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 liebesfliege

Joined: 5/13/2008
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ARE VIRGINS MORE ATTRACTIVE
Posted: 9/12/2008 7:48:24 PM
well I was a virgin when I got married , I was 17 and I had an arranged marriage ...
One 1 hand now Im happy that I was a virgin when I married on the other hand I was stupit as can get ....
now Im 40 , Im cool with it , would I expect my kids to do the same ... nope , if they choose to do so Im cool with it if not it is their choice , as long as they are of age .....
did it make me more atractive . heck I dont know ... I realy should ask my ex about that lol....
but Im happy that my parents kepet me under wraps ,,,....... it was a pain back then lol thats for sure
 Snake10

Joined: 8/27/2008
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Posted: 9/12/2008 8:35:06 PM
sure are if your a vampire
 SilentSmooth

Joined: 2/12/2008
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Posted: 9/12/2008 8:37:02 PM
Hmmm... I'm going to leave this one alone....
 humpty646

Joined: 8/1/2008
Msg: 279
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Posted: 9/14/2008 3:19:55 PM
attractive all girls are ist just some are more appealing than others.
 amber187

Joined: 8/16/2006
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ARE VIRGINS MORE ATTRACTIVE
Posted: 10/7/2008 5:29:14 PM
You know all this talk about virgins being more attractive here it is so what is more attractive cause they didn't give it up yet ok so you guys ask yourself so a woman who doesn't give it up by choice and now is not a virgin is not attractive cause she had no choice? I think I find people who don't have a different person in there bed every night is attractive cause I don't wanna catch anything. I have dated a virgin and so yah I had to teach them but I'm not no hoe by any means and I rather be in a longterm relationship in order to have se* I don't need or want a one nighter what pleasure do you get out of that.
 corindan

Joined: 7/13/2008
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Posted: 10/7/2008 6:59:42 PM
There is a certain mental appeal to a virgin, but they are not any fun, don't know what they're doing or how to do it, and confuse orgasm with love so they become clingy, possesive, jealous, etc. By the time you get them trained, and broken in, neither of you can stand the other, so she's off to treat someone else to all you taught her. Why bother?
 AndrewTS

Joined: 9/11/2008
Msg: 282
ARE VIRGINS MORE ATTRACTIVE
Posted: 10/7/2008 7:22:24 PM
Are virgins more attractive?

Consider this:

Most women between 16 and 19 are virgins, and if they're not, they dam well should be.

Most women between 77 and 83 are not virgins, and they are, they dam well shouldn't be.

So if you compare these two groups... yes, the answer is yes to the OT.

But if you take all virgins between 37 and 41, and all non-virgins of the same age group, I would venture to say that the deflowered ones are by-and-large better looking.

So if you compare these two groups... no, the answer is no to the OT.

I would say it's a tie overall.
 AndrewTS

Joined: 9/11/2008
Msg: 283
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Posted: 10/7/2008 7:25:34 PM
"attractive all girls are ist just some are more appealing than others."

Gesundheit!

Yey! Another embraced one, who keeps women in suspense, whether his suspenders are or are not going to last the whole date doing its job properly.
 musi5

Joined: 9/14/2004
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ARE VIRGINS MORE ATTRACTIVE
Posted: 10/7/2008 8:49:26 PM
Personally, I'd think it was attractive.... im sure that person would take A LOT of flack for their choice, so that shows strength.
Of course our society screams, "something must be wrong with you if your still a virgin, etc"......like everyone is just supposed to !@#$ around as soon as they are 16.
Last girl i dated was a 22 year old virgin, she was attractive as hell to me.

Also, I just dont buy into the whole, the more experienced you are the better the sex is EITHER......the best sex i ever had was with a woman that had sex ONCE in her entire life......the other women ive had were much more experienced and well they didnt measure up ;)...really, experience doesn't necessarily equal better.

I dont think one way or the other is more attractive but i CERTAINLY do NOT find virgins unattractive just because of their choice.
 AndrewTS

Joined: 9/11/2008
Msg: 285
ARE VIRGINS MORE ATTRACTIVE
Posted: 10/7/2008 8:58:49 PM
"Last girl i dated was a 22 year old virgin, she was attractive as hell to me.

Also, I just dont buy into the whole, the more experienced you are the better the sex is EITHER......the best sex i ever had was with a woman that had sex ONCE in her entire life"

While your story is not equivalent to the conclusion below, it's a strong indication that this is what did happen:

You dated a 22 year old virgin, and when she lost her virginity with you, you dropped her.

