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Posted: 7/6/2009 6:45:41 PM | OK, after much more experimenting, both with and without the g-spot vibe, I am prepared to give MY answer to the question regarding "vibrations vs thrust"...it's both, though not necessarily at the same time, or neither sometimes.
I say this because I can have orgasms when my vibrator is inside me, without either turning it on OR thrusting it, but merely by moving my hips around a little and "squeezing" a bit. That technique really works a little better if the vibe is on, but it's not necessary to have that buzzing going on. However, that said, even when I don't use the vibrations for the orgasm, they do help get things warmed up down there, and get the blood flow good n steady.
So there ya have it...for me, at least, it doesn't matter just as long as SOMETHING is coming into contact with my g-spot. All it takes is pressure, evidently. If you have doubts, just let me know and I'll be happy to experiment some more  | |
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Posted: 7/7/2009 8:38:58 PM | Enjoy the moment mostly!
You can also try the nature and toy combination.
Whatever feels right, try both and well this is YOUR pleasure so get rid of you inhibition. (You are already naked and touching each other, right?)
Okay, either you get your man inside you, not all the way and keep hitting the spot.
Don't even worry about getting THERE, just enjoy the pleasure. Once the man comes you switch to the toy. With practice and going with the flow I am sure it will improve and your man will last inside you with practice. If you are with an understanding man who cares for you he will make sure you get what you need.
Guess what, whether I use my hands, mouth, penis or toy I am quite happy and proud to give a woman what she needs and deserves.
The other way is to start with the toy, and during that time you can stimulate your man either way you please, you can vary from time to time. As you feel yourself get closer your man gets inside you. He is already hard from your playing with him.
I suggest trying some before getting too serious so man and woman know what works to hit the spot. It would be a shame to amount to nothing and waste a beautiful orgasm because her stimulation is not the same.
I must add for men's sake, strap yourselves in once it goes, that pelvis just rocks! | |
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Posted: 7/7/2009 8:42:28 PM | I would certainly would love to give you lots of squeezing and pressing, and the friction just to help you prove your point.
From me, it's a compliment but I still would go for it. | |
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Posted: 7/7/2009 11:43:44 PM |
If you two are having sex and you are having orgasms, excuse me for asking but I really don't get it, how do you know for sure they aren't G-spot?
She may know they are clitoral orgasms because they occur with stimulation of the clitoris alone. Statistically speaking only about one in four women ever has experienced a vaginal orgasm. Most women who experience orgasm, do so via clitoral stimulation, and about 10% of women have never experienced an orgasm in their life.
Her age has nothing to do with it, nor does the number of partners she has had. I have known women who have never been comfortable exploring their own body , and are clueless what it takes to orgasm, let alone tell their partner.
If a woman does not communicate what she needs a man is left on his own to do what has worked for others in the past and that might not work for the lady he is with.
I am 54 and the only orgasms I have ever experienced are clitoral. I am still seeking that elusive G spot "O". To be perfectly honest, I can consistently orgasm while masturbating. The fact that I orgasm all the time takes the pressure of to orgasm with my partner. Everything about making love with my partner is pleasurable. If I orgasm, its great. If I don't the experience is still great. The relationship is still new (5months) and we have only been intimate for three months. We learn something new about each other every time we make love. The exploration is fun. I have learned through self exploration the "art" of squirting, so those elusive G-gasms can't be far off. Anyway our attitude is practice makes perfect, and we are having fun learning different ways to pleasure one another. It is all good. | |
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Posted: 7/7/2009 11:48:29 PM | | Nah hun, when it comes to the G-Spot it has nothing to do with "awakening"....Its simply a matter off whether he can hit it or not....Try getting him to switch positions...I have a little trick I like to use...Tell him to simply go "Deep...And to the Left"...lol Hell, make ol boy chant that shit...lol But it may help to actually show him where its at...Let him locate it with his fingers to give him an idea of where he needs to focus his stroke...Awareness makes ALL the difference... | |
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Posted: 7/7/2009 11:51:53 PM | | Hey closer2u, I dont know how you or any women has the right to call foul. It is why I know god is a woman because ONLY a woman would put a mans pleasure centre up his bum | |
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Posted: 7/8/2009 12:07:54 AM |
Look into the Kama Sutra there are several positions in there that will force even a modest sized man to hit the "spot".
The Kama Sutra:
http://www.sacred-texts.com/sex/kama/index.htm
Never as exciting as the *idea* of reading the Kama Sutra, and I suspect very few people actually finish the book (lost me at Part III: About the Acquisition of a Wife).
Although I was inspired to create a linga shrine - could be a unique decor idea ;) | |
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Posted: 7/9/2009 10:03:36 PM |
She may know they are clitoral orgasms because they occur with stimulation of the clitoris alone.
Exactly.
Her age has nothing to do with it, nor does the number of partners she has had.
I don't believe this to be true. I had a relationship with someone for 7 years and I always orgasmed with him. A lot of the times, it was with me on top. My bf now is doing nothing different, but I am not orgasming anymore with me on top. I have no trouble communicating with my bf, but things that worked in the past, don't seem to work anymore.
