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Posted: 8/22/2009 9:17:54 PM | You know...if I was a guy, and I was getting all into it, you know...and just climbing that sweet mountain of ecstasy with my fave girl...and she started screaming like a blasted idiot in my face trying to pretend she's enjoying herself...I think I'd just haul off and slap her out of her hysteria.
And yes, I know that sounds abusive, but yelling into my ears during sex, even more so, climax building sex would seriously piss me off!
WTF you gotta scream for? Do you scream when you masturbate in the shower while the kids are in the next room?
Give me a break. No need for screaming. Being vocal is fun, but there's a limit.
But I'd sure love to see the look on her face post slap! Priceless.
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Posted: 8/22/2009 9:20:05 PM | I don't like guys that can't handle a couple screams in bed or somehow relate it to "faking" ....
I mean sure there def has to be a limit! you have to be considerate of the other person ear drum lol if neighbors can hear it my suggestion it's too loud! I had an ex who had major issues with this he would always roll his eyes and tell me there was no way in hell he was that good in bed! LOL go figure I agreed with him later on....what do they call that? self-prophecy LOL ... | |
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Posted: 8/22/2009 9:31:36 PM | I can be a screamer - but I try not to mention it anymore.
I had mentionned this to an ex before we were together for the first time. When we got down to it... umm... yeah, I made no noise. He looked at me and said "Hey! I thought you said you were a screamer... you weren't screaming." LOL! I just smiled and shrugged. It wasn't the time to bring it up... I guess I forgot the part about having to do something to MAKE me scream! | |
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Posted: 8/22/2009 11:36:26 PM | My ex was a screamer and I rather enjoyed it and got used to it.
One time though when we were first together we were in different cities and it had been two months. I showed up and we got busy. I was not really paying attention or did I care, I was occupied, but my 9 month old siberian husky was in the room watching us. When she started to scream he proceeded to HOWL ALONG WITH HER, we both ended up laughing so hard we / I could not finish until later with Kane outside. | |
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Posted: 8/23/2009 3:04:19 AM | | funny most of my lovers in my life have at some time .found it necessary to scream ..I thought it was normal maybe you guys that havent ever had a screamer ..need to try harder ...yesssss it can be that good !!!!! | |
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Posted: 8/23/2009 6:10:58 AM | ^^^^^^ good answer!
If you think you are "not" that good... then maybe she needs to find someone who is..... I think, more than anything, what bothers me about men who can't handle the screamers, is the attitude that he can't be that good. To me, that equates to lack of self-onfidence. What is wrong with a person enjoying themself?
As a previous poster put it, if I am not vocal (not necessarily screaming) then there is something missing. Enjoying sex and being comfortable with our sexuality, and feeling free to express ourselves at the time is a good thing, is it not? | |
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Posted: 8/23/2009 7:08:17 AM | | LOLOL!! I have to work at being quiet too! If you're really into what is going on, it is impossible to not just let it fly and some of us are a little too loud for the rest of the crowd. But it does say a lot when I know I've been too loud, it is because it has been tooooo good! | |
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Posted: 8/23/2009 4:08:52 PM | your partner was acting. i'm a screamer and if you'd have stopped i'd would not be laughing. get in there and finish what you started  | |
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Posted: 8/23/2009 5:01:42 PM |
Being vocal is fun, but there's a limit. For me, great sex is about pushing my usual limits. I'm not sure if I scream but I've also been asked (with concern) if I'm alright .... um, yeah, I'm very alright thank you. Re: screaming and being loud during sex - I'm a generally loud person, so it follows that I'll be loud when I'm having a LOT of fun and feeling really good, it's just part of how I express myself. | |
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Posted: 8/24/2009 6:07:54 AM | Screaming is definitely just not natural for me. What does come natural are soft sighs and low moans. Even talking during that time i tend to whisper. Ive been with men who are screamers tho and wow, whatta hugeeeeeee turn off!! Totally ruins the mood for me! Now a man with low, deep, manly grunts and groans? Mmmmmmmm!!!   | |
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Posted: 8/24/2009 8:08:28 AM | | Scream halilula praise the lord, or go on the ride screamers....if you want to scream LOL! | |
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Posted: 8/26/2009 4:03:13 PM | Only been with one "screamer", thank god I had my own apartment at that time haha! It was an interesting experience, but the over the top yelling heavily killed my concentration. Plus she had very little tact when asking for certain things, so it really just felt like a porn scene, except she didnt want me to videotape it haha.
