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| Where are the decent women looking for long term at?
Posted: 7/4/2009 8:08:54 AM |
Women will post a subject like the "Are all decent men gay?" crap and no one bats an eye, yet when a guy writes a thread that pokes at women on here, he gets called all kinds of names and the wussies on here cry for the moderator.
And apparently, because you tar and feather EVERY SINGLE WOMAN WITH THE SAME DUMB ASS BRUSH, you didn't read all of the thread you're referring to. If ya did, you'd have realized that not all women buy into the BS she was dishing out. But apparently that's asking too much.
Because someone says something you don't like and you think he's "screaming jealousy"--that's not racist. YOU pointing out that he's black and saying it makes one think it's your issue with race. Again...not once did your color come into play in his response. All you're doing is showing your immaturity. If you couldn't respond with something intelligent you shouldn't have responded at all. Your "excuse" for calling him racist is ridiculous.
RenMan has been around the fora long enough to know what he's talking about when it comes to the mods stepping in and muzzling folks. No one is saying they're reporting you--what RenMan is saying is that one way a thread can be deleted/a thread owner be banned is by doing what YOU'RE doing. Instead of responding to people with common sense, you're stooping lower than anyone else. He's trying, in a nice way, to explain that you're gonna get your hands slapped. Nothing more. He's not trying to say he's turning you in...he's trying to help you out. But you can't see that.
Take a toke and get some patience my friend.
You can scream fat or whatever you like my way...I am quite confident in myself and what I bring to the table. I'm in a relationship--a longterm one btw--what do you have again? | |
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| Where are the decent women looking for long term at?
Posted: 7/4/2009 8:23:06 AM |
The truth is I'm just good at filtering out the crap from my life by turning off the women I'm not interested in before they waste my time.
I agree. Just remember that same phrase can be applied to the male gender as well and any man that watches "Sex in the City" to begin with has alot more issues to deal with than I thought. I'm an "Animal Planet" kinda gal, myself. lol (Again, no offense OP..just venting. I do agree with your filtering comment and I rarely give anyone a compliment unless I truly mean it.)
We all have standards whether you want to admit it or not. You have yours and I have mine. The trick is finding the right person that fits your criteria without them even having to try or you or I tapping our head and thinking "Hmmm...how can I change this person into who I want them to be??", no?
Sans | |
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| Where are the decent women looking for long term at?
Posted: 7/4/2009 8:27:40 AM | olp said:
I'm sorry that you all seem to think I have had all these terrible relationships because I'm such a prick.
imo,Dude, I don't think the ladies think your a prnick. What I hear is they see you walking backwards all the time, cuz all they see is azzhole! ~smile~ just kidding....cough...
imo, just let us know when you post the" nice guy post" for validation of yourself next.
To generalize either sex is not smart, is just plain dumb.
Like my neighbor used to say; man who fight with wife all day will get no 'peace' at night. | |
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| What?????
Posted: 7/4/2009 9:40:32 AM |
At 34,...
(blinking)
for some reason...I don't know why...I was thinking "28". Hence I said "kid".
This guy is 34 years old?
....smh....make that "uber" immature.
BTW...yeah, I saw your remark dude. Someone messaged me to warn me and to counsel me to not make you cry like a girl, less I find myself at "ban camp". I just wanted you to know that just because I haven't reduced you to a whimpering pile of goo doesn't mean I couldn't...believe me, just because you are smarter and wittier then your friends doesn't make you either smart or witty.
Its just that your remarks to me...and the remarks to "Smokestacklightning" regarding Michigan...are so lame it is clear you aren't worth the effort. I mean, they weren't even high school grade stuff.
Honestly, I think I got that message because my fans would be disappointed at me for picking on you, so feel free to retort to this message as well if you think it will give that boost of confidence you are looking for.... | |
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| What do I think?
Posted: 7/4/2009 10:52:25 AM | think you are short, young, immature, self absorbed, probably an under achiever (noticed you didn't finish university and you aren't exactly holding down a rocket science type job), and based on your whining, a slacker, because you are expecting the thing you want in life (in this case a certain type of woman) to fall into your lap. You are also fit and good looking, and on first blush, probably mildly above average in intelligence.
