking for love.
people of ALL ages like to laugh and have fun.
an age difference does not define who we are or who we SHOULD BE.
age does not dictate personalities.
age difference does not pidgeonhole music preference (i like rap and hiphop. i am 57)
age difference does not define gastronomic tastes (i like italian food. millions of 21 yr olds around the world also like italian.)
age difference does not omit political preferences such as liberal and conservative.
i could go on and on. if it's ok FOR RACES TO MIX, it's ok FOR AGES TO MIX. everything is ok today. there is no shame in anything (or so it seems). | |
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| She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 6/28/2009 7:55:05 AM | | Some guys buy a corvette and a porsches because they dreamed their whole life of owning and driving such a car. And it usually takes that long to get the money to buy one. So you are judging someone based on an old mid-life crisis theory. Has there been some survey that backs up your claim. I just can't believe the amount of hate and hysteria on here. Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar. Some people just drive a car because it makes them happy. | |
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| She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 6/28/2009 8:00:13 AM | LOL yeah, call me whatever you like, but take a good hard look around. Suuuurrrrrrrrreeeeeeee that's his daughter...honey, she's just the same AGE as his daughter, and believe me, I have NO envy...LOL been there done that! I was a naive 18 year old once, and yeah, the guys in those particular sports cars asked me out CONT
INUALLY, and yes, I dipped my toe in the pool just for fun a couple of times (LOL, what a visual!). My friends, all my same age, were getting hit on by those same types, and let me tell you, these guys were 'seperated' from their wives, or newly divorced, wanting arm candy. They were looking for that fountain of youth, and girls 18 or so were their spigots.
You mention that men that age buy those cars because they can afford them. Hmmmm. My parents aren't hurting for money, and my Dad never felt the urge to go buy a Corvette to wheel Mom around in....however, SHE had the convertible, and now drives a new CTS while he drives the Town Car. They have been married over 40 years, and don't need to impress anyone...they like nice cars though!
Yeah, you can call me a loser too...but I find the whole situation funny, as do my friends. Seeing a bald guy with the top down in a brand new Vette looking for a hookup is hilarious. It's even funnier when I am with my 18 year old daughter and he hits on her, and we have a good laugh after she says 'No thanks' You see, I've already warned her about guys like that.
Yeah, I'm a big ole loser, in my happy relationship, with a man who is very financially stable, responsible, loving, has his Master's degree, yup, I totally lost out in the dating field. LOL
Oh, and by the way, he drives a truck with a dent in it.
Doesn't bother me a bit.....especially when we're taking off for Vegas or somewhere else for a getaway.
Maybe he should buy a Vette....I'd look awfully good driving it! LOLOLOL
Beth | |
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| She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 6/28/2009 8:08:53 AM | They just want to feel like they "still got it"...that they are attractive to the younger women.
Honestly, the younger women they are with want their money..and to use them. The younger women really want the stamina and swagger of the younger men..and will lust for the younger men...but the old farts are too dumb and narcissistic to recognize the facts. I have young daughters and a son...I know the deal. I am attracted to my age group..you have so much more in common, and makes the relationship easy and connected.  | |
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| She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 6/28/2009 8:11:52 AM | You are in a relationship yet looking for a date? Maybe you should update your profile and delete the first date part of your profile and say are here just for the forums.
So just because your parents act a certain way everyone their age must. I guess since all elephants have four legs my dog must be an elephant.
Narrow minded, judgmental, and bitter. What a trifecta for your Boyfriend. | |
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| She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 6/28/2009 8:15:34 AM | After reading some of these posts, I am glad THIS Mother of two beautiful girls, that fall in the "said" age range....keeps a loaded pistol with the safety off, ready at all times!
Then again, a male over the age 30 from their stand point....is a male with one foot in the grave, and the other on a banana peel! And, for that I am grateful!
IMO: Unless, it directly affects me, and mine....I believe in "To Each Their Own". And, to be fair to both genders...it works both ways....women are just as guilty for seeking, "Much younger men" for the same reasons these 50 age men are.
**To RobertsLoveQuest: I enjoy your posts.  | |
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| She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 6/28/2009 8:19:25 AM | My profile says I'm looking for a date? I thought it said just friends, I'll fix that asap. I only come on here for the forums. Anyone who emails me knows that right off.
My bf is laying right here, and I asked him if I was narrow-mine, judgemental, or bitter. He said I happened to be one of the most open minded people he knew, moreso than he, and it was one of the things he loves about me. Judgemental, yes, to a degree, in that if I have experienced something, or found something to be true, I try not to make the same mistake again, however, I am not PREJUDICED, which is a much different thing.
Then there is bitter.......he licked me and said I tasted pretty sweet to him. LOL
Beth | |
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| She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 6/28/2009 8:21:31 AM | They just want to feel like they "still got it"...that they are attractive to the younger women.
Honestly, the younger women they are with want their money..and to use them. The younger women really want the stamina and swagger of the younger men..and will lust for the younger men...but the old farts are too dumb and narcissistic to recognize the facts. I have young daughters and a son...I know the deal. I am attracted to my age group..you have so much more in common, and makes the relationship easy and connected. te]
So all those boats, motorcycles, and jet-skis younger men buy isn't to attract women they really only own them for the sport. And women never fall for the "lets go boating, motorcycling, jet ski " type of dates. Women around their age would "never" date a guy just because he had one of those "toys" They are totally attracted to them on a deep and meaningful level of interest and respect. | |
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