Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc. Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing... Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate.
     
Show ALL Forums  > Sex and Dating  > New, specific question about squirting      Home login  
 AUTHOR
 Kariann71
Joined: 4/26/2011
Msg: 126
view profile
History
New, specific question about squirtingPage 6 of 8    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8)

Mmm, I could go for a deep-fried Skene's gland right about now...

Did I mention that my mouth doubles as a deep-fryer? ;)


Gotta love posts that make you laugh and say ewwwwww at the same time.


So you buried your head in a book to learn about it...and I buried my head in....lol

Nuff said ;)


Hey, as long as there's education happening it's a good thing.

 WinstonDoubtfire
Joined: 7/29/2009
Msg: 127
view profile
History
New, specific question about squirting
Posted: 9/26/2011 8:46:37 AM
Guess some women will never know. And to think, I thought my semen and urine came from separate holes.
 ted61
Joined: 2/12/2009
Msg: 128
Squirting is such a different feeling
Posted: 9/26/2011 8:49:24 AM
I am not a Doctor but being a man with a man's interest in vaginas, I have read lots of things and medical books about them. I could not find any glands in a woman capable of an ejaculation. If women had these glands, all women would ejaculate so it would be obvious and we would not be having this discussion.

During intercourse you have the penis putting pressure on the bladder and an intense orgasam from any stimulation, oral or penetrating, would cause the pelvic muscles to violently contract and have an invoulntary release of urine.

Get a reputable medical book on female anatomy and try to find glands that cause an ejaculation with the volume that some women claim. You won't find them.
 Kariann71
Joined: 4/26/2011
Msg: 129
view profile
History
Squirting is such a different feeling
Posted: 9/26/2011 9:46:08 AM

I am not a Doctor but being a man with a man's interest in vaginas, I have read lots of things and medical books about them. I could not find any glands in a woman capable of an ejaculation. If women had these glands, all women would ejaculate so it would be obvious and we would not be having this discussion.
During intercourse you have the penis putting pressure on the bladder and an intense orgasam from any stimulation, oral or penetrating, would cause the pelvic muscles to violently contract and have an invoulntary release of urine.
Get a reputable medical book on female anatomy and try to find glands that cause an ejaculation with the volume that some women claim. You won't find them.


Again, some people just have no clue when it comes to this phenomenon. You aren't a woman and have never experienced this, so I can tell you that I am NOT urinating until the cows come home and you'd probably still argue with me. I do a lot of reading too and OWN the equipment in question. Seems you're reading the wrong books. You can read about Skene's glands and the Gräfenberg spot in just about any medical book. All women CAN ejaculate, but most don't because the feeling of pressure before release is very similar to the feeling of having to urinate. If a woman goes to the bathroom right before engaging in g-spot play then she can be comfortable and confident enough to go with the feelings and let them happen without worrying about urinating on their partner. Unless a couple is into watersports who wants to risk that particular OOPS during sex? Many women are afraid so they suppress that urge and are therefore unable to ejaculate. It really is as simple as that. i assure you that urinating and ejaculating are two completely different sensations and I'm educated enough about my own body to be able to tell the difference.

But like I said, I can keep arguing this all day and someone who has never and will never experience this will keep claiming they know what's going on with my body better than I do. Cest la vie, believe what you will.
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
Msg: 130
view profile
History
Squirting is such a different feeling
Posted: 9/26/2011 4:33:41 PM

the chicks on the porn, are peeing... no way in hell they aren't...

Most are, yes. I will agree to that. A few aren't. Cytherea for one does not fake it. I find it really hard to believe that a woman can look directly into the camera and make the fake sexy pouty face while she *squirts*.. and while we are all different, porn is well known for faking a lot of things... especially if it will make a lucrative profit for the studios.


From what I can tell... slow mo porn sites, it's totally coming out of the pizzhole.

This also is true. but it's not urine.

