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| Do Men in their 40's Want a relationship, YES A RELATIONSHIP ? A real One !!!
Posted: 7/6/2009 2:07:06 AM | RobW^^^
The most pathetic sounds in Perth yesterday was Pookie weeping, screaming, cursing and wailing in the last 1.20 minutes of THE game..I live in the quietest st in Australia and trust me EVERY neighbor knows I barrack - (live) for Geelong !!! and if Ablett was pissed..Pookie was distraught...still we lost it in the first quarter when the boys were still apparently on the bus travelling up the Geelong Rd from the Cattery !!!!
Got to hand it to the Saints, they were awesome..however my boys came back mighty fine as well...a draw would have been fitting.....we saw the best two teams yesterday and I believe these two will be there that last Saturday in September !!! oh yeah 
On topic.....after yet another weekend (in between football duties) of another great date with a gorgeous man..but guess what ? of course doenst want a relationship cause he works away 6 on, 4 off. !!!!..yep still convinced that..... guys in their 40's still dont want a real relationship.....is there a guy out there to prove me wrong ??................be ideal if your a Cats supporter (Perfect - I dont want much) can endure most teams but Pie supporters need not apply !!!
Yeah I will wager you RobW...name your bet.....oh and a PS...my current photo is like 18 months old... I wouldnt dream of having a real old one up...no point in lying..but I refrain from putting up one of me draped in my over the top Geelong garb...even I admit I look STUPID !! cute..but stupid !!! | |
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| Do Men in their 40's Want a relationship, YES A RELATIONSHIP ? A real One !!!
Posted: 7/6/2009 2:37:12 AM | | to stay on topic pookie, i have met a lady who i adore+ am optimistic about going long term, not counting my chooks by any stretch, but things are looking rosy! now to the real stuff!!!! yesterdays game was a pure example why we truly believe its the greatest game on the planet!! tough,brutal at times but played in the right spirit, if thats a taste of sept. for gods sake, bring it on!!!! still working on a deserving wager pookie+ i,m open to suggestions too!!! there are 2 types of afl supporters today!! saints fans+ those that wanna be!!!! go u bloody beautys! | |
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| Do Men in their 40's Want a relationship, YES A RELATIONSHIP ? A real One !!!
Posted: 7/6/2009 2:47:23 AM | Im loving the passion your expressing for the new lady in your life Rob and your "finally come good at last" football team
Its great to a see man optimistic about the future and happy to pursuing a RELATIONSHIP- a REAL one......this gives me hope (and others) and thinks how one may have to relocate back East ...cause it aint happening in Perth...
The game was brilliant..and how loud was the crowd ?....no louder than over the top Pookie who could be heard all over SOR - ...........sor - its a Perth thing....!!!
Lucky you dont live in WA Rob...cause here in our local rag..the West Australian (1/4 page mention of the best game of the year so far today they are still extolling the virtues of the Dockers/Tossers and West Coast...hello.....!!! we dont care..the real game is back East folks in Melbourne ..get over it....Dockers/WCE in the 8 .. I think not............do you think this could be possibly why I dont have a Perth boyfriend ???......Pookie exits this post pondering this new thought/revelation.......!!!!!!. | |
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| Do Men in their 40's Want a relationship, YES A RELATIONSHIP ? A real One !!!
Posted: 7/6/2009 3:03:12 AM | | True Prat..its a thought..and Id earn the bucks to boot.....but no real great demand for morticians at the mine sites......but heres a thought and well known thru out Perth...guys that work "ordinary" jobs say 9-5 Mon to Fri in say Perth CBD you know accountants etc ...all say they work away so they can play around and not commit as well.....being a "flyin fly out" city..you could tell a girl that you work at the mines, rigs etc and no one would doubt you here..and you get to see your "boyfriend" once every 3-4 weeks..I know plenty of "white collared" guys that spin this line in order not to have a "relationship" etc...... bit sad isnt it ? | |
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| Do Men in their 40's Want a relationship, YES A RELATIONSHIP ? A real One !!!
Posted: 7/6/2009 5:18:52 AM | Wow I always enjoy logging onto here..watching people get personal and tear others apart..its so mature.....when one just asks a question to DISCUSS a issue... that is all....but I guess some get a little emotional when they report a thread and the mods dont pull it....rite ?
