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| Fellas, how would you honestly react to this?
Posted: 7/7/2009 10:33:56 AM | That's pretty funny. I love it. Even if nothing becomes of it, it's a a funny story to tell friends.
However, you should go back to just see what the follow up is. Perhaps, turn a joke on her. Another reason I enjoy the little random things that can cheer up everyone on a cloudy day. Quick witt & a Good sense of humor goes a long way.......................... | |
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| Fellas, how would you honestly react to this?
Posted: 7/8/2009 6:22:36 AM | | The perfect response is seldom at the ready when such an opportunity presents itself. Go to Subway again, now that you've had a chance to gather your wits about you, and make the appropriate, witty responses called for...and then make a date. If she's not there, just keep going back until she is. | |
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| Fellas, how would you honestly react to this?
Posted: 7/8/2009 9:19:01 AM | I think going back now that you've really got it all figured out (!) would be really dweeby. If she'd been sincere/serious she would have slipped you her number with your sammich or maybe tossed in a free cookie to make the point clear as possible.
Go with "nevermind, you didn't hear that" as the correct answer, since it constitutes a retraction. IOW, forget it. Women love messing with men (it obviously worked) and are completely aware of the effect their sexuality has on men -- and they are not afraid to use it. In this case it breaks up the boredom of working a sh1t job.
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| Fellas, how would you honestly react to this?
Posted: 7/8/2009 9:19:58 AM | Here is a story, when I was 18 I worked as a cashier in a convienent store. A hot guy came in and he had the nicest tush and I asked him if if he would be offended if I told him so. He asked me out and picked me up that evening. I had the best time of my life!! When most woman are blunt with you they mean it. You should follow through if you have not already!!
After looking at your profile, I probably would have said the same thing!! :) | |
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| Fellas, how would you honestly react to this?
Posted: 7/8/2009 9:47:43 AM | Oh, I have a field day with these kinds of flirting! 
Sometimes people flirt just for fun (I do)...sometimes people flirt with intent (I do!). This was flirting with intent. Go back and get lunch, playfully tease her about how she's probably too innocent for you (you know she's not, she's practically propositioning you! That opens the door for her to get even naughtier with her innuendos...if she's in a bad mood that day, don't take it personally...wink, smile, and ignore her, then go try it again another day), then come right back with another tease after she responds. Throw some innuendos at her! When you order, tell her you're not sure what you want, ask her what meat she likes...LOL. Stare at the cookies when you order and tell her you need something really sweet to enjoy after lunch...ask her if she has any suggestions. LOL...flirting is fun, so have fun with it! Assuming she's sincere and still playing, ask her what time she gets off, and tell her to meet you somewhere public that you've already pre-thunk, and you guys take it from there. (I love what someone said about "can you show me how to operate the sink"...comical! Do it! If she actually goes into the bathroom with you and closes the door, WTH, kiss her! Don't keep her long, you don't want to get her in trouble!) If she walks by while you're eating and asks "how is it?", say something like "I'm not sure yet"...LOL. Or break off a little bite off cookie and put it in her mouth, and say "Not sweet enough, I need more."
If she was just "fun-flirting" she won't agree to meet you after work, but you won't know for sure until you ask, so just ask. Actually, don't ask...be confident, TELL her to meet you wherever like you have no thought at all that she'd even think about saying no. (She probably wouldn't.)
Have fun, she obviously wants to!
Cheers,
Gruuve | |
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| Fellas, how would you honestly react to this?
Posted: 7/8/2009 12:41:08 PM | | The OP hasn't come back to respond so I checked to see if he's around and he posted he was involved in e-mailing someone he was interested in so apparently his curiousity regarding the submarine sandwich maker has been diverted elsewhere. | |
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| Fellas, how would you honestly react to this?
Posted: 7/8/2009 12:57:36 PM | Just wandered in, haven't read all the posts, but something mentioned over a week ago caught my eye. At first, I was just skimming through and the thread had little caught my interest besides just being a nice, easy-breezy kinda stroll through FeelGoodLand. And that's not a jibe - I love my own personal visits there.
Then there was this:
Ladies take note. It doesn't take much to get a guy all excited and riled up. Jokingly mess round with caution. They might think you mean it.