I don't get the sensation that I have to urinate with g-spot stimuation. It doesn't feel like a clitoral orgasm. I don't (usually) orgasm from penetration, not the PIV/PIA kind anyway. If I have a clitoral based orgasm, I'm done for the night. G-spot orgasms go on and on and on. At least for me.

Kaylie.. I know when I hear that squishing sound things are gonna get messy fast! What could be happening, depending on your position and what you're doing, is you could be producing the fluids from your urethra, and if you are on your back, it could be seeping into your vagina if you are using a toy or fingers. They will act like an aquaduct and guide the excess fluids elsewhere. I'm only guessing based on my experiences and I'm usually on my back when I hear the extra squishy noises.
 WinstonDoubtfire
Joined: 7/29/2009
Msg: 131
view profile
History
Squirting is such a different feeling
Posted: 9/26/2011 5:15:35 PM
Mmm...squishy vaginas...lol

And if more guys just stopped and took a look around that squishy vagina, theyd see a whole lot more going on.
 reggy33
Joined: 8/2/2010
Msg: 132
Squirting is such a different feeling
Posted: 9/27/2011 4:19:06 AM
Type in" female ejaculation" and you will get a good description
 totalazzhole
Joined: 3/27/2011
Msg: 133
Squirting is such a different feeling
Posted: 9/27/2011 5:16:05 PM

Not fair wheres mine!!!


sparkly 75 , I can show you if you're ever in Canada.
 SigmundFrued
Joined: 8/28/2011
Msg: 134
Squirting is such a different feeling
Posted: 9/28/2011 1:16:38 PM
I've had some experience with this.

Some women squirt, others gush and still others seems to do a combination of the two.

My former wife was a gusher, it was all internal, never external. When she orgasmed, I'd feel a definate release of hot liquid inside her. It didn't always happen, she had 4-5 different kinds of orgasm and that was one.

Another liked to ride me and hers were very strong contractions in the vagina, like it was convulsing, and I'd push up against it. Hers were external, but more of a gush than a flow like urinating, quite a lot of it. The same thing each time she had an orgasm.

Another was a definate squirter, I'd insert 3-4 fingers and massage her G-spot and the waterworks would come, she'd just soak my chest, squirt after squirt as I pressed my fingers in and out. She could orgasm without squirting, too, it took a large presence and G spot stimulation for that reaction.

The last one squirted at the drop of a hat, each and every orgasm. I found out the hard way doing cunnilingus on her and got a mouthful. It was really bad, salty, bitter, and I never did that again, but every time during penetration it didn't take long. Like woman #2, she also had those vaginal contractions accompanying it.

I don't know if it is pee or not. It could be that orgasm stimulates involuntary peeing in some women?
 MissSharon0905
Joined: 8/3/2011
Msg: 135
New, specific question about squirting
Posted: 9/28/2011 2:18:55 PM
It is very very different for me. I am capable of doing it, but I honestly don't usually enjoy it. The required amount of stimulation for me to be able to squirt causes so much sensitivity in the area that it almost becomes painful. And not a good painful either lol. I actually really prefer just the plain old fashioned O and never understood what all the fuss about squirting was. It's just a hyped up sexual fade as far as I'm concerned.
 PittsburghVixen
Joined: 6/27/2009
Msg: 136
Squirting is such a different feeling
Posted: 9/28/2011 6:30:42 PM

It was really bad, salty, bitter, and I never did that again...
I don't know if it is pee or not.


NO for the umpteenth time, it is NOT pee, but it does come out of the same hole. And pee isn't salty.