In other words...you are a 60th percentile guy who thinks he is entitled do an 85th percentile woman....because you aren't a 50th percentile guy.
The problem kid is you have no game, and you aren't very interesting. Smart women see right through the whole "I'm a contrarian aren't I interesting" thing...they out grew it in University when they realized they wanted to finish and get on with their lives, so they stop wasting on hot slacker guy and starting hanging out with hot driven goal oriented guys.
A thoroughly logical analysis of the "problem." Right on.
Y'know, that's why I like to post in the forum - to hear you say how you really feel. You got a lot of anger towards a guy you've never met and know nothing about.
Wow....he pointed out your good qualities (fit, good looking, above average intelligence) in ADDITION to your weaknesses, which means he was looking at your question with logic and neutrality. This balance is not indicative of "anger" towards a guy he has never met.
Racist much?
WTF? Ummm, this comment kind of sounds exactly like anger towards a guy you have never met. | |
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| What do I think?
Posted: 7/4/2009 1:29:52 PM | I didn't read the Thread posted about men...didn't need to! But I did read this one simply because it was more or less directed as a response to the other Thread! Wasted my time again.......
And now there's a Thread "Where are the decent men that are looking for more than just sex..."
This stuff gets really old! I won't say anything negative about the OPs...don't need to!
Who said "Can't we all just get along?" Sure would be nice to see more positive Threads from, about the opposite sex! | |
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| Where are the decent women looking for long term at?
Posted: 7/4/2009 2:48:56 PM | Bitter rants, like many in this thread, serve no positive purpose. Complaining about the opposite sex, as if it were a monolith, rather than millions of very different people, is purely dysfunctional.
Actually, RenMan, that's arguable... they don't serve any positive purpose for the man.
They do, on the other hand, stick around on the guy's profile so when they contact women they can look at his profile, see his bitter/negative rant blaming them (women, the entire gender) for all his problems, and it helps them know its someone they should probably avoid - lest they get in a relationship with some guy who's always blaming *them* for problems in the relationship. | |
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| Where are the decent women looking for long term at?
Posted: 7/4/2009 7:48:37 PM |
Actually, RenMan, that's arguable... they don't serve any positive purpose for the man.
They do, on the other hand, stick around on the guy's profile so when they contact women they can look at his profile, see his bitter/negative rant blaming them (women, the entire gender) for all his problems, and it helps them know its someone they should probably avoid - lest they get in a relationship with some guy who's always blaming *them* for problems in the relationship.
The whippped man uttered from liberal land while holding his cat ....
Sit down, this might come as a suprise to you, but there are females out there who see the illness in the majority of modern american women. Just because most of them agree to be SICK doesn't make it any less an illness... If you travel outside of the U.S. you might think there is something wrong with THOSE women. They RESPECT men and have a healthy attitude towards sex. And yes there are women in the U.S. who feel the same way, it's just such a small percentage you so unlikely to find them it's hardly worth looking..... I think the best way to find them is to make your feelings known like the OP has and I have. ...
I'm not going to say what women want to hear. I'm going to say what I see to be the truth.. I happen to have a spine...If women want a man sans spine, then they aren't my type anyway.. | |
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| Where are the decent women looking for long term at?
Posted: 7/4/2009 8:02:18 PM | Maybe all the good girls aren't into pot....try kicking the drugs and maybe then the 'good' girl will WANT to be around you...
Most women on here still list superficial things for interests and superficial qualities in men they are looking for (looks, height, dancing ability, etc..), and couldn't care less about whether a guy would be a good father or husband.
Yes, drugs are high on my list of 'potential father' material! | |
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| Where are the decent women looking for long term at?
Posted: 7/4/2009 11:26:48 PM | Before I address your last post, I wanted to thank you for being so oblivous to the truth. Because of your profile and responses in this thread, I have learned that there are some wonderfully intelligent, respectable and kind (although brutally honest, when needed) men & women on pof! Too bad your brain is too addled by all that healthy pot you've been smoking, to be able to take anything constructive out of this thread. Now on to your excellent attempt at subterfuge....