I wouldn't give some people on here the time it takes to type F*** u on the keyboard... So I take my hat off to you pooks for even bothering. I will point out that paranoia is a thought process characterized by excessive anxiety or fear, often to the point of irrationality and delusion. Paranoid thinking typically includes persecutory beliefs concerning a perceived threat towards oneself. ttt seems you've gone and threatened some with your OP pooks..... nothing like stickin it to em 
It can also mean thoughts of grandeur! The majority of women on this site are looking for sex. If not why do they place such emphasis on appearance and social status? It's a pretty fishy website! Am I right, or am I right? | |
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| Do Men in their 40's Want a relationship, YES A RELATIONSHIP ? A real One !!!
Posted: 7/6/2009 6:07:11 AM | I feel your frustration Pookie and I hope that your luck will change soon.
Like yourself, I have been on this site for a while too and all I want is a relationship with a good woman. I haven't had any luck yet and like you I'm starting to wounder if it will ever change for me. I try not to dwell on it otherwise it would do my head in. What ever you do don't give up. ( I keep telling myself the same thing.)
I usualy get no response back or some weird reason as to why no one wants to know me. Try and look at it like playing tattsloto. keep playing yout ticket, but don't hold your breath. If it happens great! If it doesn't,...................... Let me know what you can come up with, because I got nothing. <img
DAMM THOSE HORMONES!!!!!!!!!!!! | |
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| Do Men in their 40's Want a relationship, YES A RELATIONSHIP ? A real One !!!
Posted: 7/6/2009 6:22:49 AM | The majority of women on this site are looking for sex. If not why do they place such emphasis on appearance and social status? It's a pretty fishy website! Am I right, or am I right? ^^^^^^^^^^^
Your actually so wrong, you didnt even score a mark !!!... and boy did I smile when I read your above mentioned lines...if we were only on here looking for sex...appearance and social status...would mean nothing to us......we would just want physical pleasure....SEX !!!!...we wouldnt be "fussy" and we could get a bonk anywhere...there isnt a women alive who doesnt knows if she puts on her push up bra, dons the black stockings and high heels, sprays on some nice perfume and shortens her skirt for the evening and hangs out at the "rite" places..she can get sex whenever and wherever and pretty much with who ever she likes....we all know this... and trust me...there are plenty of genuine sex sites on the web that if she was to "advertise" her wears..she could have a shag within no time...
But if you had said
"The majority of women on this site are looking for a relationship/marriage"...I would have agreed with your comment about appearance and social status and also agreed with you in general because Im one of those women...Id love to be having a great relationships rite now.....why wouldnt I ? and all the other gorgeous women on here probably would like to be as well.......do ya think we really want to be on here ? ????????????
Im not sure what the thoughts of grandeur comment meant
My question, Do men in their 40's want a relationship ? am I having delusions of grandeur because I would like to be meet someone nice.?.perhaps I am...perhaps Im not......whats Kismet wont be denied anyway....destiny will prevail.....
Im still of the belief and it is my belief that they dont...in general..............of course there has been some lovely posters (male) on here that do..thats great....and I guess the ones that dont...well they are off shagging those women who chose to wear their pushup bras out tonite..... !!!...good for both of them then....as long as they arent hurting anyone else....and consenting adults..then have one for me !!!
Are you rite, about women only being on here for sex ? .......ah sadly NO !!!!.
You didnt by chance get knocked back recently ??? I have and I just keep cruising on....
Hang in there Sam ^^^ apparently there is someone for everyone !!! | |
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| Do Men in their 40's Want a relationship, YES A RELATIONSHIP ? A real One !!!
Posted: 7/6/2009 8:32:30 AM | [rant]
I'm Eighteen
Lines form on my face and hands
Lines form from the ups and downs
I'm in the middle without any plans
I'm a boy and I'm a man
I'm eighteen
and I don't know what I want
I’m Eighteen
I'just don't know what I want
I’m Eighteen
I gotta get away
I've gotta get out of this place
I'll go runnin in outer space
Oh yeah
I got a
baby's brain and an old man's heart
Took eighteen years to get this far
Don't always know what I'm talkin' about
Feels like I'm livin in the middle of doubt
Cause I'm
I'm Eighteen
I get confused every day
I’m Eighteen
I just don't know what to say
I'm Eighteen
I gotta get away
I've gotta get out of this place
I'll go runnin in outer space
yeah
Lines form on my face and my hands
Lines form on the ups and downs
I'm in the middle
the middle of life
I'm a boy and I'm a man
I'm eighteen and I LIKE IT
Yes I like it
Oh I like it
Love it
Like it
Love it
Eighteen!