What doesn't fit for me are these two things: Given how many women feel exasperated, insulted, demeaned, belittled, disrespected at what they say is an overpreponderence of this sort of behaviour from males, is it not hypocritical to justify its use by one of the sisterhood?
Secondly, given the rare nature of the event coupled with the supposedly more-trustworthy (read in this instance as honest) nature of the gender, is a male to forget every message that has been drummed into him just because it makes you giggle to see a bit of role reversal?
Equality is something best understood before applied. | |
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| Fellas, how would you honestly react to this?
Posted: 7/8/2009 12:57:50 PM | Nowadays it's not only guys making the first move anymore it's women as well. Just as men have become more sensitive in our society, women have become more aggressive. They have to be because many guys just don't have balls anymore when it comes to approaching a girl. The way you got tougue tied when that chick hit on you is an example of what I mean. You thought she was cute, but it took her to make the first move. If I was in that sutuation this how it I would've responded:
cashier: me on top?
me: if you wanna be, give me your number so we can talk more about it.
You can ever let a chance like that slip by. | |
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| Fellas, how would you honestly react to this?
Posted: 7/8/2009 1:25:57 PM |
They have to be because many guys just don't have balls anymore when it comes to approaching a girl. The way you got tougue tied when that chick hit on you is an example of what I mean. You thought she was cute, but it took her to make the first move. If I was in that sutuation this how it I would've responded:
Could be for a couple of reasons. Just because a girl hits on us, does not mean we were interested in them to begin with.
I don't hit on every cute girl I see, don't have enough time in the day for that. And just because a girl is cute does not mean I am interested in them.
I've meet cute girls before, but there were not poles long enough that I would touch them with. | |
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| Fellas, how would you honestly react to this?
Posted: 7/8/2009 6:12:18 PM | w0w
1. why did i just read all 4 pages of comments?
2. i don't know what all you crazy people are talking about "go back there, keep going till you see her there, eat there everyday, etc..." Hellooo it's called stalking, hasn't anyone ever heard of it? Besides she's probly over it; moments like that rarely offer second chances. Be glad you got such a strong compliment, continue to daydream about this girl if you like, but don't make it awkward by going back in there expecting her to be all up on you again...
3. my honest reaction: depends on how awake i was that day. it could vary from "duhh?" to "maybe, after i finish this sandwich ;)"
4. on flirting and fairness: if you said it's not fair that women can flirt, or women play games, or any such nonsense, kindly zip your trap. a female employee can flirt in that position but if a guy does it, it's harrassment; YES; that's because a guy would WANT the girl to flirt with him (your story is case in point), whereas a girl... well she might not want your particular type of attention at that precise moment. And on a tangent, if you're a guy, and you say that you would NOT want a girl to flirt that directly with you, your either lying or slow.....
5. PALIFORNIA: for future reference, when a girl you are checking out opens a door like that for you, maybe it's a good idea to casually stroll through and check out what's further inside. I mean, there are no garantees; hell, sometimes a woman's libido can seem as unpredictable as the stock market; but in this case, the least you could of done was to open a door back for this girl by not walking out and rejecting her...................
6. Every male is born with testicles, but only A*REAL*MAN has BALLS
7. Thanks for sharing an interesting experience, hopefully you'll think on your feet next time it happens, which should be soon.... | |
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| Fellas, how would you honestly react to this?
Posted: 7/9/2009 6:09:57 AM | | She was definitely flirting. She must have thought you were cute. Why not go back? It wouldn't hurt. It's a new age for women. They sometimes make the first move. There's nothing wrong with it. | |
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| Fellas, how would you honestly react to this?
Posted: 8/10/2009 4:11:37 AM | Subs...with extra "service": I love it!!!
Next time, jokingly say "Don't wanna get married; I just wanna fool around...with one person". At the very least, might get a laugh. At most, she'll put her phone # on the receipt. | |
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| Fellas, how would you honestly react to this?
Posted: 10/17/2009 8:43:52 PM | Assuming I didn't do exactly like you did I think following up with something like "Well, if you want to give me your number I'll call you later and we can talk about it some more" would work given the chat before it.
The other option, having walked out, would be to go in again later and if she's there again go up with something along the lines of "I've been considering your earlier offer, and if still interested perhaps we could talk about it over dinner?"
Hopefully either one would work since they'd be within context of topics she brought up. | |
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