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Posted: 7/2/2009 4:36:16 PM | I agree with Goodwitchbeth all the way! But in regards to the origional question. Go to the website it posted. And all my other sisters on this post go buy the book on G-spot from goodvibrations.com. FOR REAL!!!! Cool stuff. It gets into not only the anatomy, but also types of orgasm from the "G-spot" to clitoral to anal to female ejaculation to multiple orgasms, etc. With accessory stimuli from other parts of the body. Beautifully written book for women by women.
For all the men on this post.. FYI. the best lover a woman could ever have is one who is receptive. | |
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Posted: 7/2/2009 6:21:05 PM | You had mentioned earlier you thought perhaps age may be a factor.... you may want to take a multivitamin(if you don't already), and perhaps look into other herbal or supplemental vitamins.
Such as DHEA, L- Argnine, Gingko Biloba, and melatonin. They all assist in prolactin inhibition, estrogen production/utilization, and blood flow.
Of course.....talking to your doctor first is always a great idea . :D | |
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Posted: 7/2/2009 6:24:17 PM | Sassy, having done some research on this I will suggest to you what I tell everybody when they are learning where and how to fire the GSPot EVERY time.
Forget the kock!
Forget toys.
Use fingers. His. Preferably thumbs so you can enjoy many many orgasms without having to call 911 and having your lover taken away for carpal tunnel surgery.
With thumbs he can feeel the tension in your muscles, the undulations as you work with him to get just the right angle, pressure and speed. This is something he simply can not do with his kock or toys.
You can play around there with a toy because YOU are the one putting pressure so you know if it's positioned right or exerting just the right amount of pressure. I gurantee though the most you can probably produce is 3 maybe 4 O's before you run out of steam. It WILL give you practice feeling what you need to feel but I think it is still better to explore with your lover. Communicate, inform, instruct and it WILL get better and better.
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It is mentioned all over these threads. WHY do women persist in thinking or assuming that ALL women orgasm always during intercourse. They don't. Only a small % do. The fact that your lover takes care of you in other ways is a good thing. Many women don't even get that - hence the 55% divorce rate for one.
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Whytwater said it here first I think. Learn to return the favor for him. I suggest a discussion before to play proctologist with him the first time but that can be a mind-numbingly GOOD experience for the guy. You're never too old to learn new tricks and neither is he.
Read this:
Milking Thread
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=98657
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Interesting. It very well could be hormones. From what I've seen it is progressively easier for women to G-Gasm the OLDER they get and that is likely due to the thinning of the vag will which is a result of reduced hormonal levels.
Have you considered hormone replacement therapy.
When I was younger, I could orgasm easily but I think it's got something to do with a loss
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Again, from extensive research and many many emails and posts to the TRY THIS thread there is a remarkable (for some / many?) difference between a clitoral and a GSpot orgasm. The clitoral O is a muscular "suck UP" motion while G-Gasms are massive push-out muscular contractions. I warn women who are pregnant NOT to have G-Gasms because those orgasms could / might conceivably initiate child birth. I know some women can not feel the difference but many do and many men have described an orgasming vag TWO ways - a squeezing action down the entire shaft - sometimes even being described as being bitten .... AND a much more powerful series of contractions that are strong enough to eject a dude's erection from her vag while she is G-gasming.
how do you know for sure they aren't G-spot?
eschec mat, sex she can't tell the difference between orgasms when she having intercourse. Are you describing the diff between G and clitoral or are you referring to different vag orgasms. G or A perhaps? I haven't spoken to any woman who couldn't tell the diff between clitoral and G-Gasms so I'm confused here as to what you are referring to.
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I think Chris is expressing concern based on the (mis ?) conception that the vibrations from some vibes will eventually DEsensitize a lover's clit to the point where his tongue is boooooring. He's forgetting that the turn on for the woman is USUALLY the fact that he is down there in the first place. Most women find that to be THE most intimate ( not to mention suckcessful ) contact a lover can have with her.
In short I agree that whatever helps her fine tune her pleasure and orgasmic response is a good thing.
