| | ARE VIRGINS MORE ATTRACTIVEPage 2 of 15 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15) | Mysticalman,
Did I ever mention in my post that men had any more right to be "loose" ? No I did not. I know women get horny, if not more so then men, that wasn't' my point. The point was, now read this close cause I know your aging eyes prolly didn't get this "IN MY OPINION, I FIND VIRGINS MORE ATTRACTIVE THEN GIRLS WHO SLEEP AROUND ALOT"...Maybe you're biased because 'loose' women are all you can get, but I don't have that problem, if anything I'm a little too picky. But this is a forum based on opinion, so before you shoot me down, Maybe you should reanalyze the situation and realize that you are not an authority on this topic. | |
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dae
| | Joined: 6/2/2004
Msg: 27 | |
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Posted: 11/12/2004 4:58:50 PM | | If all girls remained virgins until they met Mr. Right, there would be no 'loose' women; I have heard it said that ' if you love me' then you will have sex with me, many young girls believe this, because they really like the guy, but they should say 'if you love me, you won't ask', love means that you truly care about the other person's feelings. A 'loose' woman used to be a virgin that was duped into believing lies, usually at a young age. Not all, but a lot. Some guys see a virgin as a challenge. | |
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Posted: 11/12/2004 5:34:30 PM | What a thread.
Of course it makes a woman much more attractive! Just imagine the commitment and dedication that a woman must have in today's society to maintain her virginity just so that she can present it to the one she chosen to spend the rest of her life with. .
I give full credit and praise to any woman that can accomplish such a feat and display so much discipline... | |
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Posted: 11/12/2004 5:56:05 PM | | Wow, what a double standard. Why aren't men expected to have this 'discipline' too. | |
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Sundog
| | Joined: 8/23/2004
Msg: 30 | |
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Posted: 11/12/2004 6:06:16 PM | | I agree barn.... pretty arrogant of some men to think being a virgin is something special for a woman while they are out "tom catting around".... get with it...women are as sexual as men and there is no reason they should have to deny it or play the virginal roll to placate men who think sex is ok for them but not the one they marry. I'm very happy my girlfriends in the past were sexual before me, it's much more fun when you both have some experience. What century are we in anyway... ? | |
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dae
| | Joined: 6/2/2004
Msg: 32 | |
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Posted: 11/12/2004 6:12:14 PM | | If a man wants his future wife to be a virgin, then he should be one too. Nuff said! | |
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yna6
| | Joined: 5/2/2004
Msg: 33 | |
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Posted: 11/12/2004 6:51:27 PM | | Jeeze...I've known guys who find out some woman (any age) is a virgin, and they drop them like hot potatoes. Guess the idea is "They are cold", or "I ain't gonna get any..." so they leave them. Then the woman wonders why??? Almost a case of "put-out, or shove off"...her choice of course.... | |
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Posted: 11/13/2004 6:45:12 AM |
Jeeze...I've known guys who find out some woman (any age) is a virgin, and they drop them like hot potatoes. I guess that would pretty much sum up the guy's intentions wouldn't it? | |
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Posted: 11/13/2004 7:10:16 AM | lois23; women say they are virgins only to make the male feel special- like he is the first.
some women also lie, so the true virgins really have a hard time.
either way is special between the people in love. | |
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Posted: 11/13/2004 7:14:39 AM | | it is just as hard for a guy to say he is a virgin; guess it is just a matter of trust | |
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LadyO
| | Joined: 8/26/2004
Msg: 38 | |
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Posted: 11/13/2004 5:26:24 PM | Blah,
Being a virgin is not that easy you know.
I'm a virgin, honestly, and sometimes it drives me friken batty. Like, I'm 19....I know a girl who's in her 30s and still a virgin and I dont want to end up like that, not that there's anything WRONG with that.
I'm one of the ONLY virgins in real life that I know of. 90% of my sisters 14 year old friends have had sex more times than I've had boyfriends (4) and I'm really saddened, not because I'm a religious person or anything like that, just because I think maybe they're making a mistake having sex when they're still kids. And yes, to me they still are.
Now, as for virgins being more attractive, I don't know. Most guys turn the other way when I say I'm a virgin, so I thikn that blows that out the window.
Oh well. I like being a virgin (most times). I have something to be proud of. | |
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LadyO
| | Joined: 8/26/2004
Msg: 39 | |
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Posted: 11/13/2004 5:29:28 PM | Oh, and I've been in situations where it's been "put out or get out" 5 miles from town in the middle of winter.
Guess who was walking the side of the highway in a dress and heels and 2 feet of snow?