This is reinforced with the best sex you had with a woman that had sex ONCE in her entire lifetime. If this is not the case, then you should have at least written "... a woman that had had sex ONCE in her life". Please note the use of pluperfect instead of the past tense, and the use of "in her life" and not "in her entire life".

I'm not picking on you or doing some witch hunt for fault finding. These actually mean something to me and to those who are exacting in their language.
 musi5

Joined: 9/14/2004
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Posted: 10/7/2008 9:01:39 PM
WRONG........i didnt have sex with the virgin
 Snake10

Joined: 8/27/2008
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Posted: 10/17/2008 8:31:10 AM
line them up & ill tell you
 AnnaOhSoDeadly

Joined: 10/29/2007
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Posted: 10/17/2008 9:36:31 AM
I think alot of guys wouldn't mind the idea of sex with a virgin, some women to.
Me personally, I want someone who knows what the **** there doing.
 eantonio

Joined: 10/25/2007
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Posted: 10/17/2008 3:38:32 PM
I would much rather have experience.
 Texwolf

Joined: 8/16/2008
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Posted: 10/17/2008 4:34:55 PM
IT might seem so but no! I was dating a 21 year old virgin she was so amzed during a moive that hoo hoos came in diffrent sizes . I almost fell out the chair, but just there inexperiance but some people like the idea of teaching some one. so its a prefrance.
 amber187

Joined: 8/16/2006
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Posted: 10/18/2008 1:40:35 PM
You know I have heard some horror stories about both so you know I don't think anyone is more attractive cause there sexual prefrenses many i think everyone is special and experienced in there own ways and remember sex is just one part of a relationship it isn't everything
 good kitty

Joined: 2/21/2008
Msg: 292
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Posted: 10/18/2008 2:02:44 PM
At my age I'm just as likely to encounter a virgin as I am to be sticken by lightning and I highly doubt mine will ever grow back, so I don't need to worry my pretty lil' brain about such things.



Still, experience in my book rates higher than lack of it in ALL areas of life where skills heighten with practice.

 Mickey_2007

Joined: 6/18/2007
Msg: 293
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Posted: 10/18/2008 2:22:41 PM
Well it all depends on the person some guys want a woman that's experienced so they don't have to coach them in bed.Others want it pure to each it's own i say
 SassyRedhead10

Joined: 3/2/2008
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Posted: 10/18/2008 11:18:24 PM
Hmmm....can you tell now a days if a woman is a virgin by looking at her? I know some women who present themselves as innocent and pure yet are sleeping with everyone and their dog...and I know some women who dress like a slut but will only be in monogamous relationships.... So, boys how do you know until you sleep with her what her hymen status really is?
 marissa-christine5

Joined: 10/8/2008
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Posted: 10/19/2008 12:20:25 AM
It's different between men from what I have observed some want to have the touch of purity and innocence other's don't want the responsibilty on their conscience. So I think it's a nice to have but many are scared of the "responsibilty" which I think is stupid.
 35yoVgn

Joined: 8/30/2007
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Posted: 10/19/2008 9:25:38 AM

At my age I'm just as likely to encounter a virgin as I am to be sticken by lightning

Don't be so quick to assume that, Kitty.
According to National Lightning Safety Institute, on average, there are 1,000 lightning victims in the US per year.
At the same time, a fairly recent US Government Survey reported that approximately4.4% of US males in their 30's have never had sex, which comes out to about 1,000,000 guys.
So, you're 1,000 times more likely to encounter a male virgin in your age range than being struck by lightning! Hey, that's much better than if the numbers were the other way around, don't you agree?
 printer2

Joined: 6/19/2007
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Posted: 10/19/2008 12:17:19 PM
I would hazard a guess that if they are still virgins by the time they get around my age they might not be all that attractive. If they were both I am sure there would be issues I would not want to deal with.
 good kitty

Joined: 2/21/2008
Msg: 298
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Posted: 10/22/2008 9:03:34 AM

Virgins?
In New York??
Over 16 year old???
That the "talent scouts" didn't get to yet?
 CaptainDad

Joined: 7/25/2008
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Posted: 10/22/2008 9:48:25 AM
At my age they would either be WAY too young (gross!) or way too ugly.
 Dean Moriarty

Joined: 2/7/2007
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Posted: 10/22/2008 6:12:39 PM
Darwin would say, no.
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