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The "AfterShok-Gasms are a hoot, yes? I've always associated those with massive repeating G-Gasms and ht eforst time I did that with a lover years ago she fell asleep still twitching like a dog having a nightmare or chasing some dream bunny!! In the morning I looked at her over the breakfast table, grinned at her remembering the night before and for effect I licked a big blob of jam off my toast and SHE G-GASM'd again. She looked scared for a sec and then just started laughing. Those aftershock orgasms would typically happen up to 30 hours AFTER all sexual activity had ceased. You know the result of a after-shock orgasm? You're right. She feels so damn sexy and horny it starts a whole new round. YeeeHaaww.
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GSPOT THREAD
http://forum.literotica.com:81/showthread.php?t=70892
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Timeless suggests L- Arginine as a supplement. BING that. It does a LOT more (good) for the bod than sexual turbocharging. | |
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Posted: 7/2/2009 6:39:37 PM |
I have a G spot vibe and I can have them that way easily. So now she shows her bf how...again, I asked if it had to do with her bf not being experienced. Not sure that is a biggy that I point out that it seems like she should know. She said that she can, so she knows where it is with her vibrator.
I haven't spoken to any woman who couldn't tell the diff between clitoral and G-Gasms During vaginal sex my clitoris is being contacted and my G spot. Now how or why would I be trying to or wanting to figure out what is what? I am multi-orgasmic and will not apologize for enjoying the fact that I don't have problems. I also see fireworks. To have to analyze what is doing what seems to me would take away from my experience. I am in the moment and feel everything everywhere and yeah, bam the bombs are bursting in air. I have asked before how anyone can possibly count them. I wasn't joking. I don't understand people that can't orgasm unless they aren't in a relationship where they care about the other person. Of course oral or other stimulation is different I confess that I dig sex and can live without much foreplay because I do love just intercourse so much. I am big on feeling something for your partner. So when I have sex, I am not just screwing. I think that makes a difference. | |
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Posted: 7/2/2009 7:08:09 PM | Thanks Dave. You're always a wealth of information. It's due to your thread that you always refer to, that I bought the vibe in the first place. I had gone to my regular GYN
appointment and specifically asked about the G spot. I told her I heard about it but I didn't seem to have one. I had looked for it with my own fingers and felt nothing in that
area. She said that everyone is not sensitive in that area. That was when I looked online
and found out they made vibes just for that place. I wanted to see if she was right.
I do take hormones. Without them, it would be difficult to have sex at all. I went through a period after menopause where I had zero sex drive and sex was very uncomfortable due to dryness no matter how much lube I used. In fact, I bled if I had sex because the skin had thinned out so much in that area. It's a very fine line with these doctors who don't want to give us hormones anymore.
I will order that book and look into these other supplements mentioned.
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Posted: 7/2/2009 7:33:54 PM |
The "AfterShok-Gasms are a hoot, yes? I've always associated those with massive repeating G-Gasms and ht eforst time I did that with a lover years ago she fell asleep still twitching like a dog having a nightmare or chasing some dream bunny!! In the morning I looked at her over the breakfast table, grinned at her remembering the night before and for effect I licked a big blob of jam off my toast and SHE G-GASM'd again. She looked scared for a sec and then just started laughing. Those aftershock orgasms would typically happen up to 30 hours AFTER all sexual activity had ceased. You know the result of a after-shock orgasm? You're right. She feels so damn sexy and horny it starts a whole new round. YeeeHaaww.
Yes. First time it happened I looked at him and asked him wtf had he done to me. That was a yr ago. I was a twitching, panting, completely wrecked mess. And loved every freakin' second of it. | |
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Posted: 7/2/2009 7:34:44 PM | | OK, after coming back and reading more posts on this thread, I need to add something a little more serious. I had experienced g-spot orgasms only a handful of times (and a small hand at that) UNTIL I got my g-spot vibrator. First I experimented with the vibrator. Scratch that, it wasn't experimenting, it was having orgasms, lol. Moving on...once I could hit the spot every time, and climax without any clitoral involvement, I started experimenting (and this time I WAS experimenting) with my fingers and dildos. It got to the point where if I was seeking out an orgasm, it needed to be a g-spot orgasm...so I just moved and wriggled and maneuvered until I had one. Every time. From THERE I started using the same tactics when having intercourse, along with a little verbal coaching...and I now have vaginal, g-spot orgasms most of the time. BUT, I maintain that it all began with the vibrator. | |
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Posted: 7/2/2009 7:58:09 PM | I hope between the TRY THIS thread and the book you manage to get there.
