| Fellas, how would you honestly react to this?
Posted: 6/30/2009 6:31:02 AM |
No wonder women dont bother hitting on men, not only dont they get it when you arent interested, they dont get it when you are!
Like females are so superior at either of these. Right! | |
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| Fellas, how would you honestly react to this?
Posted: 6/30/2009 7:10:54 AM |
I think I need to go to subway for lunch again
stop thinking.. you felt an energy between you two and you need to act on that .. it is precious and rare .... when you are interested.. it is what it is .. from there you make it what you want. Lady luck has just offered you the connection of the universe .. enjoy every second/ | |
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| Fellas, how would you honestly react to this?
Posted: 6/30/2009 7:19:18 AM | My honest reaction:
cashier: me on top?
me: um, what do you mean?
A sexual reference like that, out of the blue? I'd miss it completely and be trying to figure out how it related to the sandwich. | |
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| Fellas, how would you honestly react to this?
Posted: 6/30/2009 7:23:26 AM | Well I have thought this through and have decided that you should have chosen the cookie and not the chips.
IMAGINE IF you were married.....Happily.....What response would you have had?
To come onto someone is one thing but IMO she was coming on a little too strong.
How many other guys has she used this line on?
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| Fellas, how would you honestly react to this?
Posted: 6/30/2009 7:30:22 AM | I would have asked for her telephone number.
So she made a sexual innuendo, asked if you were married, and made a joke that you two should go to Vegas and get married and you didn't know that you should ask for her telephone number? You are incredibly dense. | |
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| Fellas, how would you honestly react to this?
Posted: 6/30/2009 7:51:18 AM | Landra-
I think it's more the fact that most of us aren't used to strangers saying stuff like that. On the few occasions it does happen, most of us look around to make sure they're talking to us- even then we aren't sure. Then there's the inevitable, "Who, me? What? Did she say what I think she said?! Is it my birthday!?"
The fact that it happens so rarely means that it's very difficult to decide how to take it. The only filter I really have for it is why I would be saying it- flirtatiously and with intent- and that doesn't work because some women flirt for all kinds of reasons that men don't.
It's my observation that when a woman takes any sort of initiative with most of us, we're likely to be VERY surprised and flattered purely because it's outside the norm for most women to blatantly communicate that sort of thing.
58- Bob, I'd agree with you if Subway were the sort of place where one tends to tip the standard 15- 20%, but honestly... most standard workers in fast, no tip eateries don't really care whether or not the clientele returns. The bartender wants you return because you tend to tip more at a bar. | |
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| Fellas, how would you honestly react to this?
Posted: 6/30/2009 8:07:07 AM | | I was a dish-washer at a restaurant typ place for 10months. Some waitresses did flirt with customers (especially the customers who looked rich) but I don't think any of em would of been that direct. I think she could of been fantasizing about someone else. Some of those workers get really bored. | |
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| Fellas, how would you honestly react to this?
Posted: 6/30/2009 8:17:23 AM | No it doesnt take a lot for some guys to get riled up does it? honestly If some guy said that to me while I was innocently ordering my lunch Id be downright insulted and look elswhere in futuure for lunch.
But yeh blokes get in there blah blh | |
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| Fellas, how would you honestly react to this?
Posted: 6/30/2009 8:20:12 AM | palifornia562 on 6/29/2009 5 32 PM
So the other day I went to Subway for lunch. I'm in line getting my sub fixed up, and I'm checking out the cute cashier, and she's smiling at me. So I get over to her to pay, and this is what ensues:
cashier: hi, how are you?
me: i'm good, how about yourself?
cashier: i'm also good.....would you like to make it a combo?
me: yes
cashier: chips or cookie?
me: chips
cashier: medium drink or large?
me: medium
cashier: me on top?
me: yeah....uh...huh....WHAT?
cashier: (her blushing) nevermind, you didn't hear that.
It took me a few seconds to register what she said, but I know what I heard, we both sort of played it off though. I was extremely flattered, and have never had a girl be THAT blunt with me. I just got tongue-tied and didnt know what to say to that! then she said i am probably married anyways, i showed her my hands...no ring, then she jokingly said we need to go to vegas and get married then.
Unfortunately i just left, not knowing how to follow up. I think I need to go to subway for lunch again
The next time you write something like this, you need to also have gotten her phone number by then, and to have been in bed with her several times!!
This happened to me at a Radio Shack about 4 years ago, with my (then) wife standing next to me. As I was holding the laptop in my hand, my hand was covered (my wedding band, too). She (a young black female) looked at me, and proceeded to ask me "if she could go in the bag and come home". With the look of hellfire and brimstone, my wife (hispanic) looked at her and said a resounding "hell no!" If not for me restaining her, we would've left with no laptop. | |
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| Fellas, how would you honestly react to this?
Posted: 6/30/2009 10:16:15 AM | (57) You nailed it. I used to drink, and hang out with bartenders all the time. They ALL do this for precisely the reason you stated. There is a reason most female bartenders are young, slim, and wear tight clothing... DUH!
Here's a thought, just a thought. If she is REALLY interested in you, she will give you HER number! I'm not kidding...
If she want's this, she will do it on her terms and be in control of the situation. If you give your number this is you imposing on a customer service worker, it's much better if she approaches you in a non working situation... Any flirting on the job, means nothing... Now if she tells you what bar she's going to, or asks advice on what she should do on her day off, then your all clear. But what you described is meaningless... Come on! | |
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| Fellas, how would you honestly react to this?
Posted: 7/7/2009 12:30:00 AM | LOL THAT'S my Kinda Girl! *giggles* Get use to it cause there are girls out there like that..But next time Dont be shy she was totally Flirting with you and You Surly wouldn't be on here if you would of flirted back *giggles
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| Fellas, how would you honestly react to this?
Posted: 7/7/2009 12:38:55 AM | I would like to ask- did the o.p. actually think this woman was "hot" or gfunny, or in some way attractive before she made this comment?
I mean if she was 20 stone she probly says this to everyone  | |
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| Fellas, how would you honestly react to this?
Posted: 7/7/2009 8:57:39 AM | | Being a transport driver I run into a lot of women who are flirty, sexual, and overtly friendly but I never take it too serious. They are just being friendly. Actually I don't like it much when they call me "dear" or other endearing words. When they are sexually suggestive I take it as a compliment and move on after a mutual chuckle and flirts. Not sure what is going on in your situation but a return visit would tell all. Maybe she was just horny as hell and has been without for awhile and she won't even talk to you when u return. Check it out but don't expect a lot, just roll with it and maybe you'll have a hell of a weekend if nothing else. | |
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| Fellas, how would you honestly react to this?
Posted: 7/7/2009 10:04:20 AM | This would be what's wrong with the world....you guys really don't know how to take a girl when she speaks her mind.
One day-I was walking downtown with a couple of friends-we were heading for lunch...I passed this very good-looking man working on the Skurvin Plaza in Oklahoma City.....hot, hot, hot....so I said "Damn...too bad they can't all look that good in hard-hats.".....TAKE NOTE GUYS....THIS IS WHAT YOU DO-------
He stood up, took his hat off and says "you think I look good now, you should see me all cleaned up"....dammit....what's a girl to do....I said "Friday-8pm"....we were together for 3 years. | |
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| Fellas, how would you honestly react to this?
Posted: 7/7/2009 10:19:38 AM | | Boy some of you guys live in a fantasy world and can't see the bird for the feathers. It's called flirting not a proposition. If you're interested go back and flirt back but don't expect a quickie. Who knows it might be a mutual attraction thing. Isn't that how everyone meets? | |
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