Me. That's who. | |
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reb4u
| | Joined: 11/13/2004
Msg: 40 | |
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Posted: 11/13/2004 6:40:31 PM | Devreser
I dont think a guy is wanting to be with you because your a virgin. Your very pretty thats why they are wanting to hook up with you. For me I have been with a few, I didnt like it at all. It was akward to say the least. I think its great for someone to wait for that special person. If the day and time was different i would wait on the right one. But I would bet money there are 1 Virgin to 1000's ( LIKE YOURSELF). Saying that, I would be waiting on nothing around here. But if it works for you great. But be real its your face that makes a man want to be with you, not your status. Why do you think they where talking to you in the first place asking for the time? | |
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yna6
| | Joined: 5/2/2004
Msg: 41 | |
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Posted: 11/13/2004 9:59:54 PM | | Dang...I'd be kicking that guys butt for ya dear! That really is low. Highway or put out....I'd be making a sign up that says "creep lives here" with the details on it and post it on his front yard. | |
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LadyO
| | Joined: 8/26/2004
Msg: 42 | |
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Posted: 11/14/2004 12:06:58 AM | yna6,
I'm guessing you're talking about me.
Yea, I could have done that, but it didn't occur to me to.
I told my parents and they were angry that he had done that, but more proud of me that I walked.
He was a jerk, but meh...live and learn. | |
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Posted: 11/14/2004 9:30:14 AM | | oh for the virgin! dont worry stay that way untill your older.. trust me your not missing out on anything special.. only std's so your smart stay a virgin | |
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Posted: 11/20/2004 1:44:49 AM | I would say its a big deal and all being a virgin (as i am one also), but people/society make it so its not that important anymore to be one. It used to be held higher!
~Kris | |
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LadyO
| | Joined: 8/26/2004
Msg: 45 | |
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Posted: 11/20/2004 2:27:23 AM | in certain religions and regional parts of the world, men will not marry a girl who is not a virgin. It is considered a shame upon your family to do so. One country I can think of that does this is Cambodia and the Khmer culture.
There are of course, double standards to anything. The men there are allowed to be promiscious with prostitutes and such, but they would not think of MARRYING them.
Even in our western civilization, it seems that guys that boast about how many they scored with are patted on the back, while the girl that does similar is scorned. Mind you, times are changing where it's becoming more and more acceptable for a girl to boink 5 gives over the weekend.
Though really, why would you want to do that? | |
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RobD20
| | Joined: 11/10/2004
Msg: 46 | |
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Posted: 11/20/2004 3:15:12 AM | I think the big issue with a lot of men, as some of the other posters stated, is how many guys a girl has been with. For instance, I can safely say that I would have no problems dating a girl who has had as many partners as me plus one, at most. Any more than that, and I would have to seriously consider if this is the kind of girl I wanted. However, if she was, say, five years older than me, I'd make an exception.
I'm glad that I've had sex just because now I know more about what I want in life, but I don't think I would be worse off not knowing that right now. | |
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Posted: 11/20/2004 3:23:48 AM |
in certain religions and regional parts of the world, men will not marry a girl who is not a virgin. It is considered a shame upon your family to do so. One country I can think of that does this is Cambodia and the Khmer culture.
I have *heard* (don't know this from personal experience) that there are actually men out there whose job it is to have sex with virgins. It's an interesting cultural difference... | |
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Posted: 11/20/2004 4:10:54 AM | i am 19 yr old male and i think that my virginity doesnt neccessarily makes me more attractive, i have a smile for that, but makes me more resiliant to the pressures of society. there is alot of pressure for a guy to have sex, but i have never been interested in having it, until recently. i think that if you are a virgin pour yourself a  and wait for the good times. they will come. *double pun, yeah!* | |
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Posted: 11/20/2004 11:01:54 AM | Well people it depends on what part of the world you live in. In the west, you say you're virigin and you get the 'look' like what's wrong with you. Other parts of the world a girl who's not virgin and is going for marriage never deems to mention she's done it before, coz otherwise that's a mariage breaker. There are stories where a guy finds out that his new wife isn't virgin and divorces her the next day!! It's just that much!!
For me, a virgin is big turnon!! I like a girl to be innocent and pure. Teaching her all the 'moves' wouldn't be hard once we get on board! | |
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shanny
| | Joined: 6/13/2004
Msg: 50 | |
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Posted: 11/20/2004 7:05:18 PM | How would you know if someone was actually a virgin? Sure she could say that she is !!!
And if you knew someone was a virgin, would the attraction be there because of the thought that you could have the first bite out of her cherry???? I mean COME ON!!!!!!!!!!!! | |
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