Tropicalnights, thank you for pointing out the obvious to people on here. They all seem to think I am in some bitter rant, when in fact, I'm calling them out on their own bitter rants. Women will post a subject like the "Are all decent men gay?" crap and no one bats an eye, yet when a guy writes a thread that pokes at women on here, he gets called all kinds of names and the wussies on here cry for the moderator. Awww, poor baby... Fact: YOU posted this topic, YOU asked for opinions, YOU got them, Be Careful What you wish for. For all of you who think my profile is condescending, I'd like to hear what part. It will be a tell tale sign of where you feel deficient about yourself. SERIOUSLY??.... ROFLMAO... please Re-read that sentence!! omg, I'm dyin laughing over here. That sentence is the PERFECT example of what is 'wrong' with your psyche & profile. Perhaps condescending is the wrong term... Is it passive/aggressive?? manipulative?? bullying?? a mixture of all?? THAT is why I called the one guy racist, cause he is reacting in a way that screams it by sounding jealous and then putting me down based on his beliefs rather than facts. Well, since everyone else is taking the higher road (as they should)... I'll stoop... If anyone is a rascist it is YOU!! YOU brought up rascism when a black guy 'dared' not only to disagree with you, but who showed more intelligence, composure and honesty in a few paragraphs, then you've probably ever been able to articulate!! If anyone is jealous it is YOU, and it's apparent that you're jealous because when someone actually has valid points, you get your panties in a bunch and resort to your emotional age of 10 and start name-calling. Yet another example of how pot has messed up your brain. What do you have that emlam would be jealous of?? You're a white guy? Cuz it's obvious from all the females opinions on here, that you have nothing for any man to be jealous of. There were plenty of white men that didn't agree with you, but when a black guy doesn't then he's the rascist?? You really are an absolute dysfunctional, magical-thinking, moron! Other examples are fat woman who think I'm mean for my comments on them being inactive, untalented people who think I'm conceited for listing my abilites, Abilities? what abilities? What works have you published? You have so many abilities that you're hawking silver dollars? I am neither fat nor untalented, and I never nor did most of the people on here say that you were conceited.... government drones who feel threatened by my lack of respect for their worthless careers, lazy people that do nothing important in their lives, and brainwashed people who think pot is bad. Yeah, ummm, so are you a minor deity or... oops, silly me, I forgot you ARE Buddha, that would explain why in the hell you think anyone gives a shit whether you respect them or not... seriously?? Dude, other than your limited group of friends, no one knows you exist and could care less about what you think about anything. What have you done that is so important, other than educate the rest of us morons on how stupid & brainwashed & untalented & fat & lazy WE all are? What a great public service you've provided! Please, can I be the first to bow at your feet? Oh, wait, of couse there is probably a line... silly me, thinking that others have not already noticed your absolute brillance. None of those examples fit my definition of "decent". I've done more for my country and community than all of them - and you can take that to the bank. hahaha hahah Yeah, uh huh... how about you give us cash, I wouldn't be so comfortable with a check... Better yet, how about some silver dollars instead. Oh, and Shelby, MI is most definitely a crap hole place to live. SHELBY TOWNSHIP, MI 48315 DEMOGRAPHICS Demographic and school data provided by OnBoard LLC Zip Code: 48315 County: Macomb Population: 25,762 Total Households: 9,389 Median Age: 41 Median Income: $88,397 Homes Owned: 93.34% Home Median Value: $236,000 Yeah, a TOTAL shithole! Now, I'm done... as other astute members pointed out, negative attention is better than no attention... and you should hook up with the chick that is complaining about crappy men and you two beautiful braintrusts can create a new race of gods & goddesses to look down upon the rest of us that are soooo beneath you. *Poof* You no longer exist in my world... aaaahhh what a beautiful world it is! Good luck to you, & I really do think you should see a therapist. You've obviously had something very traumatic happen to you somewhere between 8 & 12. I'd actually feel a little bad for this response to you, but people like you need a taste of their own medicine before they will even to begin to even attempt to possibly take a look in the mirror, because the reality you've created for yourself is obviously much better that actual reality. But hey, I know some people prefer their fake filet mignon that the electrodes in their pod tell them their eating rather than dealing with the slop in the real world. | |
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| Where are the decent women looking for long term at?