Eighteen!
Eighteen!
I'm Eighteen and I LIKE IT
When I'm Sixty-Four
when i get older
losing my hair
many years from now
will you still be sending me a valentine
birthday greetings bottle of wine
if i been out till quarter to three
would you lock the door
will you still need me
will you still feed me
when im sixty-four
youll be older too
and if you say the word
i could stay with you
i could be handy mending a fuse
when your lights have gone
you can knit a sweater by the fireside
sunday morning go for a ride
doing the garden
digging the weeds
Who could ask for more
will you still need me
will you still feed me
when im sixty four
every summer we could rent a cottage on the isle of wight if its not too dear
We shall scrimp and save
grandchildren on your knee
vera chuck and dave
send me a postcard
drop me a line
stating point of view
indicate precisely what you mean to say
yours sincerely wasting away
give me your answer
fill in a form
mine forever more
will you still need me
will you still feed me
when im sixty four
WOOH
We're in the *middle* of a global economic crisis, are you still sure you know what you're talking about?
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| Do Men in their 40's Want a relationship, YES A RELATIONSHIP ? A real One !!!
Posted: 7/6/2009 3:18:18 PM | unfortunately, I think you are dead on ... the "men" (and I used that term v - e - r - y loosely) in their 40's are waaaaay to damaged and dealing with far too many issues to be in a real relationship with someone as wonderful and decent as you, or me!
these men do want easy sex and only on their terms. there is no such thing as reciprocity. they don't really even want to be regular "friends" because of their fear of something developing that will be, uuuhhhmmm, more than they can handle, or rather more than they can control.
in some fairness, there are tremendous work pressures on a lot of these males. they may still be reeling from one or more bad marriages / divorces / relationships and not able to sort themselves out. financial pressures may set them back.
but, more than a few just want to go back to the good ol' days of drinking beer, hanging out (with the guys), smoking pot and mostly ignoring anything like responsibility to another person. some did not get enough wild oats sowed when they were young because they married young and had children too soon. sad, but true. | |
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| Do Men in their 40's Want a relationship, YES A RELATIONSHIP ? A real One !!!
Posted: 7/6/2009 3:36:13 PM |
I reckon – my observation - that guys in their 40s are reverting back to when they were in their 20’s and trying to get laid as many times as possible – their last Hurrah before prostate cancer kicks in….to prove something to themselves and their exes (like she gives a toss)….no man APPEARS to really want a relationship (yeah I know I had to look it up in the dictionary too to remind myself what one was too) …they basically just want a Fcuk buddy !!
I feel your pain girl! It is true that some men are too scared to be in a relationship. I got caught once with one of these, but it was three months down the track before I found out what he really wanted. Yeah I know - I'm a slow learner, but it would have helped if he had been honest about his intentions.
So small comfort I know, but if the ones you meet are being up front about it on the first date, at least you can make the choice to opt out at that point. And then.....NEXT!
Having said that, I believe a lot of men do want a relationship and heck, some of them are even (gasp) on dating sites. The others of course are hiding under their beds making terrified calls to mummy if a woman looks sideways at them or accidentally touches their hand. (aarrgghh……mummy!)
Good luck with it Pookie – keep looking and keep smiling, and if you happen to find two at once, send the leftover to me!
The majority of women on this site are looking for sex.
Lordy be! I bet some of the guys here would give their right arm to see the names in YOUR little black book. | |
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| Do Men in their 40's Want a relationship, YES A RELATIONSHIP ? A real One !!!
Posted: 7/6/2009 4:14:00 PM |
It can also mean thoughts of grandeur!
I presume you are talking about "delusional grandeur"..... Which is not a definition of paranoia but, one of it's strange and twisted little spin offs .... personally I would have left well enough alone but, hey.... if the shoe fits....
The majority of women on this site are looking for sex.
Delusions are firmly held beliefs that are untrue, not shared by others in the culture, and not easily modifiable.....
If not why do they place such emphasis on appearance and social status?
Paranoia is a term that describes suspiciousness (or mistrust) that is either highly exaggerated or not warranted at all.....
