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 webmdtech

Joined: 12/5/2008
Msg: 101
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Why does contact fade?
Posted: 7/6/2009 8:48:40 AM
its very simple...he is just not that into you.
 VivaciousVixen2009

Joined: 7/12/2008
Msg: 102
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SEX too early and HAVE had long term excellent relationships
Posted: 7/6/2009 12:36:14 PM
sorry to ruin everybody's sexist opinion that she put out too soon
because the man is a 1)game player a 2)dog a 3) total piece of crap!!!!
but
i have had 3 excellent relationships where the sex started "too early"
so stop beating this lady up and abusing this lady because the man is an
a rsehole!!!!!!!!!
T H A N K Y O U stop being opinionated diks!!!!
 newname4metoo

Joined: 4/25/2009
Msg: 103
Why does contact fade?
Posted: 7/6/2009 3:48:32 PM

Its sex. Having sex with someone right off the bat indicates a low IQ, low self esteem, you're easy to get, the chase is over and the prey has been bagged.


I asked you before if you had facts to back up this statement. I guess not. I guess it was just you shooting your mouth off.


I am very intelligent.


I don't think you are. Most intelligent people don't make ridiculous, sweeping statements that they cannot back up.


That's a fact, but to throw out your "v" like its so much garbage for any horney dude who gives you the hairy eyeball, is just plain stupid.


Ohhhhh......I see. Even though you original comment didn't specify gender, now I see that the low IQ comment only applies to people with vaginas. So, in addition to your comment being factually baseless, it is also sexist. Good one.
 eastendwoman

Joined: 7/15/2006
Msg: 104
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Why does contact fade?
Posted: 7/6/2009 5:17:24 PM
He just wanted a one time interlude and now he's cooling off. It's not your fault. You shouldn't feel like you did something wrong. He knew what he was going to do before he even met you.
 rosemary5418

Joined: 6/4/2009
Msg: 105
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Why does contact fade?
Posted: 7/7/2009 5:13:56 AM
I think the real question you need to be asking yourself is, "Do you really Want a guy back that's behaving like this?" Now, alot of people will tell you that guys will just take off after the sex. While I generally tend to put the sex off untill I've gotten to know the person a little more I have had sex early in a couple of my reltaionships and they turned out to be great long lasting monogamous relationships. So, maybe you should just ask him then if you don't like his answer break off All contact. Or just break off all contact. He's an idiot for not wanting to be with you after all.
 ceoil

Joined: 6/12/2009
Msg: 106
Why does contact fade?
Posted: 7/7/2009 1:45:30 PM
Because he has had you and you are no longer interesting for him now?
 knowing333

Joined: 4/25/2009
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Why does contact fade?
Posted: 7/15/2009 10:02:50 PM
I would say this....I will be very honest so you mite not want to hear this! =o If you sleep with a guy early in the (dateing seen)lol. The guy will lose respect for you!!! There are women who say well there was chemistry! Hmmm,He open a door for me,Hmmm,He bought me dinner,Or my favorite!!! The number one reason women think its ok or tell the guy after so they dont lose respect for them!!!........................I really,really useally don't do that! hehe! What the hell does that mean? What every so often? Once a week? Ladies if you want played give it up quick! If you dont...Dont!
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