Like I said previously, strange as it may seem, until I started reading the forums, I never even knew about G spot orgasms. During the years that I didn't seem to have a problem orgasming, I never thought about where they were coming from.
When I read Dave's post and visited that link he provides, that is when I started experimenting. We haven't had any luck using that method. That 's when I bought the G spot vibe and found out I actually could have a g spot orgasm. I really don't want to use the vibe, cause I'd rather make love with my bf. Using the vibe together seems so mechanical to me.
Oh well, practice makes perfect and we practice a lot! | |
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Posted: 7/9/2009 10:17:41 PM | In my opinion, vibrators can help, but nothing can beat the real thing, maybe try different positions and see what works. | |
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Posted: 7/12/2009 11:09:57 PM | I do believe that with some women the more they play around with different techniques, digits, positions, build-ups, vibes (vs probes), times of the month and various other factors, the more suckcess you'll have and the sooner it will happen for you.
Kinda strange that you find it MORE difficult now than before. Most women find triggering GSpots EASIER as they age. This may be a trust issue. DO you feel the need to hold back with this new lover? Perhaps not show just how wild he could make you? Just guessing here ....
That 's when I bought the G spot vibe and found out I actually could have a g spot orgasm. I really don't want to use the vibe, cause I'd rather make love with my bf. Using the vibe together seems so mechanical to me. .... Oh well, practice makes perfect and we practice a lot!
As you can read from posts above most of the people STILL trying to figure this all out can't get it through their skulls that MOST d!cks are NOT the best tool to use when trying to discover or perfect the G-Gasms. In fact of all the things you might use, your lover's kock is likely the WURST tool to use. The angle is WRONG and the pressure needs to be adjusted just so. If you don't know what it feels like in the first place how is a woman expected to angle her pelvis so his erection is hitting it ... just right??
As you find it easier and easier to get there using whatever does work for you and you/he keep the orgasms cuming the easier it will be to transition from digits (recommend THUMBS) and probes to your lover's kock. Attempting to get there just using his kock is going to be frustrating and you're liable to give up.
The "Technique" I recommend is simply a suggestion. It can provide the basis for the feeling of buildup and often women report that they need to flip over on their backs to "get there." Cool. Fine. Whatever works for ya'll. The "SAWING" motion in the Technique is best suited for extended G-Gasming sessions - marathons. I suggest that position because you can "SAW" all day and that is essentially what you are doing if you want to keep her cuming from Wed evening to Sat afternoon.  If SHE sez she can only G-cum if she is hanging by her toes from the upstairs banister then damnit GO WITH THAT!! If she doesn't know then experiment. Explore. Enjoy the trip. This "research" has to be THE best and NO small furry animals need to be hurt in the process. No greenhouse gasses even. WIN WIN!!!
Another thought.
MANY women have, for reasons I won't even guess at, more reactive ASPOTS than GSPOTS so while you're giving her a good tongue lashing perhaps go for her ASPOT instead of continuing to try and get her G fired up. If you don't have a probe or some long vegetables on hand you may need to visit this location using the same MapQuest co-ordinates SHE would use on YOU if she were trying to diddle your prostate. Yes, boys and girls, slowly gently shove a WELL LUBED fingie up her bum and press in towards her uterus/top of her vagina. Work it slowly and don't forget it is just below her uterus and bladder so don't be as rough as you might on her GSpot. Bruised bladder necks are NOT cool. Again a warning. She will begin to react if this method / route is working but if you get that working properly it will be just as violent and spasmodic as working her GSPOT so watch your nose if you're still giving her a tongue lashing too. If your tongue triggered the hole thing you might want to back off and just go with what your finger is doing and prevent a thrashing hip bone from driving your nose up through an eye socket and into your brain. Believe me, if her orgasms are THAT good she'll want to keep you around and with your nose in your brain even if you LIVE all you'll be doing is drooling in your diapers and mumbling French poetry. | |
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Posted: 7/13/2009 8:54:34 AM | Get some good books ane info on the internet.
I have several books on G-spot and G-spot orgasms. Best money I ever spent on books.
Teach the poor guy. Then you both can be happy. | |
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Posted: 7/13/2009 7:42:05 PM | WHY BUY books or tapes? ALL this info is free with discussion and feedback from REAL LIVE peeples. If there's anything missing from this thread that is mentioned in other sources I'll eat my icon.
