| maybe he didnt look like he does in his pic?
Posted: 7/4/2009 8:10:48 AM | | Texts like that freak me out - It freaks me out when they start those texts just after a first meeting, but haven't even met me yet and saying he wanted to marry me and stuff just would make me run the other way FAST! I probably would not have met the guy - I would have told him he was freaking me out - moving things way way wayyy to fast. | |
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| maybe he didnt look like he does in his pic?
Posted: 7/4/2009 9:15:16 AM | Maybe it was a misinterpretation on your part OP.
Perhaps you misread his intentions.
Maybe you misunderstood his thoughts.
When you thought he was suggestive of marriage. It was closer to ideas of making children together.
In thinking of children making, he was thinking of the act of child making.
He was just seeing if you wanted practice in that area, then if all worked out, after a few years he would propose.
See just a simple misunderstanding.  | |
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| maybe he didnt look like he does in his pic?
Posted: 7/4/2009 9:26:10 AM | | no.. no misunderstanding.. exact words.. "i want 2 marry u." and yes he creeped me out and i told him it was too soon to say such things since we hadnt even met.. blah blah.. it doesnt really matter now and is all really just a mooy point. | |
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| maybe he didnt look like he does in his pic?
Posted: 7/4/2009 9:40:52 AM | rlOvely:
My last post was not to be taken seriously.
It was a joke.
I meant to infer he didn't want to marry you, he wanted to sleep with you.
I'm not the best at jokes.
Do not spoil,
your present laughter;
By trying to analyze,
it after.
Wit malice towards none. | |
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| maybe he didnt look like he does in his pic?
Posted: 7/5/2009 12:10:35 AM | | He could be a clingy guy, I've run into quite a few of those myself, but another thing to look into is the fact that this website is free, and it's probably very easy and entertaining for people that have nothing better to do with their time than to come on here, and lead people into thinking they're serious, when they're really not. I remember going to college with a guy that got fooled online by a girl, that proposed him and claimed she was a street racer and made $25,000 a night, and when it came time to meet him, she had every excuse for why they couldn't meet. She lived in another state, and strangely she broke her arm before the day before she flew out, and then her mom passed away. This guy fell for it, and bought a plane ticket to Florida, only to get played, so it's sad to say but you can't always trust who you meet on a site like this. You really never know. | |
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| maybe he didnt look like he does in his pic?
Posted: 7/5/2009 12:40:56 AM | Telephone harassment is a crime. This is your Arizona State Law enacted in 1977.
13-2916. Use of telephone to terrify, intimidate, threaten, harass, annoy or offend; classification
A. It is unlawful for any person, with intent to terrify, intimidate, threaten, harass, annoy or offend, to use a telephone and use any obscene, lewd or profane language or suggest any lewd or lascivious act, or threaten to inflict physical harm to the person or property of any person. It is also unlawful to otherwise disturb by repeated anonymous telephone calls the peace, quiet or right of privacy of any person at the place where the telephone call or calls were received.
B. Any offense committed by use of a telephone as set forth in this section is deemed to have been committed at either the place where the telephone call or calls originated or at the place where the telephone call or calls were received.
C. Any person who violates this section is guilty of a class 1 misdemeanor.
After reading your replies it looks as though the communication has stopped. If it had been persistent or becomes an issue in the future then yes; you need to report him. If reported you will probably want to file an Injunction Against Harassment.
I’m truly concerned for your wellbeing and feel you need to take measures to protect yourself. Everything in my last post needs to be taken seriously by all who read it.
In response to other posts:
I’m no hater. I would never have criticized you if not a fan. I’m pleased you saw the absurdity of my critique in the first post. You have proven your intelegence to me but it does not show in your profile.
After reading the Grammar Nazi thread and feel I was the reason for your post. I see two schools of thought but took away that you can alienate guys by poor communication but not the other way around. I will avoid being one of them in the future but for now; a little proof reading will prevent you from posting “…all really just a mooy point.”
mmmkay? 
Have a great day. Meet a great guy.
GODSPEED
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| maybe he didnt look like he does in his pic?
Posted: 7/5/2009 10:12:05 AM | | UPDATE:: mr. married humpback pegleg guy tht kept breaking dates with me, texted me yesterday. yet again, another saturday.. hmm.. anyway.. it went along the lines of "oh babybabybaby, dnt be mad baby, i had jetlag baby." ok, maybe not quite like that but the bs was dripping off the msg like honey. i just responded tht i wasnt retarded which wld have sounded like "retahded" and tht i wldnt b sucked in 4 a third time. im really thinking tht hes a married man, which (this may sound crazy and im sure im gna get alot of flack 4 it) makes me feel waaaay better thn if i ws just misled by a mutant with an eye patch and a parrot on his shoulder! and jimmy, thanx 4 your concern but i dnt think the situation is that serious, but info is power so i feel better just knowing everything you provided. | |
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| maybe he didnt look like he does in his pic?
Posted: 7/5/2009 3:12:10 PM | I have had a couple experiences on site with scammers. They usually start out real serious quickly and are a pretty busy bunch. One guy I was talking to even sent me flowers and candy and stuffed animals. He turned out to be a scammer somewhere in Nigeria. Ha,ha.
You just have to take some of these people with a grain of salt. And be smart. Be very, very smart. | |
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| maybe he didnt look like he does in his pic?
Posted: 7/5/2009 3:59:06 PM | If 'he' was a man, he is a man without integrity. A man whose words does not match his actions is an a$$. Surely you're looking for and deserve better! Does the 'why' even matter?
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| maybe he didnt look like he does in his pic?
Posted: 7/5/2009 7:55:58 PM | i had a woman on pof contact me because a man from pof who i was involved with before had given her his password when he was drunk. she went to his account and found that he was sleeping with 30 women and in love with all of them. OP your story is identical to this man 100% and i am saying 100%!!!!!!!!!  | |
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| maybe he didnt look like he does in his pic?
Posted: 7/14/2009 12:25:52 PM | He has something wrong with him (ego problem) and be glad that you ended it.
"im falling for u. i think i could marry u, move in with u, i want u 2b my girl"
How could he feel these things when you guys don't even know one another..... | |
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| maybe he didnt look like he does in his pic?
Posted: 10/19/2009 6:53:30 PM | | A lot of people post old pictures on here claiming this is what they look like. One can tell if the pic is dated by the color of the photograph,teh style of clothes and the hair cuts. | |
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