| ARE VIRGINS MORE ATTRACTIVE
Posted: 1/15/2007 8:59:42 PM | | Haha..I am a virgin and my fiance called off the wedding...If virgins should be attractive, I should get married...but it isn´t | |
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| ARE VIRGINS MORE ATTRACTIVE
Posted: 1/15/2007 9:04:13 PM | | If I could find a virgin who is a nice girl, who also happens to be attractive (not to be shallow, but looks do play their part) then that's marriage material.. good luck finding a virgin older than 14 nowadays. :( | |
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| ARE VIRGINS MORE ATTRACTIVE
Posted: 1/15/2007 9:06:17 PM | Virgins,more attractive.How would one tell if a person is a virgin?Do you demand a physical on the spot?Drop,spread em and let me check if all parts are intact.Do virgins have a halo over there heads?Just curious. | |
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| Are virgins more attractive?
Posted: 1/15/2007 9:12:11 PM | ....And I thought were really were in 2007!!!
And how about we ask WOMEN that question.....hmmmm???? LOL
I guess it could work both ways, however what does virginity (or lack thereof) have to do with a person's essence or soul, indeed what makes us human? | |
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| Are virgins more attractive?
Posted: 1/16/2007 4:35:58 AM |
however what does virginity (or lack thereof) have to do with a person's essence or soul, indeed what makes us human?
You have asked a good question. The answer depends on the value given to innocence and purity. And since it is necessarily a spiritual question I will answer it as such.
A soul that is innocent and pure is a soul that is close to God. This is the value of virginity. Any kind of sexual activity becomes a loss of virginity. Virginity may be defined as a state of purity in body and soul. One cannot regain virginity and so it should be highly valued and zealously guarded, but through persevering hard work in prayer and by the grace of God, one may regain spiritual innocence. | |
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kce33
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Joined: 4/8/2006
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| Are virgins more attractive?
Posted: 1/16/2007 5:00:39 AM | Are virgins more attractive? only if they are prettier than whomever they are being compared with..
here is what i think, virgins are ok to go on fun dates but not someone to get serious with and here is whats wrong with virgins...
sex is a big part of a healthy relationship therefore hooking up with one is a gamble, what if it turns out that they are not sexually compatable with you, they don't want as much sex as you do,this means that sooner or later down the road you are going to start cheating and get what you're missing at home, this in turn leads to a breakup and hurt feelings not to forget all of the wasted time spent finding out that you should not have gotten involved in the first place...
sexually compatability to me is much to important to take a chance with a virgin, i'm secure with myself and don't need an ego boost of popping a cherry..
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| Are virgins more attractive?
Posted: 1/16/2007 5:55:11 AM | That is a big En, Oh - NO.
Back when I slept with virgins in middle school and high school, they were kind of lame - it wasnt thier fault, they just didnt have the experience necessary to enjoy sex as much as I did. Virgins are generally more nervous and have a hard time providing positive or negative feedback on how they are feeling. I prefer a woman who knows how she is feeling, knows how to let me know how she is feeling, and knows how to make me feel the same way.
So, Yes - I prefer experience....
Unless of course I was seriously involved with a virgin and we were gonna get married and spend the rest of our lives together and I could somehow go without sex during our courtship without cheating on her. One positive thing about virgins is that they have yet to form bad habits. You can mold them fresh from the start to your liking. I've found that some experienced women have developed some bad/annoying/painful habits from previous relationships/sexual encounters that a virgin wouldnt have.
But that's not gonna happen so I'm sticking with No.
One last thing - 2 virgins should never lose thier virginities to eachother - one of them should always know what they are doing and what's going on. | |
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| Are virgins more attractive?
Posted: 1/16/2007 6:41:34 AM |
One last thing - 2 virgins should never lose thier virginities to eachother - one of them should always know what they are doing and what's going on.
No Kidding.
I used to be a virgin slayer, made me feel special to be the first for so many, but the training is sooo tedious to turn them into great lovers, and I wonder if I did a disservice to other women training these guys to be excellent at pleasing just me. | |
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| Are virgins more attractive?
Posted: 1/17/2007 11:57:24 AM |
Virgins in North America and Europe are non-existent. This thread is pointless.
i'm a virgin,and i live in europe.so your point was useless  | |
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| Are virgins more attractive?
Posted: 1/18/2007 6:49:50 PM | First, how would anyone know, unless you tell them? Is there a sign attached saying VIRGIN?