Post 84??!! ....... I rest my case!  | |
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| Do Men in their 40's Want a relationship, YES A RELATIONSHIP ? A real One !!!
Posted: 7/6/2009 5:17:39 PM | To the above 3 lady posters - could not agree with you more ...and as myforumsite said I guess we have the advantage (if you can call it that), that at least they are being honest up front....theres that I suppose
there is no such thing as reciprocity. they don't really even want to be regular "friends" because of their fear of something developing that will be, uuuhhhmmm, more than they can handle, or rather more than they can control.
boy did this line strike at me this morning....I have been seeing a lovely guy..casually of course ...cause god knows it cant' be anything but casual in this city...really nice guy...and he had a normal job..here in Perth - a rarity......so anyway we meet up yesterday and he informs me that he cant "really keep on seeing me"..ok Im sure I looked pretty surprised by this little gem and then I rearranged my face to look neutral..."Why ?" I asked.."Something wrong?" "No no" replied...I really like you (bonus) and your a terrific bla bla bla chick.....(Im sure we all know what he said..you would if your a female reading this) but thats the problem Im starting to feel things for you and I dont want to." ............EXCELLENT.......
"Okey dokey" says Pookie...."sure whatever"...and yet another one bites the dust................now you cant even be friends...cause by chance if you even start to develop feelings for your "friends"......apparently you will befall a fate worse than death, worse than ANY horrible terrible thing that you could imagine in your wildest dreams, worse than watching MJ "Thriller" clip being played over and over and over and over again...............................you could actually fall in love.....!!! | |
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| Do Men in their 40's Want a relationship, YES A RELATIONSHIP ? A real One !!!
Posted: 7/6/2009 5:27:04 PM |
Im starting to feel things for you and I dont want to
One word....cop out!
Ohh and liar...so thats two...oopsies.
Pooks this man needs to grow a sack and at least be honest about things. To my mind that old line is just an excuse and rates alongside "You are too good for me", "You deserve better" and "Can't we just be friends?".
No disrespect to you Pooks, but to my mind its just another way of telling a woman you are not that interested, without actually having the balls to say so. You deserve much better and he's a fcuking tool.
Sad fact is (in my strange little mind anyway) that no matter how much we tell ourselves and others that we don't want a relationship.....if the right person came along, we would all change our minds pretty quickly. | |
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| Do Men in their 40's Want a relationship, YES A RELATIONSHIP ? A real One !!!
Posted: 7/6/2009 5:40:50 PM | Interesting, I use to socialise with a few women at work and I never pulled the plug and started avoiding them because I was harboring deep feelings or lust.....admittedly it's a natural feeling to have(men know what I'm talking about) but I didn't feel inclined to pursue such thoughts because of the terrific friendship during and outside work. It's actually not that hard to refrain yourself in thinking like this when with a woman, well I felt that anyway.
it's a pity some guys push away nice friendships due to hormones dictating their thoughts.... unless the friendship was only ever a cover while hoping for something more substantial. | |
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| Do Men in their 40's Want a relationship, YES A RELATIONSHIP ? A real One !!!
Posted: 7/6/2009 6:00:22 PM | thanks Hilly..your dead rite and I kinda believe that too...just another cop out..but in a nice way...in his mind anyway...and yes Questio...youve got a point there..very much
Pookies options:
Celibacy....mmm
Lesbianism....mmmmmm
Death mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
Remaining single FOREVER (death part two) mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
There all so appealing to a gal..which one will l I chose, which one will I chose ??....I'll have number............. thanks Eddie !!! - wheres the phone a friend option when you need it ?? | |
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| Do Men in their 40's Want a relationship, YES A RELATIONSHIP ? A real One !!!
Posted: 7/7/2009 5:12:07 AM | Youve looked in real places looked on the internet and looked in the office where you work,,,
Meeting someone in the INTERNET WORLD (unless your very lucky) youll find that theyll be sweet all the way through the evening until he pulls out and goes home interest is gone, why come back? theres many many more women to get to fourth base with here....all ready for picking (their point of view not neccessarily mine)
The OFFICE WORLD, mmm a relationship at work opens the door to too many problems,
how can you date and work with the same person??? heard of living in each others pocket?
So that leaves you with the REAL WORLD...