I'm not a doctor so I wouldn't have a clue if the hormone replacement would have any effect on the vag wall thickness issue. As long as you have some desire return I'm sure you will enjoy a long and happy sex / love life.
It is clear that she has no clue how difficult it is for many many women to orgasm. It sounds like some young buck "explaining" to some 75 yr old on blood pressure meds how easy it is to get and keep an erection. Where's my gun?
Eschec, I hope you know how lucky you are. Not all women orgasm that easily.
eschec mat you sound confrontational and defensive. NOBODY ever asked you to apologize for your abilty to orgasm easily. Where the hell did THAT come from???
In regard to my question .... I was simply asking if you were experiencing clitoral AND Gspot orgasms or perhaps Aspot orgasms too. You answered but made it sound like I'm an idiot to even ask. I've always been curious as to exactly what goes on when a woman is becoming aroused and especially what drives her to climax and how. It was that curiosity that allowed me to stumble on the GSpot Technique that I posted on the TRY THIS thread. A "FEW" couples seem to have benefited from reading that thread. I'm not trying to give you the 3rd degree here. Just wondering HOW you're orgasming. Sharing that could improve other women's love lives.
It is clear from all the feedback that generally women are NOT able to orgasm as easily as you and a few other posters can. You make them sound like psych cases for not being able to. Granted some do have emotional / mental issues but for many the problems are physical - even genetic by the sounds of some research so consider your self VERY lucky. Sniping at those wishing to improve THEIR sex lives or those of us who like to share info doesn't help.
AS far as counting orgasms ... some can and do and have fun doing it. A number to better another night. A number to share with the girls on midnight shift knowing that they can see the look in your eyes and knowing you're telling the absolute truth! ALL our brains work differently. Some can count during orgasms. Some can't or the part of their brain that counts is temporarily lacking sufficient oxygen. You asked before how anyone could possibly count them and women have answered you. Their brains don't work EXACTLY like yours. Get over it. Some women don't orgasm as easily as you do and you still write with an attitude guaranteed to make them feel sub-sexual. To insinuate that these women are not as sexual or orgasmic as you are because YOU include emotions when you have sex is just condescending and insulting.
During vaginal sex my clitoris is being contacted and my G spot. Now how or why would I be trying to or wanting to figure out what is what? I am multi-orgasmic and will not apologize for enjoying the fact that I don't have problems ... To have to analyze what is doing what seems to me would take away from my experience. ..... I have asked before how anyone can possibly count them. I wasn't joking. I don't understand people that can't orgasm unless they aren't in a relationship where they care about the other person. .... I am big on feeling something for your partner. So when I have sex, I am not just screwing. I think that makes a difference.
catlady, I asked on the TRY THIS thread a number of times if the pressure was what triggered the G-Gasms or the vibration and got confused, obtuse answers. Perhaps the intensity made it difficult to determine whether it was vib or poke that triggered. Again, I was just curious.
I suggest over and over in these threads that couples should explore and experiment with their fingers and thumbs FIRST. Forget using kocks until you reach that stage you were at with your vibe - where you KNEW ... the feeling, the angle, the pressure , the speed. Once the woman KNOWS that it is NOT generally a problem for her to tilt her pelvis to allow an erection to exert enough pressure for her to begin climaxing from G or A spot stimulation. If one partner knows how this all works they can quickly and easily instruct their partner - and that includes a man showing an inexperienced woman how to get'er dun. From the feed- back on TRY THIS and I'm sure you'll agree, the more suckcessful you become at triggering G-Gasms using fingers - thumbs - toys THE EASIER IT IS TO get there and the faster you can get there from a cold start and the more you want it ... all the time.
I started experimenting (and this time I WAS experimenting) with my fingers and dildos. It got to the point where if I was seeking out an orgasm, it needed to be a g-spot orgasm...so I just moved and wriggled and maneuvered until I had one. Every time. From THERE I started using the same tactics when having intercourse, along with a little verbal coaching...and I now have vaginal, g-spot orgasms most of the time. BUT, I maintain that it all began with the vibrator.
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Posted: 7/2/2009 8:05:11 PM |
Damn, now I want to cum.