We all make our own choices. Some men seem to think you need mileage and lots of experience and aren't worth the effort if you are a virgin..Other men will make fun of you, make jokes or ask what's wrong with you..lol......
We don't value virginity, or anyone who doesn't chose to sleep around. Many reason's for this but when it's all said and done we each have to do what makes us happy. It's a matter of values, morals and who you are. This doesn't make a Virgin better than a woman who sleeps around, don't get me wrong...It's just a personal choice.
Again, unless you are wearing a sign no one would know whether you are one or not, so if a man is worth his salt, once he gets to know you..This fact will not matter...Good Luck and God Bless.. | |
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| Are virgins more attractive?
Posted: 1/18/2007 6:56:04 PM | | I was always kind of nerdy before doing the dirty deed; I'm much more attractive now. | |
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| Are virgins more attractive?
Posted: 2/13/2007 3:26:13 PM | | ummm weren't we all virgins at one point? So when are you suppose to lose it when you're 12? Anyone who judges a person's worth by how much sexual experience they have is well.. shallow in my opinion and it just shows they're only interested in one thing. If I had to choose between overexperienced and underexperienced I'll take underexperienced overexperienced basically means they're more jaded, have more baggage and are harder to satisfy. I'd rather be with someone who's curious and willing to learn. Just because someone has slept with alot people doesn't automatically mean they're any good in bed. and it doesn't make them bf or gf matarial. | |
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Joined: 2/4/2007
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| Are virgins more attractive?
Posted: 2/13/2007 3:31:39 PM | More attractive? ya, like trying to get another sardine out of a can thats already too full, meh, no thanks, i like the theory of "throwing a weiner down a close sided hallway", gives an hombre a little more passage way..   | |
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| Are virgins more attractive?
Posted: 2/13/2007 3:36:26 PM | OP... I'd take a virgin to bed anyday. My first was a virgin too and it was so much fun not knowing what to do only having the most basic of ideas.
I was lucky enough when I went to another province for school to meet up with someone who was a virgin. Still is, but we did everything but. It was great. | |
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| Are virgins more attractive?
Posted: 2/13/2007 3:41:21 PM | Everyone is gonna have a stock answer for this one. LOL.
Of course virgins are more attractive, you get to train them, there's less stress about asking what she likes best, a better chance for a lifetime relationship, though that depends wheter its a trist or something profound. I wish there was a site or section just for virgins, I don't meet many, a few, and well over 14. LOL. You might be supprised how many people play the part of easy but aren't. ****es, hah. Anyways, I am a virgin and will probably die one. Some of my coziest friends at bars were hookers and buds have tried to get me laid forever. Trust me, my labido is deadly, I just want the gold ring, nothin less well do.
woof!  | |
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| Are virgins more attractive?
Posted: 2/13/2007 3:57:05 PM | Amber - hey people did u ever think that some people have no choice in life on losing there virginity
In my my book, you can't have virginity taken, it must be given. A rape victum or someone who was misstreated or seduced as a child is nonsequitor. I've had a couple of relationships with girls like that. Hope I encouraged them to fly a little higher. It's the idea of sharing my life with someone who has been thoroughly experienced in areas I still dream about, the repore, the giggles, the freedoms, all no big deal for her, just theropy, and me serving as a tool. In a fantasy maybe, not real life. | |
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M2k7
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Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 221 | |
| Are virgins more attractive?
Posted: 2/13/2007 4:40:35 PM | I depends on the age. I'm 36. If I met a virgin my age, I would be suspect something about her social skills. If she was younger 20 and under. It's not a big deal.
This is assuming religious beliefs don't fall into play. | |
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Posted: 2/13/2007 5:20:16 PM | NO! I don't want to train any kid? Had the several offers for me to do just that. Pop them cherries. No thanks. eeeegh. | |
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Jemue
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Joined: 1/26/2005
Msg: 224 | |
| Are virgins more attractive?
Posted: 2/13/2007 5:21:38 PM |
just curious on the matter, is innocence and purity more appealing than experience ?
Probably one of the more silly things I've heard ! | |
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| Are virgins more attractive?
Posted: 2/13/2007 5:25:51 PM | YES they are . Few weeks ago i had a sex wif this hot virgin chick, and I can tell u that, it was the best sex Ive ever had (almost feel  her) | |
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