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 budman_23
Joined: 1/28/2005
Msg: 51
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there is nothing wrong iwth a woman who can squirt my wife does i can make her squirt a good 20 feet across the roomand for a good 5 mins. straight, and its even better when ur eating them out and they start squrting!
 kmm52072
Joined: 1/25/2009
Msg: 52
New, specific question about squirting
Posted: 7/17/2009 6:09:58 AM
IMO, it is worth the mess if you are aware that you are a squirter! When a woman squirts all the right buttons are being pushed physically to allow your body squirt. Also, IMO it doesn't feel any better than an orgasm. It just opens up an opportunity for the 2 people involved to get even 'closer' by taking a shower together afterward.
 Erinlove
Joined: 11/30/2008
Msg: 53
New, specific question about squirting
Posted: 7/17/2009 6:14:23 AM
I'll tell you one thing, I am plenty sick of men who has had one woman squirt/have multiple orgasms, so they think everyone should. And that they know my body better than I do.
If you ever put this pressure on a woman (or man even) DON'T.

Men that multiple orgasm are pretty hot too, but I'd never assume all men could or think I have the magical key to making it happen. Asking a man or woman to do something their body wont do is like asking a man to grow his penis 2 inches larger. Or him pulling on it every day in hopes it will grow 1/4 inch, it's not happening lol

I can't squirt, I can't have multiple orgasms and I can't cum from intercourse. That's how it is. But the pressure that has been put on me to "lay back" and let the god of sex fix those problems has been unreal. I can't help but get a touch snippy. I know the road, it ends in me sore and him disappointed.

If he/she says they can't, they can't! And if you wish to try to make this happen, do so without announcing it and without assumptions because when you fail at being the god of sex, you make your partner feel like they failed too when they had nothing to apologize for.

Hell quit asking people if they can do those things all together. When they say "No I can't squirt" or he says "No I can only cum once and need a rest" are they supposed to feel unworthy, unsexy and not what you want? It's a stupid question to ask, especially when you drool while asking like men tend to do.
 Womanadmirer
Joined: 6/28/2009
Msg: 54
New, specific question about squirting
Posted: 7/17/2009 6:45:33 AM
What a delicious topic. I love being squirted on. Was worried the first time it happened, but when I realized just what is was about, WOW. I was hooked. Have always worked harder to have a lady achieve this state. They always seemed to have a more intense orgasm. Once I caught on, I started lining my mattress with towels. Doesn't matter about wet sheets, it's keeping the mattress dry. I am jealous of all the ways women can get off. So many delicious g-spots to play with. Wish I could experience some of that intensity. Maybe in my next life.
 CityGrlNCountry
Joined: 3/27/2009
Msg: 55
New, specific question about squirting
Posted: 7/17/2009 11:13:24 AM
To address the original question, I think it will depend on how it feels for YOU. There have been a few different answers....for me, personally, it's definitely worth it.

I can squirt before, during and after an orgasm and I'd rate orgasms that happen while I'm squirting as twice as intense as they are without it. So yeah, worth it.

That said, I don't do it all the time. Not sure exactly why not, I just have to be in the mood. I mean, yeah, I love Godiva chocolate, but I'll eat a Symphony bar too. Takes one to really appreciate the other, doesn't it? lol

I don't really squirt FAR enough for it to be a huge issue though. I'd probably limit it more if I make a giant mess on the floor or something. Putting a towel underneath me is sufficient to limit messes.
 CityGrlNCountry
Joined: 3/27/2009
Msg: 56
New, specific question about squirting
Posted: 7/17/2009 11:16:54 AM
Oh yeah, ha ha to the guy who said it doesn't taste like pee and then said he'd never tasted pee!

When I first started squirting, I did my own investigation. I didn't think it was pee, but I had to be positive. I let it dry on white sheets, I tasted it, smelled it, did it in the shower to see if it looked even a little bit yellow. I had to be sure!
 LhiannanShee
Joined: 12/22/2008
Msg: 57
New, specific question about squirting
Posted: 7/17/2009 1:12:22 PM
Yes, it is definitely worth it for me!

I start squirting when things are very intense, and after a few normal clitoral orgasms. Once I start cumming, I just get more and more insatiable.... til I literally feel like I can't move anymore, and pass out. It's blissful, and amazing.

I actually kind of feel sorry for the women who don't enjoy it, or think they are incapable of it.

The mess isn't a big deal to me. It's odorless, and does not stain. To keep my mattress dry, I use a thick mattress pad, and also a mattress protector under my sheets. You can also plan ahead and keep towels and/or a shower curtain to lay down on handy.