Heavy moaning and whispering > complete screaming | |
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Posted: 8/26/2009 4:15:16 PM | There is a limit... It gets old and annoying very quickly ..... screaming like someone's hurting her.... nah!..  | |
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Posted: 8/26/2009 4:32:14 PM | | wow...I was taking this figuratively. After reading the responses..hmmm.. crap, I thought all that porn stuff was just really bad acting..do women really do this? I get loud...blushes..sometimes loud enough for the neighbors to make sly comments (well one in particular..good gf..most don't look me in the eye as I'm a devil woman who rides a harley in the middle of mormonville) Anyway in my defense, it's spring and fall that always get me..windows wide open and all. So I don't think I'm THAT bad. And I don't actually 'scream'..well maybe a little. And the only time I have to cover my mouth (or he has to help me =) is when we're in a hotel. And yes I find it hard to not express myself vocally..moans, groans, and all of that..maybe a teensy bit of screaming. I DO scream very loud on rollercoasters and when I cliff jump or bungee jump...but that's different and I don't sound like that whilst having sex. Or at least I hope not =) Maybe I should have just left it well enough alone. Lol. | |
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Posted: 8/26/2009 4:45:50 PM | | maybe you really are that good! | |
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Posted: 8/26/2009 4:51:32 PM | I wasn't aware I was screaming till he had to stop to ask me to keep it down.
So, the answer to your question "REALLY?" is yes. | |
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Posted: 8/26/2009 8:30:29 PM | | LOL... oh my goodness.. this was too funny! | |
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Posted: 8/27/2009 1:31:38 AM | | I'm not a screamer but I have been known to be a little loud on occasion not enough to wake the neighbors. I actually had a guy that screamed so loud while I was giving a blow job I actually stopped looked at him and said " you have some issues darlin". I understand that I was doing a good job but seriously you don't need to wake the dead!.. | |
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Posted: 8/31/2009 12:46:07 PM | seriously though, one guy i dated would be so hard and fast - i couldn't NOT scream...it's like i had no control over my vocals...lol. any light moan i meant to let out would end up a scream.
other then that, i don't scream at the top of my lungs, however i like to be loud.
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Posted: 8/31/2009 2:43:25 PM | humans are silly...
half wonder is my better half into me and the other wonders if it's real.
as long its genuine that great
it means your doing something right and she is uninhibited about sex...
your neighbors will think different
if she is doing it for a show then that is not good.
solutions to screaming if it's too much
ball gag
shock collar
water boarding
in that order though the third will require some dexterity on your part. | |
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Posted: 8/31/2009 3:29:41 PM | I cry BS... I think if a woman is screamin like she is being chased by an axe murderer during sex then she is puttin it on a little thick, or is just one of those women who have to some how be the center of attention (look at me Im screamin, like an idiot) but your paying more attention to me screamin than you are yourself so its a win win...
I just dont know what happened to some good ole moanin, and a few well placed " Oh Gods" and some heavy breathin. Haha .... I dont know why it has to be all the raunchy sex talk and screamin and shyt. I guess maybe Im just old fashioned.. Hummmmphh.. Who knows. But if was a guy and some chic just started screamin id be super tempted to shove a sock in her mouth, same if she didnt shut the fuk up!
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Posted: 8/31/2009 3:36:27 PM |
I cry BS... I think if a woman is screamin....
i believe it...i dated two women that have been screamers btw they were squirters too and it was only when they were in the middle of that act... you needed a snorkel and some ear plugs and no neighbors
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Posted: 9/3/2009 2:55:06 AM | I don't know that I "scream," but I am pretty loud. Honest, I am not doing it to put on a show. If I try to be silent it just isn't as good. It's kind of like an electrical current or explosion going through your whole body and needs to come out of somewhere, your mouth. The noises is the big bang to the orgasm. Otherwise feels like the current just died inside of me when it wanted to come out. LOL hmm, maybe this doesn't make any sense to anyone. It is a bit late I should get to bed.  | |
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Posted: 9/3/2009 5:47:06 AM | Why would anyone be turned off by screaming?
I have 2 kids in the house fulltime, and man i WISH i could scream.
I sure feel; like screaming in pleasure when i have sex, and , have to keep a pillow handy, and not bein able to let loose is really frustarating because it is part of the climactic experience.
Every man i have been with has gotten extremely aroused by the little moans, purrs, calling out the sex partners name, and screams i have let out. | |
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