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 cooldude

Joined: 4/26/2004
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Fellas, how would you honestly react to this?
Posted: 6/29/2009 4:14:29 PM

oh come on. A young girl working at a Subway sammich shop can't make a silly, provocative remark to guy without the poor dude getting all hot and bothered?


I find most women who are this direct are usually serious about it.
 ohthereugo

Joined: 2/12/2008
Msg: 27
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Fellas, how would you honestly react to this?
Posted: 6/29/2009 4:18:35 PM
You know what i would leave it alone and keep it in the memory banks as a wonderful moment for the rest of your life .

Reality has alot of blemishes .

Great thing to smile at when your all alone by a warm fire the fire warms you outside and the thought warms u inside

kinda nice i reckon .
 diamondgirl2727

Joined: 2/25/2008
Msg: 28
Fellas, how would you honestly react to this?
Posted: 6/29/2009 4:26:00 PM
No wonder women dont bother hitting on men, not only dont they get it when you arent interested, they dont get it when you are!
 Kindredpage

Joined: 12/23/2008
Msg: 29
Fellas, how would you honestly react to this?
Posted: 6/29/2009 4:34:23 PM

No wonder women dont bother hitting on men, not only dont they get it when you arent interested, they dont get it when you are!
Totally agree. Maybe she should have told him I chose to work at subway because I enjoy a good 6 inch and maybe an occasional foot long
 marc100000

Joined: 2/24/2009
Msg: 30
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Fellas, how would you honestly react to this?
Posted: 6/29/2009 4:43:33 PM
I think you should go on the jared diet.

Lesson for you ladies. If you ever want a guy to shut up or not react just be really direct.
example- a guy yells out of a car. yo baby yo baby sit on my face
just say ok- he will get scared and drive away
 bobbc

Joined: 12/4/2008
Msg: 31
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Fellas, how would you honestly react to this?
Posted: 6/29/2009 4:46:29 PM
Nothing wrong with some playful flirting
 forumspelunker

Joined: 4/10/2009
Msg: 32
Fellas, how would you honestly react to this?
Posted: 6/29/2009 4:48:13 PM
That's when stuff like that happens. When it is the furthest thing from your mind.

It may have been playful flirting or may not. I would say it does not scream "keeper" though.
 buffaloQT

Joined: 6/13/2009
Msg: 33
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Fellas, how would you honestly react to this?
Posted: 6/29/2009 4:49:29 PM
consider yourself lucky.... lately, it's hard to meet single people on the streets or anywhere in public (unless there's a smoe filled room and plenty of alcohol), which is why most of us are on here... right? i never get approached by guys... ever... whether it's friendly flirting or not... i would take what she said as a compliment. now how you should deal with it is to call her bluff... the next time you go in, ask her for her number, and see how she plays it! the bark might be worse than the bite!
 murdok47

Joined: 11/21/2008
Msg: 34
Fellas, how would you honestly react to this?
Posted: 6/29/2009 5:32:18 PM
O hell , You should of just asked her where and when and not walked away from that . Go back ...
 Indigo rose

Joined: 3/17/2007
Msg: 35
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Posted: 6/29/2009 5:44:49 PM
I took a gander at your pics and I think maybe the Hulk there squeezed your fuzzy bits off. Geez work on those snappy comebacks!
She probably topped the next five dollar foot long to come through her line. Hussy!
 thadood38

Joined: 5/5/2009
Msg: 36
Fellas, how would you honestly react to this?
Posted: 6/29/2009 6:06:11 PM
Landra said:
oh come on. A young girl working at a Subway sammich shop can't make a silly, provocative remark to guy without the poor dude getting all hot and bothered? Sheesh. Doesn't take much to piss you guys off either then, does it? LOL

No, it would be playing games if she were flirting with a guy she had absolutely no interest in, as you suggested. Apparently this is a favorite pasttime of yours and I'm telling you, that pisses guys off. How are we supposed to figure out the appropriate response if you admit to LYING just to f*ck with us? It's called "mixed signals", and no, it's not by Milton-Bradley.

~Justin
 tropicalknights

Joined: 5/2/2009
Msg: 37
Fellas, how would you honestly react to this?
Posted: 6/29/2009 6:44:23 PM
Don't feel bad, I'm pretty sure I would have just looked at her and blinked. I've been in a similar situation, and didn't do anything, she found someone else. So if you have any interest get you a$$ back there right now, and start talking.
 ~GoneSailing~

Joined: 6/5/2009
Msg: 38
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Posted: 6/29/2009 6:52:34 PM
Go for lunch and write your phone number of the cash in BIG FREAKING numbers.