For my partner (and me), it's definitely a work out to make me start squirting like that.... but I really do think I'm worth the effort :)
 scousernett
Joined: 6/21/2009
Msg: 58
New, specific question about squirting
Posted: 7/17/2009 1:25:29 PM
i am a squirter, its only happened twice to me . was very very nice :-) dint feel the same as a normal orgasam was better . just wish i could do it every time lol! it turned the lad i was with on so so much , he loved it .
 Fun_Guy_Likes_To_Dance!
Joined: 5/16/2007
Msg: 59
New, specific question about squirting
Posted: 7/17/2009 1:30:22 PM
Squirt in my mouth please mmmmmmmm, certainly less mess that way!
 Tracyboo78
Joined: 6/23/2009
Msg: 60
New, specific question about squirting
Posted: 7/17/2009 1:40:38 PM
Ummmm yeah totally worth the mess...... A little embaressing with a new partner at first but after you get past that, sooooo worth it...
 LivNLafNLuv
Joined: 8/9/2008
Msg: 61
New, specific question about squirting
Posted: 7/18/2009 7:37:31 AM
Love it, love it, love it! Doesn't happen with every encounter. I have learned how to make myself squirt but that's not quite the same. With my man, emotionally it makes me feel I have lost ALL inhibitions. Physically, it's the most intense climax that happens again, again and again. After, I have these really intense body quivers that last about an hour. Life is full of wonderful surprises, the first time I squirted was awesome. Such a large amount of liquid that would not stop. It was amazing to find out what my body was capable of. The man I was with seemed to be experienced with squirting as he was ready with the towels until we soaked the sheets and the two layers of towels. He enjoys the entire experience every time and knows which buttons to push to get me started. Can't wait to get with him again.
 Still_Waters79
Joined: 7/13/2009
Msg: 62
New, specific question about squirting
Posted: 7/18/2009 7:47:01 AM
When a woman squirts, what exactly is it that comes out of her?

I"m not comfortable with idea of revelling in mystery fluids....
 Fun_Guy_Likes_To_Dance!
Joined: 5/16/2007
Msg: 63
New, specific question about squirting
Posted: 7/18/2009 9:01:39 PM
It tastes kinda like brown sugar I find. So its not too bad!
 DAVE632
Joined: 6/17/2006
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Posted: 7/18/2009 11:07:33 PM
The quote (below) and the subsequent description leave me thinking that she's experienced the typical male attitude that if she isn't cuming "I just have to POUND her harder and longer." In other words the D!CK is THE source of ALL things sexual. I'd be interested to know if several other methods of stimulation were ever used to try and get you to orgasm. Erin, you don't even say whether you CAN cum from other ways. It is NOT unusual at all for younger women to never orgasm from JUST intercourse. It is only later in life for many women that they discover that some lovers truly love pleasing their woman using multiple techniques, methods and variations to achieve suckcess. It isn't an EGO thing for many guys to try their hardest to get a girl orgasming like a fireworks accident - they simply love her and love making her feel that way. Many women find that when they ARE with a guy who thinks that way and knows a few things other than how to POUND her then you discover you CAN have multiples (clit isn't involved so it isn't an over sensitivity issue), CAN cum during intercourse and may even be able to squirt - not that I'm suggesting that it's essential to having a great time at all.


I can't squirt, I can't have multiple orgasms and I can't cum from intercourse.


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Some can squirt from ANY stimulation. Methinks they are just unusually disposed to being HORNY. Some can do it from clitoral stim while the majority seem to activate and flood the tubes with GSpot stimulation only.


I can squirt before, during and after an orgasm and I'd rate orgasms that happen while I'm squirting as twice as intense as they are without it. So yeah, worth it. ...That said, I don't do it all the time. Not sure exactly why not ...


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It seems that all women are different. Some have ENORMOUS titties while other are flat a s a pancake/ Same with the skene glands. Some are relatively small or unformed and others are like that mop thing on the TV ads that can suck up a dam burst. It is obvious also that women WITH highly developed skene glands do NOT always activate them when turned on. Some do and others don't. Some do SOMETIMES and not others - so although that seems a tad weird in itself it is NOT that unusual.


Such a large amount of liquid that would not stop. It was amazing to find out what my body was capable of.


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I have NEVER experienced any mystery fluids from a lover that had ANY unpleasant smell or flavor to them. Often there is a slight sweet smell and at certain times of the month they may be a little more viscous but still not unpleasant.


I"m not comfortable with idea of revelling in mystery fluids....
 ripley65
Joined: 2/8/2008
Msg: 65
New, specific question about squirting
Posted: 7/19/2009 3:34:07 AM

Is it a better for you or just different?


and


Basically I want to find out if it's worth the mess.