And I'd be more than happy to help you with that KylieKyote! | |
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Posted: 7/2/2009 8:30:31 PM | You are being proactive and that is good! I hope that your doctor gave you hormones based on testing you and not generic.
And your posting this question is good for other women and men. You saw things in another thread and have done and are still doing things based on that. Hopefully other men and women will also get positive results. I hope you do post a follow-up if you find something you try, such as supplements, gives you positive results.
I said in another thread tonight and have said before that how we intend things to sound, isn't always how they are read. I hope I haven't offended anyone.
But as I was interrupted with a call while posting this I didn't post it and have since read
<div class="quote"> Get over it. Some women don't orgasm as easily as you do and you still write with an attitude guaranteed to make them feel sub-sexual. To insinuate that these women are not as sexual or orgasmic as you are because YOU include emotions when you have sex is just condescending and insulting. Ya know, I don't get your attitude because I answered your question. You said you never met someone that couldn't determine where they come from. Guess what, I don't get why a woman would want to know. If you are orgasming, that is a good thing and to me it doesn't matter where it comes from. Unless you can't get a hard on ie have regular sexual intercourse - penis in vagina with a woman, why would it matter where she is coming from?
You know if I have that many orgasms back to back, yeah, my mind is obviously not on counting. It absolutely makes no sense to me not to be into it with the other person. Never thought anyone kept scores and can't understand the purpose behind it and again why I ask how could anyone count? I also rarely drink and don't do drugs, so I am fully aware of all my feelings/sensation. I am not dulling anything.
I will never stop telling anyone that having sex as a fwb, fb, or without being emotionally involved with someone is not something you should do. Pretty consistent with commenting on that. I don't believe that you can truly have good sex without being into someone emotionally. Condescending and insulting someone if they have sex and don't orgasm because they aren't into the other person WTF? Pretty obvious what their problem would be if that is the case. If they are into the other person emotionally, I do think people have great sex and work together as the OP has clearly stated he takes care of her.
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Posted: 7/2/2009 9:46:39 PM | I said in another thread tonight and have said before that how we intend things to sound, isn't always how they are read. I hope I haven't offended anyone.
But as I was interrupted with a call while posting this I didn't post it and have since read
Get over it. Some women don't orgasm as easily as you do and you still write with an attitude guaranteed to make them feel sub-sexual. To insinuate that these women are not as sexual or orgasmic as you are because YOU include emotions when you have sex is just condescending and insulting. Ya know, I don't get your attitude because I answered your question. You said you never met someone that couldn't determine where they come from. Guess what, I don't get why a woman would want to know. If you are orgasming, that is a good thing and to me it doesn't matter where it comes from. Unless you can't get a hard on ie have regular sexual intercourse - penis in vagina with a woman,
So YOU don't get why any woman would want to know. You don't, obviously speak for all women. Some women DO want to know - as I pointed out. We're chasing our tails here. You repeat you don't care and I say some do. .... AND ????
You know if I have that many orgasms back to back, yeah, my mind is obviously not on counting. It absolutely makes no sense to me not to be into it with the other person. Never thought anyone kept scores and can't understand the purpose behind it and again why I ask how could anyone count? I also rarely drink and don't do drugs, so I am fully aware of all my feelings/sensation. I am not dulling anything.
Again, maybe it doesn't make sense to you but I've been with one or two ladies who LOVED to count them. Get it? NOT like you. NOT a matter of keeping score. Perhaps a fascination however brief that a woman who normally orgasmed once a night via oral only would be curious as to how many she was having in a row when I showed her how to G-Gasm. I never mentioned drugs. I hypothesized that perhaps MORE oxygen was going to your cerebral orgasm centers than to your math/logic centers while orgasming. It was a lame attempt at a JOKE.
#1 because I'M curious. I already stated that and #2 because what highly orgasmic women may or can describe MAY just help other women who are not so gifted, achieve that or those elusive orgasm(s) - THAT's WHY.
why would it matter where she is coming from?.
And I'll never disagree with you on that point (below). I've had TWO brief affairs since Sue died and that was because I've just never been emotionally attached to anybody since. Perhaps one day but in the mean time I'll keep it Holy and the physical part sacred as it can only be when there is love and complete trust.
I will never stop telling anyone that having sex as a fwb, fb, or without being emotionally involved with someone is not something you should do. Pretty consistent with commenting on that. I don't believe that you can truly have good sex without being into someone emotionally.
