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 emlamNsea

Joined: 4/19/2009
Msg: 26
My thoguhts?
Posted: 6/28/2009 11:29:41 PM
My thoughts are that sounds like EXACTLY the sort of bull shit (some) women actually think is rational.

I can top it though...

After I moved out my ex and I were having "ex sex" for awhile, frankly, because we could (the sex got better when we decided to split...who would have thunk it?). I was also casually seeing other people. So was she.

More than once she tried to take me to task for the fact that i was seeing (and sleeping with) other people. When I reminded her that she was doing the EXACT SAME THING...her idea of a rational response was as follows:

Yeah, but I am only doing it to get over you

No, I am not making this up.

And yes, you can assume that every time I had sex with my ex wife, it was NOT against her will. In fact, it was her idea...each and every time (because there was no way I was going to be stupid enough to walk into THAT buzz saw by asking)

Seriously. She seriously thought this rationale made sense.

What can you do brah? Spend the rest of your life jerking off?

Can't live with them....
 whenwillthiswork26

Joined: 11/13/2008
Msg: 27
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Question for woman about dating after a break up
Posted: 6/29/2009 2:51:59 AM
^^^^^^I can totally understand her saying that. Makes perfect sense from a woman's point of view to have sex to get over someone. It's no bs.

OP we all know that most guys won't wait a month to start dating after a breakup so it's a moot point.
 Readyagain8

Joined: 12/28/2008
Msg: 28
Question for woman about dating after a break up
Posted: 6/29/2009 3:44:37 AM
funny! I guess even though she broke up with you she's expecting you to be so heartbroken that you couldn't possibly look at another woman for years afterwards :-) Just her ego thats hurt - or maybe she is hoping you will try to win her back???? But surely she most know that boys have sex to get over a breakup :-)
 cheeky 73

Joined: 1/31/2009
Msg: 29
Question for woman about dating after a break up
Posted: 6/29/2009 3:48:29 AM
maybe you should cut all ties with this lady as having an ex in the background wont do you any facours when you meet someone else !
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