Posted: 7/5/2009 12:56:25 AM |
yes there are women in the U.S. who feel the same way, it's just such a small percentage you so unlikely to find them it's hardly worth looking..
In the real world, as opposed to the POF fora, I haven't found that to be the reality. Most women I've met in person have a perfectly healthy view of the importance of sex in a relationship. That doesn't mean that anyone, male or female, wants to sleep with just anyone, but when te attraction and sense of connection is strong, nature tends to follow its course, regardless of the "prevailing attitues" in the POF fora. | |
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| Where are the decent women looking for long term at?
Posted: 7/5/2009 1:02:52 AM | | Wow! hmm. Most women are waiting and yearning to respond to honesty. They are interested in someone, but he is too busy playing games and won't say how he really feels. What is she supposed to do?? | |
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| Where are the decent women looking for long term at?
Posted: 7/5/2009 1:12:11 AM | I'm not looking for Mr. Right, because I've found him. As far as I'm concerned, there's no trading up, because there's no one out there who's better for me.
Mmmmmm.........
She sure knows how to butter a guy up!
OP: the obvious answer to me is...............
The women you'd consider to be "decent" DON'T consider you to be "decent" by their standards!
Ain't life a b!tch???? | |
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| Where are the decent women looking for long term at?
Posted: 7/5/2009 8:09:44 AM |
The whippped man uttered from liberal land while holding his cat ....
 
Like a little kid who's parents say "no, you're not getting the toy you want"... lash out and throw a tantrum because the world isn't the way you want it eh?
 Really soooo tired of the immature rants on these forums about how "evil" the opposite sex is (and both sexes do it).
yes there are women in the U.S. who feel the same way, it's just such a small percentage you so unlikely to find them it's hardly worth looking.. In the real world, as opposed to the POF fora, I haven't found that to be the reality. Most women I've met in person have a perfectly healthy view of the importance of sex in a relationship. That doesn't mean that anyone, male or female, wants to sleep with just anyone, but when te attraction and sense of connection is strong, nature tends to follow its course, regardless of the "prevailing attitues" in the POF fora.
Agree w/ that 100% Ren. I don't think I've ever met a woman in real life that didn't value sex in a relationship... but its that last part, "in a relationship" that seems to escape a lot of people. Online, it seems a lot of people seem to think "they should be jumping into bed with me because that's what I want, just because I emailed them and showed interest", totally missing that attraction and sense of connection, like its a friggen online shopping mall or something, "see what you find attractive, email, and it should be yours!"
Honestly never seen so many whiny guys who think they can just "pick an 'item' they find attractive off the shelf, and its theirs". Maybe they should just get purses and heels and go to the mall... | |
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| Where are the decent women looking for long term at?
Posted: 7/5/2009 10:48:39 AM | I am a decent woman looking for long term, to me that means marriage and kids, but it seems all the men I run into are into BS Games, they just want laid, want to play the field, or are looking for a super model.....
So there are decenet women looking for long term, we just always get passed over. | |
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| Where are the decent women looking for long term at?
Posted: 7/5/2009 10:58:50 AM | IMO I'm a decent woman, some may think otherwise, but I'm confident in what I know I am internally. I could give you a run down on the list of things that make me believe I'm decent, but I'll spare everyone.
The problem is I have a long list of things that aren't appealing to alot of people. Such as... I'm a single mom, I'm 31 & I'm a student so I haven't yet made it into my chosen profession, I'm a smoker...trying to quit but my insurance company won't cover anything the Dr has prescribed to help, I have tattoos etc....