Too many people in the (real world) are superficial, they dont like poor, fat, thin, moles, freckles, smelly armpits, volvos, fords, crying babies, loud kettles etc etc etc,,,
So your left with the SINGLE WORLD this world where men are cons and liars, women are gullible and the decent ones caught in between are never to find their feet with someone,
shades of grey
This man wants one and im in my 40's , ive joked here with women, complimented, debated, all the re, re, re, re, re, re's on and on,,, seems like women arent that (some)interested either to get out of their comfort zone,, ive already deleted 3 this week only after weeks of conversation, it just gets boring if you never meet
PS: i reckon youll have more luck if you didnt follow the footy
i mean who likes the footy these days???
or is it still popular? geez | |
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| Do Men in their 40's Want a relationship, YES A RELATIONSHIP ? A real One !!!
Posted: 7/7/2009 7:31:09 AM |
unfortunately, I think you are dead on ... the "men" (and I used that term v - e - r - y loosely) in their 40's are waaaaay to damaged and dealing with far too many issues to be in a real relationship with someone as wonderful and decent as you, or me!
Ummmm . . just wondering if you'd care to expand on that and speculate on the causes of those men becoming damaged.
This is a site aimed at people who would like to be in a relationship . .
That's a really warm and comforting thought, isn't it. I think you'll find the site is primarily aimed towards having people click through pages in order to earn an income from Google AdSense. But hey . . there are functions available and if people can winkle a relationship out of all that, then more power to them. (j/k)
OK, seriously then . . I reckon this '40's' thing is just one of those stages of life.
In our twenties and thirties, most were getting used to the idea of what they (males & females) wanted in a partner and somewhere during that time, settled down, got married, had 2.7 kids, bought a house, a Labrador and paved the back patio . . the whole usual enchilada.
For a variety of reasons, a bunch of these people are now back on the market . . and in their 40's. But it's not just a straight re-run of their earlier years. These people now have (more than likely) a family of their own, a number of assets and maybe settled in their career. Many have all these responsibilities, or at least the residuals of them, and yet are free to seek a relationship . . or whatever. They're not as free as when they were 20, though . . not totally care free.
And I'm not at all convinced that it's just males that don't want a relationship either. The females at the '40's' point are in roughly the same place and more likely than not are doing the upbringing of those kids. Just that fact alone makes me think they (the females) are more likely to be cautious about a relationship. I know 'cautious' wasn't what you were getting at, but I do think it leads to a very similar end position.
OK, lets concentrate on the guys issues 'cos for the purpose of this thread we don't care about the girls much . . haha.
Yes, I do think that, in general, males at this stage are seemingly less interested in a relationship because, apart from the inescapable fact that their lives just aren't as free as they once were, they also actually realise that they've done that portion of what they've set out to do in life. They've taken stock of their situation. I'll leave out some rant about these guys having had their wallets extracted through their scrotum because I'm not sure it's all that large a proportion, when it's all said and done.
And with a bit of luck, they've also grown up a little and have a lot more confidence in themselves than when they were twenty (hopefully).
They only now understand their lives contain a number of complications / responsibilities / obligations that they didn't have when they were twenty odd. The same applies to the women in that 40's bracket. And if we introduce the fact that half of all marriages fail, then there's only half the number of women/men to choose from in any case. Maybe it's a combination of this and the fact that they've achieved a lot of their goals anyway. Maybe realising some of these realities (obstacles?) causes a bit of apathy to creep in, as well. Maybe they don't want to quickly repeat a relationship that didn't end up as expected . . the 'till death do us part' thing.
I'll probably get killed for this, but I also think it's easier for a guy to talk himself out of looking for a relationship, too . . 'cos we mostly don't think with our hearts.
So, what might be perceived as a guy 'just interested in sex' . . and I hate to tell ya this . . is likely to just not be the one for you.
Because I reckon Hilly said it much more succinctly . .
I actually think we all want a relationship at the end of the day. Some of us are not prepared to settle for just anyone who happens our way or can not be bothered to actively pursue a relationship. But I think if the right person, who totally knocked our socks off and blew us away came stumbling into our lives, none of us would turn them away and claim we didn't want a relationship
Good thread though, Pookie . . as always.  | |
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| Do Men in their 40's Want a relationship, YES A RELATIONSHIP ? A real One !!!