http://forum.literotica.com:81/showthread.php?t=70892
MANY women have, for reasons I won't even guess at, more reactive ASPOTS than GSPOTS so while you're giving her a good tongue lashing perhaps go for her ASPOT instead of continuing to try and get her G fired up. If you don't have a probe or some long vegetables on hand you may need to visit this location using the same MapQuest co-ordinates SHE would use on YOU if she were trying to diddle your prostate. Yes, boys and girls, slowly gently shove a WELL LUBED fingie up her bum and press in towards her uterus/top of her vagina. Work it slowly and don't forget it is just below her uterus and bladder so don't be as rough as you might on her GSpot. Bruised bladder necks are NOT cool. Again a warning. She will begin to react if this method / route is working but if you get that working properly it will be just as violent and spasmodic as working her GSPOT so watch your nose if you're still giving her a tongue lashing too. If your tongue triggered the hole thing you might want to back off and just go with what your finger is doing and prevent a thrashing hip bone from driving your nose up through an eye socket and into your brain. Believe me, if her orgasms are THAT good she'll want to keep you around and with your nose in your brain even if you LIVE all you'll be doing is drooling in your diapers and mumbling French poetry. | |
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Posted: 7/13/2009 7:42:30 PM | WHY BUY books or tapes? ALL this info is free with discussion and feedback from REAL LIVE peeples. If there's anything missing from this thread that is mentioned in other sources I'll eat my icon.
http://forum.literotica.com:81/showthread.php?t=70892
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Posted: 7/13/2009 8:02:41 PM | Get some good books ane info on the internet.
I have several books on G-spot and G-spot orgasms. Best money I ever spent on
I can't message you because of the way you have your settings. I am too old to message you.
Can you tell me the names of your several books? Is it different than the other one
that was suggested to me to buy on this thread?
First off, just because you can't orgasm from penetration like a normal woman can doesn't mean your bf is the problem. If you can't orgasm from sex then that's your problems isn't it as your bf is going to cum whether your can or not. Stop blaming your bf just because your plumbing doesn't work right or cause you are frigid. Most women get off from a good pounding more than anything else unless they are lesbian of course and hate**** so just because you can't get off from intercourse as far as I can see is your problem not your bf's.
I am not frigid. Thank God my bf is a very caring, patient man, unlike you. He knows I don't blame him, and that's why he takes care of me in other ways, just like I do for him, when I am in pain from interstitial cystitis and can't have intercourse. | |
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Posted: 7/13/2009 8:21:14 PM | "Womanadmirer" had good advice that kinda got passed over... Lots of foreplay included having some O's the way you can get them (ie g-spot vibe) warm you up for penetration. In my experience, anyway.
I find once I pop off the first O, more come easily. HOw I get hte first O depends on the guy and his penis, positiosn, how aroused I am,e tc.
I have a guy where, like you mentioned OPie, I O super easily when on top. I hop on top and I orgasm in less than a minute. I can usually get 2 before we change positions...and yes those are internal, i.e. G spot. Then when we are in another position usually I get 1-2 more. But if I don't get on top first, I may not orgasm at all in the other positions.
I''ve been with other guys and their anatomy is just not quite the same. And it's not a size thing - bigger isn't better or worse. It's just how things hit and how we move together.
I think that you might be confusing different bf with time. Because different men DO make us orgasm easier or harder.
Also I find I orgasm via G really easily with a LOT of oral or fingering foreplay...As in, no orgasm during the oral, but then when he penetrates BOOM! it hits.
For me the key was figuring out the "feeling" leading to the O. Once I was able to ID the feeling, then when he would hit it, I would try to stay (or make him stay) in that position until I got to the orgasm...this was totally the way I learned to do it. BTW, I am 36 and just started orgasming during sex (ie G spot) just over a year ago.
SO for me, it's a combination of arousal/foreplay, position, and if I've orgasmed yet tha tnight.
SO maybe try some good foreplay, then use your vibe to pop the first one off, then go to penetration in various positions. The one that works the very best for me is me on top, him laying down. His hands on my hips if possible, and then sliding forward toward his chest and then back. If his hands are on your hips he can "pull"you forward. Also a rocking motion kind of works. It puts the control over where his penis hits on you - so when you feel the G feeling start to build, you know you are in the right spot and it's just a matter of not getting out of the position. DOes tha tmake sense?
But if on top doesn't work with your guy, then from behind might (doggy) or various others. When we are in missionary, I find when my legs are up the highest he is the best at hitting the spot.
BTW as far as feelign your Gspot, you have to be good and aroused to feel it...finding it after you've orgasmed helps as well. Maybe it swells up?? I"m not sure.
Also where your cervix is and the angle of your uterus makes a difference in how he is going to hit you on the inside. Some women are angled more posterior, some more anterior. And as you age, well, I wouldn't be surprised if things do some shifting. Ah, the fun in needing to experiment! :)
Kaylie
(I am using "he" very generically, btw, I am not speaking of anyone current. lol) | |
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Posted: 7/13/2009 8:38:13 PM |
...if I get"hooked" on a vibrator...I will still have to figure out how to come that way with a man
You cannot get hooked on a vibrator...and you will ALWAYS prefer a man.....always | |
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Posted: 7/13/2009 8:55:43 PM | | If you can obtain it via toys than you know your body, and you should be able to communicate location, techique, and timing. It's a matter of being willing to teach, and being willing to let someone in enough to give them that honor. It's a two way street and it is possible, you just have to be confident and strong enough to be willing to go for it and the guy has to be just as strong and confident to take corrective criticism. | |
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Posted: 7/17/2009 7:12:31 AM | | Toys are definately fun. I love 69ing with her on top and me using her toys in her. Always leads to very intense orgasms. | |
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