She'll keep the $1.00 and treasure it forever and you'll have a date for the fireworks on the 4th.
 spicynicegirl

Joined: 8/10/2008
Msg: 39
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Fellas, how would you honestly react to this?
Posted: 6/29/2009 7:17:49 PM
Back to Subway for you quick smart...................lunch, dinner, breakfast (do they sell eggs & toast?)
 prairie7

Joined: 12/19/2008
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Fellas, how would you honestly react to this?
Posted: 6/29/2009 7:38:36 PM
At this very moment, there are 2,318 very confused women working at SubWay's across the land....
Wondering where all these single guys came from all the sudden, and what the H*** is this "POF" thing they're all talking about ???
 ohio07

Joined: 12/27/2008
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Posted: 6/29/2009 7:39:42 PM
Dude, a flirt is a flirt. Working in customer service, you'll hit on somebody just to kill the boredom. However, if you want to make this possibly uncomfortable in the future, just try hitting on her the next time. Trust me, this kinda crap is NEVER worth it. Hell she probably already has a boyfriend.... that she is living with! (Cough! Cough!) This... means... NOTHING!!!
 Landra2

Joined: 6/4/2009
Msg: 42
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Posted: 6/29/2009 7:41:24 PM
the girl said 3 words
 zekestone

Joined: 6/6/2008
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Posted: 6/29/2009 7:47:08 PM
^^^ yeah but they were 3 High Quality Words from an dating-interest perspective...
 lbiker

Joined: 4/24/2008
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Fellas, how would you honestly react to this?
Posted: 6/29/2009 9:02:06 PM
Did you offer her YOUR 5$ footlong????

Sorry couldn't resist
Lbiker
 tbuddha

Joined: 2/28/2005
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Fellas, how would you honestly react to this?
Posted: 6/29/2009 9:06:44 PM
Damn dude, sorry but your game needs some work. That sounded like an easy deal to close to me.
 GoodWitchBeth

Joined: 2/21/2005
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Posted: 6/29/2009 9:14:18 PM
Honey,
She got up the nerve to be that direct, you flubbed it up, now it's your turn to go in and order a footlong, and ask for her number. If I had been that bold, I would not have been playing around. She probably was working up her nerve the whole time your sub was being fixed...get your butt back there and at least fix her wounded self-esteem. Go tell her that she can be on top, bottom, sideways or from behind, as long as she's there.
It doesn't matter if you hook up 0r not, give the girl an ego boost!
Beth
 Reddhorse

Joined: 11/17/2008
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Fellas, how would you honestly react to this?
Posted: 6/29/2009 10:04:46 PM
Yes, go back there and give her your number. She said, "You didn't hear that" because she lost her confidence at the end. Sounds like a neat encounter. I wonder if she is a wrestling fan because you kind of look like "The Rock."

Hope you go back. She really took a risk.
Good Luck!
 Readyagain8

Joined: 12/28/2008
Msg: 48
Fellas, how would you honestly react to this?
Posted: 6/29/2009 10:09:18 PM
Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhh - that would be what we like to call a MISSED OPPORTUNITY!!!!!
 marc100000

Joined: 2/24/2009
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Fellas, how would you honestly react to this?
Posted: 6/30/2009 6:17:05 AM
Give us all the address and all of us dudes will come in for lunch.
If sge uses the same lines on us we will expose her for the playa she is.
 NastyJerk

Joined: 4/18/2009
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Posted: 6/30/2009 6:29:55 AM

cashier: me on top?


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A young girl working at a Subway sammich shop can't make a silly, provocative remark to guy without the poor dude getting all hot and bothered?


Three responses:

If a man said something like this to a female customer, there would be a bunch of femalists coming out of the woodwork saying the female customer should sue the restaurant and man for making unwanted sexual advances and creating a hostile environment. I see no reason why females should get a free pass in this minefield.

I agree with the others on here that if she is kidding around, that is childish game playing. These forums are filled with threads from females whining about how men play games.

Take the bait! If this were me, I would be going back to the restaurant on a regular basis until I saw her again. If she is serious, go for it. If it turns out she is kidding, you can always send a comment card to the manager complaining about her conduct. Revenge! Ha Ha Ha Ha
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