Condescending and insulting someone if they have sex and don't orgasm because they aren't into the other person WTF? Pretty obvious what their problem would be if that is the case. If they are into the other person emotionally, I do think people have great sex and work together as the OP has clearly stated he takes care of her.
The OP IS working on it. I hope she gets there. Some women have worked on it ALL their lives and with a trusted loviong mate and they still can't orgasm. If I were one of them I would find your comment HIGHLY degrading. Many of these women have been married and have been in love for decades, have tried EVERYTHING and it still doesn't happen. You take your ability for granted and the comments are a little too dismissive, simplistic and flippant.
I suggested some of your comments would leave non-orgasmic women feeling a little more out of it than before they read your posts.
" I don't understand people that can't orgasm unless they aren't in a relationship where they care about the other person."
" I am big on feeling something for your partner. So when I have sex, I am not just screwing."
The insinuation being that they might feel something if only they were emotionally involved.
EDIT: Please point out where I have ever said anyone was a psych case. You have offended me and I did nothing imo to offend you. I answered the question you posed to me, I am sorry you don't know women like me, but that isn't my problem.
That's another dumb statement. I DO know women like you. Women who could / can orgasm at the drop of hat. THAT isn't the issue here. Women with your attitude however, I don't chose to get to know.
I'm not the only one to note your attitude either.
One of the things that bothers me most about this place is the assumption many have about other's experiences being similar to their own.
I think you're missing my point. Your implication that she *should* doesn't mean that she does.
You're right (below). Often we do misinterpret statements. You clearly do not have ANY perception of women who don't orgasm as easily as you do and because I feel for them I'm the one who found your statements somewhat insulting. Perhaps I'm being overly sensitive. Perhaps the women who can't orgasm (but didn't post) just hope you get run over by a slow train. I don't know. They're not ALL like you and the world is a better place for it. IMO.
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Posted: 7/2/2009 11:35:02 PM | OP, use the vibrator; although I'm surprised the vibrator does it; because 100% of the women responding to an earlier thread said that they needed something SOLID to stimulate their g-spot, and that "vibrators" actually didn't do anything. Is it the SHAPE of the vibrator that's doing it for you; or does the actual vibration help?
To answer your question, YES, it IS a "practice makes perfect" type of situation; and NO you will NOT become desensitized. The thing to do is to teach your bf HOW to do you with the vibrator; THEN you and he can learn how he can do you with his fingers. Once you get to where you are able to knock of g-spot orgasms at will, you will also find that you are orgasming more from intercourse. I mentioned a previous lover who was initially only able to orgasm once a night; who, after a period of several months, got to where she could have unlimited orgasms. Well, initially she was only able to orgasm if she was on top facing the guy. However, once we figured out her g-spot, and got her to where she was multi-orgasmic, she was able to orgasm in ANY and ALL positions involving vaginal penetration. So, start with the vibrator, work up to the fingers, and, trust me, the penis will follow.  | |
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Posted: 7/3/2009 5:53:11 AM | Oh they definately feel different to me.
The clitoral orgasm is more of an intense, direct "BAM"......where the Gspot orgasm
is more of a whole body experience "Wave" for me.
I absoluletly love Gspot orgasms........and can have one after another.
With a clitoral orgasm.......I have to have a melt down period before I can handle stimulation to the area again.
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Posted: 7/3/2009 7:28:46 AM | | Maybe you both are not spending enough time on fore play. I have found that some ladies need to be brought to an orgasm several times before the actual f-ing begins. Also some fantasies can be explored during fore play. | |
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Posted: 7/4/2009 7:43:23 AM | It’s important that she’s very wet before you try and find her G spot location. As such, you need to engage in some heavy foreplay to ensure that she’s wet and wanting. Draw her knees up and put her at ease by engaging in oral sex first. When she’s good and ready, you can then try to insert your finger into her. Make sure your palm is facing up so that when you curve your finger.Find an area that feels like the roof of your mouth. It should be a bit spongy, rough and ridged. Although the exact G spot location is not the same for all women, it should be about an inch or two within her vaginal wall.
Once you find the G spot, you can pretty much treat it like her clitoris and stimulate it as such. For added sexual pleasure, you can use your thumb to stimulate her clitoris or even perform oral sex on her while your finger continues its sexual assault on her G spot. 
