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 eyeful4

Joined: 1/3/2008
Msg: 25
Would a girl ever admit she was flirting with you if you accused her?
Posted: 7/3/2009 6:06:19 PM
if u had to ask me then i apparently failed at flirting but if asked i'd admit it.. wouldnt flirt unless somewhat interested
Would a girl ever admit she was flirting with you if you accused her?
Posted: 7/3/2009 6:46:57 PM
If I was flirting with a man, he would not have to ask the question but if he did I would admit to it...is it possible you misread her signals?
 UniBoy4

Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 27
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Would a girl ever admit she was flirting with you if you accused her?
Posted: 7/3/2009 6:56:44 PM
If I was flirting with a man, he would not have to ask the question but if he did I would admit to it...is it possible you misread her signals?


I have considered this, especially since she implied that I did misread her signals. But then the fact that she went on for a half hour justifying how she wasn't flirting, and how there was an awkward silence for 5 minutes after where the girls just sat there... as if they were waiting for something. Then after, when I simply apologized for making the assumption, she tried to justify herself even more. Plus she said something during her justification that clearly implied she liked me... I forgot exactly what she said, but I remember there was something.

Anyway, I still plan to do what I stated before. Make a confident move.
 Czmyles

Joined: 10/23/2008
Msg: 28
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Would a girl ever admit she was flirting with you if you accused her?
Posted: 7/3/2009 9:31:20 PM

Jeez, why are you so confident it's over? I have 2 weeks to go and when I get back, she's had 5 days to miss me.

Phhhwwwwwweeeeeewwwwww...... O K ..... One more time for those that came in late.

A girl decides in the first 30 seconds if she IS NOT going to sleep with a man.

Notice, I didn't say was going to...in the first 30 seconds she either says "No" or "Hmmm, I could be interested"

Hooray...you made it past the first 30 seconds.

Then you made it past the first 20 minutes...great...life is good.

But then you had a series of "failures to progress" and have even in fact pissed of a couple of girls (there's power in numbers)...a relationship...a seduction...dating...is all about flirting...keeping the energy at the right level...igniting it to be hotter from time to time...but knowing when and how to lead the flirting into relaxation.

And flirting is like a conversation...it can't be done for more than a couple of attempts by yourself. It takes two to keep making each other feel better..it's a dance.

And it sounds like somewhere along the line, you derailed and there's a lot of confusion...but you've lost that edge with her and you're going to have to reinvent your "after the first 20 minutes" time cause you effed up in there. She's 17...maybe she'll buy it...just keep it real you...don't run game on her.

 RedQuill

Joined: 2/7/2009
Msg: 29
Would a girl ever admit she was flirting with you if you accused her?
Posted: 7/4/2009 7:29:31 AM
Ah, Mr. J!dub, you understand the concept of continual progression. Bless you!
 brightestblue

Joined: 8/28/2008
Msg: 30
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Would a girl ever admit she was flirting with you if you accused her?
Posted: 7/4/2009 8:29:12 AM
First of all, I probably wouldn't respond well if anyone "accused" me of anything.

Secondly, you're overthinking this way, way too much, and as a result, have probably killed any chances you may have had with this girl. As flighty as I was at 17, I was still impressed by confidence, and NOT impressed if a guy had to sound out my level of interest through a friend, especially if it took him ages to do it.

Make a move if you want; it's not like you have much to lose. And maybe that's what you need to remember. It's just not that big a deal. She's just a girl, it's just flirtation, you're both still young. This is how you learn how to deal with these things. I'm also an introspective person, and sometimes think far too long before acting, so i do understand where you're coming from, but I've found that thinking about something too long and too hard gets you nowhere. Like talk, thoughts are cheap. It's action that counts.
 angelofthewest

Joined: 6/18/2009
Msg: 31
Would a girl ever admit she was flirting with you if you accused her?
Posted: 7/4/2009 8:44:05 AM
In my opinion, this isn't flirting. It's far too direct for that. Flirting is more subtle. Flirting is a subtle smile, a gentle blush, a shy glance. If you asked me if I was flirting, I'd say, "Would you like me to flirt with you?" Now that's flirting!
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