Why don't we just go ahead and insist that semen and urine are the same thing, since they come out of the same hole?!?!? Geez.
 hddi101
Joined: 12/21/2009
Msg: 137
view profile
History
New, specific question about squirting
Posted: 9/28/2011 6:43:23 PM
just different....I wish I could go back to my old orgasms. They were not as "hard" but they were more enjoyable. Now they just feel like a muscle spasm which results in the squirting, and the squirting feels like a release, but that is all. The old orgasms made me shake and feel like I was losing consciousness...much better.
 granolamartha
Joined: 9/11/2011
Msg: 138
New, specific question about squirting
Posted: 9/28/2011 10:28:18 PM
I have only been able to do this party trick when I am pregnant :(
Poor me, because it was fun. Strangely, it wasn't way more intense, but it just felt more *festive* Partner loved it too!
 MissSharon0905
Joined: 8/3/2011
Msg: 139
New, specific question about squirting
Posted: 9/28/2011 10:37:01 PM
I should add that as a woman who is capable of squirting I do believe most women fake it and a lot of it is just peeing. Not all, but a lot. I've never heard of a woman being able to have a squirting orgasm with out g-spot stimulation, so when I see a porn where a woman is being stimulated via her clitoris and then begins squirting buckets, I tend to believe that poor fool of a man is just being pissed on.
Also, the volume that some women claim doesn't seem plausible. And when I do squirt, it does NOT come from my urethra so I'm not sure about the women who are saying it does. It is a huge, massive rush of fluids that seem propelled forward by vaginal contractions. Is it the waterfall effect seen in a lot of porns? No... not so much lol. But it is definitely squirting, and it is definitely real for me.
 PittsburghVixen
Joined: 6/27/2009
Msg: 140
New, specific question about squirting
Posted: 9/29/2011 6:27:10 PM
http:// www.oprah.com/ relationships/ Dr-Laura-Berman-on-Female-Ejaculation-Video
 Welsh474
Joined: 9/13/2010
Msg: 141
New, specific question about squirting
Posted: 9/29/2011 6:58:37 PM
PittsburgVixen is correct. I watched a documentary last week on CBC (Canadian tv station), the entire documentary was about the G-Spot and G-Spot orgasms. How they were "discovered", where it is, how to find it, how the orgasm is different, different studies. They stated that they tested the fluids and although the fluid comes from the urethra - it is not urine. I repeat - not urine. Tests showed that some of the chemical makeup of the fluid is similar to the fluids in the prostate gland (no semenal fluid, just fluid) although they said the G-Spot was not a prostate gland but more of an internal extension of the clitoris. And some of us have G-Spot orgasms and some of us don't.

Maybe poetess should try a google search, a mind is a terrible thing to waste.
 MissSharon0905
Joined: 8/3/2011
Msg: 142
New, specific question about squirting
Posted: 9/29/2011 7:02:52 PM
I watched the video, and directly underneath it, there is one comment from some one who view the video...

"Dr. Berman presents this as if it is all factually true. in actuality, what she's talking about is merely one hypothesis of what female ejaculation is. These studies have been done but she is over-simplifying. The studies that have been done so far have used very small sample sizes and none has been consistently replicated. It is far too early in our understanding of this for her to be saying that this is actually what happens in a woman's body - it's merely a hypothesis. We don't know for sure yet how common female ejaculation actually is and how it works. For some women it is stress incontinence - for most it appears it is not, but for some it is. This issue is nowhere near as black and white as she portrays it here."