While you are at the G spot mimic the motion , like you are using your finger to call someone towards you "come here" motion ( you can try two fingers after she's responding some)
With continued stimulation, eventually she will feel a sensation much like having to pee. This can be quite disconcerting at first, and has probably led plenty of women to abandon the process, but if you stick with it you’ll be in for a pleasant surprise. You may or may not ejaculate, but ejaculation is perfectly normal (and it's not urine). BELEIVE ME 
In many cases as soon as your fingers touch the right spot you will feel this area of the vagina begin to swell, plus it will have a somewhat spongy feel to it compared to the rest of the area around it. Once you have felt this part of the vagina begin to change shape and swell you need to now start sliding your fingers over it from side to side. Doing this will actually further increase the amount of sexual pleasure your partner is already currently feeling. When you are attempting for the first time on how to find G Spot in your woman's vagina it is important that you ask them if you have actually achieved this. But in most cases, you can tell from a look on their face, or the sounds she is performing that you have found what you were looking for.
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Posted: 7/4/2009 11:16:19 PM | For MOST women this statement is WRONG WRONG WRONG.
Once you find the G spot, you can pretty much treat it like her clitoris and stimulate it as such.
The G and A spots ARE NOT like the clit and need to be treated VERY differently. The clit is nerve-city and any rough handling or rubbing will either kill the mood for her or she'll just kill you for not knowing what the hell you're doing and being way too rough with it.
The G and A Spots on the other hand are endorphine triggers for child birth. They are IN the birth canal and don't even deploy without relatively (compared to touching the clit) rough poking or rubbing. Once it is activated the Gspot can take a LOT more firmness, speed and directional stroking, tapping or poking. Ditto for the A spot.
Once she reaches ORGASM ... this is where the two comPLETELY part company. The clit usually becomes way too sensitive to even look at so leave it alone or she'll knock some teeth out reacting to ANY touching of the clit.
The A and GSpots will fire again and again and again and ... until the cows cum home. These spots on most women do NOT become too sensitive. The great thing is they are hard wired right in to the orgasm center of the brain and continued stimulation of these areas will result in continued orgasms. Just keep doing what you were doing to start the first one and the second, third , fourth etc etc etc will follow. Some women claim they will orgasm over 100 times in an evening with a lover who knows how to do this.
Of course communication is good but my guess if you know how to do this you will have determined long before you have the opportunity to discover if she has had this done before or whether it is a new concept. If it is , she is in for a helluva fun time that she never knew she was capable of before. It is an AWESOME feeling giving a woman the first bunch of multiples that she has ever experienced. If she has never had this ahppen before then use some commons sense and don't MAKE her have more than she's comfortable with. If she trusts you she'll want more and more but the first time will scare her if you don't stop when she's begging you to. Let her build up to how ever many she's comfortable with or she'll feel like a lab rat and won't ever allow you to do that again.
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Posted: 7/5/2009 7:20:02 AM | | Using a vibe to illicit those very rare G-spot orgasms OP means that you will eventually completely desensitize the area making it basically impossible to orgasm that way. Try alternatives, use g-spot dildos instead, so the manipulation is closer to natural. Just a suggestion. | |
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Posted: 7/5/2009 7:26:06 AM | | hand it to your boyfriend, show him what you like, and he will get off on watching you get off....nothing wrong with toys | |
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Posted: 7/5/2009 12:00:48 PM |
So YOU don't get why any woman would want to know. You don't, obviously speak for all women. Some women DO want to know - as I pointed out. We're chasing our tails here. You repeat you don't care and I say some do. .... AND ???? No, I haven't said that nor do I feel that I have said anything to imply any woman is sub-sexual; however, repeatedly have stated that I don't understand it and don't get it, because I haven't experienced it. You are not a woman, you have not experienced a woman's orgasm EXCEPT for what people have told you and what you have watched etc.
Again, maybe it doesn't make sense to you but I've been with one or two ladies who LOVED to count them. Get it? NOT like you. NOT a matter of keeping score. Perhaps a fascination however brief that a woman who normally orgasmed once a night via oral only would be curious as to how many she was having in a row when I showed her how to G-Gasm. I never mentioned drugs. I hypothesized that perhaps MORE oxygen was going to your cerebral orgasm centers than to your math/logic centers while orgasming. It was a lame attempt at a JOKE. So some women are capable of counting, I haven't missed that point, because I can't, won't, have no desire to, what is the big deal? I read your comment and did not take it as insulting; however, I did further explain myself. Again, posts are often misunderstood and I felt I should explain my experiences.