Posted: 7/7/2009 11:19:45 AM | It can also mean thoughts of grandeur! I presume you are talking about "delusional grandeur"..... Which is not a definition of paranoia but, one of it's strange and twisted little spin offs .... personally I would have left well enough alone but, hey.... if the shoe fits.... The majority of women on this site are looking for sex. Delusions are firmly held beliefs that are untrue, not shared by others in the culture, and not easily modifiable..... If not why do they place such emphasis on appearance and social status? Paranoia is a term that describes suspiciousness (or mistrust) that is either highly exaggerated or not warranted at all..... Post 84??!! ....... I rest my case!
No, I meant paranoid as in taking everything too personally, but go your way and see how far it takes you! | |
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| Do Men in their 40's Want a relationship, YES A RELATIONSHIP ? A real One !!!
Posted: 7/7/2009 11:57:20 AM |
RobW^^^ The most pathetic sounds in Perth yesterday was Pookie weeping, screaming, cursing and wailing in the last 1.20 minutes of THE game..I live in the quietest st in Australia and trust me EVERY neighbor knows I barrack - (live) for Geelong !!! and if Ablett was pissed..Pookie was distraught...still we lost it in the first quarter when the boys were still apparently on the bus travelling up the Geelong Rd from the Cattery !!!! Got to hand it to the Saints, they were awesome..however my boys came back mighty fine as well...a draw would have been fitting.....we saw the best two teams yesterday and I believe these two will be there that last Saturday in September !!! oh yeah On topic.....after yet another weekend (in between football duties) of another great date with a gorgeous man..but guess what ? of course doenst want a relationship cause he works away 6 on, 4 off. !!!!..yep still convinced that..... guys in their 40's still dont want a real relationship.....is there a guy out there to prove me wrong ??................be ideal if your a Cats supporter (Perfect - I dont want much) can endure most teams but Pie supporters need not apply !!! Yeah I will wager you RobW...name your bet.....oh and a PS...my current photo is like 18 months old... I wouldnt dream of having a real old one up...no point in lying..but I refrain from putting up one of me draped in my over the top Geelong garb...even I admit I look STUPID !! cute..but stupid !!!
Sorry, but I lost all respect for you after this, let him slip right between your fingers. As I am self employed I am used to women that are jealous that a man has a career! | |
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| Do Men in their 40's Want a relationship, YES A RELATIONSHIP ? A real One !!!
Posted: 7/7/2009 12:16:16 PM | Your actually so wrong, you didnt even score a mark !!!... and boy did I smile when I read your above mentioned lines...if we were only on here looking for sex...appearance and social status...would mean nothing to us......we would just want physical pleasure....SEX !!!!...we wouldnt be "fussy" and we could get a bonk anywhere...there isnt a women alive who doesnt knows if she puts on her push up bra, dons the black stockings and high heels, sprays on some nice perfume and shortens her skirt for the evening and hangs out at the "rite" places..she can get sex whenever and wherever and pretty much with who ever she likes....we all know this... and trust me...there are plenty of genuine sex sites on the web that if she was to "advertise" her wears..she could have a shag within no time...
Guys know they can get a root whenever they want too, just go down to a local brothel!
I really hate how women will hold that over you like it's an exclusive right!
Personally not something I would want to do, nothing against professional sex workers, it's a legitimate career when done right, but I don't feel the quality is there, it's not for me.
Knocked back heaps off roots in my past, once again quality. So there goes your "high heels" theory. Might call you "mutton dressed up as lamb" though!
So by your account it looks like I'm going to have to turn 50 before having a relationship...
(p.s. quite happily chatting to lady right now if you must know!) | |
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| Do Men in their 40's Want a relationship, YES A RELATIONSHIP ? A real One !!!
Posted: 7/7/2009 12:29:05 PM | Pookie, the first thought that popped in my mind as I read about half of this "War and Peace" epic (rolls on floor laughing hysterically) was this: I think your problem is that you're making it too easy for men to date you. Try being more selective. As I finished reading your posting (with total exhaustion) I thought another problem might be this: You're wasting too much of your valuable time waiting for the losers you're dating to reply to you. You place too much importance on what they react with. Here's why I think this:
...as I chose to stay home last Sat nite and watch a MJ special rather than face another nite/ followed by a Sunday of “will he, wont he call/sms/email me?”
Try saying this phrase more often: "Who cares if they call me or not! I have more important things to do with my time"
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