Not saying that this person is right, or an expert, but I honestly think that just because some one has "Dr" before their name, or appear on the Oprah show does not mean they actually know what they're talking about, or that they're not exaggerating or sensationalizing a subject.
 PittsburghVixen
Joined: 6/27/2009
Msg: 143
New, specific question about squirting
Posted: 9/29/2011 7:26:27 PM
Nor does commenting on a video posted online make that person an expert. If you do your OWN research and Goggle "female ejaculation", you will find a lot more information - SCIENTIFIC information, not just Wikipedia. There's more scientific info out there that points to the Skene's gland and urethra than otherwise.
 MissSharon0905
Joined: 8/3/2011
Msg: 144
New, specific question about squirting
Posted: 9/29/2011 7:39:38 PM
That's fine, but is it the same research that's referred to in the video that you linked? And is there any truth to what the person commented on? Is it a wide based study or is it just a small control group? Is it accepted as scientific fact, or is it a hypothesis? Every thing I've ever read on the subject is basically tantamount to theories. Which is why I freely admit I'm not 100% sure about what's going on with my own body. I can only say what I've experienced, how it feels and what it looks like. I'm no doctor or expert, but I don't feed into hype and I'm not going to fake something because it's become a popular trend.
 Welsh474
Joined: 9/13/2010
Msg: 145
New, specific question about squirting
Posted: 9/29/2011 7:46:18 PM
"....but I honestly think that just because some one (sic) has "Dr" before their name, or appear on the Oprah show does not mean they actually know what they're talking about...." Uh huh, guess I'll get all my intellectual information from the forums from now on. I mean, why bother listening to a doctor or doing my own reseacrch or reading a book? I'll just come on here and ask some of the brilliant folks for their take on the subject at hand. I'll wait until some smart waitress or truck driver fills me in with the details. (sarcasm)

The thing is, you don't have to believe one doctor or reseacher or article, spend some time and investigate.
 MissSharon0905
Joined: 8/3/2011
Msg: 146
New, specific question about squirting
Posted: 9/29/2011 7:54:09 PM
Two notes

One, I have done research on the subject, as I did state. And I also said that I have yet to find anything that isn't basically just a theory. There is no hard core concrete evidence to back up something that actually shouldn't be that difficult to document and prove.

Second, I never said that I don't believe a woman is capable of squirting. What I did say is, I think a lot of women exaggerate because it's become something that's popular with the men. Men are all so fascinated by the idea of a woman who can squirt, and the women are just lining up to impress them, even if it means faking it. I think a lot fake it, and I think a lot of them exaggerate it. I don't think it's nearly as common as people claim it is and this whole scenario is reminding me of the story of the emperor's new clothes. Where every one is so afraid to admit they can't see (or do) something that isn't actually there (or happening) that they just all keep pretending and going along with it.
 Moonchild51
Joined: 3/11/2007
Msg: 147
view profile
History
New, specific question about squirting
Posted: 9/29/2011 7:58:11 PM
Seriously Miss Sharon? How in heck does a gal "fake" squirting? You profess to be such an educated gal in the sexual department....you should know that when a gal does just that, both she and her partner are well aware...fake it? Really....
 SigmundFrued
Joined: 8/28/2011
Msg: 148
Squirting is such a different feeling
Posted: 9/29/2011 10:05:57 PM
Well, I don't really know but it was, indeed, very salty and really awful.
 StarLiteStarBright123
Joined: 9/17/2011
Msg: 149
New, specific question about squirting
Posted: 10/3/2011 6:05:51 AM
Seriously, very tough to "fake" squirting, especially if she squirts up to several feet away or if the bed is soaked in her juices. I believe almost any woman can squirt, my past experiences have shown me the techniques I have used can be as little as more fluids and harder breathing when she orgasms to body trembling for 30 minutes after squirting. I, myself, love being able to give my partner sensations that she might not be able to get on her own, but often times, it does take 20-45 minutes of giving oneself for her to acheive max sensations. But then of course "after" she calms down, good changes she will give you the blowjob of your life.

If she has not squirted before in her life, of first handful of times it is urine coming out until she learns to stop that and allow the other. If her fluids are acid or foul smelling, drinking fruity juices several hours before can correct this, also drugs will change tastes as well.
 bilby886
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 150
view profile
History
New, specific question about squirting
Posted: 10/3/2011 6:16:25 AM
1. an achingly full bladder
2. kegels and nearby pelvic floor muscles the strength of a bear trap.
3. Shattering orgasm.

there should be a squirt (drip under pressure)

It would be good if some of the squirters around here would collect their samples of squirt and pee and send for spectroscopic analysis,

You may be charmingly surprised that thirty percent of the squirts will have more in common with CSF!

really!
Show ALL Forums  > Sex and Dating  > New, specific question about squirting