The insinuation being that they might feel something if only they were emotionally involved. No insinuation, this is a clear statement that I don't feel that sex outside of a loving and caring relationship is ever good. I think that when you dig someone you are into each other. As the OP stated he is giving her pleasure, that is what it is about.
Perhaps the women who can't orgasm (but didn't post) just hope you get run over by a slow train. I don't know. They're not ALL like you and the world is a better place for it. IMO. Ya know if there are any woman that are offended by my not understanding of their inability to orgasm, they are free to email me if they choose to explain to me what I have said to offend them. I am a Reverend, a mother, a sister, a daughter, a friend, and lover. I do my best to understand others and make statements that should be worded differently in my attempt to understand why or how people are different. Although I feel that you are not a woman and truly do not know what it is like to be a woman, nor are you an expert on women, I do not wish you or anyone harm because of consistent boastful statements, flaming or bashing statements, degrading statements, insulting statements, ignorant statements, know it all statements, troll or attention seeking statements, etc. I do my best to understand if I feel I offend anyone I apologize as I have done in this thread. I also fully admit I don't get certain things, that makes me human. But to be told that you feel I should be killed because I don't get how certain things work or don't work because I have no problems in that particular area, wow, don't get the mods allowing that, but hey maybe I really am a horrible person that should just stand in front of a train. I have a 13 year old and my ex is manic depressive, so he wouldn't be a good parent for her, but ya know if you really think because of my views and lack of understanding certain areas or ignorance deems me unfit to live, that I should stand in front of the train, email me. I will be sure to print out the emails as an explanation to my family. Oh yeah, never thought of suicide by train. Could I make it look like it wasn't an accident so the kids could get some insurance? This thread is just wonderful for depression. | |
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| successful G spot orgasms
Posted: 7/6/2009 3:00:18 AM |
I am one of those women that has a hard time having an orgasm through intercourse.
My bf takes care of me in other ways. I have had a G spot orgasm only once through intercourse.
I have a G spot vibe and I can have them that way easily. Do you think it's a "practice
makes perfect" kind of thing? I don't use it very often because I'd rather have sex with
my bf. I got to thinking last night though, maybe if I used it more often, it would sort of
wake up that spot and maybe I would have them with my bf.
First off, just because you can't orgasm from penetration like a normal woman can doesn't mean your bf is the problem. If you can't orgasm from sex then that's your problems isn't it as your bf is going to cum whether your can or not. Stop blaming your bf just because your plumbing doesn't work right or cause you are frigid. Most women get off from a good pounding more than anything else unless they are lesbian of course and hate**** so just because you can't get off from intercourse as far as I can see is your problem not your bf's. | |
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| successful G spot orgasms
Posted: 7/6/2009 1:52:04 PM | | For me this was hard too. The best, most intense and fastest way I have learned is in position. I like laying all the way down on my stomach ....legs slightly spread. Have him insert slowly and moving slowing until you can feel it on your G-spot. Once you do you will find you might take over cause it feels amazing. i can cum quickly in this position making it easy to switch to my partners (don't have one right now hence being on this site LOL) favorite position. Good luck and do use your vib....it will help you so much. | |
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Posted: 7/6/2009 6:27:21 PM | OK, after much more experimenting, both with and without the g-spot vibe, I am prepared to give MY answer to the question regarding "vibrations vs thrust"...it's both, though not necessarily at the same time, or neither sometimes.
I say this because I can have orgasms when my vibrator is inside me, without either turning it on OR thrusting it, but merely by moving my hips around a little and "squeezing" a bit. That technique really works a little better if the vibe is on, but it's not necessary to have that buzzing going on. However, that said, even when I don't use the vibrations for the orgasm, they do help get things warmed up down there, and get the blood flow good n steady.
So there ya have it...for me, at least, it doesn't matter just as long as SOMETHING is coming into contact with my g-spot. All it takes is pressure, evidently. If you have doubts, just let me know and I'll be happy to experiment some more  | |
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