OP, for me personally, its both better and different BUT, it also depends on the position i am in. The amount of the 'mess' is also different with what technique he is using on me. If i am on my back and he is using his finger(s) going all out and really going hard and fast, my O feels like a C orgasm but i gush a huge amount! If i am on my belly with him laying on his side and he is using the pad of his finger to just 'rub' my Gspot (no vigorous action whatsoever), my O is very very different and sooooo much better.....only word to describe is pure and utter euphoria, like almost an out of body experience, and i do have some fluid but not much at all. Definitely prefer the belly one.......feels MUCH better and much less mess......in my experience anyway.

Enjoy!!!
 Chocolate_Niagara_Falls
Joined: 5/18/2009
Msg: 66
New, specific question about squirting
Posted: 7/19/2009 5:33:25 AM
Well from my experience it feels better..but its really intense and it drains alot of my energy....but feels so good..No I haven't mastered the squirting across the room yet ..Still tryin..But yes it's really worth the mess, and seein the expression on a guys face after you jus shower him and his mattress is priceless
 Jonathon1970
Joined: 5/10/2008
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Posted: 7/21/2009 1:00:59 AM

I know for sure it is such an ego trip for the guy who makes a woman squirt ....its like ...mission accomplished


First time it happened for me, I was like, "yes!!!!"

Second time, I was like, "yes!!!!"

Third time, I was like, "yes!!!!"

Seventieth time.....well, I think you get the picture, lol. The feeling of satisfaction and accomplishment NEVER gets old.
 ladyblu1950
Joined: 4/21/2008
Msg: 68
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Posted: 7/21/2009 1:56:12 AM
Jonathan1970,

Yes I think we get the picture it never gets old and each time you fall in love with it all over again. LOL
 DAVE632
Joined: 6/17/2006
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Posted: 7/21/2009 7:37:31 AM
The problem is there are so many individual abilities and preferences when it cums to female ejaculation. SOme women CAN and other never seem to be able to do that no matter what kind of stimulation happens. Some women do sometimes and not others and it baffles THEM why this happens.

There is so much IGNORANCE of this whole process too. Due to some of the moronic porn vids showing this many young women feel they are sub-sexual if they can't. They think that JUST an orgasm and no ejaculation means they are experiencing only HALF and orgasm and want the intensity of their orgasm to DOUBLE once they accomplish the squirt.

MOST women report that although the ejaculation is intense when accompanied by the orgasm(s) that it does NOT change the orgasmic intensity much. Many say that it just makes a mess and "How do I STOP ejaculating? I just want the orgasms"

To suggest, also, that if a guy does NOT produce an ejaculation with his woman then he's somehow FAILED HER is just WRONG. This is something that the woman herself may have problems duplicating regularly. Include all the variations of love making, the positions, the intensity, the frequency, the type of orgasms (clitoral? GSPOT? ASPOT? other?), the time - all factored in and often an orgasm isn't guaranteed let alone an ejaculation or series of ejaculations.

People should understand that we are all different and to suggest that ONE physical act or lack thereof constitutes suckcess or failure with a partner is NOT helpful to the overall discussion.
 dorkfully geekalicious
Joined: 7/15/2009
Msg: 70
New, specific question about squirting
Posted: 7/21/2009 7:45:28 AM
I don't actually have an orgasm when I squirt. I'll have several before I do it but none during...it's like someone said, it's a complete physical and mental release...like nothing I've ever felt before. Is it worth it? TOTALLY. I can't make myself do it so it's even better when it does happen. I can't do it from oral though, has to be just fingers or anal.
 Sandew
Joined: 8/9/2008
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Posted: 7/22/2009 3:41:19 PM
It's just wet...all over
 lookingforbigo
Joined: 8/10/2011
Msg: 72
New, specific question about squirting
Posted: 9/21/2011 8:38:42 AM
Any woman i have been with say the orgasm from squirting is more intense. Plus when they squirt i ussally get more intense making it happen
 Summalovin23
Joined: 7/15/2011
Msg: 73
Looks are deceiving!
Posted: 9/21/2011 1:37:40 PM
FYI, for everyone. Every woman can squirt, she just needs to know how to do it. I taught myself how and can do it everytime. And it feels so much better than a regular orgasm. Oh if I had a boyfriend, he'd be swimmin in my come every night
 Laha Math
Joined: 7/15/2010
Msg: 74
Looks are deceiving!
Posted: 9/21/2011 2:01:10 PM
I was trying to figure out how to use a discarded computer with a Chinese version of Windows XP when I came across some Chinese porn. In both films involving different groups of college girls and boys, the boys stimulated the girls manually until they "squirted" before moving on to other forms of sex. I thought it was an interesting cultural variation. The girls didn't seem to get off on it. Just thought you should know. Maybe the film crew cleaned up the mess?
 Big_fun_wave
Joined: 2/28/2009
Msg: 75
New, specific question about squirting
Posted: 9/21/2011 2:17:10 PM
Basically I want to find out if it's worth the mess.

Well, there would not be much of a mess, if you could squirt down his throat That's the way I would like it.
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