I recognize all of this which is why I've taken myself out of the online dating game & come here for forums only. The thing with online dating is that I know that I'm being judged by my stats. It makes no matter that I'm funny, intelligent, loyal & so on because no one in cyberspace can see that. They only see my tattoos, the fact that I'm a single mom, that I'm a student & from that they form their opinions. Some may come to the conclusion that I'm not decent & that is fine with me | |
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| Where are the decent women looking for long term at?
Posted: 7/5/2009 11:40:20 AM |
Dude, at twenty I was looking for long-term but at 50 I'm just glad to have a decent bowel movement on a daily basis.
Too much info...
Not all of us want to do your damn laundry, cook your meals in a french maid's uniform (cough....not that I would know anything about that, of course) and see to it that your physical needs are met on an hourly basis. pfft! (No offense here OP...just venting...sorry)
Another one who doesn't know what her intended purpose is here on earth..
When some of you boys know what it takes to keep us interested for "long-term", then we'll gladly reciprocate. Women and men's needs are so different on a daily basis depending on our own personal circumstances no wonder no one wants to even go out on a first date much less think of something as complicated as long-term.
I'm sure oprah and ellen the degenerate keep you up to date on a daily basis as to what your needs are.. | |
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| Where are the decent women looking for long term at?
Posted: 7/5/2009 11:43:06 AM |
Honestly never seen so many whiny guys who think they can just "pick an 'item' they find attractive off the shelf, and its theirs". Maybe they should just get purses and heels and go to the mall...
Live with cats and end up catty...Meow... | |
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| Where are the decent women looking for long term at?
Posted: 7/5/2009 11:52:41 AM | Wow, OP! You just sound so angry and defensive all the time. Almost every single one of your posts seems to be lashing out at someone, whether it be a poster or some other.
I hate to be the one to tell you this, but I'm guessing that any "decent" women out there that you may be interested in are probably going to read your posts and run for their lives! 
By the way (although I know you are probably going to bash me too) my post was not meant to be mean, it's just a personal observation that I assumed most people expect when starting a thread... otherwise, why would they bother? | |
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| Where are the decent women looking for long term at?
Posted: 7/5/2009 12:18:22 PM |
Live with cats and end up catty...Meow...
Haha, except that having cats I live with what the OP complains about daily:
They only want to stay around when it's exciting, and as soon as the passion dies down they want to move on to the next thing
They love those birds and mice as long as its "exciting" (ie, alive), and they can enjoy the 'chase', they get bored quick when they stop moving.  Now if I could just get them to understand they shoudn't bring their "used playtoys" into the house after they've killed them, I'd be happy.
Although, taking the OP's full quote:
They only want to stay around when it's exciting, and as soon as the passion dies down they want to move on to the next thing, each time ACTING as if they are interested in long term, but unable to actually follow through when they "get bored".
Thats definitely not "gender specific", since there's a lot of guys that will do the same thing. | |
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| Where are the decent women looking for long term at?
Posted: 7/5/2009 1:22:17 PM |
The women you'd consider to be "decent" DON'T consider you to be "decent" by their standards!
Can someone point out a single woman on pof that I'd consider to be "decent"?
I have to chuckle to myself at all the posters who think I sound "angry". Can you explain how? Because I don't like things about you, that makes me angry? I just filter you out.
It seems to me that the ones who disparage me personally are the ones with the issues. They are going after me for my profile, which is very honest and to the point, and doesn't disparage people, but simply defines what I want. Like the pot thing. All these dumb girls keep saying that I'd get more girls if I quit smoking pot. I DON'T WANT/LIKE/RESPECT women who think pot is bad - because they are dumber than rocks. That is why I put it in my profile and don't hide it. I have no shame about who I am. Maybe you should check yourself.
Bottom line, I don't care if you don't like me. I like who I am, and I think most of the women on here are total losers. Those two facts are not mutually exclusive.
Listen to how dumb people on here sound. They make comments like I don't get a lot of responses/attention from women (I do), when it's not quantity, but quality I'm looking for anyway. Maybe the truth is people who make those comments are in fact the ones just looking for quantity to boost their ego. | |
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